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RomanceRe: Naija Women Vs White Women by merge(f): 1:35am On Nov 12, 2011
Nigerian women don't need men that don't appreciate and value them. I would never want to be married to a Nigerian man that is easily influenced and have eurocentic mindset. Anything white is better mentaily. Its disgusting being around africans/blacks like that. This is a good thing.
RomanceRe: Why Do Nigerian Women Prefer To Date Mostly Nigerian Or Black Men by merge(f): 7:16pm On Oct 23, 2011
Because I tell Nigerian/African men who they are then I must be with oyinbo grandpapa. You see the backwardness and childish mentality of the average Nigerian men. Instead of facing reality they bring up shallow topics to feel important. They can't discuss and address issues like why they fail to perform in a global economy but they only want to talk about how they export and import their D-I-C-K-S globally.
RomanceRe: Why Do Nigerian Women Prefer To Date Mostly Nigerian Or Black Men by merge(f): 6:50pm On Oct 23, 2011
With Nigerian/African men incapability of performing on a global scale, they have mouth to talk.  Please "shut your mouth" Making noise out of your A-S-S.
RomanceRe: Why Do Nigerian Women Prefer To Date Mostly Nigerian Or Black Men by merge(f): 6:16pm On Oct 23, 2011
[quote author=Inked_Nerd link=topic=785501.msg9402819#msg9402819 date=1319389768]
Chei! So these are the ramblings on a neo-slave lost in the diaspora? My condolences to your family and the families of other African who follow in your footsteps. As a human being there is nothing wrong with having preferences but there is something wrong with spewing hatred towards your own people.
[/quote]Black men are incapable of being real man. They rather jump into other race of  men societies and import/ export their D-I-C-K globally but don't want to run a country successfully that would be suitable for women and children to live in it. Look at the little gold chain he is crying about that he claim Nigerian women demands, Other race of men are providing well run countries ( schools, government, shopping center,  safe environment, etcs). Nigerian/African women have been too patient with African men and they are not performing.
RomanceRe: Why Do Black Men Date Other Races And Why Can't Black Women Do The Same? by merge(f): 5:45pm On Oct 23, 2011
[quote author=obo_man link=topic=786945.msg9401975#msg9401975 date=1319381976]@ Linda, lol, allow it.   

I'm sure you one of those angry black women. You keep repeating yourself without making any valuable point. You just jealous. Go toast Orlando Bloom so you go marry him or Wayne Rooney.

You talking about white men winning most gold medal? You mad? White men dominate certain support, so do black men,  How many white men have been WBF, wba champions in boxing history compared to blacks?


Pele,  Best ever footballer is a black man

NFL-- dominated by black males

NBA---black males

AThletics-- black males

Football--- split

You don't do your research b4 talking trash, You 1 of those dump 9ja girls that neither watch sport nor go gym. Typical lazy black 9ja girl putting her men down.

Sincerely, why would I be a successful football player and marry a black woman like you with some negative and demoralising attitude?


Mrs chima, I fear for mr chima, lol.[/quote]Why the ultimate male "Black men lol"  can not outperform other race of men?

Who owns the NFL, NBA, , ?

Black men run jump shoot hit but no brain. Now I understand you
RomanceRe: Why Do Black Men Date Other Races And Why Can't Black Women Do The Same? by merge(f): 6:49pm On Oct 22, 2011
[quote author=obo_man link=topic=786945.msg9396960#msg9396960 date=1319305367]@merge, you referring to black men as if your dad ain't one of them. If the men ain't building empires, what are the women doing?

I swear, I love black women and I shouldn't be seen bringing black women down. I started this thread based on my observation and not to cause rancour or bring anyone down.

I have to admit that I honestly like it when  other races can't take our black women but we can take theirs


It's like they can't have our beauties but we can have theirs. That is what I call ' THE ALPHA PROTECTIVE MALE'.  grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin[/quote]You really think black women are with black men because they are "protective." haha Black men don't protect black women. Black women are the most abused women on the planet. With what military? haha

