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Happy birthday to one of the foremost redpillers and game expert on nairaland. The great work you have done for free on the behalf of men will forever be appreciated.

mablie:
HAPPY BIRTHDAY UBUNJA!!!

I hope you are in good health,safe and thriving at your location.I also wish you many more years to come.

Happy birthday, Ubunja. May the seeds you've planted continue to grow in the hearts of many and find new men. Redpill for life!

As a man, if you are still not smart and wise enough to avoid making a costly blunder like that jilted boyfriend, take a look at the reaction you can observe on this thread because it is roughly the same you will get around you offline.

When it happens to you, to your disbelief, it won't be emphasised that your girlfriend did something terrible and wicked to you. Some will excuse her, somewhat blame you, or run off a tangent. As a man, you are on your own. This is why it is more important for you to be brutal and unapologetic in putting yourself first and limit your trust and dependence (emotional or physical) when dealing with a woman. NAWALT no dey. You also have to take the red pill.

Don't neglect yourself and build a woman. In fact, never build a woman. If she can't serve a purpose in your life without the requirement of building her, run. Her parents and herself should build her life.

That guy is learning firsthand that women will ruthlessly go for the best deal at the moment. It doesn't matter if it is at your expense and if you have made great sacrifices. Once you are not need, you are thrown away like a disposable cup.

"but Martinez, the story could be fake..." If I tear your better slap... go warm eba joor!

Thank you.

JESHAL007:
Big man
You are welcome
Had to take a break from social media

Nice to hear from you. I tried reaching you many times on phone but to no avail. I am glad that you are well and safe. Keep taking your social media break seriously. It is good for mind and focus.

fattprince:
It's been long I came to take the pills and it's already telling on me. I was thinking about this after the event reason why I came here. I will act accordingly from henceforth. And go back to read the thread again. Thanks to you all

VERTEX01
Mikocake

To be honest with you, bro, this is not an excuse. When you make silly mistakes like this, you need to reassess your understanding of intersexual dynamics and female nature. Maybe you were one of those who thought the red pill was just all about seducing women and getting pùssy and you really didn't pay attention to insights on how things work and why things are the way they are.

Whether you are trying to fuçk or not, whether you are fùcking or not, you have to understand how things work and, if possible, why they work the way they work. It is very important. This has been the main goal of the red pill. Red pill is not all about pick-up artistry or seduction whatever, even if you find it here and there on few occasions. If you ignore this important aspect and you don't take your time to keenly observe, you will find yourself making embarrassing blunders, and, even worse, you won't know what exactly you are doing wrong. How can an adult male who knows how the game goes say stuff like "I still love her though and I believe she loves me"? ❌️❌️❌️👎 There is a huge understanding problem somewhere.

You were just making silly mistakes and giving that girl more chances to play you. You dey give her through pass like KDB to score you. Anyway, this is an opportunity to reassess your understanding. I believe you will turn out good.

VERTEX1:
Bro eh, aswear to God you don dey Bleep up like this. Free that manipulative bast..@rd and move on na. Alot of fishes in river that will gladly fall inside your nest and hook and refuse leaving, please be open they'll come then throw back the ones you don't want

Dude was rolling like a bluepiller stuck on onetitis. Maybe we just have to accept that the red pill isn't for everyone at the end of the day because how do we explain this cluelessness and simping from fattprince?

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"I still love her though and I believe she loves me. I feel she needs the assurance before breaking up with the other guy."

On top girl you should either fùck or discard? Why are you still emotional and romantically attached after three years? Why are you trying to convince a girl to be in a relationship with you? What happened to abundance mindset or picking those who are interested.? Why are you... anyway, it is well.

SpencerForbes:
The craziest part is that you’re actually a senior member of this thread. You’re supposed to be the one educating the young ones, yet look at the Bluepill trash you’re typing here. It’s a total disgrace to the brotherhood.

