jsp0:
please what can u do to a case where u can't stop thinking about a girl that cheated on u

and i have start the no contact rule maybe she will call back to beg cos i can't stop thinking about her

and wooing another girl is hectic for me

In your daily life, in all aspect, learn to prioritise sound reasoning and logic above what you feel, your urges, and impulses. Your feelings might be irrational, but what does the cold, hard logic (and the red pill insights you've learnt) in your brain says? Follow it regardless of any emotions/feelings. This is how a redpiller must live his life; anyone ought to live life this way. Feelings will sometimes try to lead you astray, it is normal, but your sound reasoning and prioritisation of self must take precedence.

By the way, as you mature in women matters, certain feelings will no longer occur. Give it time. To romantically desire a girl who cheated on you is an unacceptable silliness and weakness; it is a slap on your masculinity. To follow up from someone's earlier advice to you, try to picture her riding the diçk she cheated on you with. If that doesn't help you sit up and act right, you can't be helped at the moment.

Haydens:
Who the hell is that troll up there.

Same old Rozcol (aka Rozz/Zzor/Iyaegbe/...). SMH.

hopefulLandlord:
Great people like Hillary Clinton can testify on the authenticity of TB Joshua. TB Joshua said she'll win USA presidential election and she won

His collapsed church building is another proof of his ability to see into the future with amazing accuracy. He would see North and South Korean presidents shaking hands having folowed the news but he couldn't see his own church collapsing and over a hundred dying in the process


His actions to cure Ebola in Sierra Leone is another testament. While scientists toiled day and night and burned through resources in search of Ebola cure to help Africans and the human race, Joshua simply sent prayer water to Sierra Leone saying it would cure their Ebola.

Joshua said that COVID-19 would disappear globally on 27 March 2020 and as you can see, it's disappeared globally by killing lots and lots of Indians. not only did Covid not end on the said date but he died while covid is still here


don't mind these foolish atheists who say Joshua is fake. Joshua is as authentic as proven by the above

Hehe. No matter what, T.B. Joshua remains a true prophet in the eyes of his sheeples. When I write "no matter what," I really mean it.

DieRich5:
Happy new year red fam


Yesterday 2nd, I saw my girlfriend with another boy going out and dem pass my street nd I was just going out to meet my aunt, luckily I came back cus light just come so I need to drop my fone at home, on my way home, I saw dem Nd I was shock Nd she greeted me, I didn't answer, I just pass dem...

The thing pain me, I'm not calling her and I'll just break up with her if she call me

I don't know why I'm sad

Understandable that you felt this way. However, more work still needs to be done in your red pill journey to the extent that things like this don't pain you. There is a simple level one ought to get to where one understands women well enough that if one stumbles on one's wife or gf flirting or sleeping with another man, one simply ends the union without feeling sad or heartbroken, or even attacking or killing the man fùcking his wife.

A redpiller understands female nature and prepares his mind and heart for the possibilities that comes with dealing with women. As he ages, fewer things take him by surprise or leave him heart broken. He moves on like a boss. It is well.

The thing pained you probably because your heart fell in love, you thought she is different and you made investment based on that, and what have you. I believe you will be stronger if you decide to go into a relationship again.

I don't know why I'm sad Nd funny thing I've had sex with more than 6 girl in this our 1 yr+ relationship

Well well, absolute equality can't be drawn between male and female infidelity and promiscuity when it comes to serious relationship and marriage. Men and women are not the same. If your wife loses her job and becomes broke, it won't have the same effective on the union as you losing your job and becoming broke. It all boils down to the differences between genders and how they differently perceive certain qualities in the opposite gender. I could say more to explicate, but ponder on it. Never draw absolute equality between male and female infidelity or promiscuity in a relationship.

Whether or not the documentary is true; whether or not there is evidence for the allegations in the documentary, T.B. Joshua's sheeples will always see him as a man of God. This is brainwashing and cult-like behaviour.

DD Force is a strong and toxic pesticide. Just like Sniper, don't let it come in contact with what people will eat.

psalmistkakah:
Your wife and my wife are the same, am passing Tru d same thing, two days ago, na so I promise her divorce she reports to mum, i told my mum marriage don end...I have my life to live....I no fit again ..Last last she calm down...I was damn serious, she mellow.....

Nice one. The root of her attitude is the fact that she feels comfortable that you wouldn't leave and you would succumb for peace to reign. I am sure she wasn't expecting the divorce, and she didn't even take your divorce attempt seriously. Good you stood your ground and used your leverage. Keep standing your ground, it will yield positive result.

It is good for men to have leverage and wield. Imagine if you didn't have leverage, she for no send you.

When redpillers tell nonredpillers something about women, many think they already know about it. They don't realise that the information is hovering in their minds without a deep realisations and grasp of the information. Experience will teach you.

You case isn't that bad. As long as you are the breadwinner and you socially and financially above your wife, make your stand and stick to it. She will come around.

victorazy:


He said the fact.
Anybody that believed BBC is sick in head.

