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No autopsy, no accountability, no repercussion. I don't know when this country would really work.

I have both bank accounts. I hope Titan Trust revamps Union. Union bank is a first generation bank surprisingly having young people that behave like those old bankers of those days.

Titan better teach them how to look after their customers well.

It’s not about hating women, it’s about accountability and this affects the society at large. For example, Why should a man buy a Lamborghini just because a BBL carrier slept with him? That’s not nature, that’s madness.

Some of Geh Geh’s point is simple: a man is responsible for his wife, not his girlfriend. And he’s right that marriage hardly favours men when the woman doesn’t add value.

Yes, some of his takes are extreme, but the message is that women should also be held accountable. There are plenty of hardworking women out there who deserve to be rewarded not all these lazy entitled ladies.

At the end of the day chief, love should be partnership, not sponsorship.

Lol. One of the most sarcastic post I've seen so far. Sonnobax15, you really believe her?

Most of the elderly in the village don't monitor their blood pressure and other key health indicators of their age. Condolences to the family.

MasterJayJay:
Kidnapping is the easiest crime to solve.

The ransom is the bait. Aided with a tracker, kidnappers should be arrested with 24 hours.


The rise in kidnapping incidents is a failure on the part of government.

No kidnapper should last in the business of kidnapping for more than 1 month if government is ready to fight crime.

Very true. But how do you catch people that buy NIN and already registered sim cards?

I heard that some of them go as far as using other people's phone to make their ransom demands, even going to another state to make the calls and then immediately board a plane to fly back to the state their hideout is.

It's crazy man. Government would have to block a whole lot of loopholes to neutralize kidnapping.

I truly support State police with the rising insecurity. Yes, there's a bad side but we cannot ignore the upside of tackling this insecurity using them.

That Adahzion is just a wonder. I'm not Igbo, but my spirit isn't limited by human language and I truly feel her songs.

Music is a language in the spirit. People of old use music to call down all manner of spirits including the Spirit of God. Na why I no get any Davido or their likes for my phone.

God bless all artistes that birth songs from the Spirit.

If not for status and maybe funfare , there's almost no benefit of reception because people hardly bring gifts these days, just to come and eat. People that will support your wedding will mostly do so before that day.

Worse thing is that after everything, some of them may end up doing POS. You then wonder why they went through the stress of the university.

Bro I literally thought about this today. A man dropped dead in the office building I work in. He had 6 children, wasn't up to 45. High blood pressure like we were told.

I honestly don't know what men gain from marriage if they can't even live long enough on earth.

gohf:
How many women that are wives are actually helping their husbands achieve their purpose in life. Many get into marriage with their own agenda and purpose, whether they are woke or diva, their own will and desires count more than following any form of leadership, well are they to be blamed, even church going ladies proclaim equality and believe in their 50-50 right. In fact some expect help from their husbands without rendering any form o substantial help to the man's goal and vision.

They speak more than they act, and complain, nag, irritate and even a times drive the husband crazy or away from the home.

Prov.21.9 Better to live alone in a tumbledown shack than share a mansion with a nagging spouse.

Some of them expect to be loved with little to even no submission, to them greeting you and cooking for you, even giving you children is submission enough

Prov.21.19 It is better to live alone in the desert than with a crabby, complaining wife.


Finally men IF you CAN'T find a GOOD WIFE please stay SINGLE. 🙏🏾

Women were also created for a purpose and an agenda which is not primarily to help a man. This help meet thing has what have made many women go through this life living in the shadow of their husbands and the only thing they achieve is that they are wives and mothers.

As a woman helps a man, the man too should help her achieve her purpose as the bridegroom that he is..

I just feel like I should point that out even if I concur with your submission.

No billionaire supports a politician without a personal interest. It's all about preserving and increasing their networth.

This is what they should be crying against but they'll rather focus their attention on the hunters.

She's not your wife legally or traditionally but your baby mama please. Let's put things into perspective.

Let's hope she'll honor the invitation. Give us an update much later.

It was expected sooner or later.

Only the strong can fight for Nigeria. Even Nigerians don't want saving. Let 2027 come and the same cycle will repeat itself. Majority of us that genuinely cared about the country don't care anymore.

femi4:
That’s not true, they allow them to worship as guest but talked them out of it as a member

Means the 'guests' are more than the 'members' then because we see it with our eyes.

