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Romance › Re: There’s A Strange Trend In Nigeria Right Now by Mcslize: 10:29pm On Jan 02

Nice writeup.

The pandemic of transactional sex is becoming quite alarming in recent years.

I can remember vividly in the year 2010-2015, we hardly hear of hookup or transactional sex, even though it was in existence, the prevalence wasn't as it is today.

Women now hawk their bodies in exchange for money. They jump from one hotel to another selling their goods and services.

Some go as far as creating social media accounts to display their goods, rolling and gyrating their different assets with the motive of attracting randy men that are ready to pay for those assets.

These are ladies whose parents suffered to train through different universities. After graduation, the majority take to hookup as their preferred occupation for survival (it brings quick money).

8 out of 10 ladies you see are into one hookup or the other. That's quite alarming. They've turned Badoo, bumble and Trueflutter into social media hookup platforms.

Platform that the founders developed for the sole purpose of connecting with people around your vicinity, they've turned it to the breeding ground of prostitution.

They will even state their prices and even go as far as telling any intending swiper to go straight to the point or swipe left to unmatch them.

Males and females can no longer build genuine connections any more, as 70% of our ladies have turned everything into transactional gains.

I call on the government to put a law against hookup and prostitution to combat this profane and unholy widespread pandemic.

Let's save our girls/women even though they don't want to be saved.

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Career › Re: Which Digital Skills Are Worth Learning In 2026. by Mcslize: 2:32pm On Jan 02

Munix:
I can relate bro, so much wisdom from you. I don’t mind connecting with you man.

Not bad. What pairs do you trade?

Career › Re: Which Digital Skills Are Worth Learning In 2026. by Mcslize: 2:30pm On Jan 02

Demetrix:
Nice one.
I am also a trader too (2 years+ experience)
What strategy do you trade?

I trade purely price action. My strategy consists of market structure, support and resistance, supply and demand and liquidity.

What about yours? What strategy are you focusing on?

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Romance › Re: Why I Dumped An Orphan Girl I Was Dating Recently by Mcslize: 1:24am On Jan 02

Inspirer1:
What about a partner that you claim to love and you're comfortable with telling you "he is going through a lot and needed space" then what you can do is to leave immediately? No probe at that point to know what is the challenge he is facing, how you can help, showing care etc??

Girls dey ever get sense? Common sense is far from many of them. How many girls and women know how to boost a man up and pacify a man when a man is down? They no dey.

But I take exception for some very few.

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Romance › Re: Why I Dumped An Orphan Girl I Was Dating Recently by Mcslize: 1:16am On Jan 02

I had said it countless times that majority of the women and young ladies that are badly behaved with bad attitudes out there are majorly influenced negatively by their fellow damaged women.

It will take a lady with wisdom and common sense to detect bad influences and flee from the fellow women that are influencing her badly.

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Career › Re: Which Digital Skills Are Worth Learning In 2026. by Mcslize: 12:58am On Jan 02

Daniel058:
Very long, you know it's not a get rich quick scheme but at the end you will surly become rich . Consistency is the key 🗝️

Exactly. A lot of beginners don't get to know this one particular truth.

By March, I will clock 4 years in the industry. That's equivalent to the time required to acquire a bachelor degree in the university for some courses.

It was close to quarter 4 of last year that I ended up finding my repeatable edge after 3 years and some months of not giving up.

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Career › Re: Which Digital Skills Are Worth Learning In 2026. by Mcslize: 4:55pm On Jan 01

Daniel058:
FX, no new skill needed, Ai will dribble people a lot, by the time everybody learn how to use Ai, nobody will be working for anybody again which means many Ai users will be jobless. When it come to Forex trading,if you use Ai to create strategy that's very much profitable, brokers Will block it, then you will still go back to manual trading

Well said. I sight you brother. We gather dey here.

I want to ask. How long have you been in this industry?

Career › Re: Which Digital Skills Are Worth Learning In 2026. by Mcslize: 4:46pm On Jan 01

If I advise you on something and you take it lightly, you have yourself to blame. My advices are always on point.

I speak not from a place of canal mind but from a place of ancient wisdom, logic and sharp instinct.

If you want to learn a digital skill, try and learn project management to become a project manager.

You heard me right. Project management is the go to for you.

But if you don't like that one, then learn video editing to become a video editor and be very good at it. You will never run out of jobs.

