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I have 3 sisters so I really don't look for female friends, I enjoy the company of men they really crack me up and they give a liitle insight as to how men think. Not only that but men keep it real.

Is it a lie if you never ask: For instance, if your man never asks you, "Have you ever cheated on me" or "Am I good in bed" I think men lie more, because men hardly ever ask their women serious questions for them to lie,, so women or most women won't volunteer info , If my man never ask, I will never tell.

To each his own "Security and Prosperity" if the man is lazy of course I don't want him, but if hes trying to build a dream and bills are not getting paid 'Thats a problem" I'm a student too, and I work fulltime, and study and manage to keep a 3.5 GPA, A man should consider this too, if you're with a woman who is a gold digger and she plans to live off your money , you should think twice before you marry her all she will be is a liability , look deep before you leap ,

I don't discount marriage at all it is very important, but when there is no food in your house, no lights, no gas in your car , I've been on the side of the fence where the man had no money and no job, the love quickly dwindled because I was taking care of me and him, It gets a little tiring , I'm not not a gold digger you want me to stick around you need to have some money and I don't care if you work at McDonalds or work in a big corporation , you need something in the pockets "I can do bad all by myself"

Money, love don't pay no bills

I'm feeling sad today, I won't say why, but it has a lot to do with my man, it sounds corny but I'll leave at that.

My partner is 17yrs older than me I'm 32 he is 49

Ok sistawoman I think were on the same page, I've noticed some men/women lose that sex appeal once their married , or even dating for awhile.

I love my man ladies, but I always say I don't just look good for him but for every man I might meet, When I walk out the door my man always ask "Where you going" because I make sure everything looks good when I walk out the door,  hair, nails, and toes , Keep a man on his toes don't just look good for him, don't just workout for him, don't cook good just for him, don't keep your honey pot sweet just for him, Now don't misunderstand me I'm not encouraging anybody to cheat , thats not what I'm saying, but a lot of times we let ourselves go because we got him now, Every now and then I go out and buy sweet sexy undies, my man watches me get dress for work , "Why are wearing those to work" I smile sweetly "No reason I just like these red lace panties" at 5pm quitting time , my phone rings because he thinking about those panties I put on this morning, Stay sexy don't lose it,  Am I making sense , somebody let me know