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TV/MoviesRe: BBNaija 2021 Live Updates Thread by Melst: 11:05am On Sep 24, 2021
JBoss25:
Imagine a bandwagoner like you saying we have low self esteem cheesy We all know Whitedonkeys have low self esteem who can't think for themselves
Low self esteem is supporting someone simply because they are fine physically, have left the shores of Nigeria, have an accent, have worked in Dubai as whatever, has dated US based ladies and the so many other irrelevant reasons you stan those two. It amazes you guys how we looked beyond looks and accent and supported a guy with a great personality. I could write an epistle of why I like WM, but I bet you can't write more than two sentences of why you stan those two aside physical attributes and perceived success that is non existent. Look at a mirror when next you want to define low self esteem.
TV/MoviesRe: BBNaija 2021 Live Updates Thread by Melst: 10:57am On Sep 24, 2021
crazymummy:
Savage
You guys have been doing well. I have small time today so I want to throw in small support. Keep giving them! grin grin grin
TV/MoviesRe: BBNaija 2021 Live Updates Thread by Melst: 10:54am On Sep 24, 2021
callmemakaveli:
Another Epistle of Lamentations. Who do Una this kind thing?

Your low self-esteem reeks to high heavens.

Pere is really doing a nice job peppering your ass. Oya stop crying. Make sure you don't sit close to sniper. grin
More reason I know wisdom skipped you lot. Please check the meaning of lamentation then come back with a reasonable comeback worth my mention. Sore losers
TV/MoviesRe: BBNaija 2021 Live Updates Thread by Melst: 10:42am On Sep 24, 2021
Expert17:
The type you inherited grin grin
Only asylum escapees laugh at their own dry jokes. Oh wait a minute! You were rejected and ejected from there also? Ouch.....just keep roaming the streets, you'll find your safe haven in a dumb site worthy of your person. kiss
TV/MoviesRe: BBNaija 2021 Live Updates Thread by Melst: 10:34am On Sep 24, 2021
Expert17:
Load of shit