Black women go with black men because of cultural and race preservation.
RomanceRe: Why Do Black Men Date Other Races And Why Can't Black Women Do The Same? by merge(f): 6:30pm On Oct 22, 2011
[quote author=obo_man link=topic=786945.msg9396861#msg9396861 date=1319304317]@ merge, built empire? what do you mean? what empire are you talking about?[/quote]If you were not busy chasing p-u-s-s-y and being "Mr Nondiscriminatory D-I-C-K" you would understand what I mean.
RomanceRe: Why Do Black Men Date Other Races And Why Can't Black Women Do The Same? by merge(f): 5:57pm On Oct 22, 2011
While other race of men are building empire, black men are importing and exporting their D-I-C-K globally.
RomanceRe: Why Do Black Men Date Other Races And Why Can't Black Women Do The Same? by merge(f): 5:50pm On Oct 22, 2011
Saying thing like its supposed to be=anti black man. I just keep thing real. No more excuse for nonsense.
RomanceRe: Why Do Black Men Date Other Races And Why Can't Black Women Do The Same? by merge(f): 5:42pm On Oct 22, 2011
[quote author=Inked_Nerd link=topic=786945.msg9396580#msg9396580 date=1319300804]
When you mentioned high expectations, it reminded me of something that happened to my sister--her and her bestfriend were walking down the street somewhere in Manhattan and saw a handsome Black guy with a woman who in their opinion was not up to par. After observing the couple for some time, my sister asked her friend if there is something that was so wrong with them that a handsome Black man would date a woman such as the one they saw. While talking, another young Black guy overheard their conversation and chimed in. He told them that as a young Black man, he doesn't think that Black women's expectations are two high, he said that Black men's expectations were too low. My sister and her bestfriend were taken aback by the comment but agree with what he was saying.
[/quote]Yes we must have higher expectations. Black women deserve to live in well run African countries. No more giving them excuses for why your children have to suffer in a poorly run country. Let them be man and face their problems directly. Being a father is the basic. We must see good leadership and progress in the community. Hold them accountable. No more overlooking bad performances.
RomanceRe: Why Do Black Men Date Other Races And Why Can't Black Women Do The Same? by merge(f): 5:24pm On Oct 22, 2011
Black women must have higher expectations from black men. No more excuses and nonsense.

Black women deserve to live in well run and safe countries. Black men want to lead and not perform. No more excuse and games.
RomanceRe: Why Do Black Men Date Other Races And Why Can't Black Women Do The Same? by merge(f): 5:15pm On Oct 22, 2011
[quote author=obo_man link=topic=786945.msg9396347#msg9396347 date=1319298460]Haha,  lol @ they can't run a country, so funny @ merge. The fact that we can't run our country NOW doesn't mean we are incapable or silly, there are other factors why that is. I'm quite sure things will change for better in the future.[/quote]How long will black women wait for this nonsense? Black women must take things in their own hand. Black men are too busy chasing P-U-S-S-Y to concentrate on running a country and planning for the future generation. Black men have failed in leadership in almost every areas in life.
RomanceRe: Why Do Nigerian Women Prefer To Date Mostly Nigerian Or Black Men by merge(f): 5:08pm On Oct 22, 2011
Black men think by bringing their D-I-C-K out globally ( Mr Nondiscriminatory D-I-C-K)  that will in return make black women see them as real man. I say loud and clear " I SEE a PUNK B-I-C-T-H"
RomanceRe: Why Do Black Men Date Other Races And Why Can't Black Women Do The Same? by merge(f): 5:00pm On Oct 22, 2011
[quote author=obo_man link=topic=786945.msg9396395#msg9396395 date=1319298906]lol, who are the other races? Are Chincos included too? Besides black women, I only do white and maybe Hispanics. Point of correction, we don't run after their daughters, it is their daughters that come to us. ( Alpha males don't reject free PUM when it comes ),[/quote]They know you would accept because you have become a white women play ground. That is way the world view black men as half men. A child to be exact.

They sure would not be approaching 100 years from ago.
RomanceRe: Why Do Nigerian Women Prefer To Date Mostly Nigerian Or Black Men by merge(f): 4:51pm On Oct 22, 2011
Black women understand cultural and race preservation more than black men.Simple as that. Black men are look down upon worldwide. They are the poorest men on earth and get outperformed by other race of men economically.

They only way for them to compete with other race of men is physically.

Most Black men date outside their race to fulfill their egos and for other race to accept  them. They want other people to look at them as their equal. What better, easy, and lazy way  to do it than to bring the D-I-C-K out? Its a subconscious and conscious thing they do. But they don't want to do it like real man and fight to be seen equal globally. Run a black country successfully.

They are look down upon so that create self-esteem issues.  Only his desire being fulfilled at the expense of black women and black children is important to him,  He does not know respect is earned but not handled over by sharing your D-I-C-K globally.

Despite being look down upon, black women are more likely to believe in the black race and see the potential more than black men.
RomanceRe: Why Do Black Men Date Other Races And Why Can't Black Women Do The Same? by merge(f): 4:33pm On Oct 22, 2011
Black men have no self-respect. Other races hate and don't respect them but they gladly date and marry their daughters.
RomanceRe: Why Do Black Men Date Other Races And Why Can't Black Women Do The Same? by merge(f): 4:28pm On Oct 22, 2011
[quote author=obo_man link=topic=786945.msg9395969#msg9395969 date=1319294638]Well, for men it's okay. For women, it's bizarre. Black men are the 'alpha males' of all races so i personally think black women shouldn't look elsewhere ( esp when they are super sexy).[/quote]"alpha males" my foot but can't run a country.
Foreign AffairsRe: What Gaddafi's Death Means To Africa! by merge(f): 7:21pm On Oct 20, 2011
The thing that is crazy about blacks or african they still don't even unite with like minded people. Opening forum after forum and no action. Content after content and no action.

