₦airaland Forum

steppin:
Balderdash. He's trying to cover up. Yoruba men and away match na like bread and butter. They also got this nasty habit of cheating without protection.
I don't even pity Tonto Dike one bit cos she knew this and yet, she got married to him.

Eglobalma:
do u think the pride of looking good can make a person so proud that they cant toast the opposite sex or tolerate their imperfections?

Homeboiy:
ur right

my wonan is treatning to leave me if I dont buy her an android phone by next week

and I told her to fúckoff

I go carry another 3gurls

SweetBoyFriend:

I find it offensive when women can't get off their lazy asses and go get a job so they can afford whatever they want

I find it offensive when women depend on men for money, cars, gifts and houses, what do these women bring to the table ?? Their stinky pusssy, that's all they can offer

I find it offensive when women ask for money or gifts, they now take relationships as a full time employment

At the end of the day they will start shouting "All men are the same"

May God strike me dead any day i spend money on any girl or even buy her an ordinary gift (except my families and wife if i ever marry)

I'm constantly flying to different countries running my business, sometimes i go 4 days straight without sleeping, stacking up my money while you're laying on your comfortable bed calling yourself Slay Queen on Instagram and at the end of the day you will ask me for a 100k perfume ?? Don't let me vex for your family

Why is it the guy's responsibility to buy things for you ?? Don't you have a father ?? What have you bought for the guy ?? He would waste his energy and strength having sex with you and at the end of the day you will have the courage to ask for money ??

This is how stupid they are, wanting a 100k perfume when she should be asking the guy to buy a brand new used brain for her

These hoes don't deserve anything

*Spits

athaliya:
Listen to yourself.......... You need to shut the hell up....

If this woman came here to say she caught her hubby giving out fake numbers and so decided not to talk to him till he tenders apologies, will you support her? Tell her he's damn wrong?
One of you even told a lady in a similar case to wear red pant for a cheater.

I give out fake or sometimes real numbers too, when they call I simply tell them off or give the phone to my bf to help me out. I'm working on saying no but due to my temperament it's not easy. Luckily for me, le boo is well matured.

Let's try to see things from another perspective to give a non partisan advice.
Sorry for any insult dished out anyway

Reiyvinn:
Never cheated on any of my partners (ex and present) but heck, they never reciprocated. So hey, it's not a gender thing, it's just mindset. To me, I can't handle nursing feelings for multiple people, too lazy for that.

logica:
Exactly. BPD sufferers see people (especially whoever they admire) as their own...a property. And you know what a little girl does to a doll or teddy bear she doesn't like anymore.

TheSuperNerd:
This is extreme psychopathic behavior by the lady.....

Some ladies.. when they love, they do so with not just all their heart but with all their soul and spirit, body and also their life's worth (and worse they can kill anything or anyone that threatens that "love"...... These ones, their love is like "a volcanic eruption"... Very deadly and mysteriously sinister...

Hurt or break up with them... Then you are in for it bruva... Really sad.

Dukejaja:
If only we can give her fair hearing, at least by hearing her side of the story.

dominique:
She's obviously a psychopath and should not be allowed to mingle with normal people. Hope she gets arrested

redcliff:
This mumu Chioma 'disrespect' chukwuka/apotha dey talk of disrespect. She has forgotten say we know her story wey she dey fight muma g and weird mc in gulder ultimate search celebrity edition. She is here talking of disrespect. Hypocrisy at its finest!

Daniel058:
Betting thinz

if MMM COMES BACK TOMORROW EXACTLY AS IT WAS BEFORE ACCOUNT FREEZE, SOMBORI SHOULD QUOTE ME AND I HAND 100K TO HIM/HER INSTANTA...






DEAL?

DesChyko:
Multi-Window.
Use two to four applications together without swapping

AfonjasMustDie:


1 simple and truthful fact about Pretty Ugly Mike

1. He's a low life naturally dumb fool

Why would you put a girl on a dog leach ?? To make her a biitch (dog) ??
[b]
After seeing and witnessing my wife give birth to my son, i vowed never to disrespect any girl[/b]

GreenPlumes:
For now, I'm an Okada rider, and single. I always go for the best, but once they get to know that I do earn money from riding Okada, despite that I do other things not known to them, their disappointment is better imgined.

At this rate, does that not mean I will remain single for a long while?

redcliff:
petty!

BornStunner1:




OKAY CHIKA IKE WE AFF SEEN YOU UNTOP THE CAR CAN YOU PLS GET DOWN NOW?

youngelder:
wow....

this should be used to test drunkenness...

Amelian:
Op I totally and completely disagree with you on number 1,23,4,7,8 and 9.

My dear I can never marry a man I don't have feeling for.. God forbid

Yes I will be very careful on whom I decide to say *yes *to..
I have no apologises for that..

And yes! I want a man to love me for real.. I don't need fake love.. If your love is fake and I realise? Just scram and get the fucvk off! Am no maga

Am financially ok! So. My man must be likewise.. I don't need a leech! Neither does he!

Honestly I cannot suffer with a broke assss man! The true nature of. Man is known when he is comfortable.. And that's fact!

My boo and intending husband truly loves me and we both know we won't cheat on each other. Simple

And he's a cute tall, financially comfortable guy with a hot Mexican look to die for , kind of old fashioned like moi
What more can a lady like me ask for?

And definitely our marriage coming up soon, wil be very beautiful and peaceful, fillied with laughter ,joy and understanding .

We are simply two peas in a pod


I love you boo boo


So op hate all u like.. Women like me do not fcvking care..

Am happy with my choice

dangotesmummy:


The better for you because your post is so flawed and filled with biases.of course women with low self esteem will fit into your description
meanwhile

Toks2008:
Don't be fooled that my quoting you means I read your comment...in fact I would have gladly done that but was put off by your sarcastic,odoriferous,immature and unwarranted remarks in the very first paragraph.