cheesy cheesy
The type your brain is filled with hur?
TV/MoviesRe: BBNaija 2021 Live Updates Thread by Melst: 10:30am On Sep 24, 2021
These set of anti-WM reek of low self-esteem yet they are quick to accuse others of having same. If you ask them why they are supporting their respective fans, they have nothing concrete to say that's why a bulk of their energy is focused on attacks with zero sales of their fav's personality. Well, you can only sell what you have as their favs have zero personality. They only draw ginger from the fact that Pere and Maria have crossed the borders of Nigeria. But of what use is crossing the borders of Nigeria only to come back broke and hoping to use the handouts from BBN sponsors to rent a house in Nigeria and find their footing. I remember the day Cross was giving them cost estimates of houses on the Island and they gapped. Well, Ikorodu will help sort them out eventually. To their naive fans, living abroad is not synonymous to success or wealth else they wouldn't consider relocating to Nigeria to feed off BBN fame. I have heard of people selling off properties worth millions to travel out and these ones had the opportunity but wasted it yet some of you feel we should give them 90m to blow away. Talk about insanity. See Pere, a low budget yahoo boy taking pride in the professions of his girlfriends both current and past yet he couldn't build his own career. His worth revolves around the status of women. Tueh! It can never be my WM, that one has too much pride to feed off a woman's status, he would rather make a woman. Ya'll keep asking why he deserves the money, well, he is the only housemate I can vouch for that will triple that money in few years and make all these stanning worth my time. He has made so much of himself despite his background and educational limitations. That is a go-getter that is worth stanning. Troll with sense. Stan with sense. And enough of this noise about WMG having low IQ fans because it is the greatest irony of our time. Peace out!
TV/MoviesRe: BBNaija 2021 Live Updates Thread by Melst: 6:29pm On Sep 17, 2021
Eeghe:
You guys turned your backs on the “alliance” real quick in this game- Cross nominated WM and you turned on him real quick. Then Angel who did not nominate him also got the same treatment. My question is why? When it’s not the penultimate week? shocked
If I'm not mistaken, Whitemoney nominated Angel while Cross nominated Whitemoney. The bad blood started from the nominations. I also want to believe I'm speaking the minds of majority of WMG when I say the few WMG monikers here and their assertions are not reflective of how WMG voted or even votes even when Whitemoney is up. This week, some voted with their hearts, i.e. who they want to keep seeing on their screen and who they love. Others voted with their brains in the name of strategy, i.e. take out the alliances by not voting them. Crazy week.
TV/MoviesRe: BBNaija 2021 Live Updates Thread by Melst: 6:18pm On Sep 17, 2021
Eeghe:
I would love to read this too
Whitemoney was cracking jokes after inserting the fake teeth. I feel he was mimicking Eddy Murphy or the likes. It was all fun and laughter for the people around him. At some point they were even asking him if he was drunk that he probably drank all what he mixed for the task. God knows I was also laughing my heart out. It was fun to watch. In all, his focus was Cross because I believe he was trying to make him feel better. So he went about it by making light of the situation and joking about the fish. Called Cross a murderer. In all of this, his audience including Cross was laughing. Angel came from nowhere and entered the matter that it's not funny and Whitemoney is being insensitive by joking about it that way. Whitemoney then told her to Bleep off that he ain't talking to her. She insisted and kept at it. He even had to remove the fake teeth and talk in his normal voice for emphasis but angel kept talking. He then asked her to keep walking that she ain't getting any highlights from him and she should mind her business as the person he was referring to, they understand themselves. So she went off to Pere while Whitemoney continued his thing. He was pissed and she was also pissed. Angel was wrong in this one. There's a certain way guys joke even with sensitive things. She ought to have minded her business and understood that Whitemoney was simply trying to cheer Cross up. Not everyone is overtly emotional and people have different methods of sympathizing or communicating. It must not conform to your standards. Before anyone thinks I dislike angel, on the contrary I don't. She had my votes this week. Though I understand where she was coming from with the attack.
cc PatientVulture
TV/MoviesRe: BBNaija 2021 Live Updates Thread by Melst: 6:34pm On Sep 15, 2021
babyfaceafrica:
Have you listen to Whitemoney background story, telling us how he suffered, did a lot of jobs from Dj, chef, Bodyguard and the likes. How his father didn't care about him. That guy is a gamer, fortunately for him 90% of the housemates are too lazy to see it. They just want eat, sleep and get endorsement
I'm really tired of this unreasonable narrative. Let me reply you in your own words. Have you listened to him tell the housemates of how generous he can get that the Only money he doesn't joke with is his business money? Can someone that is hungry have enough for himself and his business and then leftover to gift out? Have you heard him say since he started his clothes and shoes business, he doesn't repeat shoes? Have you noticed that he has worn best dressed because of how good he always looks? Does he strike you like someone that is hungry? Correct me if I'm wrong, but when he recounts all the jobs he has done, I have never heard him say he suffered because in case you don't know, those jobs you listed up there are jobs people use to raise a family and that's not my definition of suffering because he most probably earned more than some bankers with those jobs. Did you also hear when he was advising the housemates to be mentally prepared for the kind of fame that will hit them once they leave the house so that they will not lose track or be distracted because he has tasted little fame and understands what it can do to someone if you ain't careful. I could go on and on. So pray tell, how has he been pushing pity/suffering agenda? Una no just get point so na to dey blab steady because una sabi use keypad..... We move jare......
TV/MoviesRe: BBNaija 2021 Live Updates Thread by Melst: 4:35pm On Sep 12, 2021
WMGs, I just thought about an evil agenda. Let's all ask Biggie in the comments section that we the viewers for next week eviction want to vote for who will go not who will stay this time around. I really want to check something........
TV/MoviesRe: BBNaija 2021 Live Updates Thread by Melst: 1:37am On Sep 12, 2021
Threebear:
This week I won't be releasing any predictions.

Two of my sources are telling me different things and neither has ever been wrong.


One said liquorose came first and Saga is fourth .

The other said white donkey came first and Saskay is fourth.

Since our Nairaland Deloitte officers agree with the second source , I'm going to sit this one out. grin


I'm pretty sure Ebuka won't show us top 3 on Sunday , so if on Sunday Saskay ends up in the bottom three , I'll know the first source is right.


I won't be taking any credits on Sunday .

