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You may be beyond human help but God can pull you out. That, I am certain. You are crying out for help. Direct that cry toward God and He will rescue you.

Offpoint1:
It's not "sacrificial" if there's something attached to it.

Depends on what you think connecting to the spirit realm is. You apparently feel "illuminated" Answer yourself honestly, illuminated by what? That should do it.

Offpoint1:
Lol, you won't understand those references. They are way too higher for normal people.

Exams last for the period of 1-3 hours, you can't attribute the success of it to the few hours you wrote it. Alot of preparation has been done behind.

I actually understand where this is coming from. Very very dangerous, I dare say. It's an elevated point of emptiness where you can neither love nor hate. You feel like you've achieved some sort of equilibrium, a point where you are above human "touch". Whether they hate or love you, you're indifferent. The problem though is that this is the exact opposite of balance. It's a tipped scale. Love is sacrificial, it should take out of you.

Offpoint1:
"Loving" someone because of their attitude shouldn't be considered as "LOVE" there's a lot of things the human world don't understand hence the imbalances you see.
There are millions of broken marriages both from strong Christians and Muslims home, because humans love for reasons. Until you master the act of 'not to love or hate anyone, accept and see every human as human that imbalances can never be balance.

If you love someone because he/she is a good person, then that's not love, it won't stand the test of time cause change is constant.

Love gives birth to hatred, to eradicate hatred totally... You need to eliminate love and accept human as human.
Everyone you hate today are people you once "loved"

You won't understand my kind of person.

Yet again, you're missing something. From what you just said, the people you mentioned (including Jesus) went into isolation WHENEVER they want to connect to the spirit world. But that's just not true! Jesus, for example, only separated Himself TO BE ALONE with God for a while. It does not by any chance mean He needed to connect with God so He went into isolation. No. Let me illustrate, do you realize what it meant to feed a thousand men with five loaves of bread? You don't do that without connecting to the spirit realm, yet Jesus did just that in the midst of five thousand men sitting around Him. He didn't need to isolate Himself to look up to heaven, raise the bowl of bread and fish towards the sky, and gave thanks for the miraculous to happen. Isolating yourself in a lonely mountain or your bedroom won't give you any more connection to the spirit world than you would in a rowdy danfo. It's just that the privacy of your bedroom or that lonely mountain comes with less distraction- a me-time. How else was the devil able to connect to somebody in a crowd and tell the person to stab or shoot random people? If you say you've moved past the stage of satanic manipulation, I'm very happy for you.

Offpoint1:
You misunderstood the context I mentioned Jesus in.
I never said those I mentioned were isolated, I wasn't talking about their personalities. I was talking about spiritualism, WHENEVER they want to connect to the spirit world they went into
isolation. I wasn't talking about their personality.

I've moved passed the stage of "Satanic" manipulation.

Jesus left his disciples but not perpetually. He always came back to them. Jesus is a crowd puller, a crowd feeder. You're really misguided to even pull Jesus into this. Jesus is the exact opposite of isolation. He has many brethren, a big family, He loves communication. He chose followers and told them to go get more followers. If you're not feeling depressed or isolated in your type of situation, then listen to me, you're even experiencing an advanced psychological condition. Isolation is a powerful tool, alright, except its a powerful tool in the hands of satan. That's why I said in my earlier comment that its a thin line between the line you're walking and sociopathy. In isolation is where the devil starts whispering to you. You don't need that. Before they destroy you, they first of all separate you from everyone. They first of all bring you to where you can't hear or see others and no one can hear you scream. I speaking both in symbolism and literally now. People surround you but you know you're alone. None can "reach" you or figure out what you're passing through. That's the symbolism to no one can hear you scream. You're calling out for help but it's like the effort is worthless; pointless to even try to explain to anybody. Yes, everybody needs a me-time now and again to recharge, but a chronic isolation such as the one you described is both spiritually, emotionally, and physically unhealthy. Do something about it, Please.

Offpoint1:
Depress? Naaa! I've mastered the act of dealing with life problems since I was 11, nothing on earth can make me depress. No pleasure, nor pain, nor rejection.

