₦airaland Forum

khiaa:
I have always been open and sincere. LADIES, when you are being romanced by your man and it's getting time for the get down, after you have cleaned yourself up of course, you know *Down There* when it's time for the o.ral, ok this is on the down low, *hush hush* slip a piece of hard candy inside of your kitten, it will dissolve from your body heat and will be a pleasant surprise to your man. There is no harm to your body.

hmmmm na wa ooo

**eyes opens broadly**

Twoclans:
Kikikikikikikikikiiiii.

abeg which one be 69again biko

khiaa:
lol, I think I worded that wrong. I meant, what we do to make the o.ral sexx giving to women more pleasurable for men as far as the tasting because a lot of men complain about the salty taste.

Another thing am wondering,is the effect of this (depending on the hairiness of the vulva in question) the man may occasionally gets pubic hairs in his mouth that feel somewhat unpleasant. (Note: do not take this to mean that I am advocating shaved vulvas, I’m empathically not doing that.)

some ladies don't shave you and I know this, I do shave my ex pubic hair years ago before we separated on mutual concept, but then all these I did because I needed to keep where my dick was gonna penetrate clean.

but then my question is a lady who wants head and yet can't keep her region clean, what have you got to say about it?

I can say sometimes u too may be among these sets, only guessing oo

khiaa:
lol, I think I worded that wrong. I meant, what we do to make the o.ral sexx giving to women more pleasurable for men as far as the tasting because a lot of men complain about the salty taste.

you have actually got me here with your openness and sincerity, my friend actually told me it salty, and now I believe that coz u mentioned it. Thanks!

hmm are you aware , the man is normally confronted with a rather strong pungent odour, and the woman may produce substantial quantities of vaginal fluids with a somewhat creamy texture and an acidic flavour, that the man may or may not choose to ingest. There aren’t generally any adverse health effects from this.

khiaa sorry to say, I never knew you sincere and open like this.

Thanks am learning from you now

khiaa:
It's plain and simple, we feel the same way that you feel when you reach the orgasm state, providing the man is doing it correctly.

oh oh oh,i see hmmmm na wa oo why has so much be put on head than penetration ?

is it about orgasm or just pleasure coz I kinda think maybe ladies want men to be fair to them especially when they give mouth action.

greiboy:

#NoHeadBros#

reverse

khiaa:
I don't know if Nigeria has these things for the women but even if they don't I can give the women a little secret that we black women do here in the U.S. that make oral sexx more pleasurable for the men.

Waow

**seats up **

am learning please ride on khiaa

tell me

khiaa:
Of course, I do but it is important to be clean and fresh just for me.

really chai life has changed oo.

haba I need someone to explain to me the likes towards this head issue, I can't imagine how it feels like to you ladies, I mean what the pleasure like.

is there any link for me to see a video of this women getting head

khiaa:
What they need is deodorized panty liners, feminine deodorant spray, and mint flavored feminine soap, when you men handle your business you will smell and taste mint, just like peppermint candy

hahahahaha chai to the headmasters I hail una ooo

khiaa:
What they need is deodorized panty liners, feminine deodorant spray, and mint flavored feminine soap, when you men handle your business you will smell and taste mint.

hahahahaha hahahahaha it seems u like ur man to eat ur snail

QueenUtum:
Is 5 years a big deal? I have no children but still time to make some

15year's I'd not even a problem, do you know how old the maicon is when he married his wife

Do you know how old his wife is now

hahahahaha hahahahaha were are the headmasters

Mcy56:
Nice writeup.

For the person asking about those in pre-wedding pics, I believe the writeup is talking about statistics here.

u see, that the reason I asked him that question

Am gonna follow this thread till I see the end more and more ladies keep saying and saying without any proper or good reasons.

some just talk without having a good thought.



disrespect!!!


OK This can come in many forms, but in this case I am referring to someone mistreating their partner through constant verbal abuse, mind games and degradation. If you're in a relationship where your partner is the type to put you down, talk down to you, and make a fool of you for the sake of laughter, then it's time to reconsider your relationship.
You're only move at this point is to put out an ultimatum and demand they instantly stop this disrespectful behavior toward you or you will leave.

Non of these Nairaland ladies here even mentioned or say anything related to this.

non Will think like a man or even like a woman, just see their conclusion and when I say Nigerians don't know anything my friends will tell me or ask me to stop saying that.

But they know clearly well they don't know anything.
Thank God I have never dated a Nigerian!

