₦airaland Forum

Poco won't like this post. Power tussle with men is their daily diet.

No submission. Submission to feminist is seen as control instead of being seen as loyalty to the leadership of man.

Negroid001:
A Yoruba guy like me. Retired tho

Yoruba demons Girls dey fear una well well o when it comes to relationships.

Una Sabi break girls hearts gan. Girls no dey ever like gentle men. Na those dominant, unapologetic hard ones they like falling in love with.

franchasofficia:
Let's not pretend, a lot of men are truly terrible beings, they treat other people's daughters and sisters bad and with recklessness, this can never be denied.


But then, there are more good men than bad men but the few bad men seem to be the preferred choice of most women, which is why the few bad men keep on painting the image of the majority of good men bad.


In summary, as a man, make a personal resolve to treat everyone; male or female kindly just the same way you would want others to treat you, your daughter and sisters, this has been my golden rule in life and my life's core principle.


Even if you want to have temporary fun with a girl or lady, don't lie to her, tell her you are not ready for committed long term relationship, believe me, it will only cost you more money and you will live a peaceful life devoid of unnecessary drama, curses and enmity.

You won't blame some of these men. Handful of these ladies only understand the language of money. Give me, give me and give me. That's why some men use and dump them.

They commercialise relationships. For instance, if any time your girlfriend visits you always cost you money, that's a relationship built on money.

The guy might just be in the relationship for the genital meet and greet purpose. That's why when such a guy is ready to settle down, he will weigh his options, dump that current lady and go for a more homely lady that is less materialistic.

It's the decision of the man. Many ladies are extra terrestrial burdens. That's why you hear words like after all the years I have spent with you, you went and marry another girl.

It's because she is not bringing any value to the man's life.

[quote author=Bahamas95 post=139372121]Why not? Women fall in love.


When a woman truly loves you, you don't need a prophet or babalawo to confirm it. [/quote

Not in this present Nigeria. If you talk about other African countries. To an extent. But in Nigeria, 80% of Nigerian girls only fall in love with money.

Bendeco02:
You lack understanding

Don't quote me again please

Shut up Nairaland bot. You want to gaslight men to build relationships on money; a recipe for future broken relationships and we say No.

Men mumu don do.

By the way, I just banged my master's degree in Geh Geh University of wisdom and understanding with distinction.

I don't want to see your stewpid posts on why men should spend on women. You won't like yourself if I see such posts from you in the future.

Bendeco02:
You are obviously the bots here because you lack comprehension.

Just open mouth waah!

Why would you date someone without a job and expect her not to be demanding money from you?

If you like keep going for broke girls instead of working class women.

Even your fellow guy can demand money from you if he is jobless.

Oh, she should leave you and be demanding from other random guys ?

Try to read and comprehend and stop showing your ignorance.

Your biological sisters that love you, don't they demand money from you?

How do you cope in school?

Try reason before commenting. Nobody is telling you to lavish your wealth on women but saying woman who love you can't demand money from you makes no sense.

Shut your gutter mouth up. It's people like you that encourage men to fool themselves around women and invest all their lives savings building relationships with money.

Go and tell your brothers to waste their money on jobless ladies in the guise of being in a relationship.

Bendeco02:
This is ignorant statement.

Even your sisters demands money from you.

The Bleep up is dating a jobless girl. Where do you expect her to get money if not you?

Every girl will demand money from you especially when she have no job but the difference is the rate of which she keep asking or over billing.

Love doesn't stop women from demanding money. Just that a girl that love you can't leave you because you fail to give her.

All these bots commenting on Nairaland is getting out of hands.

Did you just say where do you expect her to get money if not you?

Don't tell me you smoked something. Cuz this your bolded is the reason why some foolish men invest so much in valueless relationships than investing in themselves.

Pls go and pick up a diploma form in Geh Geh University of wisdom and understanding and stop this backwardness this year.

With all the preachings, you are still here advising men to invest in liabilities. Relationship is not in any way a poverty alleviation program.