Isolation is a powerful tool to unleash spirituality, the more isolated you are the less human you become and the more spirit you become. It's a key to spirit realm. More powerful than prayers, chants and incantations.

If you can trace some historical spiritual books, most communications with the spirit realms took place in isolated places.
Take a clue from the Bible for references.
Abraham communicate with God in isolated places
Moses as you know always left for the mountains
Jesus always left his disciples behind into isolation when he wants to communicate with God.

Let me not derail my thread

She's already depressed and alone even if she didn't all but spill it out. And it's not as easy as just "talk to people", no, not for people like this guy or lady. Do you think he or she hasn't been trying to "talk to people?" The problem is she or he can't. For any tangible change to occur, underlying issues have to be first addressed.

qtguru:
You will be depressed and isolated if you keep this up, no cap , talk to people esp family

You're a diagnosed introvert. Quote me if I am wrong but you didn't just suddenly become that way. Maybe you can pinpoint how and when the process was triggered, maybe you don't even know. Not all introverts are sociopaths, though, although it's a thin line, really. I'll bet you have other emotional issues that are the actual fountain of these "symptoms".

Offpoint1:
I honestly hate making calls, I hardly call ANYONE, in fact the last I spoke with my mom was 6 months ago... Is worse with my siblings and relatives. I can go a year or more without calling them.

I don't pick any call I didn't expect, neither do I return missed calls.

I hate sending people wishes, be it on social media, text or physical.
All my social media handles are in ghost mode, except my business WhatsApp.

I hardly reply messages on my personal WhatsApp line.

Although I get really busy most times, but I don't
think it's an excuse enough. I've tried changing, but it isn't working.

It seems the only place I reply to people is on Nairaland, I've never clicked a "Like button" on the internet before... I have phobia for it.

How can I adjust? I spend 99.99% of my free time Alone in a quiet place soul traveling to universe.

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csckid:
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Olyb:

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Transmitting funds to Nigeria has been very difficult for me and my US-based employer. I wonder if I can just open a Skrill wallet and tell my employer to send the money there. Problem is, I won't be able to cash or remit the funds from the wallet into a Nigeria bank account. So, I wonder if there are legit traders that can safely buy the funds in the Skrill wallet. Please let me pick your brain.

You must be Dr Phil's older brother.

SpruceMediaNG:
The problem is your psyche,mental outlook on life, perceptions, perspectives and too much noise in your head.

To tackle this to it's root needs overhaul in your outlook,views,beliefs, perspectives,perceptions and assumptions


You're creating problems that don't exist in your mind. Declutter your soul and purge yourself of yourself.

I want to do book business but I don't know the right place to buy a wide variety of great books at knockoff prices. It can't be Ojuelegba, right? I know there has to be a place where they buy all those books and resell for as low as 500 naira. Any suggestion?

And when it's time to cash the bitcoin, I won't get it in foreign currency. I doubt this will even work these days.

Crimpsy:
Open a bitcoin wallet address and send to them.

Either open with LUNO or QUIDAX

I'll check it out.

Ogharaboy:
Use remitly and thank me later. A reference number will be sent to you, to pick up your cash from the bank stated.

nifemi25:
Oga tell the person to use western union. Na dollar them go even give you without stress.

Do note that if the transfer is made into my domiciliary account, I'll still be able to withdraw in dollars. One of the senders is a company while the other is an individual. I'll see if the company is willing to make the payment to me via western union. Finally, I'm not Oga. You can call me madam instead.

Hello, Nairalanders. I know it seems I'm talking about money a lot these days. But who can blame me? This is one forum where I always get answers. I once posted about the inability to send money to the US from Nigeria via platforms like worldremit and transferwise. Now, it seems the wahala is the inability to receive money transfers from the US. Please people, what is going on? Two separate people in the US have told me they couldn't make transfers to my account successfully. One tried to use Transferwise, while the other tried to use Worldremit. I know it has something to do with the current CBN policy about withdrawing dollars in the country. But my bank account the money should be sent to is a domiciliary savings account so I didn't expect there should be a problem. Didn't they say we will be able to withdraw from our domiciliary account? Please advice.

