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Thegeneralqueen:
I just don't know where things went wrong..... since you chose to be nor problem

biacan haba na WA for u ooo

QueenSuccubus:


Whoever think this kind of idea must have PhD in packaging sha..

mehn see packaging

Thegeneralqueen:
Do what needs to be done Martin you know you're always the problem here

hahahahaha hahahahaha me nor let dem hear this tin wey u talk oo

BlaqCoffee109:
following the trail of the conversation... some deductions on his train of thoughts,that guy has little or no respect of her...that's the whole point; even if she were dumb... like you trying to buttress why he called her that, that is just plain disrespectful... there's no regard for her period.

see I don't deal with issues like this, am not asking this op to go with any of these advice or even mine, but I most admit it, these which you just said is not the best way to look at things.

QueenUtum:
Thanks for your well thought out answer. Is your friend happy with his Estonian wife? Do you think it's genuine? He has called me a dumbass but I've called him worse in the past. And yes I am currently trying to talk things through with him and see why he feels this way. My boyfriend could be a scammer if he wanted to but instead he worked and put himself through university. I respect that. I just fear the stereotype of the dating scams I read about.

now you speak like a woman that serious!

yeah very very happy, he Shows it to the world and tell stories about what lead to it. who would have believed his gonna marry her? not even me or neither him will believe it gonna happen.

Angelparadise:
Bros it better to build with your senses functional than build blindly that will lead to stories that touches . Gone are the days where only ladies are expected to commit while building relationship. My people says ' now that birds have learnt how to fly without perching the hunters most learn how to shoot without missing'

yeah I totally agree with madam!
kk
Do you know what it takes for a relationship to be laid, standing firm without collapsing

two sets of unknown new human's coming together to build a house for themselves so as to leave in it in the feature with a happy family.

that is just how a relationship is described imaginary!

Thegeneralqueen:
If I can see a man that will ask me all this and work towards it I'll forever be submissive to him but such men are rear to come by

don't worry, just relax, the right man will come.

izaray:
Sometimes is not all about going pantless, it maybe caused by an untreated infection

yeah that true, wait oo don't tell me u still wears pants oo

BlaqCoffee109:
your man calls you a dumb ass and you asking what to do with him?? I wanted to say something unflattering to you but nah... here's what you need to understand, never be with a man who disrespects you and treat you like some piece of sh*t because you my dear are a queen.Dump his godforsaken sorry ass and find you a good M.A.N; that right there is a loser

this is your mentality.

if a man calls you dumb ass right in front of you, it more and better it not at your back.

now what you need to do as a lady is ask him why he called you dumb ass, see reasons to it and build to correct that word, by proving him wrong you are not.

CoZ if u don't more men may also call you dumb ass and u will never know why coz u choose not to ask previously but walked out.

Angelparadise:
Before I accept a guy as my bf or love him that much, he must pass some certain tests to prove his genuine love or affection to my person ,definitely he can fake it for long . Anyway it depends on individual environment but I so must value respect that I can not ignore it . It nice you offer to help but he should respect you for that by showing it while chatting.

these are the reason why u ladies are deceived by men.

you ladies are not that committed to building a relationship anymore.

QueenUtum:
Yes, he tells me how his friends scam American women out of lots of money. Then gets angry with me and calls me judgemental if I show sympathy for the victim. Apparently Europeans and Americans deserve is because of slavery he tells me. He calls me white and talks about the crimes of my ancestors, when my dad is black and from a former slave colony in the Caribbean. My mum is white and she's lovely, she would never hurt anyone, black or white.

your boyfriend telling you all these doesn't guarantee you the thought of breakup, I have a girlfriend but nobody knows about it, I told her I almost got into the scamming or fraud thing, but that was never a reason to break up, there are times when u get hit by frustration and you are forced to do some silly things just to step up with life expectations..

my very old school good friend was once a big time heavy scammer, but today his married to Estonia lady, living there for over 8years now, infact he met her as a maga according to him and he had intentions to scam her by fake love, but it never worked out for him coZ the lady caught him inlove and he started loving her.


stories briefed, at a time he admitted to the lady what he earlier had in mind towards her ,his sincerity and openness towards his current wife got him that chance to prove his love for her...

today they have their kids living well, happily married, life has changed for him, his no longer a scammer but as u know guys will always remember him With that old act...

again another fact about this lady, she's more than 15years older than him.

at a time I sent him messages not to use this lady to gain or maybe his trying to use her for something, I was even thinking it was to get visa or maybe green card..

but all this are just not it, the love was real, my dear you have to work more on your relationship, try to understand why you had such conversation and know what it all trying to translate to before you conclude..

sometimes we kinda think weird but it become a different story at the end.

try to find out if his trying to be sincere or open to you about some things you may or don't know about.