Were random people interviewed? Yes or no?

Fiscus105:
Anybody read that documentry and believe it, hook line and sinker, just know something is wrong with you and ur brain needs to be checked.

U just interviewed a random people with no single evident to back it up.

Someone claiming he was one of disciples yet, he didn't show any proof to back it up. All the current and former disciples, I think we know them and their tie with TB Joshua.

Your foolishness doesn't surprise me one bit. Your skull must be empty for you to claim that random persons were interviewed.

“One other clearly illogical thing in the charade is the BBC categorical statement that the man of God was involved in all the abuse for over two decades!

“How can that be in a nation governed by law? It shows the station’s crude disrespect and bizarre perception of Nigeria."

Are you kidding me? What is this?

Seun:

Tribalism in Nigeria didn't start on the Internet. It didn't start on Nairaland or on Twitter.

I am quoting you here regarding the post you made below. The thread was locked before I could post this.
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Seun:
So the first order of business is to hire new moderators, particularly women, who can enforce the existing rules against harassment, derailment, etc.

If you really understood women, you would know that hiring female moderators mainly authorised to handle to problem "misogyny" will lead an overkill and unwanted unfairness.

First of all, women call a lot of things misogynistic for silly and dubious reasons, even the utterance of harmless unflattering facts about women. "Misogyny" is also used as silencing tool during a discourse involving talking points that women don't like, particularly red pill discourse that awaken men in a way women don't want for selfish and manipulative reasons. Discourse devoid of misogyny that causes discomfort can be portray as misogynistic by women. I could go on an on, but I won't because I know you understand what I addressing.

My point is that, the new female moderators, given this task, will go on to erase any thread that goes against the female imperative/status quo and disseminates uncomfortable discussions and points about women. Many accounts will be unfairly banned just for propagating talking points that females frown upon, even though they are logically not misogynistic. The objective of handling misogyny will be used as a pretext for this unfairness.

It is better that nairaland be a safe ground for all sorts of discourse as freedom of speech permits. The advantage is that we get to actually know how many think, even the actual extreme ones. We all get to know if many sympathise with them or not. Those that are dissatisfied with the talking points of a group, and their influence, must either take it upon themselves to verbally address/deconstruct these points (without breaking the rules) or shut up and not run to daddy Seun. Different opinions can't coexist without people being offended, and no one has the right to not be offended. Thanks.

Lovelydaisies:

Actually, it doesn't matter if it's an unwanted pregnancy or not. Cravings are there, almost all women, if not all experience. It's just your ability to stifle it or control it that matters. The lady usually gives in to one craving or two.

I didn't make silly demands of my husband either and not at odd hours, because I'm human too but they were mostly fruits, snacks and peppersoup (in my first trimester though, when it hit me hard and I could hardly eat to my satisfaction). Sometimes I'd just say what I fancied eating, we'd laugh over it and life goes on. Hope you get it.

I no ask you. The question, which you didn't understand, wasn't directed to you.

UpdatesiOS147:
Naso brother, I don cook tire Comot all air freshener
Can’t even use my perfumes again, bathing soap self is irritating to her, she can wake me up midnight and say she wants fried rice I just Dey pamper and pet her

SMH.

Remijuice:
Tell her you will be doing DNA once she put to bed. The cravings will slow down.

It will decelerate.

luminouz:

Exactly. Imagine him leaving his house to go look for kpomo by 12am in a hostile and volatile country.

Make the cravings dey take am easy o biko

Do young women who have unwanted pregnancies and have to endure angry parents disturb their parents with cravings? Cravings ko, crayons ni.

Do fall for that nonsense and irrational mood swing. Tell her to behave and sit up. If you allow and normalise this nonsense, it will be your portion.

15

Seun Osewa finally realises arguments are worthless. Welcome to maturity.

heartofcity12:
This f.ool up here came here to rant without being called or mentioned, yet still said “unfollows thread and bla bla”, isn’t that madness? She must be so triggered and couldn’t just contain it anymore, this thread is like a poison to them.. Just keep her ignored..

Na who mind her I go blame.

SMH. It's unfortunate that superstition thrives in the minds of many and will continue to do so. Believing in absurdities has a way of making one indulge in stupid practices that only a mad man would contemplate of his own accord.

Satisfactory. Just like every other year, it has virtually been filled with continuous holistic growth, discipline, and building of quality habits.

Karlifate:


The Redpill haters & trolls right now:

For some reason, it seemed to some that nairaland's issue would be resolved with some threads and accounts being deleted. Haters will live many lifetimes and still not eradicate the red pill. One simply can't fight nature and its truth.

Seems nairaland is stable again.

Stop spreading lies and ridiculous delusions. Know the following and know peace:

(1) Amputees cannot regenerate lost limbs,
(2) Religious gods are nonexistent, and
(3) there is no supernatural deity or entity that makes amputees whole.

Good day.

CaveAdullam:
Merry Christmas and a prosperous New Year to all the chiefs and everyone in the house.