This is just an opportunity to test my two "sauces"
I almost choked on my laughter. That you are a clown is an understatement. And I always verify my predictions with yours thinking you are legit. Now I know better. Chai! Wahala dey like Whitemoney haters.
EducationRe: Unilag Postgraduate 2020/2021 Information Thread by Melst: 5:50am On Aug 22, 2021
mrrandomguy:
This is the main group
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Gracias!
EducationRe: Unilag Postgraduate 2020/2021 Information Thread by Melst: 11:05am On Aug 20, 2021
Please any group chat for PT Production and Operations Management?
TV/MoviesRe: Ka3na: I Had Sex With Praise Nelson But He Didn't Last 5 Seconds by Melst: 6:18pm On Jun 23, 2021
LandMann:
Before you unzip your trousers for a woman make sure her mouth has zips and a big padlock
Ah! Things are really turning around. I thought it used to be the other way around. grin
Technology MarketRe: House Clearance Sales.. Come In Here!!!! by Melst: 9:06am On Jun 21, 2021
hismond:
A friend just told me you don't need a police report for them to do that first. It's only a proof of the transaction made from your account that will be needed immediately, while you present a police report & a court order if eventually necessary to recover the money
Your friend is right. Once there's a complaint against an account and a teller can verify from the history of the account that it has received the claimed amount by the complainant, the account with the authorization of the HOP is immediately flagged i.e. a PND and the owner of the account can then go to the bank and clear himself. The only thing is, no one can debit the account legally to give to the victim without consent of the owner of the account or a court order.
RomanceRe: My Wonderful Relationship Is About To Suffocate by Melst: 2:00pm On May 28, 2021
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RomanceRe: 5 Reasons Why Men Loose Interest After Sleeping With A Woman by Melst: 6:23am On May 12, 2021
humilitypays:
all these one na theory, just pray to your God or whatever you worship to have mercy on you and give you cool headed guy who has made up his mind to settle down.


If you like apply professionalism or turn down all men and accept your most approved man of integrity, the way he will mess u up at the end will keep u wondering what u did wrong cheesy



Life no balance, most times it's not by intelligence or smartness or principle, it's all by His grace that u can get it right. If u doubt me, wait for time, life will bring you to reality lol
All you typed all there is totally unrelated to my post so I wonder why you mentioned me, or was it a mistake?
I never rule out the God factor, but even the Bible tells us that wisdom is profitable to direct. And your last statement sounds like a curse. Well, different strokes.........I'll remain single till I join my creator if I don't see what I want. Last time I checked, being ain't no crime not sin. And my theory has worked and is still working for me. I am single by choice because I can't settle for less than I deserve. You guys keep struggling to make sense and eventually end up failing. Because I'm still trying to understand the correlation of your message to my post.
undecided undecided undecided
RomanceRe: 5 Reasons Why Men Loose Interest After Sleeping With A Woman by Melst: 8:23pm On May 11, 2021
Ladies have selfworth is all I can say. There are some ladies with high value that men are scrambling for despite the fact that she has slept with three friends and is still confused on who to choose. Yes it happens. I said it. On one thread they were saying they can't take a woman out on a date without sex being involved. And I tell you my fellow ladies, let them be the one to beg you to go on a date with them with promises of nothing will happen, it's just a date...... Know this and know peace. I turn down dates steady. Once you don't have long throat as a lady, then all these their antics cannot impress you. They will then need to step up. You filter off a lot of randy men from your trail when you know your worth and act accordingly.
It's not about playing hard to get, play hard to keep. Be invaluable. Once you are this, they will be the one coming and begging for more.
RomanceRe: A Broke Guy Is Disturbing My Sister's Happiness by Melst: 10:20am On May 06, 2021
PuZZyNegro:
I support all that you've written but for the last statement.

Do you know that some guys forget everything about women to chase money and career? That he's comfortable and single doesn't mean he has a problem. This mentality is really preventing some girls from being with a good man.

They feel he's too good to be real because he's comfortable and yet nice.

I can tell you that one of my sisters got married to her husband in his mid thirties and she was the first woman he kissed in his lifetime.

The man is rich and he's sexually fit as they have children already. Even up till now, I cannot understand how a man will be that rich and still faithful, loving and caring to his wife and children.

I am very much single because I have not met the woman that I like and I'm financially comfortable, well educated and not looking bad.
Well, there are always exceptions. But mehn, one needs to be really careful with men in their mid-thirties that are unmarried. You need to look thrice. They are mostly players that toil with women's emotions, or very boring men with archaic mentality, or loners that can't live with anyone because they are intolerant, or perfectionist that will frustrate you in marriage. The list is long but yes there are exceptions.

Then that mentality of chasing money and leaving women is flawed. There's actually no time of your life as a man that should revolve around "women". Meaning no time of your life as a man justifies womanizing. Discipline is key . And once you are disciplined then there's no chance that any woman would distract you from your goal rather she will propel you. Knowing the right kind of woman too matters. Because if you say, chase money and leave woman, in marriage, would you be able to be a good husband and father? Or would you stop chasing that money once you get married? You even need it more then. And money can run dry for those that believe in chasing money then women will run after you. Or are you saying once you have made money then you are immune to the distractions a woman brings? Or are you simply going to chase money all your life? Always create a balance and discipline is key in all facets.
RomanceRe: A Broke Guy Is Disturbing My Sister's Happiness by Melst: 8:07am On May 06, 2021
orohbiro:
Good day my fellow nairalanders, my sister and this guy has been dating for 4 years now he use to work in a company but lost his job 2yrs ago since then he had been a parasite to my sister coming to our house to eat our food two times a day.

