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Proudly Edo. Where's martha89 comparing Bini to Esan?

Warri has been peaceful for over 5 years now. Una wan start again abi?

Beautiful indeed. You look like a pepper seller.

Before I start this, I want to make it clear that I'm not a sexist. People say it is a man's world, and honestly, it is. I will show you how.

Nature gave us some bonus and women gave their support. Even if a man forgives a cheating wife, the women(society) will not.

Here are the few reasons some men find it difficult to forgive a cheating wife(They are what I heard men say. I didn't author some of them)

1: EGO:- It certainly has alot to do with their ego being bruised. The thought that another man was able to sleep with Someone they believed they had "ownership" of breaks them to pieces as most of them think the women incapable of sex without emotions, meaning the woman loves another. Remember men are like a lioness that can kill most animals for its cubs but will not allow another animal to even play with its cubs.

2: GUILT:- If a woman cheats, the man will never forgive not only the woman but himself no matter whose fault it is. He feels he has failed as a man to protect and keep his own.

3: THEY CAN'T FORGET:- When a man is making love with his wife, it is a sacred rituals the way she moan shows that his sacrifice has been accepted. So if she makes love with another man he will be thinking the temple is no more sacred and when he make love to her and she moan, it will be disgusting cause it will be like that is the way she moaned for the other guy!

4: YOU HAVE LOST HER IF SHE CHEATS:- Female infidelity is often much more damaging to a marriage. Don’t get me wrong: Male cheating is definitely harmful. But when a woman fools around, it’s often the beginning of the end of the relationship. For men, cheating often tends to be opportunistic—they’re in the wrong place at the wrong time and the cheating doesn’t necessarily mean anything emotionally. In fact a man can sleep with a woman today and not remember her again but for a woman to have sex with you(in most cases)you must win her heart to win her body.

5: HE PAID YOUR PRICE:- I guess i gotta be blunt here. I know we call it marriage but I think women are being bought in a way. Don't kill me yet, let's analyze it. He buys engagement ring. Proposes to you, you accept then he decides to see your people. Your people accept him and give him a list containing heaven and earth. He agrees to pay, he pays for everything and when your parents feel they have collected enough, they hand you over to him. Then you automatically change your name(Change of ownership) which confirms that you are now his own.

I have seen where women sponsored their marriage and the men don't care when they cheat. so I believe the day you stop asking for head-cutting bride price for us to marry then we won't bother much, imagine paying all that money and she gives it to another man..

On a serious note. A cheat is a cheat and you can't quantify cheating. Who is cheating doesn't matter. Stay Faithful

jaymejate:
[size=18pt]Technically, it means your mom is there too[/size]

you're such a fool and that's why you'll never account to anything good in life.

This is NOT a female bashing topic. It's just one of those things we have to discuss. If you read this write-up and it makes no sense to you, then it's just one of those things we are talking about.

So many low IQ ladies will rain curses on me but who cares ? We are NOT only here to make fun and crack jokes, sometimes we need to hurt people's feelings by saying the truth

Though my write-up sounds like bashing but if you are wise enough, you should sieve the bashing, pick the sense in it and make adjustment if you are guilty of charge.

Take it or leave it, many 9ja ladies are rude, proud, pompous, arrogant and disrespectful yet they want the best men for themselves. Characters endowed ladies ladies now seem to be as scarce as diamonds and the moment one comes across our way, we hold firmly onto them because they are rare gems

There's actually no reasonable point to justify why a guy should beat a lady but many ladies seem to take advantage of the fact that it's a taboo on the land to beat a lady. Can you just imagine my elder brother missed his steps and mistakenly stepped on a lady in the lecture room and before he said "sorry" she registered a slap on his face. I mean "whatdafck is that?" Yet these same ladies are quick to refer to guys who retaliate as being foolish, bastard, women hater and all that

Even our virgin ladies who always claim they are blessings to humanity are not exempted from these lackadaisical attitudes.

