Michelle55:
What's wrong with one having a child? At least, he or she is wise enough not to opt for abortion.

Dear single dad/mom, don't let anyone make you feel like you don't deserve the good things of life just because you choose to bring forth an offspring. The man/woman who would love and accept you as a total package will waltz into your life when the right time comes.

NOTE: YOU ARE A COMPLETE AND TOTAL PACKAGE REGARDLESS OF WHAT THE SOCIETY THINKS. DON'T SELL YOURSELF SHORT.

You ladies keep telling yourself this but in reality, it's worse than you think. This can only work for a single father + single mum, single father + single mum but rarely works for single man + single mum.

Men control the key to commitment and when you decide to have a baby with a man who didn't want to marry you or who you dumped, more than half of men wouldn't want that luggage that single mums comes with. Let's not even talk about Okafor's law that can make most baby daddies sleep with their baby mama anytime they want.

It's not hating, it's reality. You ladies have to understand that the more body count you have and being a baby mama reduces your dating and marriage market value. Peace ✌️

Foolish child

Proves the theory that love is not enough in marriage, money is very important.

The money we spend on entertainment in this country is one of the reasons we're backward.

Never heard Glo funding a research or giving grants to scholars.

Who neva see the video??

Wow. These same government will clamp down on yahoo boys meanwhile the money all yahoo boys have stolen in past, present and future can never be equal to what politicians move on daily basis. It's the reason I laugh at people saying yahoo boys are the problem of the country.

That we'll see a new Nigeria in our generation is only a but a blurred vision right now.

Same here. Should be general.

What even works in this country??

TsaTrinity:
This by force government don't know people have money making activities. You can't just give a deadline without the registration process being challenging. What happend to registering on the internet? Must we continue to do analogue registration?

Lol.. Very backward country reflecting the backward ways of the leaders.

This flyover made me stay about 2hrs on one spot the last time I was in PH.

PuZZyNegro:


Maybe the title of the thread didn't do justice to the content.

But the point is, it is easier for a man to have sex with his girlfriend's friend than it is for a single guy to sex the same girl.

Girls like unnecessary competition and like going for what other girls have instead of looking for their own.

That's why there are lots of fashion trends among women than men. A woman will buy the same exact skirt and color that her friend bought.

Married men get girls quicker than single guys. It's a fact.

The question is, why do girls prefer a man that's engaged with another woman already? Where did they get this mindset?

That you had to explain the obvious shows how petty those ladies above are. I'm quite sure they understood what the topic was about but they just decided to whine.

A lady gets married and she shoves it in the face of her single friends, compare the rate of how single ladies sleep with married men and the rate of how single guys sleep with married women. The one wia trip me pass is when they'll catch their man cheating, they'll launch attacks on their fellow lady instead of holding the man they said their vows with accountable.

Pastors declare over marriages that 'no strange woman will scatter their homes' but I've never heard any declaration against strange men. Lol...

@bolded, it's their nature. A lady can want you not because she really likes you but because her friends and other women desire you and she wants to feel superior than them all. Females are really interesting species to study.

I don't know but all I know is that Ecobank is the most useless bank in Nigeria.

Lol. Keep celebrating youths meanwhile the real and worse yahoo men are scamming a full country. Know your enemy..

I don't know about boyfriend and girlfriend relationship.

But the moment the relationship is heading for marriage via engagement or has entered marriage already, the two partners body are meant to be exclusive.

There's no excuse for cheating - cheating stems from indiscipline and lack of respect for one's partner.

debbydams:
we ladies behave like mumu because of love..hia men don't worth it..I hop all ladies can place some value on themselves to avoid all this rubbish..

Keep hoping because that's the best you can do. I know that you know that your gender will never learn.

But don't relent, spread the word

Get sense brother. Na the one she no like she dy show you, the sacred ones she enjoys, she no go tell you, she'll keep them to replace you. Love with your head and not your heart so that when she proves us right that ladies are not loyal, you won't have to worry about your heart.

mmadu4:
i was robbed by police yesterday evening . they stopped me and pointed gun at me then 2 of them entered my car and ask me to drive to a UBA atm outlet i emptied my account for them . im grateful to be alive sha . Nigeria is not safe again my people . leave this shyt hole if you have a way .

Sorry Bro.. This is one of the reasons why one should never keep have an ATM card to the account that holds the bulk of your money. If you can get justice, please do.

The rich rules over the poor, and the borrower is slave of the lender. Hmmmm..