And to those "ogas" that are hiding their faces:

Pansòphist
Ubùnja
Ichidòdo
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Smaŕtb0y
Martinez39s
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Adàmbeatz...

I'm still searching for them.

And to my sweet precious followers...you all are great.

Tenśazangetsu20, I can see your doings and good info.
("I say make I put hand where you put hand, now hot water don burn me".

Well done, boss.

Thank you all for the mentions and encouragement.

Merry Christmas. Thanks for the wishes.

"Ayam a medikl daktar [medical doctor]."
"Evolution is jast a tyorri [theory]."

reddingtonblack:



Have you seen a billionaire schedule, besides owning a business in Nigeria is "STRESS"

Peter Obi want to become Nigeria president that is "Motive"
whatever activism OBi is playing is beneficial to Peter Obi than it is to Nigerians on short & long run.

Peter Obi is fighting for himself cos he needs to stay relevant till 2027, he needs attention more than Nigerians need him.

The exit of Multi national companies in Nig. is favorable to an hypocrite like Peter Obi a full time importer.

Hmmmm. This is another feasible angle.

For a billionaire with no stress, this guy carries the interest of the country like gala. Too bad he is fighting for a country that doesn't deserve him.

jaephoenix:

Na. That's another fruitcake. This here fruitie, aka MadMax, is on a whole new fruity level all by himself

Dtruthspeaker:
The fact that people, everywhere, of thousands and thousands of years old, who saw how the world was in what we would call the beginning where worshiping a deity, is proof that there is a Deity.

For all people everywhere can not be brainwashed and deceived at the same time and in fact mass brainwashing only became possible with the advent of the television and radio.

The presence of mystical beliefs and assorted deities across many tribes that were not in contact with each other does not prove the existence of a deity, supernatural entities, or supernatural dimensions.

These beliefs and imagined deities arose from certain aspects of human nature and the harsh environmental factors during our crude early beginning. Let me explain:

(1) IGNORANCE AND NAIVETY
The minds of early humans across the globe knew almost nothing about the physical world compared to that of the modern man. It was therefore not a surprise that the physical world and it's many phenomena overwhelmed their minds and inspired awe and trembling in them. Imagine the naive and ignorant mind of an early man witnessing heavy thunderstorms, bush fires, rainbows, earthquakes, floods, dreams, droughts (whose patterns they were unaware of), hallucinations, mental illness, strange sickness etc.

Since it is inherent in humans to find patterns in things and explanations underlying their observations, the best an early man could do was attribute a lot of things he couldn't explain to magic/supernatural forces. This is a trait intrinsic to mankind. We have a need to make sense of our world. Given the disconnection between various tribe in our beginnings, their explanations and accepted mystical beliefs differed from one another, just as their languages.

(2) WISH FOR A SAVIOUR
Early human life was harsh. There were many existential threats everywhere. Many diseases and affliction which we now take for granted ended a lot of lives, and the early man didn't know what was going on; all he could do was helplessly watch on as some strange happening was afflicting his loved ones and killing them. There were also fierce predators and dangerous animals that could kill a man. Also, there were many natural stuffs like earthquakes, winter, flood, volcanic eruption, avalanche, droughts, pests, etc. that the early man had to survive. It also didn't help that human morality wasn't that impressive and was still evolving. War was common and vicious among humans. I could list many more.

With all these, the early man probably wished for a supernatural saviour that would save them from all these, or at least give him justice or a better world. They knew it would take more that their fellow man to do such... hence the conception of a higher power. The idea that they were all on their own and no one was coming to save them was too depressing and harsh to take.

(3) FEAR OF DEATH AND UNKNOWN
We know this is a primal fear inherent in the human psyche. Most people today are scared or saddened by their own mortality, how much more the early man. Many fancied and were daydreaming about immortality. Some even sort secret formula to immortality from their environments. Those who conceded that it wasn't possible thought of the concept of an afterlife to console themselves.

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It is also possible that as man started creating and inventing stuffs, they thought someone created the universe as they created stuffs. Perhaps, they saw some order and purpose in a lot physical stuffs amidst chaos, just like they saw in their inventions. This and the three aforementioned points explains why and how mystical beliefs and the idea of diety came about. As expected, mystical beliefs yield more mystical beliefs. Once you employ mystical belief in one aspect, you have opened a floodgate.

If there was indeed a diety that is as described by the Abrahamic religion, there wouldn't have been conflicting holy books, mystical beliefs and religious wars of the past and present. Even Zeus and other greek gods that the Greeks worshipped are clearly nonexistent and are now widely accepted as part of a mythology.

in fact mass brainwashing only became possible with the advent of the television and radio.

Well, you don't need global brainwashing to have people believing in a deity. The factors I listed early will do the job.

MaxInDHouse:


Is he/she one of Jehovah's Witnesses?

Nope. He was an online buddy of mine in the religion section, way back. He is the only person I know of that would type what you typed. He has another moniker called Otemanuduno, I think.

Anyway, if you are not him, do not bother.