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Let me tell you what I like that would be easier, 1) clean cut nicely cut hair it should be clean everywhere I mean everywhere  2) Tall but thick (I don't like skinny men and I don't like short men)  3) a confident man who knows how to handle but not belittle his woman  4) Educated man  5) God fearing man (this should have been number one)  6) An expericenced man (who can school me every now and then) 7) A man who is not imtimadated if his woman is smarter or makes more money A man who isn't afraid to clean, cook, or change a pamper  9) A man who is fiancially secure (not rich but has some money)  10) I like dark men  (the blacker the berry the sweeter the juice) , Gentlemen consider this Memi top ten

Impotent does not mean the man is sterile, impotent means he is unable to get aroused and that could be for a number of reasons he could be a diabetic, heart condition, high blood pressure, , medications can also effect a mans erection, Simple remedy here in the states and probably worldwide, viagara, sex strips that you place on your tongue, they have creams that you can rub on that can last for hours, I can work with impotentence being sterile I don't know,

God has special things for good girls, you have to kiss a lot of toads before you get your prince , Then again its ok to be bad sometimes, just don't get caught

Well it depends , If I really need his advise or attention about something then yes, I would be upset but otherwise no I wouldn't be upset. We're just friends, right,

If you have to ask how to treat a woman , you're already in serious  trouble, every woman has different needs as a man who is dating a woman its you're job to listen, and ask questions , be more attentive and not just wanting to have sex, a woman will pick up on this and not take you seriously, Go talk to an older man, sit at his feet and learn, you're a nice looking guy so I don't think thats the problem,

Hi Samix I'm sorry to hear of your pain, but I must tell you I think she was already seeing this person , smoking is something that most people do not like , but its something you will endure if you love your partner and you see that their trying hard to quit, She didn't even know you were smoking no one is that good. She already was seeing this person and she used your smoking as an excuse , because she was a coward and couldn't tell you the truth. Right now what you need to do is pray and ask God to heal your hurt, you can't lose focus and not get through school its hard enough as it is , but if you get behind it will be even harder, Another woman will come along and love you for you and if she hates that you smoke she will help you to quit but with love and patience,

Well it depends, if he is like 10yrs younger than me "No way" he has to be maybe only 5yrs , I personally like older men , I'm not a gold digger, but money is important love doesn't pay bills, put food on the table, and if he doesn't have anything "I can do bad by myself" thats just the truth. A woman needs a man to be able to provide and give her what she needs and some of things she wants , or otherwise why does she really need him

I don't think men or women should marry, because the woman becomes pregnant, I think it actually just makes things more complicated, a man still can provide and take care of his child without marrying the woman , its a very good  question, I'm curious to see what everybody else thinks. Here in Florida,men here are beaten down with child support.Before they get their paychecks money is taken out for their child/children.If they don't pay they are not allowed to drive, if caught they are arrested and taken to court, whatever valuable possesions they have they give it to the woman in court. The child support continues to mount as they stay unemployed. If you have a passport or visa its revoked until the man pays all his fees to the court and to the woman. Taking care of your children in the U.S is serious business it can ruin your life.

Although this post is old I must reply, First crime is sad no matter who commits the crime wether you're Asain, Nigerian or otherwise which leads me to say this , I'am an African-American woman, there are a lot of Nigerian people who live in this country and they are some of the most pleasant and most professional people I've ever met , most of them hold doctorate degrees and work as doctors, professors, and dentists , they are very hard working and still practice their culture here in the US , I beleive your stating your bitterness based on the man you allowed to live with you and took things from you , the list just compiled as you became annoyed. All Nigerians are not like this or for that matter black people in general , It would not be fair if I said "All Malaysians allow their children to be sexually exploited by white men who travel to their country for a good time" I love all people not their actions, but love should cover a multitude of sins

Hi I'm new here my boyfriend is Nigerian and I'm African-American , we have been dating for over a year , he loves  a lot of sex, are most Nigerian men like this, I thought because he was 49 he wouldn't be as viral , I even asked is he taking Viagria , Is this normal or is he just a freak

I truely think the misconception of hit and run is only geared towards men , when the truth of the matter is women love sex just as much as men , the only difference is men are willing to pay for it and women are not as far as hotel and dinner etc etc (I before meeting my significant other who has pinned me down), If I hadnt had sex in a month or two I would get anxious and Hot I would go out. If the man was reasonably attractive and willing to buy me dinner, drinks, and pay for the hotel (most certainly purchase condoms as well) Hey I practically got laid for free , my anxiety was relived, my stress worked out, and my headache diminished, , Lets be real women have needs as well, and we don't have to pay for it, we can chose when, who and how we want it ,

Its funny that you talk about this as here in Florida our local radio station was adking this very same question. I thoroughly beleive in tithing and as believers we do this based on scripture Malachi 3:11 , at the same token God knows what your intentions were before the family member called and needed your help God is also a rewarder of those who do good , He would not want you to neglect the family member and pay your tithes , Tithing is also based on faith as well , when you pay your tithes you are saying to God "I trust you with what I have and appreciate you allowing me to earn an income " God will not have you lack even if you have to use your tithes money to help someone in need , He will honor your faithfullness

I don't think theres anything wrong with asking a guy out , especially if he seems nice

I don't think this is a Nigerian thing , I think this is merely a man thing some men are excellent kissers and the ones that are not good kissers usually make up for it in other areas , I have taught some of the guys I have dated how to kiss , I think most of the time they just dive in too quickly .Kissing is like an art you must use the brush gently to get the best results.