This seems to be a common problem in the USA too, people are not always comfortable with another person that is so opposite from them.  This is why I prefer a man with similar interests, likes, education and other areas in their life as to mine.  Alot of people can't accept that someone they don't normally interact with would truly be intrested in them on a personal level.  Now some people can hang but most can't.  First and foremost YOU must know what you want and then go about your business getting it.  No matter your status know yourself.

As I have gotten older I prefer to go without makeup but I do make sure my face is clean whenever I venture out of my house. Most men are not always looking at your face anyway. lol lol

I really think you should at least listen to what your sister has to say, then you both should confront the boyfriend together, please get all the facts before dumping your sister. All the best to you.

Thank you again for that kind response.

Nike4luv, was that response to me? If so, thank you. You're a cute young lady.

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Sagittarius woman here. We rule!!!!

It seems to me she married a man before even knowing what she really wanted. Most women that are "content" don't usually get married like that. Just my $.02[color=#770077][/color]

Plain and simple this woman didn't fully disclose everything to this man before marrying him and this is being evil and selfish, now he isn't sure about what he wants to do about it. She got with this man on false pretenses. This is why people can't have decent marriages everyone seems to be playing silly immature games and then they wonder why their spouses cheat on their rusty behinds.

Thank you so much for the warm welcome.

I may be having a relationship with a Nigerian man soon and just wanted some information, thoughts of others and did a search in dogpile.com for Nigerian men and African American women and came across the web site.  I like it already.   

I just wanted to say hello, this is my first time posting and my first time ever seeing Nairaland.com, I plan on being here on a regular basis.  Check out my picture whenever you get a chance so you'll know whom you're writing too.[/color]

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