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Fattprince23:No one is disputing the value of a good mindset and positive self-esteem. The main koko is if acknowledging and pointing out the ugly and unfortunate aspects of life means one is being negative and having a poor and gloomy outlook. |
luminouz:Well said. Pointing out reality is what we do. How it comes across to others is irrelevant to us and the nature of things. Personally, I think only weaklings and little kids need a constant stream of positive talks and affirmations to have morale and achieve. Strong folks don't care about positive or negative whatever, they just need reality as it is. They dig into reality, accept it as it, and go about their lives realistically using their insights while maintaining their morale and esteem. This is just me though. |
CosmicJames:In as much as a man's mentality and outlook may affect his performance and morale, it has no bearing on the nature of reality and the validity and subsistence of natural principles. No matter how positive and resolute your outlook is, reality remains fixed. No matter how positive and confident you are, you will never get tangible and worthy outcomes without abiding by natural principles and/or factors coming to, or being, place. Positive mentality, if achieved, is just 5% of the ingredient in getting your preferred outcome. In fact, there are many outcomes and situations in which your positive mindset is futile and irrelevant. This is just to stress the importance and need of having the mental fortitude to gaze upon ugly aspects of life, and still go about your day with a proper grasp of life. Back to the crux of the matter, as long as a train of thought and opinion concisely and accurately encapsulate the reality of life, it matters not if they come across as negative or depressing. Reality is what it is; it doesn't care about your mood and feelings. Certain aspects of reality can be harsh, negative, and unbalanced by conventional beliefs/outlook, but it shouldn't be discarded and contested because of this. Reality doesn't owe it us to appear in a certain way that pleases us, or makes sense. Anyhow it is, it is to be accepted. That's how we roll here. Pointing out reality, like emmaodet did, doesn't mean one is being negative in mind and despondent. Reality is reality. Cheers. |
Faber:Don't mind the bozo. Let's not even talk about the multitude of men that have been falsely accused and set up for harm because they rejected a female's sexual advances or whatever. I hope she gets arrested and she pays for the damages. What a stupid sack of sh!t. I don't know why someone will destroy someone else's property because the person rejected you or broke up with you. Entitlement to a someone's money, entitled to someone's commitment, entitled to someone's d!ck. ![]()
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JESHAL007:Would love you to shed more light on this. |
JESHAL007:Well, trust me, I have been interested in hearing your version of events and how you overcame your religious delusions. I have time today. What made you realise that religion is a falsehood? Was you deconversion instant or gradual? Were you a Muslim or Christian? infact it's the biggest and most organised scam in the world, Kai, marketing hope, miracle, faith, supernatural all packaged nonsense wasting people's time and resources, selling illusion/ delusion to the masses,Everything supernatural is a big scam. No such thing as the supernatural. This is why supernatural beliefs and supposed supernatural phenomena can't stand the test of performance or meet the burden of proof. pastors are conmen, they are highly psychopathic and realistic in their personal life because they fundamentally understand what they are preaching would not yield to any meaningful outcome for their members, worse than heartless yahoo boys, they are more ruthless than our politicians who decieve the masses with lies and propaganda,You are right. No matter how sincere they want to appear, virtually all pastors know deep down that their religion is false, or at least religion has no substance. It's all talk and no bite. Their jobs are made easy by the fact that their gullible congregation aren't just ignorant, they also want to be deceived. religion is far worse, it controls you on a psychological level in your subconscious mind because it's redefines the way you interprete the world, it's your core belief system that affects your personality,Yeah. Remember, it's a brainwashing that arrested us from infancy and was part of the matrix in which we were bred and lived out our formative years. The outlook religion gave us dominated out crucial developmental stages. So that is why it has a strong psychological hold on an individual and it is difficult to shed. For many, stepping outside religion doesn't just require reasoning, it requires emotional independence and the fortitude to comfortably confront one's mortality and the fear of the unknown. organised religion is a tool used by elites to subjugate ignorant and emotional masses, religion is a sedative to keep the masses complacent and obedient so they don't complain or question authority, they focus on imaginary things like gods, spirits, heaven, hell, devil etc.Aptly said. Religion has been used to establish many sorts of control over human behaviour and outlook. In the transatlantic slave era, Christianity was used to make slaves less rebellious and more compliant using scriptures such as: (1) "Slaves, obey your earthly masters with respect and fear, and with sincerity of heart, just as you would obey Christ." Ephesians 6 vs 5; (2) "38 “You have heard that it was said, ‘Eye for eye, and tooth for tooth.’[h] 39 But I tell you, do not resist an evil person. If anyone slaps you on the right cheek, turn to them the other cheek also. 40 And if anyone wants to sue you and take your shirt, hand over your coat as well. 41 If anyone forces you to go one mile, go with them two miles. 