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Family › Re: I Tried Feminism With My Husband And He Stopped Eating My Food - Nigerian Wife by Mcslize: 10:30am On Jan 01

horlakay:
On this subject matter, you can be a feminist in your workplace, but if you bring it to your home, you will enjoy the brunt. Cos to begin with, a a man of peace I won't drag anything with you, but just inform your parents and your kids that you re now the father of the house period!!! I will resign from my fatherly duties, and become extremely quiet to stupor....... Who get time for nonsense

True talk brother. Who get time to entertain shenanigans behaviours from a woman.

A handful of women are not as wise as they think they are. Few have common sense. Very few. But many are still wallowing in irredeemable ignorance and pure lack of wisdom.

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Family › Re: I Tried Feminism With My Husband And He Stopped Eating My Food - Nigerian Wife by Mcslize: 10:05am On Jan 01*

Many ladies will use their own hands to destroy their marriages by listening to and following damaged women without husbands online.

They will do you no good, instead they will corrupt your mind and you will start displaying what they taught you to your husband at home.

That will finally crash your marriage and you will end up joining the gang of damaged women without husbands.

Last last, it's still married men that will still be hanging your legs. In the end, ask yourself, who lose?

Femini$m will do you no good as a young aspiring lady who wants a happy marriage. The things they teach about in femini$m groups and ocçults are things that will destroy marriages.

They teach disobedience. They teach disloyalty. They teach their followers how to use a man. They teach how not to be submissive to a man. They teach their followers how not to respect a man. If you think that as a lady femini$m will bring good to you, you are just deceiving yourself.

In fact, modern day feminist$ teach against women submissiveness.

Common sense is not always common with some women.

Romance › Re: My Experience Dating younger girls as a guy of 33yrs old by Mcslize: 1:24pm On Dec 30, 2025

Hypnotise:
There are still some virgins 25 - 27yrs, only that they are few

Abeg if you see one, link me up with her. For a lady to still be virgin at 25-27, such a lady has lots of self discipline. But not without making sure that the Ass hole is still intact because I have heard that some do collect from behind while keeping the front intact. Such a lady isn't different from those collecting it from front.

Romance › Re: My Experience Dating younger girls as a guy of 33yrs old by Mcslize: 1:16pm On Dec 30, 2025

Sentiment apart, you have a good point brother. That liability aspect they are coming into a man's life with is something that shouldn't be overlooked.

She isn't coming with any value nor coming with even virginity, but just pure financial burden and responsibility. What will I be doing with such young women or ladies?

I once asked a girl one simple question and I quote: As a lady, what are you going to add to my life?

Lots of men are becoming more logical now than being sympathetic and sentimental about the woman they want to settle down with.

Reality will always outweigh sentiment.

Romance › Re: Am I Wrong? Is This A Red Flag? What Should I Do? by Mcslize: 6:37pm On Dec 29, 2025

SatanKeepOff:
Thanks for your contributions.

I said i am getting tired because she constantly tells me that i am stingy. someone who pays your school fees sorting fees etc?

Sorry there is this other one, she complains that i am supposed to send her money to buy food items for my house and not me going to the market to buy them myself.

Stop dating broke girls. Go for a lady that possess the spirit of gratefulness and digitally inclined.

What I mean by digitally inclined is a lady that can put her brain to good use to make legit money online. Ladies like that are resourceful, understand what it takes to earn even 1 naira and know the true value of money.

Such ladies, if you give them even 1 naira, they will thank you from now till tomorrow because they know the true value of money and will even go as far as investing in you too just as you invest in her.

For instance, ladies that trade Forex. Such ladies know how difficult it takes to perfect her trading skills and start making money from trading. They rack their brains analysing charts just to trade from Monday to Friday.

We also have ladies that create YouTube contents. It takes a lady with brain to make videos and edit them and upload for people to watch by teaching them one thing or the other. I fancy ladies like that, that put their brains to good use to make money.

They are very resourceful and grateful for every little help a man offers them.

But you see those ones that has nothing doing? They can't put their brains to good use and learn how to make money, run away from them. Reason being that, such ladies are very entitled and ungrateful. They do not know the effort one puts into making money. When you give them money, they act entitled and ungrateful.

Focus on looking for ladies that are digitally inclined who possess skills and jobs that require brain work. Those ones seem more resourceful than the idle ones. The only thing they know is looking for men that will rescue them from poverty or men they want to use as an escape route.