DeadRat:



So Who Are The People We See In Pre Wedding Pictures... Sexdolls?

how old are you

Osasnidas:
if seen videos on YouTube where they say Nigerian men are very caring ofcourse it's true, unless you meet the type that wants to use you then it's horrible, very horrible , a sane man will not you that you are dumb but if he does it will be playfully, Nairaland is a great forum, you will be throlled sarcastically, Now Analyze your screenshot carefully and see that to him you are just another "MAGA" and you dating a guy 5 years younger than you "all those age is just a number shii and love is blind talk" this is just another suger mommy and sugarboy relationship, a Nigerian man that loves you will never insult you or call you names of he does he will quickly realise and apologise.

if this case is the reverse, then what will you say ?

again what importance is age in a relationship

BlaqCoffee109:
no wahala

how ur side Na,

Lessons For A Successful Marriage





WHAT TO SAY TO YOUR SPOUSE ON A REGULARLY BASIS



(1) The truth ÷ Your words will carry no weight again if you lie and the truth is discovered.


(2) I love you ÷ Put a call through to him/her just to say I love you.


(3) Thank you ÷ Always appreciate and thank your spouse.


(4) I'm sorry ÷ Always apologize when you are wrong.


(5) Please ÷ It's a sign of respect.


(6) Compliment your spouse ÷ Tell your spouse he/she is handsome/beautiful. Let your spouse know you cherish him/her.


(7) What can I do for you ÷ Stop expecting what your spouse can do for you, think of what you can do for your spouse.






HOW TO TALK TO YOUR SPOUSE


(1) Talk softly and gently.


(2) Talk wisely ÷ Think before you talk.


(3) Talk reasonably or sensibly.


(4) Talk to your spouse at the right time and at the right place.


(5) Talk only what you want to see ÷ Calling your spouse a fool will make you to start seeing foolish attitude from him/her.


(6) Talk with respect or courtesy.


(7) Talk less and build more.


( Talk calmly and not harshly.


(9) Talk to encourage, build and lift up the spirit of your spouse.





WHAT TO GIVE TO YOUR SPOUSE DAILY


(1) A hug


(2) A kiss


(3) Money ÷ If your spouse doesn't have the pin to your ATM card, then you are a suspect. She can manage your money more than you can.


(4) A smile ÷ It can melt down anger easily.




(5) A helping hand ÷ In the kitchen and anywhere else.


(6) Respect ÷ It is earned not demanded. Women, anything that won't make you have respect for your husband, it means you have no respect for God. Your husband have the final say in the home. It's the duty of the wife to seek for permission and not just take decisions.(for those in God)!!!

Rubbish imagination!!!

Women Are Getting Married Less And Less — And The Reason Why Might Shock You.



There was once a very good reason for women to lock it down with a man: Men offered something that , women, needed. Men were hunters, providers, and protectors, while women took on the role of child-rearing and maintaining a home. These were their biological roles, the natural order of how things were “supposed” to be, and because of that, for a very long time, no one batted an eye.

However, as they ’ve clawed themselves out of that mold and fought against the inherent biology, their “need” to be married isn’t what it used to be. As Hanna Rosin wrote in “The End of Men,” “What if that era has now come to an end?” Yes, imagine that: The entire human history of women depending on men being wiped out — can you even fathom it? Can men stomach such a reality? Well, they should, we all should, because we’re living it right now as more and more women realize that marriage isn’t a necessity after all.




But, in addition to that realization and awakening that many women are having, there are plenty of other reasons that are contributing to why women are getting married less and less. Here are 10 of them:


THERE JUST AREN’T AS MANY WORTHWHILE GUYS ANYMORE.


As Kate Bolick writes in her piece, “All the Single Ladies,” simply, the caliber of men has declined greatly. Between increased joblessness and lack of prospects out there for men, there are far more deadbeats than guys worth giving a shot. In other words, “marriageable” men are few and far between.



WOMEN ARE THE COMPLETE PACKAGE ON THEIR OWN.


Research from 2010 found that, for the first time in US history, more women than men are in the workforce, holding the majority of the jobs in the country. While there’s still that disgusting gender wage gap, we WILL get that taken care of sooner than later. Not only are there more women than men working, but women are surpassing men in education, too. For every two men who walks away from school with a bachelor’s degree, three women will do the same. We’re basically everything but the kitchen sink — and on extra good days, maybe the kitchen sink too.



MARRIAGE IS OUTDATED AND WOMEN KNOW THAT.


For thousands of years, marriage existed solely for economical and political reasons and was an institution that was often set up by families. It wasn’t about love; it was about marrying the woman who came from richest family or the man who had the fattest turkeys in town. It was, for the sake of argument, a necessity. However, that’s no longer the case — so much so that 44 percent of Millennials and 43 percent of Gen-Xers believe marriage is becoming obsolete, according to the Pew Research Center.



. MANY MEN CONTINUE TO BE THREATENED BY STRONG AND SUCCESSFUL WOMEN.


Masculinity is fragile. Most men don’t like it when they feel their masculinity is threatened in any way. Because of this, as we’ve evolved and shot up into the dark night like the fireworks we are, we’ve alienated men — not because of anything we’ve done in particular, but because they can’t handle being with a woman who makes him feel inferior. It’s hard to get married when so many men cower at even the idea of a self-sufficient woman, let alone the reality of one.


