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pocohantas:
There is nothing toxic about telling girls to be LOGICAL in their choice of partners.

1) Love is not all that matters.
2) Responsibility and financial stability are not mutually exclusive.

Nothing to say your sisters made the best choice. They probably worked with what they had. If they saw a financially stable man that adores them, they would have gone for it and you would be shouting "MY IN-LAW" when he visits.

Go face your poor in-laws and leave me alone.

Your sisters and mothers are always happily married. Lmao!!

See that disdainful attitude? Of course, you should be left ALONE. As long as you don't spread your aloneness to others

pocohantas:
Oga what is your problem?
Your sisters married poor men and that suddenly made them good women? Maybe that is their level or what they could attract and I am happy they are happy. There are financially stable men and they need love too. There is nothing to say only poor men are responsible and caring. It is only on NL I read that nonsense.

Please enjoy your poor brother in-laws and allow me breef.

This isn't about my sisters, you dragged them into it. It's about you. You're now happy for them?

You're spreading toxic advice to young girls, advice that has not worked out for you and is destroying relationships and lives. You should learn to accept that you're wrong when called out for it, instead of jumping into abusive defense.

pocohantas:
Like your sisters are doing...

Laughing won't heal or console you. Change your toxic mindset.
I'm sure it's impossible for you to comprehend that some things matter more in this life than money

pocohantas:
Let your sisters enjoy their responsible broke men. I am happy for them and happy for myself too.

Self consolation

pocohantas:
Push your unmaterialistic younger sister to marry these responsible poor men. When she is pregnant, her and her caring responsible poor husband can come to NL for us to donate money for diapers. Since all financially stable men are irresponsible. #Spits

Funny how you couldn't land any of those responsible financially stable men yourself all these years.

My sisters are married to responsible men. They may not be rich but they don't beg for food, and they're happy with their partners. Can't say the same for you and your minions.

Where has your mindset gotten you? All the money in the world and no one around you to enjoy it with. Keep destroying young girls with your toxicity.

pocohantas:
When you find a rich woman, please marry and stop crying in my mentions. I didn't read past the first paragraph though.

Thanks

That's all right.

Just so you know you're one of those girls spreading negative and toxic advice all over the Internet, and poisoning the minds of younger girls nowadays with your insatiable materialistc and money-centered mindset that destroys relationships and marriages, and pushes young girls to abandone responsible, caring partners in the quest for money and the flashy life.

pocohantas:
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The comment I was waiting for. A lot to teach young girls that goes beyond cook, clean and tight pumpum.

Wanted to ask this on a dead thread, but...

Was running a search on nairaland for "financial analyst" and stumbled on this:

REFERENCE https://www.nairaland.com/6446688/kwin-more#100482458

Would this your position also apply when a man abandones a girl he's been dating for years and who loved him, because he found a richer woman who would give him a better life and fly him abroad?

Just asking so that it doesn't sound like some things are only right and okay when done by women (she's looking out for herself and her future), but when done by a man it becomes evil and wicked.

Also, are you herein asserting that relationships and marriages are just economic opportunities for women and, as long as its about money, everyone and anyone is totally dispensable? Which means she can freely dump her current husband when she meets someone richer who'd giver her a far better life and opportunities?

How do you think that experience would influence that young man's opinion of women for the rest of his life and how he'd probably treat them when he happenes to gain wealth tomorrow?

Do you see how you all leave a trail of emotionally broken and damaged men in your wake who always haunt you, some of whom end up becoming the rich men that you're all chasing after who have all been through same experiences in their struggling years, and you wonder why they don't give you the love, respect, loyalty and faithfulness you want?

I personally blame him for still going ahead to marry her.

Wow

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