I am attracted to ladies that have skills and jobs that require brain work, cuz those ones will cherish every little thing you offer them cuz they know life is not easy.

I have given you my little advice based on my experience in life.

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Romance › Re: Am I Wrong? Is This A Red Flag? What Should I Do? by Mcslize: 6:09pm On Dec 29, 2025

SatanKeepOff:
Please I need advice.

I met my fiancée early 2025. We started dating and, with time, I felt she was someone I could marry. I opened up to her and also informed her mum about my intention to marry her daughter. Later, I went with my family to see her family. We all had a good meeting. I clearly stated that our visit was only for knocking on the door, not introduction, and that I would return later for proper introduction, collection of marriage list, bride price, and then fix a wedding date.

At the time we met, she was in her final year in a private university. I took over 100% of her school fees and all related academic expenses, which is quite expensive. Because of this responsibility, I had to limit other expenses.

For example:
• I didn’t buy her a birthday gift
• I didn’t give her a Christmas gift
This was because she had already informed me of a large amount needed to sort her academic papers, which I agreed to pay.

However, despite this, she now calls me stingy. She says my money is supposed to be our money. She also complains that I don’t take care of her parents and her younger sister.

This is where my concern is. I know how much I am spending on her education, and that has been my main focus. Yet, she still feels it’s not enough and keeps demanding more.

Now I’m having cold feet. I feel she is becoming too entitled to my finances, and honestly, I’m already getting tired of the relationship.

Please, I need sincere advice.
Am I wrong?
Is this a red flag?
What should I do?

In Geh Geh's voice, you will cry better cry and say had I known is the last comment of a........... No be my mouth you go hear the last word.

You are shouldering the responsibility of a lady you are yet to marry who is not yet your wife. She even want you to take up the responsibility of taking care of her family without her investing anything in the relationship?

Some men will never learn. History is about to repeat itself. Please, pick up a form and apply for undergraduate degree at Geh Geh's University.

Why I won't ask any man not to invest blindly in any woman, do it with caution and expect the worse in case things go sour in the end.

You are investing and she is not investing in you. That's where many men get it wrong. It will be very easy for her to leave the relationship once she is done milking you. Reason being that she invests nothing in you nor in the relationship.

Remember, it is the one that invests the most that will find it difficult to let go if things go sour. While the one that invests nothing, which is the lady, will find it so easy to walk away because she has nothing to lose. She didn't invest anything in you or in the relationship. This is a lost course and high risk investment.

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Crime › Re: Man Returns From Abroad For Christmas, Allegedly Killed By Childhood Friend by Mcslize: 11:28pm On Dec 28, 2025

2RightHands1Coc:
I started dreaming daily after I quit smoking. I agree with all you wrote

That's very nice.

Crime › Re: Man Returns From Abroad For Christmas, Allegedly Killed By Childhood Friend by Mcslize: 11:20pm On Dec 28, 2025

SixSeven:
I was agreeing with you but I will not say Nigerians have a wonder because of the term INTERNATIONAL PASSPORT. I have to give consideration to the use of language.

In Nigeria, if you tell someone to bring their passport, they will bring a passport photograph for you. To distinguish the travel document from a passport, we call it international passport.

This is a function of language and I will not blame Nigerians for this use. After all, when travelling you are also told to affix a passport to some documents.

In Nigeria, ‘passport’ often refers to a passport photograph. This dual meaning likely explains why the travel document is commonly called an ‘international passport. This usage reflects a common phenomenon in sociolinguistics known as semantic extension, where a word acquires additional meanings within a particular speech community. In Nigeria, the term “passport” has evolved to also mean passport photograph in everyday usage. As a result of this dual meaning, speakers often specify “international passport” to distinguish the travel document from the photograph.

In contrast, in the UK and the US, “passport” retains a single meaning the official travel document while “passport photo” remains a fixed compound phrase. This difference explains how language adapts to local communicative needs rather than reflecting incorrect usage.

Bravo brother. Nice explanation.

I don't know why people don't like meaningful posts like these.

You will see one senseless post raking in 50-100 Likes. But meaningful posts like these, nobody will press the like button.

That shows how shallow most people minds are. That's another reason why someone will start creating meaningful contents and no one will watch, but when one displays madness and foolishness on social media, you will see the person having millions of followers, Likes and views.

Foolishness, madness and display of nudity is what sell these days.

It is what it is. Once again, bravo 👏 for this detailed post.

