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SpencerForbes:
All said sir. I was really surprised at how fast hypergamy showed it ugly face. Just that she was quick to curb it. Which I commend her because I know lots of Nigerian girls that would have denied outrightly. Women are really the first redpillers. If not for this thread majority of us would have been in the dark age. Sometimes if I see them act, I just laugh and treat them like babies. Not taking them serious.

Cheers 🥂 to redpill.

In as much as female nature is invariably universal, some women are more calculative and smarter than others. Some won't easily fall for certain things that others will fall for (though they have the same objectives, some will be shrewd to thoroughly clear doubts and ensure safety before jumping ship). For example, some women will fall for strange numbers asking them out while others will be careful and suspect if their boyfriend is orchestrating it all to test them. This can be due to experience or common sense.

Your girlfriend, if she goes on to date someone else, will more careful given the experience she just had with you. Her future boyfriend will see it as a win? Lol. Maybe she was too careful in your tests because she was caught blatantly in the past. Many of these updates (e.g. boyfriend testing you, etc) have already been dicussed in many female whatsapp groups. Some even go as far a having a secret phone that their husbands and boyfriends don't know about and will likely never find.

Some have some experiences that others don't have. Sometimes, a woman's response to accounts online will depend on circumstances and factors. For example, what is your status and the perceived status of the guy asking her if she has a boyfriend? It is easy for a woman to reject a guy who has a lower status for relationship. Would that be the pass you were looking for? If it were a much richer guy whose identity she had verified and was sure to bag, would she have rejected?

You just need to accept that no woman is beyond hypergamy. Your mother, sisters, girlfriend and all the woman alive, dead and yet to be born will jump ship for the better deal. No woman is different. If you are looking for a relationship, you must have this in mind and proceed wisely: in how you trust, in how you invest in her, in how you lead, in how you prepare for a possible rainy day and disappointment from your spouse, etc. Stop looking for a different woman who only exists in lala land. If your girlfriend had an option better than you, she would leave you.

Life is just what it is. Hypergamy is not going anywhere. Hypergamy is not good or bad (personally, I think it is good), it is an unchangeable part of human life. Make peace with it.

Bring a woman to your level and watch her think she deserves someone above you and that you are no longer good enough for her. Improve her level and make her independent and secure and watch her conclude that she doesn't need you.

By the way, does your sister have a business? Your mother nko? Do your brother(s)? If yes, did you pour into them like you did your gf? If the answers to all this is "no," then you need to wise up, be enlightened and learn to invest wisely.

SpencerForbes:
She passed twice tho. But the ugly nature of hypergamy still shows it face. Guess she hasn’t found someone better. That’s why I love the redpill. Once you know it, just expect anything and when it comes you won’t be surprise. Just don’t show you’re using it.

Your brain is seeing the light, but your heart wants excuses to indulge sweet romantic illusions. Follow your brain without wavering, or you will weep hot tears. It's a cold world. What will it profit a man to know the red pill and still gbesume?

Sportsmatter:
I believe Soyinka has a personal relationship with Tinubu and that may be keeping him from saying certain things online. (I'm not saying that is right though but that doesn't make him a tribalist).

And mind you, every award Prof won was on merit and he deserved every single one of them. No need to rubbish his works because they're already accepted world wide.

He is not a tribalist. Even though his attitude towards Tinubu is hypocritical of him given his activist principles, it didn't surprise me. He and Tinubu were very close and helpful to each other during a very hard time in the past. It is no excuse but I understand why he is unwilling to criticise Tinubu.

SeeWahala:
Soyinka backstabbed all well meaning Nigerians when he went to receive that novel prize after agreeing to boycott the ceremony due to the happenings at the time.

Everyone ekse stayed back but he alone sneaked off to steal the prize just as his kinfolk are known to do till this very day.

2faced and backstabbing turncoats never end well in life

Don't say this nonsense. This is simply not true. This is a propaganda.

Senkasa:
Where do you advise i take it to sir? I posted it but it didn't reach frint page.. any solution please

Try asking in the Science/Technology section. It is further divided into the following sections: Programming, Webmasters, Computers, Phones, Art, Graphics & Video, and Technology Market. You can also check out other sections on the home page like career, education and the likes if they interest you.

To be honest, I rarely visit these sections, but I believe they will be of great help to you and you will likely meet people with great tips and the answers you seek. Good luck, and I wish you success in the noble journey of self-improvement.

Senkasa:
Good morning house.

I'm in my mid twenties and want to learn a digital skill that's not related to tech but i need valuable suggestions.

Currently, I'm doing amazon kdp but for close to a month now I've recorded zero sales in any of my three books.. hence I want to change line..

Initially, I wanted to start youtube content creation (like posting pix of night life in different parts of my state) but I don't know if I can do it with only my phone camera or I'll be needing a gopro camera..


However, I want a skill that i can easily learn from now to December and be getting paid in dollas.. I want to be financially free soonest..

I have enough time and data to learn whatever valuable skill you may suggest.. i just need guidance on which path (skill) to follow (learn)

Wouldn't it be better to take this to a more appropriate section where people in the field you want to learn about are most likely to notice you?

aviationguy:
I saw her chat with her boyfriend meanwhile we are married for 13 years with 3 children.

