₦airaland Forum

Congrats! Two of the Banks I bank with made it. This one no be Cho Cho Cho. Show workings.

2mch:
You better ghost your mum like she ghosts you. Tell her you are trying to take care of yourself and build your future. Never reward wicked and selfish people. Let her and her husband hustle for their kids. Remind her of the days of your hustle when she ran away! Tell her the help you are giving her is so she will not suffer. Ensure you give her the bare minimum and give your grandma more. But make sure all your needs are met first and you have savings. Don’t overstretch yourself for anybody that did nothing for you!

There is this bond children have for their mothers whether they are bad or not, they will still see the need to take care of them. This is especially to mothers.

As for fathers, the children won't give a fvck especially if he neglected them and failed to provide fatherly parental care when growing up.

Children always have soft spots for their mothers than their fathers.

Please, I am not a Nigerian. I don't know my nationality. I fell from heaven.

Nigeria is a zoo where animals of different forms that appear to be humans dwell and perpetrate different types of evils.

saphiere:
I will not do it.
Men are not the price.
Can't she be like Genevieve Nnaji

Town cryer how you dey.

ReekyMass:
Is this Man not a Proper Simp?
How do you eat your cake and still have it back?
This man deserves some Hot Sllapps.
Does this man not have a Family to advise him?

Is this what most ladies call an intentional/Solutionary man?

Is he a matured man, according to today's Nigerian ladies?

They call him a gentle man. When ladies say they need a gentle man, this is what they mean. It means they need a mumu man that will take all their bullshits and still beg them to spend his hard money on them. Something like baby please naaa, please chop my money na.

What type of man do you want?

Girls: I need a gentle man = mumu man I can cheat on and he won't have the balls to walk away.

God help ladies.

Look at the man very well, he doesn't seem happy.

Don't let anybody deceive you o. A lot of things happen spiritually.

Too many powers and forces surround the earth. Some they specialise in causing evils, while others they use theirs to do good. That's why you need to hold on to God's power cuz all other powers bow to God Almighty even though they are still powerful.

So just before you mumu yourself and keep roaming in ignorance that there are no powers or forces, borrow some sense and learn more about spirituality. Maybe just maybe you might learn something new.

temitope66:
Imagine turning a single mother in your early 20's.

They full everywhere. Small small girls. How can they know how to keep a man when they follow people like that lady online giving them only wrong advices and not how to be a good wife.

These are the foolish women I am talking about. The zombies will listen to this one and scatter their marriages due to lack of personal common sense.

These are the types of women that are destroying many homes with their anti-men advices.

Once she succeeds in making you leave your marriage due to you lacking sense as a lady, you will start opening legs for married men in different hotels.

Listen to people like these at your own peril as a married lady and destroy your marriage.

Be wise!

TheFreshVanilla:
You’re still forcing a comparison that doesn’t hold. Even if you say you’re talking about dating, the analogy is still flawed. By your logic, if your babe sees a guy with an amg benz who makes more money than you, it would make sense for her to dump you just because you can’t afford to buy her a car? Is that really what you’re saying?

That Segun is not a guy. That user is impersonating men on nairaland. This is one of her accounts she uses to impersonate.

KobolanderSegun:
So women should stay with a broke ass man ? When are men going to stay with broke ass companies ?

So you will keep on shopping at a supermarket that has empty shelves like the one in Lekki and ikeja when there are supermarkets with full shelves.
Stop spreading lies and delusion

Benita, when you say broke ass man, I hope that you are rich before broke shaming men o. Not that you too are broke from a poor family and be looking for rich men to tie down and use as an escape route from poverty o.

What value can you provide? That should be the question she should be asking.

You can't stay relevant when you don't have any value to offer the people and society.

Take Davido as an example. What value is Davido providing? He provides diverse products in the form of songs and music that soothe the souls of many people, and that has been able to keep him in the spot light.

That's a value we are talking about. Look for something or a service you can provide after leaving the BBNaija house and not hawking and shaking yansh on Instagram.