All the Redpills you’ve been swallowing since, it’s like you’ve been flushing them down the toilet. Or are you just cherry-picking the ones that favor your simping tendencies and leaving the rest? You’re moving like a total amateur. 😒

🚶‍♂️🚶‍♂️🚶‍♂️

His post is very disappointing. I wanted to pen a scathing criticism of the nonsense I had read, but I decided to ignore. The guy is foolishly drunk on oneititis and saying nonsense like "I still love her though and I believe she loves me" and following it up with "I feel she needs the assurance before breaking up with the other guy." Tell me I am dreaming.

Maybe he wanted to post this on Twitter for Elon Musk's money, but he mistakenly sent it here. I hope.

luminouz:
I still dey even if on a low-key.

Nice one boss.🙂🙂🙂

Nice to know. I miss when we were dropping pills and rubbing minds to come to better conclusions. Men can't be here forever. Regardless of wetin sup, soldier must go and barracks must remain.

ubunja:
happy 2026 bro. The Redpill is Eternal.

Happy 2026. Nice to know you are still kicking, boss. Indeed, the redpill is eternal.

Goo0dHardDick:
It was an honour to contribute massively to the REDPILL teachings and movements!

I am proud people like, Praise, Geh Geh, Mr Fred, Edo Baba etc has all helped us to spread the REDPILL teachings all over the world.

It was a privilege to be part of this great movement guys. I'll see you all at the top.

You are blessed. More anointing on your blessed head, bro.

Epositive:
Shout out to you too agba scholar. Your insights and general contribution to this thread have been immense. Life has been busy over here.

How have you been?

I am good, bro. Life has been busy over here too.

iichidodo:
@martinez39s... You bet your ass that I found out...I shit you not, it wasn't funny... I literally Shiite myself because I thought I got it too,right?. Infact the suspicion was I gave it to her but how was that possible when I was gaining considerable weight. Thus I had to know my own status, the last time we had sex was three months before I found out, so when I had the test, it came out negative, they said I shouldn't rejoice yet but was told to come again three months later to be really certain of my negative status.....the longest three months of my life. As for my so call wife, na from surgery hospital she begin go her papa house....I went for my test, and was certified free from all kinds of diseases, infact the nurse was romancing my arm as she was taking my blood, she said it was very soft like a woman's..

@blue

Could she be trying to rope in a fine odogwu?

On a serious note, I am happy that you are safe. Keep living well, bro.

iichidodo:
A close shave indeed, my dear sir.. It wasn't the doctor that divulged it but the microbiologist, who was a close family friend. I had to pretend and told her we needed a general blood test to begin the procedure of getting married in the Catholic way, by then we had already done our trad..I I did mine, negative. She hers, positive. Woman cry plenty cry, woman go her papa house. Mans happy and rejoicing for new life and fresh opportunities..

Ah! Imagine the microbiologist wasn't a family friend. Who would have told you? You have luck, bro. Stay safe.

iichidodo:
Not much story here, she had a thing for hypergamy, our sex life declined considerably and she got in with the wrong crowd. One thing led to another then boom! And she hid it from me but red pill helped in way that I never saw her as my one in all like oneitis because I understood my SMV,so I wasn't sweating it as an OG red pill. I was just content with my life and the companionship in the marriage. Problems started when she started falling ill on bi monthly basis and was losing weight while I was having the peace of mind of red pill and gaining weight.. Thinking it was the fibroid that was giving her issues, we went for surgery. Long story short, she knew her status but hid it from me, told the doctors that her marriage would be over if I found out.

What a close shave! I am glad you never contracted the virus. Was it the doctor who did the ethical thing and told you?

iichidodo:
My ogbanje ex-wife cheated on me and contracted HIV, if not for Red pill,I should have been a dead man long ago... That's why I urge people to take their pills, you just don't know what's gonna happen next..

What! How did you find out? What happened after you found out? Do you have kids with woman?

Gist us, if you don't mind.

COOL10:
May the teachings of the red-pill continue to wax stronger in our hearts and minds.

Sure. Red pill is life.

emmaodet:
Hello brother.
The constant thing in life is change, it is inevitable.
Many have moved on, 1 or 2 are dead, some married with a new life while some just outgrown nairaland things but i still believe there is a lot to learn on naiaraland sha.

