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"It costs too much to have a sidechick!"



Having a committed relationship or marriage does not kill the tendencies to be attracted to other women. Sometimes. you may even find yourself having to deal with more of these attractions after you have tied the knot.



But if you must keep your side of the bargain and remain faithful to your partner, you'll need to say no to both the people who may offer the opportunity to cheat and also say no to yourself, no matter how many times you have to do it!

Prince Donnell [@PrinceDonnell_] is an American Twitter user whose recent tweets captured the heart and soul of this subject.

"It costs too much to have a sidechick!" one of his emphatic tweets reads."I remind myself of that statement every single day to remain disciplined in my marriage and in my business," he adds.

He then proceeds to break it down into five solid reasons why having a side chick is not something you should be considering.

Side chicks? It's not really all about pleasure as you may think. [Credit: Bustle]Side chicks? It's not really all about pleasure as you may think. [Credit: Bustle]Side chicks? It's not really all about pleasure as you may think. [Credit: Bustle]
1. You lose your family

The risk of having all the family you care about yanked away is one thing to think about every time you are tempted to go astray, Donnell opines.

"Not only would you lose your girlfriend/wife, but if you had kids, you would lose them too. I personally don’t believe there’s an orgasm great enough to trade for my family. Because family and legacy is all we have in this world. NOT WORTH IT!.

2. You lose money

Cheating is a very expensive habit. Keeping a side chick costs quite a lot.

"A side chick requires maintenance. Every dollar you spend on her when it comes to food, gifts, drinks, gas and etc.. you’re subtracting that from the investments that can be made in your business and the food that goes into your families mouths. NOT WORTH IT!" Donnell says in another tweet.

3. You're wasting your time

"Believe it or not, your time is money. How much are you worth an hour? Let’s say $50 an hour. If you spend an hour per day with your side chick $50 x 7 hours = $350 dollars That’s a bad investment if she can’t help you double it. NOT WORTH IT!"

You lose respect [The root]You lose respect [The root]You lose respect [The root]
4. You lose respect

"These rappers make it look cool to jump from one chick to the next but if you look around, there’s not one person who would agree that it’s respectful to disrespect your girl/wife and family for a side piece. Even your side piece don’t believe that!"

5. You lose everything

"You lost your girl/wife. You lost your family. You lost money in so many different avenues. You’ll eventually lose your side piece because she’s just gonna end up being side piece for someone else. You lose respect. IT’S NOT WORTH IT KING."

"When you have a Queen in your life, the best investment you can make is putting your time and energy into her. When you have a powerful woman, you have a powerful life because she’s a multiplier of EVERYTHING that YOU bring to the table."

Everything you have ever worked for, ever built is at stake when you decide to play this game.

It really isn't worth it

https://www.crystalmag.com.ng/2019/01/five-big-reason-you-cant-afford-side.html
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The photos of a man’s really dirty and repulsive house were shared online and some tried to defend him by saying he is just being a typical bachelor.

But most argued that he is simply dirty and not all bachelors live that way. In the photos, trash, half-eaten foods and more can be seen lying around.


https://www.crystalmag.com.ng/2019/01/bachelorhood-or-dirtiness.html

A Twitter user has been slammed after she made a statement that seemed rather annoying and despicable to quite a number of people.
@OhemaaGlory had people displeased after she took to her page to share a photo of herself and say any guy who doesn’t have a car, should not come near her.
@OhemaaGlory wrote,
If u don’t own a car I will not even let you smell the ends of my fingernails.

https://www.crystalmag.com.ng/2019/01/tweeps-users-drag-lady-for-saying.html

A vlogger hanged himself after he was found “sobbing uncontrollably” because he misplaced his iPhone at an Arctic Monkeys party last year, an inquest heard.

Archie Day, 20, of Bishop Stortford, Herts in England, took his own life on October 5 at Peel Park halls of residence at Salford University in Greater Manchester.



A coroner said the undergraduate was “extremely upset” about losing his phone before he hanged himself. His family believe he did not intend to kill himself – blaming excessive drinking at the club night for contributing to him ”not thinking rationally.”