Only by providing value or rendering services in any kind of form legitimate can keep you on the spot light.

Nons Miraj is doing hunt game show by match making people for relationships. That alone has kept her on the spot light. She has found her niche.

I don't think she ever dreamt of having the massive amount of subscribers, followers and fans that she currently has now when she was doing skit in the past. She was able to carve her niche.

Find what works for you. If you are not providing any value, you will fade away instantly.

It's the value that you provide that will keep you in the spotlight. Understand that simple fact.

Too much alcohol can make a man not to perform well in the inner room.

Tell him to stop consuming too much alcohol and eat more of water melon and carrots 🥕🥕.

His performance will improve.

Diamond098454:
So you remember Diamond💎💎 because of my controversial comments
But forgot to wish me happy new year

Mcslize

You're blessed.

GboyegaD:
How about he is his uncle's karma? Stop creating unnecessary fears for him.

What is wrong is wrong. Stop encouraging bad habits. Will you slap your father or mother even as a wayward child?

Na people like u dey spoil our society so.

martinskelly:
The funny thing is this, nobody ever gets to hear from the uncle whether it was actually a "slap in back" or just a "tap in the back"; you know how most of this our uncle's in the village does things.

I'm not justifying wrongdoings, but the fact still remains that everyone on this forum is justifying your actions base on you being the first "narrator".

Your uncle could have being wrong though but you see Africans especially Nigerians will always judge things based on culture, ideology, traditions, norms, environmental experiences etc.

Don't mind the young man. It's a tap. The moment I started reading his post, I knew it was a tap and not a slap as he claimed.

Mo na leave the young man. Life go humble am. Life has a way of humbling arrogant brats like that. He is a spoiled brat and life will teach him a great lesson in the future that is if he will be alive to tell the story.

Everybody dey advice am but he is still forming capon. He will surely learn the hard way trust karma and nature for this. He is not wiser than those that had walked across the surface of the earth and beyond.

Life always has a way of teaching people like that a big lesson. Mo na leave am.

Lexzeey:
So I should have fled like a wimp after he hit me first, wow, too bad I'm hot tempered and no one would trample upon me, maybe he should look for you and practice the whole uncle thing on you next time.

He didn't hit you. He tapped you. There is difference between hitting someone outrightly for no reason and someone tapping you from behind.

The tap may have felt like a slap. But it was not. You were already angry with him. That was an opportunity to get at him using slap as an excuse. Say the truth.

Let me advise you. Better go and apologize to that man. Don't bring unnecessary curses to your life.

If you like don't take this advice. Buy a wine and go and apologize and ask him to pray for you after accepting your apology.

The consequences of things like these are always brutal in the future. But you can overlook this advice and act woke. But don't forget we are in Africa.

When your problems will start you won't remember that it's an elder you slapped long time ago. That's how nature works.

I don't believe he slapped you at the back. He may have probably tapped you at the back, coupled with the fact that you were already angry, that was an opportunity for you to land him a slap.

My instincts told me he didn't slap you but tapped you. The tap may have been a bit more than normal. You were already angry before due to all that he said, you used that opportunity to get back at him.

Don't ask how I knew.

Nigeria is a thick jungle where animals of different species in human forms dwell.

Odingo1:
As far as I know, there is no underlying issues, the argument started when he first told me about the new house and I gave her reasons to retain the the place we are living, only for her to go ahead with agents and make arrangements for the new one and I refuse to pay and argument degenerated into her pushing me in a physical combat. Looking for kitchen knife and eventually took up a lighter and threatened to pour fuel from the Gen and light up the house, before then she have lock the the house, had she pour the fuel and light up the house the only option I have is to jump from the two storey building. Although while begging she have said she have anger issues that can destroy things, i dated her for 4 months before marriage I didn’t notice it.

Read the bolded part carefully, especially that last part of the bolded where she locked the house.

I am already scare for you in person. This woman go kill you one day. I have very sharp instinct and right now I am sensing some trouble around you in the future.

I don't know how you will resolve this. The worst is that this is her inbuilt character. A kind of a possessed spirit. It's when she has done it her eyes will clear.

