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Who took her to the club?

That man life remain 1bar, his smile is gone.

The above incident happened somewhere in Orlu,
Imo State. The two ladies who were engaged in a
serious fight over an issue that couldn’t be
immediately ascertained were being separated by
3 guys. While the others while doing the real
separation, one guy took advantage of the
situation and was pressing the boobs of one of the
women.
I guess he got enough satisfaction from the
fight..lol


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Being married is certainly not a life step that
should be taken lightly. But often times, people
do it for all the wrong reasons and it ends up
leading to a bitter marriage or even divorce.
These reasons below are the worst reasons to settle
down.

1. You Are Afraid To Lose Him/Her:

Using fear as a
reason to get married is completely wrong. If you are
that unsure of your relationship, then being apart is
simply a better bet.

2. Friends And Family Pressure:

You will always
have family members or friends that put pressure on
you to to settle down because they think it is time.
You need to realize that these people would not be in
the marriage with you and they certainly would not
directly feel the consequences of a broken marriage.
Only take this step because you think it is time.

3. You Are Getting Older:

Yes, yes, the infamous
biological clock is ticking away and reminding you
that you are running out of time.
But, you should know that once you are in a bad
marriage, you would be so much worse off and
wished you had waited for the right person as
opposed to settling for the wrong person because
you think time was running out.

4. You Feel You Owe Him/Her:

Did he pay your
way through school? Did she hang in there through
your strip club days and your cheating ways? Getting
married because you feel you owe your partner a
debt is also a terrible idea.
Get married because you absolutely and completely
want to and you would feel much more satisfied with
your choice.

5. For Material Security:

This does not just refer to
women who settle down with rich men just because
they do not want to worry about money.
These days, some men actually choose to go for
women from rich homes/background, perhaps due
to promises of wealth from the woman’s parents or
the feeling that the woman can solve any money-
related problems that come up.
Such marriage would not work out because one
person will no doubt feel used and might decide to
act out or be disrespectful.

6. You Are Bored:

You should also not get married
simply because you have nothing else going on in
your life. Do not just assume that marriage would
provide you all the companionship you need simply
because you are uncomfortable with your own
company.
Focus on your personal growth, find a hobby, start
a business, grow your career, and when the time is
right, you would meet your true partner.

7. To Get Over An Ex:

Did you just hear that your
ex has gotten married? Did you just go through a
terrible break-up and you think jumping into a
lifetime commitment will heal your broken heart?
Well, this is really wrong. When you do eventually
get over the ex (and you will) all you would be left
with is a partner you do not love and the feeling of
total regret.

8. Pregnancy:

Just because you are pregnant, or
she is pregnant for you is not enough reason to
commit to forever.
This might sound like a good solution at first but in
the marriage, you would notice your partner is
simply a mother/father to the child and not a wife/
husband to you since the child is the only
foundation of your relationship.

9. You Have Been Dating Forever:

So you have
been together for years and years and tying the
knots seems like the perfect solution. Sometimes, it
isn’t.
When it is time to decide marriage, take another
look at your relationship and consider how it will
change if you make it official and bring children
into it.
Be as honest as possible with yourself and your
partner. Do not just start planning a wedding
because you think that is the next step.

10. All Your Friends Are Doing It:

As humans, we
cannot help but compare ourselves to our mates
as we progress. We worry about making sure we
are where we think we are supposed to be because
all our friends are already there. But marriage is a
completely personal decision.
Just because everyone around you seem to be
jumping in does not mean you should just close
your eyes, pick someone and jump in too. Take
your time and make sure you, and you alone feel
you are ready for the step before taking it.

11. Your Families Get Along:

You might have
started dating someone because he/she is a family
friend or because your families get along perfectly,
but this is no reason to make vows to be loyal and
faithful to him/her forever. Make sure you are
doing it because you both feel ready, in love, and
connected with each other

12. You Think It Is The Next Step:

You just
completed your education, or you just got that big
promotion at work. You just bought your first
home or you just hit a particular age. Whatever
your reason, do not get married just because you
think it is the next thing to do. Marriage should not
be on some to-do list that you have.
A lot of individuals have married without being
prepared emotionally, mentally, spiritually,
psychologically and materially and as a result,
marriage vows are not kept and thereby a collapse
of the union.


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