Any lady that cannot take care of her essentials should not think of being in any relationship. She should focus on improving herself and be able to take care of her personal needs before looking for a man.

This will be a dream come through for Nigeria if they can actualise this.

Stable electricity in Nigeria is a must.

ruggedtimi:
Before I agree to take a woman on a date, it’s usually when I don’t have strong sexual expectations. If I see her more as a friend or someone I want to take seriously as a potential wife, then I can openly share how much I’m willing to spend on the outing. However, if my main intention is only to pursue sex, and we can’t meet privately the first time, I simply move on.

But the guy na jonsing guy sha....u no dey there when she dey make orders?

It's all those guys that always form gentle men na. What do you expect. Forming gentle man for a Nigerian girl is foolishness. It's the other guy that even gingered him. If not, he should have paid for the foods.

I don't rate ladies any more. Many of them have nothing going on in their lives than to jump from one guy to another. Except the few ones that are digitally and technologically inclined.

What do you do for a living?

Nigerian girl: I am a cook. I am a chef. I am a nail tech. I sell men's wears.

You will never see them do any other thing order then those stuffs.

You will hardly see a Nigerian lady that will tell you "I am a data analyst". "I am an engineer". "I a project manager". "I am a project coordinator".

It's always I am a cook. I am a chef. I sell men's wears. All those I am a cook. I am a nail tech are just cover up. They are jobless. They just say all that to cover up their joblessness.

The real ladies are the ones that will tell you I am an engineer. I am an architect. I am a data analyst. I am a programmer etc. Simply say, careers ladies. Those are the real deals and go to type of ladies any man should go for when finding a date. Not all those ones that use I am a chef, I sell men's wears to cover up for their promiscuous lifestyle (hook up).

Starz825:
He na too dey rate all these girls..she's obviously not a classic girl, hence doesn't deserve this kind of treat

Na confined space i go carry you go...we dey chop finish..we dey nak..no time


The babe no even clean...see her face ...see her back....no shame ...order like 3 plates of full food package with the intention of telling the waiters to pack up for take home..dey disgrace her family...what a hopeless glutton.


I go carry you go eatery go chop free food..you go come dey go your house...unto say wetin...we be family??


Nice one sha...and I also like the fact that the camera was hidden...

She go shock say she don blow online

I think the the guy that made the video is putting on all those meta camera eye glasses. Not so many girls will be able to know it's a camera.

It's only a smart and digitally inclined lady that will be able to detect it.

Stephen0mozzy:
🙌🏾😁🙌🏾

Wetin man go do, good aura for good aura.

I want to quickly draw your attention to this part of your text:

And I quote: And I don't even bother to check her phone, but if I say lemme see, she nor get excuse.

In the text above, you stated that you don't bother to check her phone. That implies that you haven't done it before since you started dating her.

Then the second part, you stated: but if I say lemme see, she nor get excuse.

Your texts seem like you haven't for once checked her phone, but she does check yours.

In essence, you ain't speaking from experience. Have you ever checked her phone or not? Because this portion of your text that says: but if I say lemme see, she nor get excuse, means you are still planning to do it but haven't gotten the balls to do it.

I am open to be corrected.

Nastrademus:
This is wrong on all sides, not all fulanis are bandits
Then on a second thought the video he did, was supposed to be for his fellow fulanis to see how the world view them as terrorist so they can change their ways, but instead he's claiming victim

The passengers were afraid of being kid napped, not even the aspect of being a terrorist.

They feel, he is an informant that came to join them to travel that will give information to the rest waiting for them at the front.

God will help this country.

This generation has no doubt bastardised marriage.

You poured spit on our faces. It's all right.

Sergio102:
Firman is okay too

I can't say for sure for the other two

Oh, okay. Thanks.

Sergio102:
Felicity, SMS and Restar solar

This three among others set the bar

But I have been hearing of Deye, Firman and Growatt.