Brother, I am so scared for you.

Odingo1:
Nothing like that, no cheating so far in our union, her anger is that she wasted time and alot 5k to agents to make arrangement for the new house and I turn it down. She has been begging and said she have anger issues that can lead her in brandishing weapons including destroying properties.

She has even confessed to this harmful quality of hers. Don't tell me you didn't know this side of her before marrying her or you rushed to marry her without proper dating?

Brother, you're in serious trouble I must tell you. This is someone you hope to live with till old age confessing to having anger issue that can cause her to carry weapons. I sense danger in the future. It's just a matter of time.

Remember this is part of her qualities. She even confessed to having anger issues. People do have anger issue but not the one that will make them to carry weapons.

Just dey hide all the knifes 🗡️🔪 in your house after cooking. This is a time bomb waiting to explode trust me.

Diamond098454:
What did you do? Your wife can't do that if you didn't do something that hurts her so bad.

You married men don't stay one place

You better go an apologize to your wife

Who knows, maybe you are giving your third leg to every girl out there.

I believe you didn't write this with clear eyes. Please don't tell me you just took 1 shot of ogogoro.

I won't sugar coat this. I must tell you the truth; you're in a big trouble if this marriage is for eternity.

It is either she kill you or she set another man's house ablaze and burn you alive.

I want to ask; didn't you see these red flags during your relationship/courtship with her?

Marriage of 10 months. Expect more of this. We've been warning men to flee from toxic and disrespectful women.

Do not sponsor any woman or upgrade her if she hasn't already upgraded herself when you meet her.

Try to be her lord and personal saviour and end up being the hunted and the victim.

Don't do too much for a woman. Leave some rooms for things like these.

Buharidgeneral:
Hoes aren't loyal
Add yours

Loud it again, again and again. Men, trust women at your own peril.

Doxycycline and Amoxicillin capsules.

Demetrix:
Thank you! Psychology is a major factor when it comes to success in trading. I don't trade currency pairs bro,only synthetic indices.

I see. That's good then.

Demetrix:
Thank you!
Since 2023 but actively (2024)

That's interesting. Be more active this 2026.

One thing I will recommend you to focus on aside your strategy is your psychology. Psychology consists of your emotions, fear, greed, patience, risk management and trade management.

A trader can have an edge in the market, but to wait for his setup before taking a trade can be a serious problem.

To combat this problem, I advise traders to stick to trading only the New York session because most of the manipulations happen during the first 2 hours of the New York session and that's when the best setups also show up due to the high momentum caused by the overlapping of both London and New York sessions.

I discovered this the hard way and nobody ever told me this as I learned this the hard way. It's a secret the market will teach every trader.

I have come to realise that less is more and more is less. Also, I had learned that quality always supersedes quantity.

I believe you don't trade all the sessions. Which session do you mostly trade?

motymop:
She actually made lot of sense.

No billionaire will force you to cook or clean because you gonna have staffs doing that on your behalf

Tell me where she will even see the billionaire to marry?

She will old. Rich men these days don't go for liabilities and ladies with that type of mindset except they just want to use her and dump her.

Her kinds are not industrious. This one doesn't even have the capacity to keep a long lasting relationship let alone marriage.

Her mindset is quite terrible.

Our ladies are all gone. Nothing is out there any more. These are what's left.

She is still very naive. She doesn't know the true reality on ground.

What a life!

Demetrix:
Oh nice. I trade smart money concepts.

That's awesome! Trust the process. How long have you been trading?

Memphis357:
Egungun of Lagos
Kaptain Jeff
1bodycount.... Na dem gaaaaaaan dey promote prostitutes for Nigeria's social media space.

True, but you won't blame those guys. It's the shameless girls that go on air to display their shamelessness that I blame.

I do bump into their pages now and then on Instagram, especially the 1bodycount and Kaptainjeff interviewing different shameless girls. See how ladies are shamelessly showcasing their sexual secrets.

And some men will still end up marrying some of those ladies some days.