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Business / Re: ➜ ➜ ➜Currency/E-currency Market Deals 2020 ➜ ➜ ➜ by maysjohnston: 5:06pm On Oct 04, 2023
I need $600 in my US bank account. If you can offer me this service, kindly quote with your number for easy reach.
Family / Re: Why Do Men Like To Sleep With Their House Helps? by maysjohnston: 4:24pm On Oct 04, 2023
BreconHills:


While accepting that it is completely wrong for men yo sleep with househelps from a moral as well as religious point of view - here are a few ideas. These ideas are based on consensual sex and not rape or undue influence.

1. Men who want to be taken care of and respected have increased affinity with their househelps. This affinity may or may not lead to consensual sex especially where the wive is a career woman and the man's work means he has flexible work hours - this simple biology and human dynamics.

2. Many women underestimate their househelps and do not realize that these are in cases fully grown women who may also have sexual desires.

3. Wives may not be attentive to the dressing of their househelps. Those hand me downs and wrapper in the evening may look local and uncouth to the wife but they may be sexy to a man.

4. Uneducated women use a lot more non verbal communication, eyes, body movements, gestures to make up for language deficiencies - these may be regarded by men as sexual cues which they respond to. If your househelp always puts her hand on her head while talking to your husband - understand what this does to her anatomy. It could be harmless, it could subconscious or conscious signalling.

5. At the heart of many men is a desire for primal and " basic instinct" encounters which don't need dinner dates or "staging" - just raw basic instinct encounters based on hormones and dopamine. It happens. For some Wives such desires are disrespectful.

In conclusion, men need to understand the cycle of attraction and cut it out before it is too late. Wives need to also be self aware and stop regarding sex as a prize that has to be earned or won. If all this is done, then pray because human nature is flawed.

This piece does not cover men who are sexual perverts, rapists, abusers or sexually incontinent. It also does not cover women who are careless, lackadaisical or with low sex drives - these are a seperate set of accidents waiting to happen. My contribution is focused on unintended and unplanned accidents.


You just nailed it
Religion / Re: Pastor Dead As Dunamis Church Collapses In Benue by maysjohnston: 9:04am On Oct 04, 2023
God rest his soul
Car Talk / Re: My Boss Converted His Toyota Corolla To Electric by maysjohnston: 2:38pm On Sep 30, 2023
Nice one. How much did he spent to convert it and also what are the disadvantages of driving an Electric car here in Nigeria. I would love to hear from you cos I'm planning on converting mine too.
Politics / Re: I Bought 1kg Of Cooking Gas For 1,000 Naira Today. by maysjohnston: 2:34pm On Sep 30, 2023
Got mine at N850/KG few days ago.

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Politics / Re: Indefinite Strike: Radio, Television, Others To Shut Down by maysjohnston: 2:33pm On Sep 30, 2023
Can this Strike actually hold? Cos some workers have not been paid.

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Politics / Re: I’ll Break All Bottlenecks — Investors Will Make Profit In Nigeria - Tinubu by maysjohnston: 3:39pm On Sep 06, 2023
Well, I won't oppose this because I'm praying for the good of my country. May it come to pass on Jesus name..
Politics / Re: SSG George Akume Falls Sick, Flown To Germany - Sahara Reporters by maysjohnston: 3:38pm On Sep 06, 2023
Wishing him a quick recovery
Politics / Re: G20: President Tinubu Begins Meeting With Indian Investor by maysjohnston: 3:37pm On Sep 06, 2023
All the people involved in this case directly are not present at the tribunal
Politics / Re: Natasha Akpoti Wins At The Tribunal, Declared Winner Of Kogi Senatorial Election by maysjohnston: 3:37pm On Sep 06, 2023
One down, one more to go
Politics / Re: $460,000 Forfeiture: Tinubu Qualified To Contest, It Was A Civil Matter - PEPT by maysjohnston: 3:37pm On Sep 06, 2023
Just tell us he won the case let's rest

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