QueenUtum:
Yes, he tells me how his friends scam American women out of lots of money. Then gets angry with me and calls me judgemental if I show sympathy for the victim. Apparently Europeans and Americans deserve is because of slavery he tells me. He calls me white and talks about the crimes of my ancestors, when my dad is black and from a former slave colony in the Caribbean. My mum is white and she's lovely, she would never hurt anyone, black or white.

secondly when it comes to relationships there is room to expression, we should accept that.

A relationship where u don't have the opportunity to hear what your partner has in mind to say, is a relationship that gonna be built on lies, because all you will wanna hear are beautiful things and as that every beautiful comments or chat,talk need to be spiced up with few lies.

QueenUtum:
Yes, he tells me how his friends scam American women out of lots of money. Then gets angry with me and calls me judgemental if I show sympathy for the victim. Apparently Europeans and Americans deserve is because of slavery he tells me. He calls me white and talks about the crimes of my ancestors, when my dad is black and from a former slave colony in the Caribbean. My mum is white and she's lovely, she would never hurt anyone, black or white.

hmm this is one first!

honestly if your boyfriend say that to you actually, then I can bet my shiny brown ass his very very sincere saying all that to you without having any kinda fear his gonna lose you, don't expect a man who keeps saying good things about you or people as Mr Right or perfect.

this is my first reply to what you just said to me.

just look at this dumb, gullibles and hypocrites Nigerians and foreigners too...


all you have made a very very and wrong, bad, useless, quack, hocus-pocus, and infact rubbish comments to this op..

There is absolutely no sincerity in any of these comments, no reality just see how you all have concluded.

**my comments doesn't implies insult to anyone oo**

QueenUtum:
This is my boyfriend telling me about one of his friends. It made me feel bad as I'm English/Caribbean and I met him in Nigeria....sometimes I send him money. He's 5 years younger than me. Guess your all gonna tell me I'm a fool?

wait let me be sure of something, you mean this is ur own serious sweetie pie telling you this

izaray:
Op just tell her stylishly na

waarrkah

so if Na u dem tell that thing how will u feel..

The only remedy to this bad odour for me is to stop wearing panties.

these are new generation of ladies don't they understand going pantless gives and allow fresh air?

Twoclans:


I wonder who you think I am.

hahahahaha nor fear

abeg make Lefulefu come he should know you, am guessing very very well this is an alt

Twoclans:
My ukwu is for lefulefu ,he is coming to break your head.

hahahahaha OK oo see as e soft

Twoclans:
Martin0 it's side hug Biko, before your babes will brake my delicate head online

Lefulefu has gone to buy ice cream for me, he is offline for now.

abeg I need to say something sha, u don't look new to Nairaland, it seems you one famous nairalander I use to know, am very very sure you are not new here

Twoclans:
Martin0 it's side hug Biko, before your babes will brake my delicate head online

Lefulefu has gone to buy ice cream for me, he is offline for now.

oh side hug, Waow this na real woman

see soft ukwu, **pressing it **

lefulefu:
wat are u talking about?.u are my younger sister biko.

hahahahaha did she speak Swahili

Thegeneralqueen:
It's so emotional

ha na WA oo, my sister called me out on one yeyye thread some days ago to say this too

u ladies are too soft

Twoclans:
Nwoke Oma what did I do
Take a big hug for the night

me just dey talk sha
chai very soft breasts
Lefulefu so this nasty wetin u dey enjoy abi

BossLaifay:
Lol. It's not like parents should discuss sex positions with kids. Just the principles guiding this love and relationship business.

see yeah I agree with you, do you know I knew the day my cousin sister had her first sex, I think I was the first in the family to know.

though my mum has never ever thought of talking about sex or guiding us on it sha then when I was with them...

but when I became more exposed to sexual life and pleasures dammit everything changed and she talks about it with me and advice me too.

my sister knows my sexual life so So well, sometimes we jokingly call ourselves oloshos..

see Africans especially Nigerians only believe in holiness,

BossLaifay:
Forget that thing. No new trick in the book again!

oil beans and rice nor dey fine for face oo.

u never see anything

lefulefu:
biko where is dat my little angel thornapple. It has tey wen i see her brakelight.hope u never kidnap her oo.

hia, shuuu ogbeni my nor dey kidnap skinny girls oo

khiaa:
There is no need for him to be here if he is not interested, I don't need him pushed to me.

khiaa khiaa if you see me this gift eh, one in a million, trust me it worth more than diamonds

Thegeneralqueen:
This write ups just brought tears to my eyes

ha why, what happened?

lefulefu:
you mean she's a feminist?. But i never seen her fighting a guy here na. She's always objective in her post.

na u con dey conclude oo, all I can say is what I told you

so does this feminist fight men? is that what you are insinuating?

Twoclans:
Sweetie she has started again Abi?no need to ask her to look for snails again.lets just marry her off to martin0.That way we can have all the time we need.

How are you today I am missing you .

see this girl o

ubunja:
tried to search i cant locate it.

OK

BossLaifay:
I am super sharp and I know it. I dry observe gan o. Seared my emotions long ago.

hahahahaha I just dey look you dey laugh