Without wasting your time, let's analyze the reasons why many of them are ill-mannered

Just take a deep breadth and relax cool

Reasons Why Many Nigerian Ladies Are Ill-Mannered

1. Upbringing
She was probably brought up in such a way that her parents always supported her and wanted her to be on the right side even when she was wrong. Her neighbour corrected for wrong doing but she went to her mom and reported, her mom tooker her to her neighbour and warned him/her never to correct her daughter even if her action warrant correction. **That is where it starts from**

2. She Has So Many Suitors
YES !!! This is common among our teenagers. 80% become disrespectful and ill-mannered the moment men of different species of your age start stalking them. Someone that grew up in your presence will suddenly stop holding conversation with you because people older than you are stalking her. Many at times, she talks to people older than her without any regard

3. I Don't Care What People Say Attitude
I personally detest ladies with this attitude and try as much as possible to refrain from them. Her friends, school mates, hostel/villa mates keep complaining about her but she wouldn't just turn a new leaf. She snatches the boyfriend of her friend and she wouldn't even show any sign of remorse. She"s like, "I don't care what people say"

4. 1 Don't Take Nonsense Attitude
This attitude most times lead them to their husbands' house and the reason why they end up messing up the family not knowing that there would be a particular stage in your life when you have too take, eat and bath with that nonsense you don't want to take . She doesn't want to take poo from mother-in-law, Sister-in-law, neighbours and church members. When it comes to abusing people, you can never win her because her mouth sharp like razor. Where will this attitude take you?

5. Educational Achievement
She is privilege to attend one of the reputable university/polytechnic in the country, then what happens ? PRIDE begins. She starts raising shoulders to old time friends and neighbours because she wants to show class and Behind-ness making other people feel intimidated

6. Beauty
I won't deny the fact that many pretty ladies are dumb and ill-mannered. Many pretty ladies are ill-mannered probably because of the chase and compliments they receive everyday which seems to becloud their right sense of reasoning. When a lady is beautiful coupled with good characters, she is seen as a treasure

7. She's A Gold Digger
In as much as she has the components of gold digging in her veins, ill-manner will automatically follow.

8. Her Father Is Rich
She was born with a silver spoon, therefore, she refrains herself people that comes her way because she is full of herself. She makes it look she doing a great favour talking or associating with people

9. She's Adamant To Correction
You can't just correct her. A white man says " A fool is always right on his own path"

Nigeria is already divided whether you like it or not.

Nigerian girls and prostitution are like bread and butter.

This Buratai is a very big fool. How can sambisa forest be as big as enugu?

tonyfrenzy:
to you...

keep deceiving yourself.

Nigeria is a failed country the earlier we all realise it the better for all of us.

What was he looking for in the first place in Donald Trump's rally? The guy deserved to even be beaten. What the hell is a Black man doing in a rally of future KKKs?

SaiBuharii:
Notin

I'm not surprised. Empty vessels make the loudest noise.

Panzerfaust:
Dont mınd the clown.

you're highly favoured bros. Sometimes the way some people talk shows how foolish a person could be. It's people like him that don't have shishi to their name and they're the ones to open their mouths first.

Gender equality my foot. Can a woman leave the house and go hustle the way a man does? Does a woman pay dowry? Until she can do all of these that's when she can then come to talk to me about gender equality. Idiots. This generation of nigerian women are the laziest women on the earth and yet demand equal rights. E no go better for whoever brought that notion in the first place.

SaiBuharii:
Online degree...it's nothing.

And what have you achieved in your miserable life?

kenzysmith:
return to sender ode

to your father mumu

ckmayoca:
But u said some pastors and some imam, that doesn't mean all are like that.

not all of them bro. I mean those criminals masquerading themselves as pastors and imams.

kenzysmith:
u be mumu guy try reason ur comment make nigeria employ jose morinhio even if he go gree come wish I doubt shey na ur papa one pay 40million naira pair month brainless chicken

may 20 trailer load of Dangote cement crush you and your entire generation. Who says nigeria cannot pay Jose mourinho? Goat.

Hallmark08:
And one typical fool out of thousands is proposing ban on religious that has been in existence before his forefathers? You must be high on weed for writing this thrash. If a pastor or imam milk you dry u are the cause, because you have a choice to think straight but you choose otherwise. So for one midget of a governor with ulterior motives to bring a strange law instead of him focusing on good governance and u are supporting him u deserve a dirty slap.

may thunder from your cursed village pieces your head and may 20 trailer load of Dangote cement crush you and your entire generation. That bill will be passed whether you and your kind like it or not. The era of theft under the umbrella of religion is coming to an end.

ckmayoca:
I don't understand all these. Is he happy with getting a license before u preach or he wants Christianity and Islam eradicated. And why happy with the licensing bullshit.