Thanks. This is a very good idea. Unfortunately, the receiver is rather strict on how they structure their payment system. Anything debit or credit cards are restricted to their US and Canada customers. I think you're right about the small wire transfer amount. I'm sure even your bank will decline to transfer $150 from your personal account to a business account in the US. The thing just tire me.

DelTel:
This is not true with all banks, I still transferred from my personal bank account to Copart USA on Friday.



Perhaps the amount is too small though (I am not sure).

Can you get the foreign company to split the $150 in two for you, so you can use your MasterCard and/or Visa bank card to pay online (knowing $100 limit per month per card).

Thanks. This is a very good idea. Unfortunately, the receiver is rather strict on how they structure their payment system. Anything debit or credit cards are restricted to their US and Canada customers.

DelTel:
This is not true with all banks, I still transferred from my personal bank account to Copart USA on Friday.



Perhaps the amount is too small though (I am not sure).

Can you get the foreign company to split the $150 in two for you, so you can use your MasterCard and/or Visa bank card to pay online (knowing $100 limit per month per card).

Well, you won't understand why. Bitcoin is the future? When that time comes. Not today. And for your info. I have a bitcoin wallet already.

Thesole:
not every WTF.. let them upgrade, Btc is the future currency. u are taking this payment so personal, anyway enjoy the stress

Remember Kalu is not the governor. He is a senator representing a community. Did a Borno State senator build those schools in the pictures you posted?

Arrewa:
Make una continue celebrating midiocrity!

Despite the insecurity in Borno.. Borno state government is busy building ultra modern schools!!

Not every business uses bitcoin payment. Besides, if I need to, I can pretty much handle that one myself. Nothing difficult there.

Thesole:
see Miss OP, all these is long story, you can wire them the money asap. Beside 150$ is too small for the case of wire transfer. Buy bitcoin let the person you are paying open bitcoin wallet too. Wire payment in bitcoin if they not ready let them forget the money . That's all case close..even the people making payments From abroad to nigeria uses bitcoin payment method
I can help you out on how to make bitcoin payment

TransferWise still works. Received money with it just recently. You just can't send from here, that's the problem.

Naviystiles:
well not anymore via worldremit

Why not? You should be able to receive direct wire transfers to your bank account in Nigeria.

Naviystiles:
fucking C.b.n new policy.. i can receive direct wire to my bank account from us no more. am still finding a way to sort this

That should work but I don't know how we can go about that.

Latini02:
Oh too small. Most platforms starts from $500 and above. Alternatively, what of if i use my GTB dollar business account to do it for you, will you be okay with that?

Sorry

EXOUSIAng:
You weren't very clear bout that initially

Thanks for your response. I did go to my bank today and they told me I can't make international wire transfers from a personal bank account to a business account abroad. I guess that's another bottleneck.

DelTel:
1. From the bolded, it shows your question/point is ambiguous.
2. Just so you know, those platforms you mentioned are not fully licensed by CBN hence they might not be able to provide such service.
3. Furthermore, all Nigeria commercial banks offer online FX wire transfers (if that's your concern).

On a final note, always ensure to put out your statement, points and/or enquiries clearly.

Ok

ojun50:
Go to wine shops

About $150

Latini02:
Some platform do allow depending on the amount involved. How much is involved? Let's start from there.

Of course they do. But My point is you can't make online transfers without using your bank directly. I'm talking about forex platforms like transferwise.com and worldremit.com.

DelTel:
All commercial banks do wire transfer from Nigeria to any country in the world.

Tried using TransferWise, WorldRemit and the others. No show.

seunoj:
Used to be restricted but it's open now based on the new fx regulations

My point is you can't make online transfers without using your bank directly. I'm talking about forex platforms like transferwise.com and worldremit.com.

EXOUSIAng:
What bank are you using.
Standard Chartered allows any currency