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FERNANDEZISBACK:
Stop being a silly kid and read my comment properly..

A man can only sleep with a woman that WANTS to sleep with him. A woman can sleep with whoever she wants save for disciplined men. Apart from the rape-victims, as a woman, if you choose to get knocked out by a guy who isn't going to stick around, that's on you for spreading your legs and not the guy.

Preach to the ladies to close their legs coz they are the gatekeepers of sex. They ought to be accountable for their actions...... But I guess accountability is a female's kryptonite.

Very important that when getting to the bag as a man, make sure you borrow an alpha male's mentality. This is very heart-breaking to watch.

@undisputed12.. Now that card limits has been reduced drastically, it would be a good time to join your group if 'methods' still exists.. Are you guys still balling?

I just woke up today being fed up with this country. What sort of nonsense is this

And yet they will buy N50million cars and share for house of assembly members. Argghhh

The end is here!!

Flexherbal:
There are always two sides to a matter.

Lol.. Mass communication didn't teach him that.

samuelson06:
That's not true. It's about morals and not whatever law. And he knows that about her already.



Which man is going to interfere in their marriage? How exactly? Is there anything wrong if the child go and see the dad from time to time or if the child choose to stay with him? What exactly is going to create interference from the man? I don't see this being an issue please. No woman can allow a man that impregnated and abandoned her come back to interfere in her marriage unnecessarily. If you were a woman, would you tolerate that from any man?




This doesn't sound right. This sounds like the voice of poverty. What's wrong with raising someone's child? Isn't the child a human? Can you predict how that child would impact your life in the future? Haven't you seen cases where such children turn out to be the best for their foster parent? Purge yourself of this mentality, please. There's absolutely nothing wrong in raising another person's child.

Lol... Voice of inexperience talking..
Point 1 - You really know nothing much about women.. I'm telling telling you what works for majority, . I read about Okafor's law on NL some years ago and I didn't believe till I started seeing things at play for myself... Morals?? A girl with a high sense of morality can still have a weak legs for a man that has imprinted her. Few Nigerian girls have morals and they are really really rare. But you can Go and entangle yourself with a single mother and see for yourself.

Point 2 - I don't have much to say. Point 1 and 2 is intertwined. Go and read about how men imprint on women, I'm an administrator for a marriage counselor and I'm not talking based on hearsay, I'm speaking about what I see on a daily basis.

Point 3 - personal choice. Ciao.

samuelson06:
I don't see any big deal about the girl having a child. Being a single mom doesn't make her less of a woman.

Most guys don't do single mother because -
1. Some of them like the OP's case, their baby daddy deflowered them and in such cases, she has already been imprinted by the guy and so, Okafor's law will surely take place ie the guy will have access to her cookie whenever he wants. Most baby mamas don't have a strong will against their baby daddies. Imagine dating Pere (Tuface baby mama).... She can't resist Tuface if he comes for her. Lol...

2. Even if she can resist her baby daddy from sleeping with her, as far as she has a child with another man, you'll surely have another man interfering with your 'supposed marriage'. Most men can't cope with that.

3. Why raise another man's seed??

Guys always know that majority of ladies in Nigeria get married to those who are ready and not those they love. Know this and know peace.

This right here is the story of most married people and how problems in marriage begin.

The other guy may end up with the girl finally because OP isn't ready but she doesn't really love him. She may secretly resent him because he wasn't really her preferred choice. Later, she'll start denying him sex and other wahala they cause.

I'm sorry OP but I see that union between her and the other guy a done deal. Start detaching emotions from her so that you won't be hurt when it finally happens.

Same thing happened to me, I was with her for two years. When the other guy started coming to the house, she was hiding it from me while mounting pressure on me to come with my people. Since I wasn't ready and she was refusing to let me go, I just broke up with her in my mind and moved on. All those - I'll fight for you, please don't leave me... I'll kill myself if you marry someone else.. Blah blah blah.. She got married to the other guy last month. I had to block her number last week because I don't need a married woman always checking up on me.

