ideykwum:
Women used to be the moral barometer of the home! Ever heard of the term "Christian mothers"? Our culture expects more from the female gender as a mother and true custodian of the home! A man can sit with his legs wide apart, but should a woman do so when wearing skirts?? That's our society, like it or lump it!

Nicklaus:
Except that it mostly fails them. And they end up where they don't want. In a world where people love and care about each other it's only fair to make them understand where they are getting it wrong so the rule of "its their business" doesn't apply in such cases. I M SURE AS HELL YOU CAN'T ADVICE YOUR DAUGHTER IN THIS MANNER, why make the impression

raficki87:
are u a virgin and if married did u enter ur husbands house a virgin and without kissing other guys

Takim107:
oh really, thinking aloud. why not hit your your head on the wall, it will sound out more loudly.

sinizia:
Why am I not surprised by the hypocrisy of the males cheering the OP blaming only the females and as usual, making the males saints?

OP, I'd have taking you serious if you'd blamed the men too, but since your angst is on the female gender alone, I render your complaint a total bullshít!!.

For your info, who told you the Westerners weren't those we learnt co-habitation from? What have Angelina Jolie and Brad Pitt been doing all these years under ONE ROOF together? Lemme guess, conducting night vigils? Is it not the same Westerners where a girl or boy will leave his or her parents' house at 16-17 years of age to live with their lovers? Has your hypocrisy rendered you biased? As a male, your biasness gives me the creeps!!


For your info, there's no difference between you that your GF visits occasionally and you guys make love 3-4 times in a week before she leaves after every visit, and that guy that lives with his GF permanently. The truth is at the end of her visits, you both will fúck. So your analogy holds no water. If you want to marry a prostìtute tomorrow, you must pay her bride price no matter the mileage of her pússy. You fúck your GF whether she stays with you permanently or not and you castigate those that make love more frequently because of co-habiting? You are a joker. if you are serious, then you'd be against all manner of séx outside marriage. A boy and a girl both co-habit and you take out your inconsequential frustration on the girl alone? Nice judgment, Mr. Biased!!

Take note that I hate co-habiting with passion, and can only co-habit when I'm officially married, but I won't watch you be a hypocrite. Cheers.

Edusouls:
u re a very spoilt and nastry girl, u dont have any home training at all, sorry for the unfortunate man that will end up with disaster woman like, his home is sorry...

swaggzo:





IF MY DAUGHTER IS OF AGE I WILL NOT EVEN ATTEMPT TO MAKE DECISIONS FOR HER.

SHE'LL HAVE HER LIFE TO LIVE, I'LL BE JUST THERE TO GUILD HER THROUGH. . AND JUST PLAY MY PART.

I WILL NOT TELL HER TO NOT HAVE A BOYFRIEND OR TO NOT FCCK WHO SHE LIKES. .

I'LL LET HER DO HER THING HER WAY, AS A GROWN UP.

aflyingbird:
Who's the dirty harlot between me and you? Someone like me who's waiting for marriage and has not gone near a man or someone like you who has babies out of wedlock and terminates them because in your own words, they're "unplanned assignments?".

raficki87:
but u fccck her,she cooks for u, she's there for you emotionally,sometimes washes for u,sucks ur dckk. My question is this does she lose her value when u don't marry her(shtt happens) and what is ur point exactly (if ur non cohabiting gf does the above) of u supporting the op

Toktee:
these are the calibre of guys that patronised these campus asshawo,dnt gve hm your attentiong

sinizia:
Why am I not surprised by the hypocrisy of the males cheering the OP blaming only the females and as usual, making the males saints?

OP, I'd have taking you serious if you'd blamed the men too, but since your angst is on the female gender alone, I render your complaint a total bullshít!!.

For your info, who told you the Westerners weren't those we learnt co-habitation from? What have Angelina Jolie and Brad Pitt been doing all these years under ONE ROOF together? Lemme guess, conducting night vigils? Is it not the same Westerners where a girl or boy will leave his or her parents' house at 16-17 years of age to live with their lovers? Has your hypocrisy rendered you biased? As a male, your biasness gives me the creeps!!


For your info, there's no difference between you that your GF visits occasionally and you guys make love 3-4 times in a week before she leaves after every visit, and that guy that lives with his GF permanently. The truth is at the end of her visits, you both will fúck. So your analogy holds no water. If you want to marry a prostìtute tomorrow, you must pay her bride price no matter the mileage of her pússy. You fúck your GF whether she stays with you permanently or not and you castigate those that make love more frequently because of co-habiting? You are a joker. if you are serious, then you'd be against all manner of séx outside marriage. A boy and a girl both co-habit and you take out your inconsequential frustration on the girl alone? Nice judgment, Mr. Biased!!

Take note that I hate co-habiting with passion, and can only co-habit when I'm officially married, but I won't watch you be a hypocrite. Cheers.

teemahteemah:
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Who does that?