I just might consider reading if you can repost without hateful words cos it's really a turn off that a youth educated enough to express him or herself is not intelligent enough to discuss opinionated matters without getting heated up and using hateful phrases...smh!

Toks2008:
I will be as blunt as i can in addressing these ignorant notions [/b]some Nigerian ladies have towards marriage.

[b]1.Being too careful about her choice of man:

OK I understand you are the type that is so scared of venturing into marriage so you want to be very careful in choosing that man you will likely spend your life with..but I'm sorry to be the carrier of BAD NEWS..."No matter how careful you may be,every marriage is filled with uncertainties...even if you marry an angel,he could turn to a demon so just take the risk and be ready to confront any uncertainty you find else you may remain scared and single for a very long time.
Infact the more careful you are the greater the possibility of making a mistake.

2.I want a man who will love me for real:

I'm very vast in English language but when it comes to this sentence,the more I try to understand the more confused I get..."love you for real" like seriously!

You better get this fact now,if loving you for real means loving you with your imperfections then i might agree to an extent else...NO MAN CAN LOVE YOU FOR REAL except that real is substituted for many things like love you for your curves,intelligence,manners.....so stop using this ackward sentence and try to develop something a man can desire you for...no man wants a woman for nothing.

3.Wanting a made guy or financially OK guy:

I honestly have nothing against this except the fact that being financially OK is relative and we don't ever get to know the definition of "being financially ok"

But then I kinda wonder why ladies fail to understand that most guys in their late 20s and early 30s are still trying to find their feet which means a lady who wants a made guy is inadventedly saying she wants a married man or sugar daddy because most made men in Nigeria are in their mid or late 30s and in their 40s and would have been married.

However,the few younger ones who are made can not have more than one wife.

Ladies should try to be financially independent so that they can be disciplined enough to start a life with a guy rather than struggling with several ladies to be with a "made" guy or ending up as a side chic of a made guy.

4.I can not suffer with a man because he could dump me latter:

This is one of the dumbest notion many Naija ladies have and anytime I hear a lady says this I just give her that stupid look of a looser.

Are you doing any guy a favor by dating him when he is broke? For Petes sake you have every right to walk away from any affair if you dim fit and staying with a struggling guy is your choice and not a favor. ..if he latter becomes rich and he dumps you,just walk away rather than use those words to blackmail him.

5.My wedding will be the talk of the town:

I totally agree that a grand wedding is the dream of most ladies and I also share in this dream but the question is this; "Is it a do or die to have a grand wedding"?
What is wrong in having an intro and registry wedding and latter plan for the grand one when the funds are there?

Don't be deceived. ..8 out of 10 grand weddings in Nigeria are sponsored.

I think this is one area many ladies are destroying their lives because a guy will do you like a wife and enjoy all the wify benefit while telling you he is not ready for a grand wedding and you will continue to foolishly play along until he dumps your overused ass for a younger lady when he is finally ready...biko receive sense.

6.GOD has not confirmed him or my Pastor said he is not the one:

Like seriously! OK get this straight. ..it is good to listen to the word of GOD or to follow your pastor's advice but hello! when it comes to choosing a spouse GOD has clearly made it our duty to look for a spouse and he will gladly give us his favor ...Proverbs 18:22:
"Whoso findeth a wife findeth a good thing, and obtaineth favour of the LORD".

The best you can do is to pray to God that a good guy finds you and when next a prophet or pastor tells you a certain guy is not for you...simply ask him with humility to tell you who your man is..his name,house address,complexion....

7.I can't marry a man I have no feelings for:

Your feeling is very important when choosing a man but pray he also has feelings for you else you will end up in tears no matter how deep your feelings for him is.

This is a hard nut for many ladies but the sincere fact is that your feelings is not as important as the guy's feeling towards you.

Getting married to a man may be hinged on your feelings but staying married to him is primarily dependent on how he feels towards you.


8.Marriage is a beautiful and wonderful institution:

I'm so sorry to tell you another bad news...."marriage is very turbulent and you will feel like running out"

At the intial stage it will seem like its so beautiful and made in heaven but that is the initial gragra stage. But when the reality stage sets in you will come to know the true picture of marriage but the good news is that you can make yours always beautiful if you can learn to tolerate, forgive,forgive and forgive because only two forgivers can make a beautiful marriage.

9.If my husband truly loves me,he will never cheat on me:

I know this issue is over-flogged and many ladies will never agree to this fact..."YOUR HUSBAND CAN HAVE EYES FOR ONLY YOU AND IN FACT COMMIT SUICIDE IF YOU LEAVE HIM YET CAN STILL CHEAT ON YOU"...sounds stupid I guess but that is just the truth..

Just warn your husband that if he must do let him go far far away from you and must use protection...I always say...only a foolish lady will hinge her marital happiness on her husband's sexual faithfulness to her.

I'm not supporting philandering but this is just how the cookie crumbles.

10.I want a tall cute rich romantic sexy....

Habba sister just negodu there...only you one...please there is a difference between real life and Telemundo. .you can not have all you want in one man and if you think you have then kudos to you. Many ladies cheat on their hubbies or fiance because they can't help comparing...

Tade is good in bed but not rich enough...Richard spoils me with money but very boring in bed and Seun is so caring but.... so you run to Richard to get money,you remember Tade when you feel like having a good time and Seun comes to mind if you want to feel loved..YOU ARE A SORRY CASE.

Just go for a man that has the average qualities and settle down...no man has it all.

As long as a lady is ready to face these facts then she will definitely have no problem in her marriage but if you find yourself totally uncomfortable with one or more of the points listed above, i will advice you remain single until you are mature enough to accept them.

My humble opinion