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now a lady is making sense, thumps up princess1982..

@ladt TC,
just answer this one question for me, can u lodge in a hotel over night with a male friend. probably close to one of your relatives or bf residence

@ LadyTC
i think u should have your breakfast and go through my post again, she is an undergraduate, and i check on her almost daily, we hang out often together before this incident took place, and i take her friends out alongside too. so she is not a love peddler. and i dont want to date her cos of sex, i like her as an individual, i was still ready t be friends with her after the incident, until she deleted me on bbm, i just cant pass the nite with a lady in the hotel with some restriction, i may end up not sleeping with her after all, but i want FREEDOM OF ROMANCE IN THE ROOM.

@ luvmijeje
stop spewing crap, i have the 2 kids with the same lady and she is the one i am gonna marry, and since i started bleeping, she is the only lady i have bleeped without protection, for almost the past 10 years now, i dont go into any lady without shield. i have had a girl last year, who after getting naked, said its either i bleep her skin to skin or i should'nt go in, i practicaly told her to dress up, and she became livid telling me i dont trust her enough.
my most important principle is no cd no s-x!

@ kachi-kel
i explicitely told her before i left ib we will be lodging together, that night, and we will go clubbing before doing that at night, i was putting all this through her hears for her to object if she aint interested. but she agreed, my annoyance started when i tried kissing her.....

@ deshclones
i am not interested in convincing any girl for sex, thats what i do when i was a broke arse, this time chics call me to me to come and bleep, not whores ooo, i mean regular mummies giel, why will i be cajoling someone for sex, old things are passed away... i would have tried lodging with her, but when i tried to kiss her in elegusi beach and she was forming, thats like an insult to me, as in wetin she carry for lips

@ ms steph,
whats the patience for, and thats not one of my virtue,i am not gonna keep spending without hitting the jackpot and be called a mugu later on, trust me thats naija girls way,and i cant date a girl for a week without bleeping her, thats if i see her daily though, i just done have time.
i have met a girl in the past, i bleeped her the same day i met her, and the relationship lasted for about 2 years, almost led to married before she travelled out, its not about sex, its about a girl knowing what she wants.

@ladyTC,
so while driving along the road, i will see a girl on the road, park, allight and talk to her, then afterwards get her phone number, and i will do all this cos i want to be her friend?? like WTF, which planet did u migrate from, i have loads of friends both males and females, i believe i did what i did in her own best interest, but i aint gonna drop a female friend in Lagos and plan spending the night with her in a hotel,if i am not dating her, just a thought, can u lodge with a male friend in a hotel and who da heck told u having 2 kids without being formerly married makes one a loser.
abegi just park well make i pass...

yeah, most of em are too materialistic, the annoying part is the fact that some are so dumb, that u cant keep up a conversation with them for 30 minutes, cos u will end up being the only one saying something meaniful, show them a picture of michelle Obama and ask them who she is, they will be asking u if she acted osofia in London , thats why i am excited most times when i see a lady on NL making reasonable comments/contribution to a contoversial thread... not a picture of Jim iyke eating corn in paris ...

well, i got 2 kids, but not officially married...

@ 190 about 5 years ago, when i was a broke arse, babes no send me, now i am okay, they are the one doing the running around, and i dont give a phuck about most of them, only very few of them are reasonable, some are quite reasonable while most of them are just gold/silver/bronze diggers... @ 190 about 5 years ago, when i was a broke arse, babes no send me, now i am okay, they are the one doing the running around, and i dont give a phuck about most of them, only very few of them are reasonable, some are quite reasonable while most of them are just gold/silver/bronze diggers...