There is this new guy who asked my sister out. He is gentle and he has a good job, he is a Christian he has his own house, we all like him. I have been begging my sister to give him a try because he is ready for marriage unlike the other guy who has no hope of taking good care of my sister rather sucking my sister dry.

My sister seems to love the broke guy more but that guy is not a serious person for 2 good years he can't look for a job not even a menial job. If my sister mistakenly marries the broke guy she will suffer in the marriage because all the responsibility will be on her head. Gidforbid!

Please how do I convince my sister to focus on this other guy that is comfortable? I want the best for my sister.
Hypocrites are insulting you. Same guys that have been screaming they don't want a liability in a woman are now supporting a man that lost his job for two whole years and can't find something little doing rather he is living off his girlfriend. If she doesn't leave him, he will not wake up and behave like a man should. Even I can't stay jobless for two years depending on anyone. No teaching job around? Security? Any goddamn thing or even business no matter how small. She should better not carry that load. See women dying anyhow because they are carrying a load that is not meant for them. It's better she's single than be with a man that will sit idle for two years. Except you are exaggerating it sha. Anybody that is being spoon fed will not step out of his/her comfort zone and make something better for and of themselves. It is not a crime to crave a comfortable life for yourself and your sister. Don't let anyone make you feel bad about it. If she loves that guy, she should push him to get something no matter how small. As for the new guy, she might have her reasons. For him to be that comfortable but still single says a lot though not for all his kind.
FamilyRe: Does Sex On First Date Make A Lady Look Cheap? by Melst: 7:59pm On Apr 30, 2021
Joromi1:
I've been wondering.....most women have this NO SEX ON FIRST DATE motto like it's the only criterion to ascertaining feminine decency. They say it gives the guy the impression that you're too cheap and he would definitely dump you easy.

But to me, it's not true. You can play the hard-to-get for a year and still get jilted. So, ladies, allow your mood determine for you. If you have to bang that guy, bang him! And who knows, it might result to true love and marriage.

Or what do you think, guys? wink
Well, for the sake of your heart, bottle it all up until you are sure the guy is genuine. I don't know about others but sex has a way of stirring up emotions for me. So imagine going out on a first date with a pro player and having sex with him out of ignorance. Or finding out later that he's married or unfit for many reasons meanwhile emotions are already involved because of sex. Some crazy shit. And there's something else about sex, it's easier to end things with a guy or girl you haven't bonded with sexually in case you both are not compatible. But when sex is already involved, it clouds the mind and makes it more difficult. I don't even want to mention what it does to the heart.
RomanceRe: What's Your Biggest Relationship Regret? by Melst:
Evolutionlove:
Gibberish as always. Sharaaap there, Lazy fvcking leech. There Is no really nonsense stressful about being a Vagiina citizen. God made everything natural for you ungrateful leeches. Exchange your gender to Man and see how tough the world Is for men, Men work their asses around the clock and take all sort of deadly risk, they even go all the way to commit all sort of evil atrocities In order to be seen as being responsible and valuable to you Stupid Vagiina Lazy Thieves. There Is no Natural love for Men anywhere In the world except materialistic love, even though Men are their own greatest enemy. These days A lot of Men are ready to Swap their gender, I can't say the same thing for you lazy leeches because I'm certain you will never subscribe to It most especially the broke lazy ones among you......
A typical immature and childish rant. You sound depressed and naive. So many women wear men's shoes from time immemorial. God bless and heal your pained soul. Take that lazy and broke line to someone else mister. You mentioned the wrong person.
RomanceRe: What's Your Biggest Relationship Regret? by Melst: 9:03pm On Apr 26, 2021
Danyyyyyyyyyyy:
If you're a man , I pray that I find someone that thinks like you one day, coz the wisdom smoke is all over my screen
if you're a woman , I hail you sis , you have sense plenty
everything you said is on point , I wish some of these men could have vaginas for a month. you don't need to abort or have a child before you start to get exhausted , I'm literally hurting for her and other girls that might be going through this and worse , even miscarriage sef hurts like mad , well I'm actually happy that I read stuff like this , it'll just make me more careful
My dear, they have no idea. But they will eventually. They can't even wear our shoes for one month. See ordinary menstrual cramps, I'd be crying like a baby. Abortion and the pains of labour is best left imagined. They end up creating damaged ladies with cold conscience then come back and cry foul. Well, those ladies are the monsters they created.
Thank you for the compliment. One can't emphasize the need to be extremely careful especially with what is obtainable these days.