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Crime › Re: Man Returns From Abroad For Christmas, Allegedly Killed By Childhood Friend by Mcslize: 11:00pm On Dec 28, 2025

22o62021:
I hope it's not the guy that anonymous group warned to be careful of his friend.

That he should not visit Nigeria this Christmas.

He was warned twice

Brother, please can you give me the link to the Anonymous Facebook page?

The page stops showing on my feed for a long time now, I don't know if the page was taken down.

Kindly share me the link. I love seeing their posts.

Crime › Re: Man Returns From Abroad For Christmas, Allegedly Killed By Childhood Friend by Mcslize: 10:46pm On Dec 28, 2025

Fear jealous and envious friends and people.

This is why I don't allow people into my space or life any how, especially struggling people. Majority are always desperately evil, filled with jealousy and enviness.

Take your spirituality seriously. If you are prayerful and always keep yourself pure, there is no way you won't dream about this before it happens.

Since I stopped following women (you know what I meant), there is no night I will sleep that I won't dream.

Don't let anyone deceive you. The spiritual controls the physical. If you don't dream, it means your spiritual life is dead.

Most times, you can only dream regularly if you are sexually pure.

May his soul rest in perfect peace.

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Romance › Re: Guys, Can You Marry A Lady Who Lives Alone? If Yes, Why? If No, Why Not? by Mcslize: 8:41pm On Dec 28, 2025*

Whoever underrates my post is sleeping on a swinging bicycle. I give advices not based on emotions but critical thinking.

Now here it is:

While it is not wrong to date or marry a lady that lives alone, make sure she is productive and has a meaningful work she is doing to careter for her needs.

If a lady is living alone and has no actual job she is living of to attend to her needs, run at the speed of light and never look back.

If she has no job nor any reasonable skill, it means that men are the ones funding her life.

What does that translate to? A lady that is sleeping with diverse men for survival.

If she has an actual job or a skill that is paying her bills, there is no problem if she lives alone.

The only problem comes when you know that the very lady has no single job nor any skill she is living on, instead only shake yansh on social media. Bro, do you need any naysayer to tell you What's up?

I believe any man that is reading this is not that daft as a person, are you?

So, investigate very well before you go on to commit to marrying a lady that lives alone without a job nor skill that pays the bills.

Think about that.

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Romance › Re: She Maltreats His Pet: Is This A Red Flag? by Mcslize: 8:35pm On Dec 28, 2025

The red is more than red. Please, run for your dear life.

Romance › Re: Is It Advisable To Date A Lady You Are 11years Older Than by Mcslize: 8:18am On Dec 28, 2025*

Axzobr:
She is actually 21
I have been talking to her and I am still at shock that she is just 21

The younger the better brother, so long she is an adult. No go date your aunty age mate o. Women age faster. Hope you know? And majority even lie about their age these days cuz of the belief that any lady above 30 is a red flag.

So, many do lie about their real age by reducing it. Make sure you investigate her real age to ensure she didn't reduce it. Ask of her WAEC certificate to know her actual age.

Watch this GehGeh video below, it will provide you the right answer to your dilema. Make sure you watch it to the end to get exactly what GehGeh is trying to pass across to potential men planning of dating or settling down.

If you ask me, a 21 year old lady is a full grown woman.

That's a perfect age to date as a young man even if you are 30 years old and above. As a young man in my late 30th, I will go for a lady between 20-27.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=wTdvdOQWa68&pp=ygUqR2VoZ2VoIGVoeSB5b3Ugc2hvdWlkIGRhdGUgYSBsYWR5IGFiaXZlIDMw

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Business › Re: How A Nigerian Is Defrauding Others On Crypto P2P Platform, Bybit! by Mcslize: 6:08pm On Dec 27, 2025

Dididrumz:
Why so many of You use bybit is what I don't understand for real, there's Roqqu, and there's Luno, but you guys choose ByBit because of name.

I been trading coins for a very long time, never used ByBit or Binance even though I have fully verified accounts with both of them.

Brother, I need little explanation on this Luno. Is it available to Nigerians and does it have P2P?

Business › Re: How A Nigerian Is Defrauding Others On Crypto P2P Platform, Bybit! by Mcslize: 6:02pm On Dec 27, 2025

shotkata1 before you trade on Bybit P2P, watch this YouTube video on how to avoid being scammed:

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=FC7RGPWKXj8&pp=ugUHEgVlbi1VUw%3D%3D

Politics › Re: FG Working With Social Media Companies To Block Terrorists' Accounts by Mcslize: 11:32am On Dec 26, 2025

Take them down, but you cannot track and go after them. Plain stupidity!