THE HOOKUP CULTURE IS ALIVE AND WELL.


While the 1990s saw what was referred to as the “hookup culture,” we’re now living in the “Dating Apocalypse,” according to writer Nancy Jo Sales. Dating apps like Tinder have created a culture where hooking up and casual relationships have replaced serious commitment, and because this tends to work for a lot of people, marriage is taking a back seat.


THE IDEA OF “MARRYING UP” IS GONE.


When women were denied the right to be educated and to have careers, the concept of “marrying up” in order to “improve their lot,” as Bolick writes, was just what women did. It was keeping in line with what was socially acceptable without rocking the boat. But if you’re more educated, more successful, and the pool of men to choose from is on par with a wasteland of deteriorated good-for-nothings, why bother?


WOMEN HAVE RISEN AND CONTINUE TO RISE.


Another amazing point that Bolick makes is that while women were fighting — and we still are, make no mistake — for equality and the right to have a career and live their life on their own terms, men were falling behind. Men, especially white men, had nothing to fight for and because of this, they fell behind and were surpassed by women in many ways. This trend is likely to continue, making marriage even less likely in the decades that follow.


MARRIAGE ISN’T NECESSARY FOR WOMEN TO BE MOTHERS.


First of all, 40 percent of babies are born to single moms, and there’s a very good chance that percentage will rise as the stigma of being a single mother becomes less and less. There’s also the fact that, thanks to technology, you don’t even need a man if you want to have a baby. All you need is a trip to the sperm bank. That’s a great option for women who don’t want the relationship part of motherhood.



. MEN HAVE LOST WHAT LITTLE VALUE THEY HAD.


As Bolick writes, when there’s an imbalance in the gender ratio, the gender with the smaller amount automatically has a higher value, which makes that gender want to work even harder to make themselves a hot commodity. But here in the U.S. where that current ratio is 50.8 percent females and 49.2 percent males, that healthy balance in the population only exacerbates a man’s disinterest in making himself better. Therefore, women, not impressed with what’s out there, continue to excel on their own, turning even further from the idea of marriage.



WOMEN HAVE ESSENTIALLY BECOME THE MEN THEY WANTED TO MARRY.


As Gloria Steinem so accurately put it, “We are becoming the men we wanted to marry,” and she’s right. We are no longer the “fairer” gender, but a badass gender that’s a perfect self-sustaining entity that can take care of itself on every level. There’s no need to marry when everything you need you can give yourself — and on a silver platter, to boot.

izaray:
Martin it's seems u are sick down there

hahahahaha hahahahaha


So while we all here yesterday, looking for the way forward, machiti was busy out there giving his baebi head and twarking his waist, now tell us how u wanna make heaven op

u too still like head

TheUpsetGirl:
just shutup

u just dey attack everybody Why

TheUpsetGirl:
giving head.. eating is the normal word to use

na wa oo do u like ur boyfriend eating ur nunu too

revontuli:
Word to the wise:
1. Make a habit of taking a shower before sex acts. If you don't have constant running water, keep buckets of water around and wash with a sponge.
2. Ladies, take good care of your nether region hygiene and go to your gynecologist if there's abnormal odor and any signs of infection. Also change your underwear and take a shower or sponge bath daily.

Or else dudes will make threads like this and write horror stories about you on Nairaland

wait I wanna ask you a question!

will you like men to give you head

Thegeneralqueen:
I must tell lefulefu because I can't tolerate it again

OK oooo

QueenSuccubus:
wtf! Holy chamber?
See how the guy killed the girl brutally sha...
So romatic

yeah that guy isa bad man, chai well it not easy to be a man sha

Thegeneralqueen:
Keep running away

go sleep jor

QueenSuccubus:


Hahaahahaah...horror? Oooh no...that was very romantic episodes u dropped ooo...

Where did u get those sha...

That was lovely indeed.

oh that a good mark for me sha na from holy chamber I get am oo

Thegeneralqueen:
I go surprise you the day I go show for your house you go faint be that.... maybe I go meet you when you dey blow fire for your pot of semo

hmmmm surprise me kwa na wa oo

come na u sabi ooo, later u go con dey tell me say konji nor know u abi, Na local signs of konji be this oo

BlaqCoffee109:
ok ...my mentality tho

yeah! Na WA for u oo, forget that word mentality, sorry jor

Thegeneralqueen:
Keep running away

hahahahaha Na to run win am oo

QueenSuccubus:
Morning baby..


Wazzzup? i have a stiff neck oo.. I fell asleep watching those videos u sent me lastnyt ..

morning...

oh owk ,em em hope say nothing happened to u sha, I mean hope the videos are not horror to you sha