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please someone help me cause I don't know what to do. I have notice that my husband lie even with little things that is not suppose to lie to. He believe that marriage cannot work without lies and he always tell me about this his friend that lie so much. please tell me what to do about it because am hurting.If I tell him that he just lie to me he gets very angry that can even lead to a fight.please I need your help.

I and my husband has been married for 4 and half years , but our last three year has been so rough we fight so much, he talks to as if am not a human being when I reply any of his disrespectful words he hit me. He always like to stay with his male friend all the time, I even believe he was having an affair, when ever I ask a question he gets so angry, sometimes I ask him why he even got married to me. We have two kids, one day we were quarreling he told that he hate me because am not too tall, that he told me hate short women, he didn’t say any like that when we were dating. He even say that he will marry another woman so that I will not be asking where he is,[yes when he go out I do call he but not for any bad reason is because I care ]but he believe I suspect he always. He get very angry quickly I don’t know he is like this when we are dating. Now for the past 5 months he has been so nice to me, even when I get very angry at him because of the things he said that I couldn’t forget, he never reply anymore, now all he say is that he want to be a good father to all children, how he want them to be in the future he now says good things to me, now I want to know why he suddenly change. Is he now ready to be a husband and a father? Or is it because I threatened to leave him because I can’t stand him anymore or do men like him really change? Now he want me to have other child for him but I can’t because I don’t think he can stand me now. After having my first child I felt so depressed I don’t know if he when through that too. Do men get depressed after they have their first child? Please some help me and tell me what to do . I still love him, he is the father of my children.[H e says the things he said to me he didn’t mean it, say them because he is angry.]

I have one question to ask , if I open an account of $1.000 how much leverage will be good for me? I don’t want the one that will take away all my money please someone help

Thank you everyone for your support, I think am seeing some changes,now I watch what I eat AND I now brush after anything that goes inside my mouth.

HELLO EVERYONE , I DON'T THINK THEY NEED ANY DNA TEST, BECAUSE I HAVE SEEN IT HAPPEN BEFORE IN NIGERIA. MY MOTHER GAVE BIRTH TO TWIN GIRLS BUT ONE WAS BORN WITH A GOLDEN HAIR AND A LIGHT SICK THAN THE OTHER. WE USE TO CALL HER GOLDEN CHILD. AND AM SURE THAT MY MOTHER HAS NOT SEEN A WHITE MAN BEFORE, SO IS THE ACT OF GOD. BUT MY SISTER THEY SHAVE OFF HER FIRST HAIR AND IT GREW BACK BUT NOT AS GOLDEN AS BEFORE, ONE OF MY YOUNGER HER ONE PART OF THE HAIR COLOUR IS BROWN I MY SELF HAVE A GREY HAIR. LET WAIT TILL THE BABY SHAVE OFF HER FIRST HAIR.

when i was born i have no grey hair on my eye lid, but when i was 17years old one morning i woke up and saw this grey hair on my left eye lid,now am 25 years old it is still there not disturbing though,so i just know why it suddenly came out. thankz

i brush my mouth every day but when i talk my husband tells me that i should go and brush.so i need some help on what i can do to it. thankz

Please, can someone tell me the kind of future investment will be the best for my kids, They are 3years and 5 years, my husband want to invest at least N50-100.000 for each of them. Thankz