@2jideofor
wtf is wasted money, i already blew almost 11k on her on the beach and paid 2500 for her taxi fare, i only called a babe i use to date back then in festac, i even went to pick her in her uncles house around 11pm, and who told u i have problem with cash, i drive a 2009 honda accord, and i am in my late 20s, the idea here is not about cash, its about my policy and what her intentions were...

yeah u could be right, but thats still 50-50, she might be serious and she might be pulling my legs, but just cant take such risk, cos i am so sure i wont be able to sleep, and i cant beg for sex nor can i force a lady for sex, i might get so angry and throw her out around 2am, believe u me, make she carry her wahala go, i later spent the night with a cossy-like chick, more worthwhile than her lepacious figure ;

@190,
oboy u are far from the truth, she said she initially thought i was having something to do in lag that day, her problem basically was why i cant stay with her in the hotel room without touching her, we went to the hotel together and i told her i wont let her in with me, if she was bent on friendship, if i tell u how many babes was calling me that same day i was with the mumu, u will marvel, its not about wanting a free ride, its about thinking its just normal to be with a dude in a room, sleep and wake up. then take her to her desitination, just cant imagine me going out to pick something from the car and returning to the hotel room, starting knocking and i hear " hold on i am dressing from the inner room" that will make me feel so useless, with all my swag and backage.

@ 190, nah i dont roll like that, while dropping her off, i was already calling another chic in festac whom i picked up on my way back from obalende... dont want her to feel i took advantage of her, and cant sleep with any girl if she doesnt want it deep down in her mind, not even my gf. thats my principle.

@k2039
you wont mind if your gf sleeps with a guy in a hotel room till day break, right?

I used another id to create this topic, i have a girl i visit often, she is a student and I LIVE close to her in Ibadan, i have not wooed her formally, but i have made my intentions known to her, about last week, she called me saying she was broke, and needed some money, i specifically asked her if i was gonna be helping her as a FRIEND or a BF, of which she responded saying any how, which i understood to mean she is ready for us to be lovers, just this past weekend, she said she was going to Lagos that i should drop her off, in other to make my intentions clear, i told her will we go a day before the said date and we will lodge in a hotel at night, while i drop her off the next day at her place, of which she agreed,

Immediately when we go to Lagos, first thing we did was go to the beach and a played around, but when i wanted to kiss her, she was repulsive, my thought was like WTF, what is she feeling like? we spent about 2 hours there and left around 8:30pm from elegusi beach, heading to ikeja to get an hotel, cant imagine lodging in oriental hotel, using my annual apartent rent to pay for a night ;, meanwhile on our way to the hotel after driving through third mainland bridge that scary night, i ask her what its gonna be like, if we are dating or just friends, and she sheepishly said we are just friends that we arent dating, saying not that she cant date me, but we are just not dating, i ask her what her intentions about us going to lodge in the hotel was, with that rotten idea in her head.

I told her if she insist on her theory, we cant possible be lodging in the same hotel room, as i cant imagine staying in the same hotel room with a lady and i will be restricted, when i have better chicks on my list that all i need to do is call them and with a snap of my finger they are available, i mean sweet and delicious babes, cant imagine wasting one of my precious night with an SU, so i told her we arent gonna be lodging together, and i asked her if she got any where in Lagos she can pass the night, initially she thought i was jokking and ask if its not possible i pass the night with her without doing anything, i told her i got a high libido, and there is no way i can be in the same room with her without my body responding to some touch touch things....

After making some frantic calls when she found out i was serios, she said she has a place in lekki, of which i had to drive back to nearly where we came from around 9:30pm of which i did, i got to Obalende and dropped her off, put her in a taxi to take her to her destination,(i paid for the taxi oo) and started heading back,
the most annoying thing is after 10 mins i tried caling her back to inquire if she has gotten to her destination only for her not to pick her calls, when i check my bbm to ping her, i noticed she has deleted me on bbm, normally i no send, for me its a good riddance, just having a deep thought if what she did is ration. i mean why will u want to go into an hotel room with a man over night with an SU idea, and why waste my freaking time driving about 2:30 hours to please you, when i could have spent it with other people who will appreciate that time.
just ttrying to think if what she did was right/wrong, and if what i did was right /wrong too?

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