Archie, a keen Instagram vlogger and broadcast journalism student, had a history of depression and anxiety but told his family it had become less of an issue, an inquest heard.



In a statement, his flatmate Kane Markham said Archie’s friends were aware of his mental health battles but didn’t realise the severity. His Instagram page featured a post that read “Should have died already” and he listened to songs about depression, claimed Kane.

Kane said Archie had drunk “at least four drinks of Stella” that night, as well as sipping other people’s drinks. A 2.30am he messaged his friends asking where they were and they jokingly told him they had returned home.

When the group got into a cab they couldn’t find Archie and later found him “sobbing uncontrollably” in his digs with a security guard. When Kane returned from lectures that day Archie’s door was still locked and he left his friend alone.

The phone was later found 220 miles away in Romford, Essex, but it was never recovered.

Tests showed Archie had 225 milligrams per 100 millilitres of blood in his system, more than twice the legal limit.

https://www.crystalmag.com.ng/2019/01/a-20-year-old-blogger-hangs-himself.html

A vlogger hanged himself after he was found “sobbing uncontrollably” because he misplaced his iPhone at an Arctic Monkeys party last year, an inquest heard.

Archie Day, 20, of Bishop Stortford, Herts in England, took his own life on October 5 at Peel Park halls of residence at Salford University in Greater Manchester.



A coroner said the undergraduate was “extremely upset” about losing his phone before he hanged himself. His family believe he did not intend to kill himself – blaming excessive drinking at the club night for contributing to him ”not thinking rationally.”

Archie, a keen Instagram vlogger and broadcast journalism student, had a history of depression and anxiety but told his family it had become less of an issue, an inquest heard.



In a statement, his flatmate Kane Markham said Archie’s friends were aware of his mental health battles but didn’t realise the severity. His Instagram page featured a post that read “Should have died already” and he listened to songs about depression, claimed Kane.

Kane said Archie had drunk “at least four drinks of Stella” that night, as well as sipping other people’s drinks. A 2.30am he messaged his friends asking where they were and they jokingly told him they had returned home.

When the group got into a cab they couldn’t find Archie and later found him “sobbing uncontrollably” in his digs with a security guard. When Kane returned from lectures that day Archie’s door was still locked and he left his friend alone.

The phone was later found 220 miles away in Romford, Essex, but it was never recovered.

Tests showed Archie had 225 milligrams per 100 millilitres of blood in his system, more than twice the legal limit.

https://www.crystalmag.com.ng/2019/01/a-20-year-old-blogger-hangs-himself.html

Makeup mogul and reality TV star, Kylie Jenner, with her daughter, Stormi and her best friend, Jorydn Woods are looking good as they rock matching lemon green bikinis.
The 21-year-old shared the photos on her Instagram page with the caption,
With two of my favorite people in the world

Kylie Jenner welcomed her first child on the 1st of February in 2018 – she only announced the news later on after she had given birth. All the while during her pregnancy, no one was in the know but fans were only hinted by speculations and possible rumours.
Checkout her new photo with her ‘favourite people’ in the world below,

https://www.crystalmag.com.ng/2019/01/kylie-jenner-rocks-matching-bikinis.html

Ex BBN housemate, Beverly Osu took to the gram to dauntlessly share this photo of herself on her page on Friday and some trolls who didn’t have anything nice to say, were put in their place.


https://www.crystalmag.com.ng/2019/01/savage-response-from-beverly-osu-to.html

Adekunle Gold finally and officially opens up to marrying Simi in a not he sent out to announce the release of his new music video. The popular "Ire" singer sent out a mail to his fans saying he got engaged to Simi in 2018 and finally married her in 2019. He also confirmed that he had been dating Simi for 5 years before she finally said Yes to his marriage proposal last year #Simigold.