The annoying thing is that our girls will see threads like this and still be opening legs. Ladies.. Can't you people go on strike??

Sonnobax15:
Which kind mumu talk be this now? . It'd be better if everyone involved is exposed,so that they'd know what they have been doing behind the scenes ain't good.

Oga Park well.. You support her tagging all the woman's family and friends to know what's happening and bring shame and disgrace to them.? You think they'll be the only one to see the post?? Because of what two adults are doing?? Either she sends a message to the husband directly or she face her community fiancé..

Why do you want to tag her husband and family all over Facebook and all ?? The woman owes you no fidelity or commitment. Your fiancé is the one that couldn't keep it in his pants. He's an adult that should be responsible for his actions. You women are your own enemies.

PS:- Even if you must do anything to get back to the woman, send them to her husband directly because he's also a victim here.

SurvivorM:
So what about you, are you a virgin?
If you really like this girl, you will get over it, it's not like she cheated on you na

This is to say you don't understand male nature as simple as we are.

Men hate to share their ladies directly or indirectly. Who will want to marry a lady that someone you believe to be below you has tasted? Your cousin sef.... That stays in a guy's head as long as you can imagine.

You ladies should learn how to close your legs. Sex with the wrong person can cause you to lose out on a great guy... Ah come in peace ✌️

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Grass isn't always greener on the other side.

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I don't support crime but if there was a bigger and lesser sin, Na this local yahoo boys dy vex me pass. So lazy eh,... The work wia you put for this format neva reach you to go find format for Yankee peeps heeediots.....

By the time this Administration is done with Nigerians, they'll understand why we were shouting in 2015.

I stood as a an APO VP in 2019 watching people cast votes for another 4 years of hunger and suffering.

Like no be juju be that??

That number 1 is where so many people miss it. The fear of God in a person will eliminate so many premium tears..

DropsMic:
You won't know how horrible Nigerians are until you become an employer of labour...

Check this out.. A colleague of mine employed someone to manage his company's Twitter account and after working for some days he changed the email address and username to the Twitter account and stopped coming to work.. when my colleague contacted him this was the reply he got.

I don't understand.. This is Nigeria, tell your colleague to arrest the guy nau.... It's very simple.

Obob Naija na really cruise. But why you no go dy talk like this when you dy jand?? Omoh for here sardine na 500 abeg leave us. Ekuke don nack craze comot from the dog after the whole canned food and noodles.

And they will keep on doing this in as much as it's from the North.

Even if you want to date, don't date girls - date women but fresh Bobby no go make them hear word. This is the result. Lol..

Michelle55:
What's wrong with one having a child? At least, he or she is wise enough not to opt for abortion.

Dear single dad/mom, don't let anyone make you feel like you don't deserve the good things of life just because you choose to bring forth an offspring. The man/woman who would love and accept you as a total package will waltz into your life when the right time comes.

NOTE: YOU ARE A COMPLETE AND TOTAL PACKAGE REGARDLESS OF WHAT THE SOCIETY THINKS. DON'T SELL YOURSELF SHORT.

You ladies keep telling yourself this but in reality, it's worse than you think. This can only work for a single father + single mum, single father + single mum but rarely works for single man + single mum.

Men control the key to commitment and when you decide to have a baby with a man who didn't want to marry you or who you dumped, more than half of men wouldn't want that luggage that single mums comes with. Let's not even talk about Okafor's law that can make most baby daddies sleep with their baby mama anytime they want.

It's not hating, it's reality. You ladies have to understand that the more body count you have and being a baby mama reduces your dating and marriage market value. Peace ✌️

Foolish child

Proves the theory that love is not enough in marriage, money is very important.

The money we spend on entertainment in this country is one of the reasons we're backward.

Never heard Glo funding a research or giving grants to scholars.

Who neva see the video??

Wow. These same government will clamp down on yahoo boys meanwhile the money all yahoo boys have stolen in past, present and future can never be equal to what politicians move on daily basis. It's the reason I laugh at people saying yahoo boys are the problem of the country.

That we'll see a new Nigeria in our generation is only a but a blurred vision right now.