42 Give to the one who asks you, and do not turn away from the one who wants to borrow from you." Matthew 5 vs 38 - 42; (3) list yours. Also, Christianity in the past made the poor less willing to rebel against the elite who were oppressing and looting their future away by consoling them with rich promises in the hereafter; telling them that all is vanity upon vanity and only what is in the afterlife and divine purposes matter; and telling them that it is hard for rich people to enter heaven, hence giving them (the poor) the illusion of a monopoly on divine riches and salvation. They thought they will have the last laugh, so they maintained and endured. This is why religion was known in the past as the opium of the masses. Opium sedated, chained and seemingly tranquilised smokers in opium dens for days back then by giving them euphoric highs and sweet illusory states that made them contented. If those poor people knew they had no hope and had the fight violently for the life they wanted, the elites would be in trouble. I won't even talk about how Islam encouraged war against non-Muslims, made the Arabs the biggest players ever in human slave trade history, stimulated genocides and terrorism for scriptural reasons, child marriages, etc. There are many other things to say in this regard, but I will stop here. They don't have time for real world subject like proper governance, inflation, taxation, policies, that affect their lives directly on a daily basis, they pray and fast, cast and bind looking for sudden encounters,They are just ruthless men doing their business and it's in their best interest to focus on religious concepts and activities that keep the minds of their members locked in. Unfortunately, some of them are stooges of corrupt politicians who capitalise on their members to garner votes. lolz when I was religious I thought outsiders like you were possessed with evil spirit and doomed eternally to hell, but I'm wiser now, religion weaponizes fear of the uncertainty and current harsh reality to market hope and turnaroundUnderstandable. By religion, anything not of god is of the devil. This is how our traditional gods and practices became associated with demonic origins and luciferian influence after our ancestors adopted Christianity. ![]() I'm unplugged fully from the programming and brainwashing of my parents and society but can't openly live as an atheist because of ostracization and demonization,You are not alone. Sha stay safe. It is worse for people in muslim societies. many unnecessary wars like where millions have died for their gods have been solely religious,In the past when a tribe or group coveted the lands and resources of foreigners, they convinced themselves that the foreigners were heathens and it is the will of god to seize the land from them and use it's resources. The same was true if they coveted the women of the foreigners. Also, people fought over lands that they believed their gods had promised their ancestors. Too bad if the gods of two distinct religions promised the same land to their followers. Christianity, Islam, etc were guilty of this. Also, Islam has the goal of jihad and Jewish extermination. Recently, you saw how Palestinians brutally butchered and kidnapped Isreali civilians because of a religious end time prophecy and the belief jews had no right to their land. This is something they will maintain, do over and over if given the chance, and then pass their delusions and sentiments to their descendants. the godlike fear of men of God where they can't be analysed, questioned or judged again makes me disgusted about religion as if they are not human, as if they are not emotional and fallible,Apt. Due to this, a lot of men have gotten away with heinous wickedness, hypocrisy, abuses and all sorts of incriminatory acts (eg false prophecies) because they are seen as pastors by their members. They are never criticised and excuses are readily made for them. "Touch not my anointed", "Judge not", and "He who is without sin should cast the first stone" they said. religion is the most power matrix and I'm grateful for the internet that enabled to question my dogma and reconstruct my belief system at my own pace, some of your articles were helpful too, prayers are gibberish nonsense, hope is coping mechanisms, faith is long term delusion, fasting is hunger strike, no miracle even if they happen they are the exception to the rule and you can't get an accurate map of reality based on the exceptions that's why religion capitalises upon and hold their members to ransom, same as positivity cult of personal development, rich dad,set goals, positive affirmations, think big, think your way to wealth, desire and all those nonsense, most self help gurus are con men who appear as motivational salesmen, the package ideas that are common sense and sell to the masses, they also market delusional ideas like law of attraction using your mind to create your reality whether you have strategic factors to your advantage or not, the work on optimism, enthusiasm and positivity. religion is insanity on a grand level, it's a cult, it's backward and primitive, it's a control tool, it's a pack of lies and delusionsYou are right. However, there are no miracles that are exception. Miracles simply do not exist. They never did and never will. |
imustsaymymindo:While he is right on gym not being necessary to lose weight, build muscle, or get in shape, you are also right too. Gym just makes things easier, faster, and more beneficial. The equipments, personal trainers, and various amounts of weights available to you help a lot. |
Faber:Well, congratulations on the stage you've attained in your red pill journey. Wish you more growth and progress. |
Faber:You get time to dey explain. Anyway, on a serious note, out of sheer curiosity, are you by chance the same person behind the account called lightwày? To a good degree at your start here, you imitated his peculiar madness which he exhibited occasionally, but you now seem much evolved in thought and mannerism. All in all, I wish you the very best, bro. |
