₦airaland Forum

Xionez:
Lolz.

Even the ICPC Chairman shock. Even with all the "do you know who I am", he later drop 53k for them.

Na turn by turn. Everybody go collect.

And who said he said do you know who I am? I like his kind of person. We don't show off. You can never know who we are.

Learn from him.

QuinQQ:
Am I right or am I just so right?

I guess you didn't write that with clear eyes 👀. Say no to colos please.

Afrah04:
well well, have a good time sir

You're welcome.

ShadowMarking:
Really. Ladies can be bold to that in this country?

Yes bro. True life story. Just small caring I show her, she wants it with me. I was only just being a good guy to her and she was already feeling the young man.

You know that moment when you care for a girl and she feels you will ask for sex in return but you do not? That seems so unusual to her.

We do talk about everything sex. I just kept giving her hope that I was reserving my energy for her for the right time. She should prepare for me, even though when I knew I won't do it with her.

But in the midst of all these, I was still showing her some care, love and attention.

But at a point, I cut her off so I won't end up breaking my semen retention challenge.

Once a while, I soak the sponge on a boiled hot water.

Afrah04:
so why is it that you don't want to have sex with her?

I have been on semen retention challenge. That's why.

One recently chased me about for sex. "When are we having sex? Pls invite me or come to my side if you don't want me to come to your house. Why do you care for me but haven't touched me for once?" Omo, I have to run for my dear life.

Did I just hear the gang leader had been arrested in 2019 and 2022 for same offenses, and you guys kept releasing her into the society?

Meritjoshua:
I'm already thinking of flinging her away

Don't fling her away. Use the relationship as a learning curve. But don't allow it affect your academic.

Don't be emotionally commited. The moment you start falling in love, you will be 50 steps backward. Keep your emotions in check.

Don't yield to her demands if it doesn't suit you. Be resolute. Learn how to say No to some of her demands if it won't benefit you.

That's what they call toxic or narcissistic relationship. That's an unhealthy relationship.

Goo0dHardDick:
You're hustling for a woman enjoying herself somewhere now with another guy, while waiting for you to do the needful and come and marry her?

Sometimes, some sentences seem confusing until you read it again and again before you will understand them.

When I was in the university, it happens most of the times. Not until you take your time to read a particular exam question carefully, you won't understand it, and you will give the wrong answer.

The guy meant, he is married to his hustle as an iron worker/bender, which I commend him for.

Your wife doesn't know how to economise. Women should learn how to economise during when the economy is biting so hard.

There was a lady here in Nairaland that made a pot of soup with 5k. That type of lady, you will never know if the husband has and during time when the husband doesn't have. Because she has mastered the act of living within their means.

It's not the marriage per se. It's the lady you are getting marrying to. Some women bring good luck to any man in their lives.

There are also others that bring bad luck to any man in their lives. You will not understand. Your woman has good aura.

Just treat her right as far as she is submissive. If she is angry with you, things will go wrong o. So, always be a good husband and make her happy. Let me stop here.

@Jman06

Maisiba:
it is a good test. a man should prrove that he can sustain a woman

A good man is eager to keep his woman happy and stress-free

Quite a shameless way to reason.

Lol. They sponsor them abroad for programs and they absconded and refused to come back.

This is what happens when one's country of origin fails to provide a livable atmosphere for her citizens.

However, what they did was wrong. There is an agreement before you were sent abroad. It's reasonable you return to fullfil the agreement so that if you later want to leave, you resign.

TemplarLandry:
This is great news, that self-righteous brute called vdm has to be grounded.

You're shameless. Hate, bitterness, enviness and jealousy kill faster than high blood pressure, take note.

Many of you are saying follow your instinct. Which instinct? How many of you have a functional instinct?

You think every Tom and Jerry has sharp instinct? It's a gift and not so many possess it.

For your instinct to work very well, you must stay clean for a very long time without engaging in copulation with any woman to keep your body undefiled, and you must stay away from evil deeds either by committing atrocities of any kind or engaging in things that will chase off that gift.

How many of you even dream and remember your dreams like you are watching a TV and when you wake up you still remember everything?

How many of you dream even when sleeping in the day time as far as you close your eyes, you will start dreaming. How many of you?

So you see? Sharp instinct is not something that every Tom and Jerry has.

Rapmoney:
But you dey see am as e dey go abi?

Doubting Thomas(es) will think it's Ai.

Nowayback10:
This is strange but if she wanted to infect you, She didnt have to test you first. She will just tell you she doesnt wanna use rubber.

But on the flip side, I think she was using reverse psychology on OP.

If a lady just called out of the blue and say she wants to see you without any prior discussion of her visiting you, she is definitely on a mission.