Since that day am done with her and have told her she should leave am no longer interested.

What was her response? Did she leave?

Samajogs:
Forgive cheating and put your strength in making the money... When a real man makes money everything falls in place

Should a man forgive cheating and not break off the relationship?

CooldipoMPS:



The less you know, the better for your mental health

It is better to know the truth and be miserable than to live happily in a fool's paradise. If you have the opportunity to know the truth about your woman's infidelity, seize it without hesitation. Only weak men choose sweet lies and make-believe over harsh truths. A man must have the fortitude to bear harsh truth and still casually go about his day.

Look at simps and bluepilled fellow all over the comments. If she had wisely asked, he would have listened. You don't interrupt your husband's activity in public and give him instruction in public as if he is a kid or someone under you. Oga saw this, ignored her, and did his thing. If na una, you people go sit down like sheep.

If there is not politeness or rightful method of approach, do not listen to or acknowledge your wife or gf. Shikena.

SpencerForbes:
When a girl start telling you when others are flirting with her. What does it mean?
Going back to the mentors

Lol. You again?

SpencerForbes:
I really need to congratulate redpillers that are wealthy and are still redpillers.
I've been a member for like 3 years now or since the time ubunja was still very active and I always thought being redpilled was really easy. Even last year I was just comfortable and didn't really see the need for a girlfriend. I was like an example to other guys. Always giving them redpill advise and more. Now I'm earning 3 times of what I earned last December and decided to spin plates. All of a sudden, the feelings started appearing again😂. Now I have a "babe" and I think I'm beginning to simp again. I've tried abundance mentality and everything but it doesn't seem to work.

Now my question is,how do I keep it in check?

We don't need to teach you how to keep it in check. If you can't be serious and stand on business with the red pill insights you've amassed from this thread, then we can only leave effective instructing to red pill's biggest agents and recruiters: life and women.

Men easily get lost in the sauce.

cr7lomo:
If men were like women...una for don get sense tey tey...that's why I advise men to hold on to their God given standards, like women do... if u have a body count more than 3 , u don't deserve to be wifed., if u have had a one nightstand b4 or a fling , u don't deservea serious man.. if u are disrespectful, u don't deserve a dime from a man ... if u hit a Man, he should hit u back in return... if u are broke as a woman, u don't deserve to be in a relationship talkless of a marriage

How will you know she has more than 3 body counts? Why not just insist on a virgin bride?

aribisala0:
What does toxic mean?
That is a word a lot of unintelligent females who listen to other females online use. Presumably they believe it makes them sound educated but achieves the opposite effect

My honest advice to you after today avoid that word. It is what cheap instagram models use
Their usual vocabulary if a man is not BROKE , he is TOXIC or CONTROLLING

unproductive parasitic set of people

Whether football is rigged or not, gambling would never yield the success a gambler hopes for. I find it hard to understand how someone can use his/her money to gamble. Why not just flush your money down the toilet?

You guys can manage this one. If I hear any talk of treble or quadruple again, una go see. Enjoy!

Exceed15:
God bless you for creating this thread. May you live long.

Thanks for the appreciation. You can also check out other meme threads.

First Meme Thread

Third Meme Thread


This is the second meme thread.

JESHAL007:
@ Martinez39s
Good evening longest Tym, been busy, but currently finding my work life balance, the thread is not bubbling like before, I need a masculinity group to be active in especially a redpilled one, lost my phone for a while, please send your contact to adedapoadedara@gmail.com, and please add me up again to pro redpilled masculine groups

I sent you a message today by 12:35pm. You haven't responded.

JESHAL007:
@ Martinez39s
Good evening longest Tym, been busy, but currently finding my work life balance, the thread is not bubbling like before, I need a masculinity group to be active in especially a redpilled one, lost my phone for a while, please send your contact to adedapoadedara@gmail.com, and please add me up again to pro redpilled masculine groups

Sure. I will do so when I get home.

Hope redpillers enjoyed their April 1st. Ensure to always be steadfast in the red pill.

Astonmartin:
She'll just use and dump you to the bin ...karma has a way of fighting for the innocent and now this your chance to give her a strong payback. Block the ungrateful biitcch and stop talking to her because she's already looking for a way to manipulate you again and again

I won't be surprised if he gives her the id card.

Another case of a man just being a vehicle to a woman's destination.

It will be so disappointing if you give her your id card.

This is irresponsible parenting.

When you tell a typical African man not to give birth if he doesn't have the resources to give his offsprings a comfortable life, he will start arguing. He must born, anyhow anyhow he go rough am... so he thinks. Okay o.

@CaveAdullam, I'm glad to see you back. Where have you been? Conferring with the gods?

Anyway, I'm glad to see Jeshal, a redpiller, asking a question to pro-marriage redpillers and a pro-marriage redpiller answering with credible reasons for his choice. Hopefully, as usual as it was in the past, this yields a cordial discussion without toxic elements and nuisances hopping on this to throw mud at others. This is a little example of what these thread used to be. I dey come.