Please ignore that troll up there with a soul that is the exact opposite of his moniker. Lonliness is already affecting him. They chase everyone away with their bad attitude and nonchalance towards people's emotions all in the name of forming man. Last time I checked, a man is a man and need not say it to be one. Someone that can't even keep a relationship is calling himself a man. Nonsense and baseless pride with unfounded ego. I have dealt with his type. They come back begging after realizing their folly. Pride goes before a fall. Though this one sounds like a teenager.
RomanceRe: What's Your Biggest Relationship Regret? by Melst: 6:49pm On Apr 26, 2021
luminouz:
Maybe @ first sentence but showed your vested interest undecided

. You think he is evil but the multitude of women who brought in bastards from other men for unsuspecting husbands to raise nko? More than 90% of the comments are from guys who showed us that women could be more terrible. You didn't see me insult or abuse these women,did you? Why? People are people,not unicorns, so, there is nothing new
I just had to talk. I honestly don't know what you are trying to defend or the point you are trying to make by defending that act or comparing it to what you described up there. A woman pins a pregnancy on a man is usually done out of love. Either a selfish love for herself, or love for the child since she didn't consider abortion or love for the said man. This doesn't justify such deceit yes, but comparing it to what that guy did is plain unreasonable. That you'd intentionally impregnate a girl because you want to punish her that she insulted you. How low can one go? Then he is defending himself that he claimed responsibility. Imagine! See what the girl passed through. Do you know what abortion does to a lady mentally and emotionally? Do you know the rigors of carrying a pregnancy to term? Because either consequences would have been too brutal if he had thought it through. Even in the western world where abortion is legal, women go for counseling pre and post the abortion schedule. You young guys will think everything revolves around your penis and money.

Talking about cheating gfs, are there no cheating bfs all over? Or is it because these days, we have more of boys whining all over the place than actual real men. Gosh!
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FamilyRe: Marriage: Specs Or Peace Of Mind? by Melst: 5:27am On Apr 18, 2021
Sanchez01:
Your expectations are beautiful! I must admit you and Klass99 echoed my thoughts better.

I say "AMEN" to your last sentence. Happy weekend! grin
smiley smiley smiley
Thank you for the compliment.

Happy weekend to you too.
FamilyRe: Marriage: Specs Or Peace Of Mind? by Melst: 8:38pm On Apr 17, 2021
Sanchez01:
It took me a while to decide on the title of this thread but then, it still somehow doesn't capture the idea of my post. Regardless, here goes...
Considering it took you a while to decide on the topic, I'd understand why I agree with everything you have written aside the topic itself. I personally feel "peace of mind" is a spec required for marriage and one of the most important spec at that. It baffles me when I see both men and women focusing on physical appearances when choosing a life partner. I'd go for a man that looks like a monkey if my happiness lies therein. grin grin grin.

I want a man whose love for me, and my love for him is unrivaled. If this is obtained, then cheating cannot even be in the equation. Because that cheating of a thing scares the hell outta me.

I want a man with a conscience. This eradicates a whole lot of heartaches in marriage.

I want a man full of life and with a vision. A man that takes charge. A man that knows he is a man and acts accordingly.

I want a man that loves kids and knows how to handle kids or is willing to learn. So I'll be rest assured that my children will not have daddy issues.

I want a man that loves sex and love to explore and still sees sex as sacred. All these stories of philandering men is as a result of the kind of societal values obtainable these days. People now see sex as an achievement, as a tender, as a reward, as punishment, name it. Most people have lost the true essence of sex as an act of love. Most people have not even experienced love in sex.

I could go on and on about my ideal specs. Yes, one can't find all specs in one man. You just have to apply opportunity cost and know which is non negotiable. For me, physical appearances is just a plus, definitely not the ultimate. I just pray we all get it right at the end of the day.

Beautiful write up once again.
Dating And Meet-up ZoneRe: I Need New Friends!! by Melst:
Landnaira5:
I honestly have zero friends at the moment and I NEEED to make new friends. A lot of my friends have either travelled or we’ve lost touch. I moved back to Nigeria in 2018 and it’s been a journey.

I’m someone who’s only made friends at school, work, or church so I’ve been struggling to make new friends since I moved back and started working remotely.

I need new female friends to hang out week, go out week once a week or every two weeks.

About me, 29, well traveled (I like to think so), quiet, smart, funny (I think) and beautiful (lol). Please follow me/dm me let’s get to know each other.
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Thank you. I appreciate
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