My honorable mentions you didn't add - ubunja, Dpsychologist and Goo0dHardDick

Ubunja was the first person I mentioned. Lol.

Anyway, it was inevitable. Regardless of whatever happened, we were all bound to move on. I remember saying so, a few years back, that this time would time. Even human beings don't last forever.

The WhatsApp group went silent after three years of hot activity , almost up to a year. When I had concluded that it was dead, it came back to life again and is now active like its peak.

May the souls of redpillers who passed away rest in peace. For those still kicking, more growth and success in your redpill journey and other areas of life.

SpencerForbes:
100% product of the redpill, reaping the benefits and growing 💪

Nice! Longest time, my G. The red pill journey is for life. We shall remain steadfast. 💪

iichidodo:
Bless up, Martinez...Pls continue to take your red pills..It's a life saver, literally.

I will always take the pill. The pill never fails.

DieRich5:
Hey Fam, it’s nice seeing this powerful names in this community back them, and I really learned a lot from you’ll also but the message will always be here and forever.

I think many men now realize how important the male are to female and knowing good and bad also, sometimes I do tell some people that it’s better to be single and happy than to be in a relationship with someone who doesn’t like you for who you are but for what you do for them.

Life is beautiful, Love Yourself and be grateful for the things you have.

Nice! Long live the red pill.

Ballzproblem2:
Took me four pages to find this thread,Omo men don move on

It was inevitable. All redpillers won't be here forever. Despite the stubborn infestation of odious trolls and bad, anatogonist elements that somewhat deteriorated this thread, redpillers have left a lot of gems for those coming after the OGs of this thread. That's if they find this thread.

Shout out to Ubunja, CaveAdullam, NeroStealth01, Skepticus, HedgeFunds, BLOODYSPERM, GLYCOLYSISS (I have still not forgiven you for deactivating the way you did), SaviolaMemphix, Smartb0y, Jeshal007, luminouz, Emmynator, Junnior, Heartofcity12, RillyCool, Aaron12, LordAaron, COOL10, dontai, Emmaodet, sajmark, orchin, SOZINN, Ayoll, Zabiboy, TheGidRedpiller, CrystalTiger, dontai, ichidodo , Palazee, Dierich5, ProphetJeroboam, machote, iamphenomenal, Kalifate, posty56, SkyFlint, angelfallz, Regex, pansophist, MJBOLT, CAPSLOCKED, JONNYSPUTE, Epostive, Mgtowmonk, and many more (I still remember a lot who I can't mention because of time). I hope you all are doing well.

Finally, Seun Osewa, I know you've been taking the pills lowkey. More success to you. Thanks for giving us this amazing platform.

@JESHAL007

For close to a week, I haven't been able to reach you. I have tried calling. Hope all is well?

Kipaji:
What are their physical characteristics?

I see where you are going.

Kipaji:
@bolded

This is where I disagree with the red
pill. At every point of a woman's life, from 15 to 95 years old, she has more s€ xūåI AND relationship options than the vast majority of men around her age. A used-up, washed-up, damaged 40 year old w*0.r£ still has more s£ xūaI and relationship options than the average 40 year old man out there. (They may not be the options she wants, but that's not the point).

The Red pill lies by saying that women will end up alone. That nobody will want them after they waste their youths living the h.0ę lifestyle. But I find that it's not true. Too many men are starved, desperate, and ignorant.

The rèd pill doesn't say that women will end up alone if they refuse to cash in on their 20s. However, it does state that women's smv peaks in their 20s, and their options for commitment generally diminish with age as time matches away from their peak. Shikena!

This is generally true. Even women know this. That's why once most women who want to settle down reach a certain age, they start their chameleon antics to hoodwink an unsuspecting blue-pill guy. They can start going to church and put on a veneer of genuine spirituality. They could even start pandering to the male group they are targeting, usually by saying things or positioning themselves to assume the image they think these guys like.

