TSOM:
The original poster sure raised valid points but sweeping generalizations which do not hold true in all situations.
Let's localize it to Nairaland:

Have you ever wondered why the Mr. Nice Guys of the Romance and Family Sections are treated only as platonic friendly acquaintances who can be insulted by the female Nairalanders they accost while the supposed egomaniacal, overly-blunt snubs get females crushing on them?


I'd even be more blunt: Have you ever wondered why Lézz, Cöogar or dudes with their e-personas get their way more easily with female Nairalanders while the Mr. Nice Guys like Dîngbang/Cutehectôr who asslick and show way too much attention to these same females are taken for granted?

Two nights ago, a certain Edimolu and Lezz/BadBradley brawled 'cause Lézz the 'bad, blunt Casanova' had Lâla247 mention him as her crush while she ignores Edîmolu (Mr. Nice Guy) who has been stalking and paying her compliments on even thread.


Personally, even in romantic relationships, I never show any female too much attention. You'd never predict when next I would call or how regularly it would be. I'd never abandon my weekend plans just so you'd fulfil yours.

Every time I call, you'd have to call back and if you don't , forget about it.

Whenever we spend time together, you'd drop your phone and turn off your internet connection as I would mine so we concentrate on us and our relationship. Some weak-balled males would let a girl take them for granted by talking to her while she's replying to random men on Messenger or WhatsApp.

There are a thousand things guys like me do which gives us the advantage over Mr. Nice Guys. Keep a woman second-guessing too. When a random girl compliments your looks or strokes your full beard in her presence, don't be scared to revel in the compliment in your girlfriend's presence.


Then again, I don't cheat but girlfriend would keep second-guessing that 'cause, for some reason, women always come closer. She knows there are a thousand women I could start something with if she doesn't stay inline. Advantages of being a wordsmith/smooth talker.

Cheating is a no-no all the same and nothing would replace having your woman draw invincible patterns on your chest, stroking the hair on it while you both discuss and argue about everything and sweet nothings. Nothing beats being in a relationship.

Go only for the rare girls.

I just want to say I am proud to be one of those that like ur comment.

ayokellany:


OP. Do not be phased by the comments against you, I had similar experience but unlike you n the jerks berating you, I do not just help random people. Help should be offered to only those deserving. I presume you were on your part to ascertaining if the girl is worthy of further help and since you came about her sexcapade it's a justification not to help her any further.

Listen you owe no one no help but yourself. Do not be phased by what other have to say no matter how many likes their comment earned. We all have a standard we hold people to and I think the poor girl just failed yours. The next course of action is to abandon her n that chapter is closed. Let nobody cajole you to do more for anyone you can not ascertain they are worthy.

Reason is the same girl will be frolicking with several men even when you build her a mansion n open a boutique for her. You just dodged a bullet no that for.

Best comment for me

TheHistorian:

MBBS....71.85

AGRICULTURAL ECONOMICS...51.375

GEOLOGY...54.25

I won't entertain any other enquiry.Thanks.

so law cut-off is 70.38 but my aggregate is 68.375....should I forget about it or is thr any hope for me

peterock100:
Make i hail my guy small.
MedicineGUY
The confuser of his village pple. I sight u o.u dey peep

guy, e no dey easy o o...the battle must be won both in the physical and spiritual

Successmania:
Any idea about Law cut-off Mark?

please help!

wetin u get?

smartograpy:
Tell me your score and course and let me predict your cut off mark for you

I am a law aspirant..got 283 in jamb and 66 in post utme..what are my chances?

What of Law cut-off?

The truth is that lagos belongs to Nobody,
Igbos are not the owners of lagos
Yorubas are not the owners of lagos
Benis are not the owners of lagos
Portuguese are not owners of lagos
Hausa are not the owners of lagos
Niger delta oil did not made lagos
Lagos belongs to every tribe in Nigeria that work hard with their sweat and blood to make it what it is and that is fair

Can we now give this topic a rest

Hardebaryor:
Sir I sent you a PM. I will be glad if you reply

I just did

favelli:


?? A reply pls

what course is she doing...my score is also 66..a law aspirant

DROLA11:
and what is the name written on the result....

Akanbi Bashir Wale...are u satisfied?

moeyeen4:
how did you check it please

the normal way with my phone

DROLA11:
pls someone should help me to check 75950343DB.....


olawale. .....

u got 56

ewizard1:
Some ladies would just jump on a thread and make a dumb fool of themselves.

After now, when we see their sugar porayro, he'll be as IQless as them.

Remember the short guys lady on Twitter? Them full here sef!

Exactly

lefulefu:
in naija if u get plenty pepper for akant u can marry any woman of ur choice in Nigeria even if u are a stark illiterate and u no sabi spell ur name.is it daniella okeke u want.. Go get am...if it Roman goddess or any society big lady ..she go fall for ur hand.u no dey see illiterate igbo business wey no sabi speak one word of English having beautiful educated wives at home.some even have classy mistresses all over town.though if a guy na bus conductor or truck pusher with no prospects i dont think any educated girl go look im way oo.money is what equates everything in naija.

my brother, u sabi reason well...that is why u hadly see me in any unnecessary, back and forth argument with NL girls...it is a waste of time and energy when I know it is only on social media dey get delusional power to make demands...@crixuss even get time arguing with them....personally, I will just laugh and scroll to another article

snowblaq:


Yes it is for better or worse... But a stupid man cannot purposely use that to hold you to ransome.... If the man refuses to change... Then separation is adviced.... Maybe that would clear his head enough to have a rethink....

u know.. it goes both ways

sKy007:
The man could not even pay his rent which means that he is seriously financially handicap, therefore for the wife to leave him at such instances shows that she is not understanding

Now I understand why the first husband's family chased her away...Don't be suprised if she is the one feeding her new boyfriend ..the circle continues

look how she the press her breast..vaseline crew things

pls airforce we forgive u ..we won't insult u again....pls come back....this yabaleft patient worse pass u.....chai!!!