Omoh.. For una wia get children, God will help you guys provide. For us wia no get children, we still dy observe market prices.


In my area, schools are springing up like shops, so the best is to get a strategic school that teaches well according to your pocket.

baylord101:
Employee doesn't contribute anything to salary delay, they surely have no option because of the society factors, speaking against inhumane salary delay will make one a scape goat because there are thousand out there looking for job, so one tend to manage the present & hope for a better one.

It's this same mentality that has kept us from getting what is right. Omoh I no send o. I walked out of a 50k job last two months because of the insults and stress from the job, my boss (a Governor's brother) withheld our salaries at will and was always threatening me that I don't know how many people want my job. Because he is a millionaire.. Lol..

The person that I brought on the job resigned the next month, the person that they brought to replace me stayed for two weeks and left, till now no-one has replaced me. The drivers, all of us got angry and left, it was a mass exodus. I learnt he has stopped withholding salaries and had started treating workers right after that incident.

The moment we stop taking nonsense in this country, we start moving forward.

SMARTMOTORS:
The strength of the masses lies on the awareness of the masses. This happened one time in a company where I use to work, we locked up the company and protested... Within 20mins our salary was disbursed.

Exactly. We suffer and smile in this country too much I swear. Just look at what we achieved through ENDSARS.

When we start rightfully demanding our rights in this country, we start moving forward. But the wahala is that once they give us peanuts, we start rejoicing meanwhile what is rightfully yours is as big as a full loaf of bread.

If the tables were turned and it was a lady, she would have ditched you sharp sharp for a better offer. If you really want to marry, I'll advise you to go for someone who is ready.

Worthy point to note is that the 1 year of NYSC and another year of 'sisi' is for her to explore other guys freely. Just don't come back to NL and cry about women when she gave you heads up.

fattprince:

Go and watch the movie you will cry more. They literally destroyed his life. To think the rape accusation didn't come from the girl directly. In the movie the girl saw the boy and she even initiated the sex. But as they were kissing they heard the janitors footsteps (a lady) so the guy left the girl hanging which upset the girl. The janitor saw the guy's back as he left. The girl then went the opposite direction which was where the Janitor was coming from. The janitor asked the girl what she was doing there she said nothing then the janitor asked if he was touching her inappropriately? The girl then answered yes because she was upset and trying to cover her shame. The janitor then told her to report it to the police.

What's the name of the movie please?

It happens. A true Christian that knows the meaning of Christianity can easily achieve that with the help of the Holy Spirit and intentional discipline.

AutoChick4U:
D window I view my reality is different from yours.

Alright. Whatever rocks your boat.

AutoChick4U:
Personally I'd forgive him as long as he's repentant and he ain't divorcing anyone after any childbirth. As he feels strong enough to marry 2 women, let it be so at least I am the first wife and perhaps the cries of a baby will open up my womb as well. Thats just me though, I don't like stress.

Are you really serious with this your comment? Do you really have this low self-esteem??

I mean I'm a guy but mentality like yours has kept women subjugated for all ages. Maybe you'll do the same thing like the husband if given the chance. But if not, have some respect for yourself lady. You deserve the best if you treat people right.

Are we still a democratic nation??

In Nigeria, we are so laden with our problems that we most likely don't have time to notice other people's problems. A lot of people are going through depression and are dying silently but you won't know until you pay attention.

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Federalcase:
I'm glad you didn't mention that you are lacking food...Your parents are adults so it's going to be very hard to change that stinginess in them but What you can do is to groom yourself to be a better person (self improvement). Please forget about gambling and focus more on your career. One advantage of having a rich parents is that your career is definitely secured after you graduate . Trust me your parents will do anything for you to have a good job. Most parents want their children to be the best version of themselves so your future is secure you should be happy.. forget all these worldly stuff, they won't take your anywhere. You think your dad use iphone before he became successful?. If gadgets is very important in your line of career then you should get one of your top academic staff in your faculty to talk your parents, they will surely listen and comply..... You Can get all the clothes and gadgets you love when you starting earning from your career.

You know these kind of advice don't apply to children of nowadays?

See, the guy has already gone into sport betting. If he was a lady, you would start to wonder why she's doing runs even though she has rich parents.

I don't think it's bad to give your child money for upkeep.

tutudesz:
Na everything we dey use take make film So your guy Baba Ijesha in the film will be a good guy

As in the way people reason eh, even if it was a trap, the Ijesha guy fell for it. See the way he was sucking finger as if it was stick sweet. Mumu people that can't control their organ.