She tested OP so op won't suspect anything. Reverse psychology.

They are taking our jobs. They are taking our women.

South Africa is going to have chronic shortage of skilled workers in the next 1 year trust me.

RandDigital come and carry your people.

RandDigital:
You don't even know history but you have a loud mouth. Indians were brought to SA as indentured labour during the colonial era to work on the sugar farms.

They are taking our jobs. They are taking our women. How true are those expressions?

onehope:
Na lack of love problem not money. She married a man that was never her spec for certain benefits. Now that she has outgrown those benefits, she wants to give herself the opportunity to find her spec. I have seen women do everything within their capacity to make life easy for their husband and children. When love no dey naso woman go use one small excuse to escape. A wake up call for idiotic men who worship beauty and overlook mentality when choosing a wife!

Very correct.

PerfectStranger:
Funny how every woman believe they'll later end up with a rich partner.

That's the delusional mindset many of them have. They can't separate imagination from reality. Evidence of too much Nollywood and India films.

They always do copy and past. The same text she used to beg you, she will send it to 10 other guys.

Na their broke shaming tactic dey muse me pass. You will see a lady without skill nor any viable source of incoming broke shaming a guy for refusing to succumbs to their almajiri begging. Quite delusional species.

Harddiskng:
Sometimes it could be low intellect. For some many it is low intellect.

Whether it’s lack of interest or low intellect, it’s always best you do away with her

I agree with you on the bolded. I still believe many of them lack intellect or good communication skills. It might not really be lack of interest. But the low libido reply of some girls always kill vibe.

I met one recently that surprised me though. The girl vibe was topnotch. She was just flowing with me like we've known each other for long. I wasn't surprised though cuz she is a Libra. They are always very lively.

When she kept my message waiting, immediately she came online, the first thing she did was apologised and explained how she had been so busy with work.

That's very rare of a Nigerian girl. The difference is always clear. Career ladies are in a way different due to their exposures to work place interpersonal relationships with other workers.

Quite understandable op. But you see that scenario 1, many Nigerian girls are not that good to hold such high level of conversation.

They can hardly express themselves freely in writing. It takes a well learned lady who possesses high level of courtesy to hold such high level of free flow conversation. They are not many, especially among our Nigerian ladies.

A Nigerian girl doesn't understand that when someone asks you how are you today, courtesy deserves you ask the person in return how his or her day is going.

80% of Nigerian girls don't possess that level of wisdom because a handful of randy men are always littering their DMs with messages on social media.

It takes a well learned girl with wisdom and some levels of courtesies to hold that kind of free spirited conversation with a guy.

HacheNoire:
Some dudes already dusting their penis waiting for her on same street.

Lol. No mind her. Body go tell her. She will regret that decision trust me. The worst is that many of the men that will pipe her won't even give her anything.

Person wey don born two children, it kor be say na abroad no guy go take her serious say serious relationship; a mother of two who abandoned her marriage. She go hear whim.

I think I will fault the man on this. If the woman has already been doing 50/50 with you, that's enough. That goes a long way.

Whatever money she makes after giving her own share of the 50:50 shouldn't concern you as the man.

Some women won't even accept to do 50/50. Some will say 80/20. Others will say over their dead bodies will they do 50/50 with you.

Left for person like me, if a woman accepts to even assist with 70/30, especially when living abroad, I won't bother her over her money after providing her 30% share, cuz I am not even interested in a woman's money.

But leaving her marriage cuz of financial issues that can be resolved, is a great mistake on her part.

She should say she wants to explore with different men. I always tell ladies, the street is cruel o. Nothing is outside.

Go, test and see by yourself.

Mattswaggz:
You're the one that don't understand what we are talking about here from your response.....the talk is mainly on the possibilities of Israel facing Iran one on one so I wonder where you got all this from. .

Israel took over Iran defence airspace, carried out precise military strikes and went out without hindrance.

Is that kind country you are comparing with Iran?

99% of the missiles Iran fired didn't even get to Israel. Israel intercepted almost all. Is such a country you are comparing with Iran.

Don't make that mistake again brother.

Mattswaggz:
You're the one that don't understand what we are talking about here from your response.....the talk is mainly on the possibilities of Israel facing Iran one on one so I wonder where you got all this from. .

And I am telling you that Iran and Israel are not mates in terms of warfare.

The saving grace of Iran is the USA that is cautioning Israel not to go overboard with them.

Iran defence airspace was destroyed without them even knowing how Israel penetrated their airspace. Meaning they are vulnerable right now.

Do you know what it means for another country to penetrate another country airspace and carry out massive strikes on their important military sites? They went in and out without Iran knowing anything. And all the missiles Iran fired, 99% were intercepted.

Under rate Israel at your own peril.