Earlier in 2018, I asked my girl of 5 years to be my wife. Knowing all of my imperfections and shortcomings, she said yes!
This January, before God and our family, we vowed to do this thing called life together.
To be honest, it’s easy to get lost in the limelight; so we definitely have a slightly obsessive desire for a private life that belongs to just us.
We planned on sharing a little bit of the beginning of our forever with you. Thankfully my team got kudos on our little Island with us to capture some of these moments for you.
I see all your beautiful wishes for me and mine. I want to thank you for that and hope our union bring more Magic. Here’s your first look. PROMISE.

https://www.crystalmag.com.ng/2019/01/adekunle-gold-says-hes-been-dating-simi.html

Michelle LaVaughn Robinson Obama is an American writer, lawyer, and university administrator who served as the First Lady of the United States from 2009 to 2017. She is married to the 44th U.S. President, Barack Obama, and was the first African-American First Lady.

Her husband, Barack Obama posted an old throwback picture of then and wished his wife a "Happy Birthday"

"I knew it way back then and I’m absolutely convinced of it today — you’re one of a kind, @MichelleObama. Happy Birthday!" he wrote.
The couple has been married since 1992 after they first met in the late 1980s when she was working at a Chicago law firm and he was a summer associate at the firm.
They are close to becoming empty-nesters, as older daughter Malia, 20, is a student at Harvard, while younger daughter Sasha, 17, is a senior in high school.
Michelle opened up about their relationship in her memoir, "Becoming," talking about how they have struggles like many couples and seek counseling when they need it. She also revealed the sweet way he proposed to her in 1991.


https://www.crystalmag.com.ng/2019/01/barack-obama-wishes-his-wife-michelle.html

Robyn Rihanna Fenty Sues her Dad for Selling her Fenty Brand name

Robyn Rihanna Fenty, a Barbadian singer, songwriter, and actress sues her Dad, Ronald Fenty to the court for selling her Brand name to start a business for himself.
The Law suit was reported to TMZ.

TMZ WROTE:
Rihanna is going after her own father in court for using her Fenty brand and his relationship to her to launch a business for himself … according to new court docs.
In a new lawsuit — obtained by TMZ — Rihanna claims her father, Ronald Fenty, recently started a talent development company in 2017 called Fenty Entertainment. The problem … Rihanna has already trademarked “Fenty” to use in a number of biz ventures, including her well-known Fenty Beauty line. She claims he’s profiting off the reputation she’s created with Fenty.
In the docs, Rihanna says her father and a business partner falsely advertised themselves as her reps to solicit millions of dollars, including trying to book her for 15 shows in Latin America in December 2017 for $15 mil … all without her authorization.
Rihanna claims later her dad even unsuccessfully tried to file a trademark for “Fenty” to use with resort boutique hotels.
She says she’s sent multiple cease and desist letters to her father, ordering him to stop capitalizing off of her Fenty trademarks, but says he’s ignored them and continued to make money off of Fenty Entertainment.
She’s asking a judge to place an injunction on her dad using the name Fenty … and, of course, for damages.

https://www.crystalmag.com.ng/2019/01/robyn-rihanna-fenty-sues-her-dad-for.html

Chris Pratt and Katherine Schwarzenegger are Engaged
American Actor, Christopher Michael Pratt has just been recently enganged to Katerine Schwarzenegger.
The "Guardians of the Galaxy" star made the announcement on his Instagram account early Monday.
"Sweet Katherine, so happy you said yes!" the 39-year-old actor wrote. "I'm thrilled to be marrying you. Proud to live boldly in faith with you. Here we go!"

Chris Pratt and his ex wife Anna Faris
Pratt and his ex-wife, actress Anna Faris, announced their separation in 2017 after eight years of marriage.
Faris congratulated the newly engaged couple on Pratt's Instagram post, writing "I'm so happy for you both!"
Pratt and Faris have one son together.


Pratt and Schwarzenegger have been quietly dating for several months and just recently made their first appearance on social media as a couple.
On Schwarzenegger's 29th birthday last month, Pratt wrote in an Instagram post that he was "thrilled" to be with the author.
"Your smile lights up the room. I've cherished our time together," he wrote.
Schwarzenegger is the daughter of Arnold Schwarzenegger and Maria Shriver.

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