Unfortunately most new generation churches permit any kind of dressing as far as they are concerned, holiness is from the heart and not your outward appearance.

I don't rate politicians at all. It's all about their stomach.

What manner of weed is this guy smoking?

Na 200 dem dy charge for 5k here o. POS is a good business in a good location.

All these paper projects. Where are the list of the places the Health centers they will be built so that we can know when they get established?

Spectrix:
To be honest thanks for calling it out I didn’t see it as that as first but now it has become clear that I need to get myself together i thought I did. I thought I had kept my esteem and confidence but I guess some were in between trying to be respectful and humble. It’s hard.
I perceive you’re a guy and I want your perspective. Something more has happened recently and I feel uncomfortable sharing here I know you don’t want to be bothered but would you please consider. I really need advice from your perspective.

It's a faceless forum, you can share so we can learn and then the more experienced people can guide you if you wish. Wish you well though.

Big question still unanswered - does the president reserve the right to suspend an elected governor?

papyjaypaul:
I agree with the sentiments of the corps member but I don't condone indiscipline. She must have done orientation and read the NYSC bylaws. Gen Z act without thinking, they think the social media is another universe that exists outside the real world. As a NYSC member, you are a civil servant for one year. That government can use you how they want for one year. If they want to draft you to fight another country, you have no choice as a corps member. For now, Tinubu is your boss as a NYSC member and you do not have the authority to speak on some things while you are still in service. Know this and know peace, this is how you start learning things as an adult. You need to read the rules of the game before playing in it.

Bro are you educated? The bylaws says that they cannot play partisan politics, did it specifically say they cannot criticize the government?

Jesus. With the number of foolish people in this country, this country is really irredeemable.

yarimo:
Why the agulu fraudster won't back her since it happens in Lagos state

Typical. You're a Slave who love their chains.

Constructively tell us if what she said is false.

OBUKOMENA:
unfortunately, she's late now.

Damn. My condolences man.

Greydebz:
For real I really don’t understand what men wants. A lady sees her spec and someone she likes and she goes for him both Vocally and by actions. And you guys are telling him to turn her to a sex tool. I don’t just get it. Toxic masculinity is what I see here.

How did she see spec in just one meeting? Making him talk with family in just one week? It's giving desperation honestly. I don't support the turning her into a sex too though but what she's displaying isn't a good sign!

[quote author=Nnamdipapa post=134370482][/quote]Dear Poster,

I read all you wrote and maybe if you had phrased the question better and posted it somewhere else, mature Christians would have responded to you. Christians are reacting angrily at you trying to defend their faith but the truth is that God doesn't look at our words at times, He just looks at our heart.

Your question is simple, why does God allow bad things to happen to His supposedly children who are Christians? Am I getting that right?

Prettyangelng:
Ashawo job is better. The only thing 9 to 5 is better at is honor and dignity. But ashawo jobs pat more. Imagine making your one month salary in just one short time.

It has always been that way for ages. Same thing too with men. Taking the risk to kidnap, rob or commit fraud pays better than a 9 - 5.

But the man that said 'a good name is better than riches' was wise.

RealityKings1:
Ask yourself, can you pay 2 million naira for sex?
If you can't, why would you assume some men are ready to throw around such sum?

Look up the car that burna bought for his UK babe before they broke up. Our top tier politicians pay more than that for sex. Keep playing!!

OBUKOMENA:
[b] OP, exactly what you are experiencing is what I experienced in my marriage.

My wife was a Microbiologist. The first 3 years of my marriage was very very very very frustrating sexually! (You can imagine my emphasis).

In my own case, I would attempt to kiss, she would turn her face away. She would not allow me to penetrate her during sex. She would not allow fingering. She said fingering can introduce germs inside of her. Imagine that! Hand wey me dey take chow eba. But, when I want to cum, that's when she would allow me penetrate, so as to release inside of her. Nothing like BJ. Nothing like me giving her a head. She complained that sex was painful and that my D was too hard. Sex was always in darkness. My wife would not allow us bathe together. For her to cum, she would use my flaccid dick to rub her clitoris severally.

I became so frustrated to the extent that I reported to her mum. On getting to hear that, my wife became angry. This was a non-virgin who dated her ex for over 6 yrs and even had abortion. But after 3 to 4 years, sex life changed. As for the kissing, omor, that remained a big issue[/b]

Omor. So she changed after you reported her to her mum? That's bad. What about now? Have you guys resolved the kissing issue?