Yes. Since some pastors and imams have decided to turn churches and mosques into a money making venture and also to spread, they should be made to pay taxes and also their also be registered and their activities should as well be monitored so that they don't go about preaching what is contrary to the initial thing or spreading hate and inciting violence.

denko:
i know your typ apc christian

I know your type too, PDP fake christian.

ISpiksDaTroof:
What makes him an idiot? Is there something he wrote up there that you don't agree with? Lets hear your own position.

Oga he has absolutely nothing to say. He's one of those fake christians that have turned the church into a money making venture.

jayhumble:
To the OP and all others forming fake Christianity here... You all should be ashamed of wherever you come from and whatever mentality you posses.

How come the OP kept on stressing on the Christianity part that you cannot gather a church to preach, you cannot listen to Christian tape in your car and Christian this and Christian that.

Are you so dumb, blind, slumbering brainwashed and religiously gullible enough to understand that this law applies to both Christians and Muslims?

How come yall remove the Muslim parts and started complaining about the Christianity part.... Even the Muslims ain't complaining... Talk about highest height of hypocrisy... As far as I'm concerned... Nigerian Christians are the fakest set of Christians on earth.... Churches in Nigeria is a business and there's nothing wrong if the government deem it fit to issue license to a business Centre hence a legal way of retrieving taxes from them...

Bunch of hypocrites.... Look at the case of a young boy in akwa ibom dat was condemned for witch craft... An innocent boy for that matter. Where were the Christians then? Thank God for the foreign lady who helped the boy out.

Look at them... Deceiving their selves forming Christians...

God bless you my brother. They should continue deceiving themselves. An average White pagan is better than an average Nigerian christian.

diasporaman:
You're an idiot

just like your father.

Governor El Rufai of Kaduna State has done what ought to have been done a long time ago. The rate in which hate messages are being spread by various so called pastors and imams is something. The bill includes both muslims and christians not anti christian as most people are making it look like. In my own opinion, I'll even support the total ban of both religions. These so called religions have brought more harm than good to Africa. It's a shame that 90% of nowadays pastors and imams, especially pastors have turned the church into a business centre. Most pastors are in the ministry today just to milk their members dry.

I was reading a topic here on nairaland and I came across a topic where a pastor made his congregation to eat grass and a topic where a pastor fed his members a dead snake and another where a pastor is carried and his feet must not touch the ground until after service. I was so amazed and at the same time confused. I've read the bible more than once and where did Jesus force any of his followers to undergo such humiliating ordeal. The issue of Rev King also come to mind. Rev King or whatever he is called was something else entirely and I'm still surprised that this evil man still has members.

Islam on the otherhand, has also been hijacked by some mischievous individuals to promote hate, rape and murder. Islam that I know doesn't encourage killing other people or forcefully converting someone. But some bloodsucking demons such as ISIL, Boko Haram, Al Shabab, Hezbollah, Al Qaeda and co have used it to promote ethnic cleansing and unwanted killings.

In my opinion a total ban on religion would be a welcome idea. Religion has made some people to think they're better than others.

P.S I wouldn't be surprised if I'm called a muslim. But to clear the air, I am a christian and a Catholic for that matter. Glory to Jesus, Honour to Mary.

Way to go El Rufai. It's hi time the excesses of some these criminals who parade themselves as pastors and imams are curbed. Religion has brought more harm than good to Africa and if possible a total abolition would be a much welcome idea. They should also be made to pay taxes as well.

Later she will be the one forming for boys and saying she doesn't date broke guys where's na Local Criminal she be. She's not the only one in that line, they're very many here on nairaland too. Majority of the females you find here on nairaland and in various schools are equally criminals.

kenzysmith:
una nor dey tink before una dey talk na una go pay the money

thunder fire your left kidney there. Bleep off my mentions If you have nothing meaningful to contribute. U no dey wise?

Why these guys? Can't we go for Jose Mourinho, Andre Villas Boas, Louis Van Gaal or even Jurgen Klinsmann and Jose Peckerman or Brendan Rodgers or Walter Mazzari?