Sergio102:
I'm into solar my chief

Just in case anyone inquires

What's the best Lithium ion phosphate battery LiFePO4 in the market at the moment in terms of brand?

Julibet:
Was in Umuahia for the last two weeks. I saw light there more than I've seen in Asaba for 3 months. Meanwhile Delta is far richer than Abia.

You guys need to hold Sheriff accountable. He should try and solve the state power issue now that the license for states to generate their own power had been granted.

Houseofglam7:
The enemies of a man are members of his own household.

Very true. People no longer place value on humans' lives

Holluwhakemmy:
The heart of man is evil indeed. May the soul of pa Chinedu continue to rest in perfect peace. Amen

A man's enemies are members of his own family or close friends.

Auskyd:
VDM.

Don't like the guy, but e dey try make we no lie.

Why don't you like VDM? Did he snatch your babe?

Please feel free.

Lithiumite:
You are free to go live wherever you want....Nigeria won't miss you.....be gone!!

As a Nigerian, you struggle for the basic necessities of life that your government is supposed to provide.

Are you not ashamed to be a Nigerian? You struggle for light, struggle for good water, ply terrible roads on a daily basis and sweat your life out just for being a Nigerian.

What a shame. If Nigeria is not ruled by corrupt leaders, we should be doing well like South Africa and Rwanda in terms of good infrastructures.

You and your corrupt leaders should burry your heads in shame and hold your leaders accountable for the decay and corrupt system.

Lithiumite:
It's funny how this people who get oppurtuned to leave the shores of this country are always quick to lampoon their country as they revel in the glory and grandeur of their host western country..... their condescending attitude is disgusting mainly because they are apparently ignorantly oblivious of the hideous fact that these countries they are always praising for their development and organisation are in fact the ones responsible fir the underdevelopment and economic mess sub Saharan African countries are going through.......someone messed up your father's house ,you move over to his house which is better and then you start abusing your own house destroyed by your oppressor.

Nigeria is a failed country. Since 1960 till date, we are still battling with epileptic power supply. Is that the country one should be proud of? What a shame!

If you make yourself to be lonely, you will be lonely. You don't need a woman to be happy as a man.

The purpose of wanting to have a woman shouldn't be to be happy. Don't build your happiness around women.

Find self fulfilment in yourself as a man. It's just your mind playing tricks on you that you need a woman to be happy.

You will be surprised that some other men ain't feeling the same.

You're feeling that way because you are desperate to have a woman.

Remove that desperation and allow things take their own course. Don't try forcing things.

Pure madness if you ask me!

angelboy01:
It could be a case of an evil madam sending assassins to kpai a side chick..

You have a good point.

I have said it before now that you cannot cheat nature.

There is a way you will keep committing evil and luck will run out of you. That's nature working against you as an evil person.

I keep preaching. Stay away from evil and wickedness. Keep your hands clean.

One day monkey will go to the market and won't return o.

Let those who have ears hear.

This is what we call back to sender. As a person, make sure you stay away from committing evil against other humans, so that your own evil won't end up turning against you one day. Keep your hands and heart clean.

If your ways are not pure, repent now and right away before you run out of luck.

You cannot cheat nature. Read that again just in case you don't understand the sentence. You cannot cheat nature.

Cum4me:
Keep deceiving yourselve. Unless you're with a woman for steady knacking you can't stop masturbation. Until old age it's not a sin it's nature on the internet aged.

Are you speaking for all of us? Cuz the last time I checked, I haven't masturbated since September 1, 2021 and I haven't copulated with a woman since Oct 2023.

Mind you, this is a repentant OG.

A disrespectful woman is an ugly woman - Mcslize 2026.

EdenGlobalist:
Who is the chairlady then, pocohantis I guess?

Yes o. Poco is the overall chairlady. The oga kpata kpata of them all of Naiaraland branch.

cococandy:
He should marry himself

Deputy chair lady of the Association of Nigerian Feminists has spoken.