I won't blame you for what you said because they are a lot of men stuck in the rage phase and who nurse a feeling of revenge towards women for not lowering their standards in their peak years to date them. They hope these women would end up alone and suddenly realise that they should have date them. Lol.

Men must work on themselves and disdain emotionalism. Red pill is just the raw truth about female nature and intersexual dynamics. It is not hate or contempt for women even though there will be very unflattering takes or points (about women) that the conventional mind sees as abhorrent. It's all good.

emmaodet:
I attended a wedding febraury this year.
What saddens me is that a man processed UK visa for this lady in late 2023 and spent 15m to get it for her.
He is a UK based man trying to bring a good lady from home (Nigeria) abroad to make his wife.
I don't know how they met - maybe online or connection by friends.
15m in 2023 is roughly 25 to 30m in todays naira value. SO we can have an idea of what that man spent all in the name of Love and relationship.
Guess what?
Immediately the lady got the visa, she broke up with him Right here in Nigeria before even touching London.
This is not a nollywood script rather what happened within my circle.
And as if that is not bad enough, she got engaged and did introduction to a new man she met at the train station in UK just 6 months arriving there.
Can you imagine that?
Just 6 months of breaking up with someone who has spent 15m on you to come into that country and you are already dating and engaged.
People were dancing in the wedding hall because it was a virtual wedding. The couples only joined us online watching through projector while both families were in the hall with their guest, musician, foods and drinks etc
I only pity the new man. Only if he knows what the lady did to the last man before he came in. I am sorry but he better watch his back.

People are out here brutally using others people like disposable cups. SMH. If person like, make he no dey brutal and alert in doing what is best and safe for them. In an ideal world, that dubious lady should be arrested for fraud.

emmaodet:
Your happiness must come from within not external.
It must be internal.
List out things you will like to be doing regularly and work around it.
For me - i like going to the gym, swimming, cinemas, mini vacations, tours/events and i built my happiness around these.
All can be substituted for a cheaper alternative.
And while doing all these, i easily pick-up relationship with women if i want. It comes naturally from the activities i am doing anyway.
Also, a lunch or dinner with ladies occasionally is refreshing ( doesn't need to be expensive please)
You can meet up with a bottle of coke/hollandia yogurt and a pie. It doesn't have to bore a hole in your pocket.
And you gist, talk and laugh just like how you would have done with a male friend in a bar/beer parlour

Any man who is not emotionally self-sufficient and can't find joy, purpose, and happiness outside women is in for a rough ride.

emmaodet:
A colleague of mine at work lost his job early last year and since then he has been at home.
He has seen shege.
Before then, he was doing very very fine.
One of the organizers and sponsors of his town's beauty pageant ceremony.

I feel really bad for him. What he is going through is what happens to any man who loses his edge in life (you know what I mean). Experiences like this are painful, but it will make him strong and knowledgeable about how life and people work. He is just learning what sharp guys like us already know.

This is why on the WhatsApp group, we spoke about procreating pragmatically and have some things in order before going to get married. Your woman can be sweet like an angel in the sweet times, but if you get stuck in the rough times, you will see a different beast. It is well. I hope he rises again.

Meedon:

Go to the first page of this thread and start to read from there.

On one hand, I wanted to ask why he is trolling, but then, on the other, I remembered that what simps can not do does not exist.

Nyascobar1414:
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Deep type shii..
Man is met with silence,this makes me 🥶 cold..
Cos in my worst,I was alone..
I'll never give this heart or goodness to anything 😔.
You'll meet a pure cold me

If you want to be cold, fine. No problem. I am cold too... when I have to be. However, don't let bitter feelings consume you.

Remember, no one ever owed you anything, except your parents. Similarly, you don't owe people anything. Don't be cold to the extent that you will unknowingly bleed on good, innocent people. Be firm, be ruthless, and be determined in securing your interest and achieving objectives.

I write this because I know the history of your posts, and I can sense where this is possibly coming from. Good luck in your red pill journey and I wish you greater heights.

Marrying with 100k per month shows you are not a serious human being who loves himself. Smh.

Nice development. Online misandrists who go too far like this should be taught a lesson.