Osyabj:


Once again, to the novice, all politicians at the top level belong to secret cult, confraternity, Freemason or another. Even our beloved Dr Nmandi Azikiwe, was a high degree Freemason. All then, Thieves Obi, Obiano & Obaze are all "cultists"

Now tell your sister in the States that no where in the US can one man steal upwards of 175 billion naira or about 3/4 of a billion US dollars and not get at least 500 years in jail.

If Obiano is in China, he will be executed.

The reason why your sister is enjoying excellent roads, excellent hospitals, constant power is because no politician in the US dare touch 1 Cent of tax payers dollars

If they try, they will spend decades in jail. That serves as a deterrent to others not to try.

China paid a price over 20,000,000 (20 million) lives during their 1949 revolution to kick out the 1% of the ruling class who subjected over 800 million people to slavery. Thereafter China instituted death penalty for stealing public funds.

Today if you steal public funds in China, they cut off your head. You can't come back to steal again!

Unfortunately, young people are excusing Thief Obiano who has stolen upwards of 175 billion naira in just 3.5 yrs!

Not to worry. The next governor of Anambra is Dr Tony Okechukwu Nwoye.

If he starts stealing like Thief Obiano, we all should kick him out.

That is how to get Anambra to be like the US and China!

look I kinda get ur point.. ..but voting for tony is like jumping from frying pan to fire.....so for ur mind u think Tony Nwoye the executioner and capo is the guy that will make anambra to be like USA and China...give me a break....that is why I said I just dey support obaze..tony nwoye for Governor!!..God forbid bad thing...the thought alone just dey give me shivers

oga syder..abeg since u are well versatile on enugu lands..how much can I get a good plot of land in emene or maryland

Osyabj:


Last time I checked, no court anywhere on this planet has convicted Hon. Dr Tony Okechukwu Nwoye of any crime.

However, I can state categorically that Thief Obiano has committed hundreds and may be thousands of manslaughters, by stealing upwards of 175 billion naira, which would have been used to build roads thereby preventing deaths of thousands of Anambrarians whom he has sent to their early graves by his mindless stealing of upwards of 175 Billion.

If you cannot connect the dots between Thief Obiano stealing upwards of 175 billion and the needless deaths of thousands of Anambrarians on our highways, then I don't want to react to your posts ever again.

In any case, you are fighting a lost cause trying to support a big thief Obianio to remain in office.

No force on this planet can stop Dr Tony Okechukwu Nwoye, from becoming the next governor of Anambra.

my elder sister is a doctor...she is in usa now....she was the same set with tony nwoye in UNN... the kind shout wey she shout when I told her tony is coming out again for governor still dey ring for my ear...even the gatemen and cleaners in UNN knows that tony is a notorious cultist and a tout...and was rusticated for his notorious activities..he didn't graduate from Unn ( that one I know for sure)...yes..he is intelligent academically but rotten all over....I hate obiano with passion and I support obaze but as I said , I will take the drunken master over that axe man in a heart beat.

Obiano is A Big Thief! Cannot Account for 100B,.........yes I agree but I will take that drunken master over a cultist and a killer anyday anytime....obiano stole 100bn..u and Arthur eze will sell Anambra to the highest bidder....in obaze I stand

globemoney:

correcting your grammar will benefit you more than telling you what obiano did for Anambra. When you correct your grammar I will personally fllod this thread with obiano's achievements. I also await the so called achievements you said peter obi listed in the interview

the way black people reason self ... what will benefit me and you more is good governance in anambra state.. ...so "What did Obiano did for anambra? With proofs please and why should we vote the drunkard for a 2nd term

ChikeOkonkwo:



No one takes an illiterate seriously. Correct the highlighted part first or beg so that you could be taught. As at 2 months ago you were still writing jamb. I spit on you.

...so I am now a jambite no longer selling medicine under upper iweka bridge...continue deceiving yourself and continue shifting the goal post...u that specialise in the core of governance ..tell us "What did Obiano didfor anambra? With proofs please and why should we vote the drunkard for a 2nd term..simpel and short

ChikeOkonkwo:



No one takes an illiterate seriously. Correct the highlighted part first or beg so that you could be taught. As at 2 months ago you were still writing jamb. I spit on you.

how desperate are u....if u want dig up my entire history so as to shut me up..u and ure fellow dumb aides under obiano payroll havent answered one simple question... "What did Obiano didfor anambra? With proofs please and why should we vote the drunkard for a 2nd term...simple and short

ChikeOkonkwo:



Correcting is a task you must strive to achieve, because it will be hard for an illiterate patent drug hawker to understand the core of governance.

...okay, u that understand the core of governance, tell us what did obiano did for anambra? and with proof and please dont say 3 flyovers..I hope ure not that dumb since u understand the core of governance

Why do I have a feeling, one idiot is behind all this sudden fake multiple accounts replying me

globemoney:

You said peter obi listed his achievements in the interview, well I didnt see it, can you show me? and by the way obiano built 3 flyovers not 2

u should have read the article well instead of marking my english up and down...so obiano acheivement in his 4yrs is that he built 3 flyovers instead of 2...the black race is truly a curse