Romance › Re: Could It Be Love At First Sight? by Mcslize: 9:46pm On Dec 24, 2025

Charis15:
Well currently I don't have a boyfriend.
I have been celibate for over a year and I'm okay. I have every good thing of life you can think of believe me.
I have a guy in UAE pleading for me to join him but I declined because I'm not attracted to him.
I give more when I'm in a relationship.
I'm not those 2k abi 20k girls

Why do you choose to be celibate?

Romance › Re: Could It Be Love At First Sight? by Mcslize: 9:36pm On Dec 24, 2025

It's neither feelings nor love. It's an illusion and infatuation.

Romance › Re: Man Retracts Statement He Made About A Bride-To-Be by Mcslize: 4:25am On Dec 22, 2025

Mumu man. Cruise go finish una for this country. There should be life imprisonment for false accusation.

Sports › Re: Buckley Targets Anthony Joshua Over Nigeria Flag Calls Him Ungrateful Hyprocrite by Mcslize: 5:34pm On Dec 21, 2025

Quelme:
They are all talking shit about Nigeria because Nigeria is a disgraced country.

Before kor. An unrepentant third world country that battles epileptic power supply, dirty and oozing environment.

Nigeria is carrying a curse as a country and they don't want to do anything about it.

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Romance › Re: Red Flag Discovery Gone Wrong. Should I Still Continue This Relationship? by Mcslize: 9:05pm On Dec 15, 2025*

ReacherSaidNoth:
Look at all these losers justifying disloyal, unfaithful behavior because they're shitty people themselves

Don't mind them. That's why lots of them are fathering other people's children unknown to them.

Any man that advice the young man to forgive that disloyal lady is a big coward and ingràte.

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Romance › Re: Red Flag Discovery Gone Wrong. Should I Still Continue This Relationship? by Mcslize: 9:01pm On Dec 15, 2025*

Diamond098454:
Your insecurity is alarming and it's a sign of a weak man. You you you Mr tester hope you will pass when she test you in her own way?

You are not ready for marriage

See them. Always gaslighting. You ladies will never say the truth. Worse people to take advice from are Gen-Z women of this generation.

Romance › Re: Red Flag Discovery Gone Wrong. Should I Still Continue This Relationship? by Mcslize: 6:24pm On Dec 15, 2025*

3 things you should never negotiate or overlook when looking for a wife:

1. Loyalty
2. respect
3 . And peace of mind.

Just before you say I do, ensure that the lady you want to settle down with has her absolute loyalty for you.

Also, ensure that the lady has great regard and respect for you as a man.

And the last but not the least, 100% make sure that she will give you absolute peace of mind.

You see those 3 attributes, never negotiate them with any woman you want to settle down with. They are not negotiable.

As an OG, I will advise you as if I am advising my own brother. For that lady to have denied that she was never in any relationship, she has no single regard and respect for you as a man. That lady is a typical Olosho. Her loyalty for you is zero.

If you go ahead with her, know that in marriage she will still be flirting and frolicking with other men cuz she lacks zero loyalty as a woman.

She is not a virtue woman. She is a street harlot in disguise.

Remember that this is a girl that you've already made plan to marry. You've met her mother but she is still spreading her tentacles around, entertaining other men and even went as far as denying she has a man.

She lacks loyalty. Dish her and move on. Look for another lady to avoid fathering another man's child in your own house in the future if you proceed with her.

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Politics › Re: Bandits Arrested By Army Say They Got AK-47 Rifles From Kwara Govt Officials by Mcslize: 3:38pm On Dec 14, 2025

We all know that lots top Nigerian government officials are involved in the menace of kidnapping, banditry and terrorizm ravaging the whole country.

That's why Trump is coming to expose all of them to save the country.

No evil can continue forever. One day is for the thief, another day is for the owner.

Every evil that has been in existence for long will surely come to an end. If they are wise, those in government that are involved in some of these things will hide by now. But no, foolishness won't allow them cuz their time is up to be disgraced and exposed to save the country for good.

In Trump we trust. If not for Trump, Nigeria government will never do anything to save the country from the hands of these Fulani terroristz.

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