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fabulous85:
nice advise, you are blessed with wisdom.

Thanks..

shadowgwalker:
...and where In my statement did you see me claim any of that #smh
is your smartphone not smart enough to browse the web for information? or is it your head that is not smart enough to know you have a smartphone?

For yah mind, You sabi talk

martyns303:
Thanks for your comment, I have no doubt about her love for me, and even if there where I have no regrets. She had been there for me during my uni days since I got in before her and she had really helped me build 2 successful career. So am not being stupid, I owe her a lot.

About the moving, am moving out in 2-3 months, we just need to find a way to really cut down on expenses

Be careful tho

SeverusSnape:
Okay, Nice one. Study hard...

Sure thingy

SeverusSnape:
Okay, I'm doing great, Thank you. Hope you're good too, I reckon you don't reside here in Nigeria, From the architectural design of the building behind you.

Yeah.. uk..

martyns303:
I wanted to open a topic to discuss similar issue but since there is one already, I would like to talk about it here.

OP please don't be angry, let me use this opportunity.

Am in this situation right now. My GF of 4yrs is in her final year, she stays off campus and pays N150,000 annually. I paid for the place and help set it up as in furnitures to electronics, she practically have everything.

I also have my own place, a self contain, very big and spacious, am also paying N150,000 annually, I am a graduate, I don't have a job yet but I make do on the side, am currently on a course and I know once am done a job is not far fetched.

The problem now is my rents had expired, mine expires 3 months before hers, instead of cdigging out N300,000 to pay for both of us, one of us had to move in with the other as we have other things that will require expenses. She can't move in with me because my place is far from her school and will require around N500 everyday for transport, so I decided to move in with her. It wasn't an easy move, beside overcoming the social thoughts from people like the OP, we also invited a lot of bills doing the actual moving, as she had to move her stuffs to her family home, while I moved my stuffs into her place.

We both know it is inappropriate to be living together when we are not married, but we just had to make do. This is her second semester in final and I am most likely to leave the country in 3 months too.

Now here is where I need advice from matured NLs, by matured I mean people who actually take responsibility for themselves and maybe others. I am in my late 20's and I intend marrying this beautiful woman of mine, but a few things have changed on our financial expenses since I moved in. Prior me moving in, I give her around N7,000 per week, I know the next question will be what of her parents, she was raised by a single parent (mom) dad is late and the mom really tried. Now I am spending close to N3500 per day, I asked her how we can cut down on expenses, and we came up with a plan, we bought all the food items we need, filled the gas and every corner where money may go in, then I gave her N30,000 as our feeding for the month, but am still making expenses that are fast draining my pocket.

She is very disciplined, I think we just both don't know how to manage ourselves yet, I would really appreciate advice from married and single NLs who have been in my shoes to please help me with advice, because I believe we may soon be having financial issues, and once there are financial issues in a relationship other things may follow.

Realty? Seriously that's sweet.if ya claim story suffice close to truth.almost every girl dream to have a caring and responsible guy as you're.. but here's the question mark? How sure are yu that she loves you?.. believe me we ladies can fake love for years if the cake got lots of icing 1st you're getting irresponsible by attaching ya finance much on her than giving her way to cut down her expenses . ain't giving any advice, just weighing out option.. find a way to get yasef back, having seperate apartment ,then save for the dry days

SeverusSnape:
Exactly Amigo, Those girls are like... (let me just keep quiet).
BTW, It's been long I saw you on here, you look gorgeous...@ your profile picture.

Yeah.. bn busy.. how re yu

SeverusSnape:
Exactly!... It happens, even in my school, When it's Sunday, you'll see them dancing vigorously and falling under "the anointing".

I pity their future husbands, Because most of them, their boyfriends won't marry them after everything.

no man iz willing to buy wha he can borrow

shadowgwalker:
you guys are just talking behind because Nigerians never go on research... you think satan or lucifer are the only demons in hell?they are not even number 1 to 5 in their ranks, they are two differen personalities if you don't know.

Satan is a Hebrew/Aramaic
word that means "deceiver". The name Lucifer identifies
him as a fallen angel

my own is that I dunno why some men of God make teachings difficult for members. also, I don't know why you guys don't attend bible studies and ask questions.

Loolz.. You attend bible studies and ask questions huh? Then you knew devil and demons rank.. are yu an advocate ?

chidekings:
i thought as much,thats why i asked,how can be not the same.

Ah be yusef high.. which pastor go yarn that dust

the crucifix

..the so called pastor is high..

emusmith:
Never been better...work and all. Hope school work is going smoothly?

Sure

emusmith:
Wow, it's OK.

Your presence of course, was missed.

Eyah.. so What's up wv yhu

emusmith:
Happy easter to you too, fwend... The way and manner you left us...me...

Left?.. I never..bn busy with school ish

emusmith:
So, you're still on NL?

Yeah.. i am.. how re yu friend.. happy easter

jaybee3:
Wish you same

aii

jaybee3:
Gotcha but whatever stick will surely become inconsequential as he adds numbers to the age

Enough of it.. happy Easter

jaybee3:
Na only temporary happiness the long dick sef go give you na

Shebi happiness is usually derived from combination of things that work in tandem

And who's talking abh joystick or sad stick..dont be a dick mahn.. am only talking abh havin a man of my choice.. nt wha I'll be regretn every min ..

kay29000:
Why? Give your reasons. Are fat guys now a hard "mathematical" equation?

yeah.. their state of equilibrium doesn't suit ma fulcrum

jaybee3:
Fat guy fat wallet nko?

Wetyn consine me with wallet.. na wallet go gmme happiness?

ebonflex:
If that's you in your profile, you're not what I'd call "slim" so why discriminate?

Like you heard me discriminate.. its a choice.. and don't push it far to prejudice

Fat guy? Its a no no...

You call that love...? Mahn you're dead already.. its obvious she do love yu.. but again,she's obsessed with yu practically .. that's if ya tale is genuine..

DarkAngel86:
I tried that once and the guy whispers "You wanna be a single mum"

Loolz.. you sef go just adjust... Wu wan die meet wu go kill am...

tit:
they should cancel the hole kano state elections!
too much rigging

sukkot:
hey better late than never lol. happy vals day to you too. trust all is well with you

:oloolz