Edusouls:
bring ur sister let me bleep nahh and give u the video,then let me see how happy u will be with me...tell ur selfs the truth...

Dexema:

Not evry1 has coconut skull like u

Nwachiizu:


Bad father

fabulous85:
nice advise, you are blessed with wisdom.

Gracyel:

Oh really??.....and why is that?

quivah:

why not remove the wood in your eye before rushing to remove the wool in someone else's eye? .. you are here judging as if you are any better(if not worse) than those who cohabit.. were you not the 'holy sister' who wanted to abort her pregnancy even when having a 1yr old kid out of wedlock?! yeah its you!

@op you've said the truth but you sound pained, you would have passed a better message if you were neutral and treated both parties.. I'm beginning to wonder if you are here to intentionally bash those girls that do it while relieving the dudes!..
the worse part of cohabitation is 'performing widely duties' gosh!! God forbids! . however if you really wanna pass a message, why not touch all possible areas? there are guys and girls who feck on daily basis as if their lives depend on it(even tho they are not cohabiting).. the only thing I grab in your message is: cohabitation is wrong.. while sex(so far the girl and guy are nor staying together) is no big deal..

also I'd like to point out that there are exceptional cases to cohabitation.. there are some cases with genuine reasons(like financial meltdown etc) , also even if this is hard to believe, but there are cases of cohabitation without the involvement of s.ex.. fact!

and mind you, those girls whose bride price needed not to be paid will keep getting married every Saturday to men, i mean good men). that's the bitter truth!! men are still the ones on the loosing side.. its better you start condemning both parties... no double standards! na una go still carry the damaged goods to meet una mama

SeverusSnape:

She does none of the above for me.

swaggzo:



HONEY.. THIS FCCK THREAD DOESN'T DESERVE THIS MUCH TYPING. THE LOCALS COMMENTING HERE CANNOT EVEN READ THE ENGLISH LANGUAGE CORRECTLY.

swaggzo:

cococandy:
as I have little regard for men who do such too.

Btw you just contradicted yourself. You said it doesn't diminish a woman's value yet went ahead to give me all the reasons why it diminishes her value.

Takim107:
lol. .that coconut head keeps you thinking aloud.

ideykwum:
Your venom and vitriolic remarks showed a bit too much passion for a lady not versed in co-habiting! To whom much is given, much is expected! Women should be nourished, respected and supported. On the other hand, expectations for women are higher!!

Males are no saints, I'd rather shake hands with a man that has done 50 women, than a woman that has done 50 men. I didn't make these conventions, society did!

sinizia:
Why am I not surprised by the hypocrisy of the males cheering the OP blaming only the females and as usual, making the males saints?

OP, I'd have taking you serious if you'd blamed the men too, but since your angst is on the female gender alone, I render your complaint a total bullshít!!.

For your info, who told you the Westerners weren't those we learnt co-habitation from? What have Angelina Jolie and Brad Pitt been doing all these years under ONE ROOF together? Lemme guess, conducting night vigils? Is it not the same Westerners where a girl or boy will leave his or her parents' house at 16-17 years of age to live with their lovers? Has your hypocrisy rendered you biased? As a male, your biasness gives me the creeps!!

The Key difference here is that the discussion is about students, most likekly under grad students coohabiting, for matured professionals they can do what ever they want, but for students, dont you think otherwise?. Then as for allocation of blame, who so ever moves into anothers apartment is to blame. A girl moving her things to a boys apartment to coohabit as students is to blame. It she said NO, no one would make her. same goes for a due, but in most cases its girls that move in.. ITs just lack of value and self esteem.
For your info, there's no difference between you that your GF visits occasionally and you guys make love 3-4 times in a week before she leaves after every visit, and that guy that lives with his GF permanently. The truth is at the end of her visits, you both will fúck. So your analogy holds no water. If you want to marry a prostìtute tomorrow, you must pay her bride price no matter the mileage of her pússy. You fúck your GF whether she stays with you permanently or not and you castigate those that make love more frequently because of co-habiting? You are a joker. if you are serious, then you'd be against all manner of séx outside marriage. A boy and a girl both co-habit and you take out your inconsequential frustration on the girl alone? Nice judgment, Mr. Biased!!

Take note that I hate co-habiting with passion, and can only co-habit when I'm officially married, but I won't watch you be a hypocrite. Cheers.

elomez:




Those days are gone where the lady will be told you can't do this but the guy can. Was it not both of them that agreed to it in the first place? All I know is that both parties involved in this act are to be condemned and not just the ladies. There is no justification there that the guys can cohabit and the ladies can't. Hypocrisy will finish Nigerian men.

shadowgwalker:
I've not also gone near a woman yet because I'm still a virgin, your name describes you.
you are only making noise, nah your type dey distribute CUNTinent pass.