Leave sentiments aside, and let's be real. A man that earns 30k per month has no business with marriage. If such a man considers marriage, then he is not serious and can't be trusted to lead a home. 30k per month combined with marriage is just a way of multiplying hardship and responsibility, and carrying a greater degree of poverty to the next generation. SMH. Clearly, such a man has learnt nothing from life, and obviously doesn't yearn for better days. Today, no kind father should hand his daughter to a man earning 30k per month for marriage. "It is how you manage the money." Keep quiet joor. Instead of focusing how to improve your financial muscles you are giving yourself daily shots of COPEium to massage your sentiments, something that will multiply your hardship. |
JESHAL007:I have written few takes on religion and life. There are two past threads. Not as beautifully written as I would want today, but the idea is easy to grasp. ● On Abrahamic Religions ● Hard Facts of Life |
JESHAL007:I am fine, bro. Coincidentally, I was planning to respond to your post tomorrow. Seems you are out of the religious matrix, the elaborate falsehood. I have been very busy, but I read your post a long time ago. |
A simple fact apologists will pretend not to understand. The same way people don't believe there is a rainbow-coloured, indestructible, three-headed elephant statue in the center of the earth is the same way atheists don't believe in god. We simply have no sound reason to believe god exists. |
luminouz:Just allow the dirty water flow to its destination. Just cover your nose and watch in amusement. Don't stress yourself or be bothered to interfere. |
SMH. Let the ignorance, silly games, and misunderstanding continue. Have a nice day. ![]() |
When you publicly shield the wickedness of a defiant and ill-mannered spouse, you are simply telling the world that you deserve all that is done to you. So you made a skit with strangers and officers at the airport? Dey play. This is one of the men that use their hands to orchestrate their destruction and misery. Instead of you to send that woman to jail, you are pitying her. Okay o. ![]() |
Rightly said. |
This country is a shìthole. |
Haydens:SMH. This thread has come too far for people who don't do their due diligence on basic things to be corrected. "All roads lead to sex", as discussed and said by redpillers, means fùck every pùssy? Is that what you deduced after reading past discussions on "all roads lead to sex" ? Anyway, I have strength for no one. The misrepresentations and ignorance can wax unrestrained for all I care. Good day. |
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SMH.
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mablie:Rightly said. The activity of merely fùcking a married woman doesn't make one less of a redpiller. Your moral or ethical disapproval doesn't mean a redpiller who fuçks a married woman isn't a redpiller, or that the red pill supports and insists on debauchery. In fact keep your moral and ethical talks to yourself; bringing it up in a red pill thread is peak fooling, but the one doing the fooling doesn't know. The only thing the red pill is concerned about is how the situation is handled to avoid risky encounters. If you can arrange things properly and coded, like many do, then there is no problem. My two cents. |
dreamxhaser:Was just writting my two cents. ![]() dreamxhaser:Her boyfriend is long-term relationship material (LTRM), while you are for fun and thrills. The typical situation of beta pays, alpha bleeps. You are the guy that stimulates her sexually. When a woman wants to marry, she looks for men that have resources and financial stability in her options, and she picks her best financial option. It doesn't matter whether you are unattractive or attractive, or if you are a redpiller or not... these won't pay the bills. The main criterion for marriage in a woman's books is your financial worth and lifestyle you can offer. This is why women tend marry above or equal to their financial class. Look up the concept of Hypergamy, it governs this long-term relationship approach. On the other hand, being financially attractive is different from being sexually attractive. When a woman wants to fùck for thrill/pleasure, she unapologetically goes for the guy that sexually stimulates her. This man can fall in any financial class: above her, equal to her, or below her. This is because what will fùck and sexually satisfy her when her pùssy tingles isn't your money and financial stability. This guy doesn't have to spend a dime on her. He will even get to do things with her that the LTRM wouldn't. She will be a freaky open slut to this guy, but might present herself as an innocent, naive, prudish, decent girl to LTRM. In a woman's script, she has men for cash, men for sex, e.t.c. Women unapologetically put their emotions and interests first and there is nothing that will stop her from getting involved with these men simultaneously to meet her various needs if she feels like and knows she will get away with it. Unlike men, women don't involve ethical considerations in their sexual dealings... either they like what they want to do or not. If they like it, they do it; if they don't, they don't do it. Remember, feelings and interest first. So things like "she should know I have a girlfriend", "doesn't she know she is a married woman", e.t.c are utterly irrelevant to a woman. If she can have the best of both worlds without consequences, she will. Fùck her if you want, don't reason things too deeply. ![]() @Savagethe21st |
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Better late than never, but it would have been best and easier if they had addressed the islamisation problem and uncontrolled immigration years ago. I hate when people tackle serious problems too late, especially when the problems become insurmountable. |
Savagethe21st:I certainly won't. |
dreamxhaser:The answer to your question has been written here several times. I have discussed it on multiple occasions. I will tackle your question tomorrow. It's really simple. |
Smartb0y:I don't know if I am missing something. While I agree with you on the mentality of the guy and other things you wrote, it could actually be that guy literally has a small peniis, then she saw a big one and carved sexual satisfaction from the big one. ![]() |
One Love. Good memories. |
iichidodo:Longest time. I thought life and new interests have carried you away from us. |
2Radii:Life no hard, na you go carry woman as friend. ![]() |