How are you guys uniting with at least like minded people? People who share your vision. I don't see networking going on here. What about your daily life?
Foreign AffairsRe: What Gaddafi's Death Means To Africa! by merge(f): 6:48pm On Oct 20, 2011
How does the fall of one Arabic man means the recolonization of Africa? Don't make sense to me. Arabs are an enemy of Africa too.
Foreign AffairsRe: What Gaddafi's Death Means To Africa! by merge(f): 6:42pm On Oct 20, 2011
meaninghuh? how will it help?? I'm interested in Nigerian development.

igbo2011:
I am building a site that will help Nigeria's economic development.  I am planning our the content and I just need a designer and someone to code.  Hopefully it will launch by January 2012.
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Foreign AffairsRe: What Gaddafi's Death Means To Africa! by merge(f): 5:59pm On Oct 20, 2011
@igbo2011

What are your goals besides talking? just curious
PoliticsRe: Breaking News: Hollywood Bonds With Nollywood by merge(f): 11:02am On Oct 16, 2011
Africans are DUMB and cant rational think for ONCE in THEIR LIFETIME. DUMB FU-CK-KS
PoliticsRe: Breaking News: Hollywood Bonds With Nollywood by merge(f): 9:23am On Oct 16, 2011
How old is hollywood? How old is nollywood? Africans don't understand business that why they lose all the time.

I will never support Nollywood if this merge happens. This is pathetic. Africans always think they are  too smart but fail in business all the time. They are the most poorest people on earth for a reason. Wake the hell up.

Are we supposed to be impressed with this nonsense? This is the worst news.
PoliticsRe: Breaking News: Hollywood Bonds With Nollywood by merge(f): 9:20am On Oct 16, 2011
rgp922:
An average nigerian man got 69 IQ, so dont get mad. Africans are really stvpid. Negro logic: Everything white = good, anything black = bad
We must petition against this. This is really sad. How long are we not going to see through this game?
PoliticsRe: Breaking News: Hollywood Bonds With Nollywood by merge(f): 9:15am On Oct 16, 2011
Why are Africans always so stup-id? Why they never hold on to what they have? This is sad and pathetic. In few year time, Nigeria will not be controlling that. Gosh Again !!! This is the bad news
PoliticsRe: Why Are African Leaders So Easy To Influence? by merge(f): 6:55pm On Oct 09, 2011
Amujale:
Good question!

We can  make great impact by spreading the word; exposure is half the battle. . .

furthermore, check this thread: https://www.nairaland.com/nigeria/topic-773559.0.html#msg9304388
I think the best thing is start with ourselves. We have become people of talkers and no action.
PoliticsRe: Why Are African Leaders So Easy To Influence? by merge(f): 6:40pm On Oct 09, 2011
What are we doing to put our ideas in action? Like minded people must work together. You can know all truth but no action make it useless.
PoliticsRe: Why Are African Leaders So Easy To Influence? by merge(f): 1:10pm On Oct 08, 2011
What are you guys doing to make this possible?
RomanceRe: Is It Okay To Marry Someone From A Different Race? by merge(f): 12:46pm On Oct 03, 2011
Tarzan2009:
It is a common knowledge that WHITE women are the most loyal and most respectful to their spouses of all races. I am not saying all, but the overwhelming majority of them are loyal to their husbands. Speaking from experience, dated a few white and black women in college, I can tell you that they are very CALM and don't run their mouths to give you headache. Ended up marrying my petroleum engineering classmate, though she is mixed, but she's damn loyal and I respect her for that. She doesn't yell or arrive at conclusions easily, but takes her time and does it methodically. Most of my friends(Nigerians) about 7 of them are married to white women. Keep in mind that these  guys are professionals, doctors, engineers and lawyers, didn't married them for some socioeconomic reasons, but for genuine search for PEACEFUL LIFE. Some of these guys have been married before to Nigerian women and one phrase I always get from them is , I HAVE NO REGRET. One told me that, I have never known peace in my life until I married this white woman.  

I tell women that, most men have conscience, and as men and by nature, we want to be respected and in return, we will love you unconditionally.  Be respectful and loyal. When I say "loyal",  I know some women on here will jump on me, I don't mean subservient to the man but know that he is the head of the family and if you need to have your opinion heard, do it respectfully as a woman and I tell you what, a true MAN, will LOVE you and respect you for that.

Go for it Bro if you think you found in her what you looking for in a woman.  Caveat, Never make the mistake to go back home or to the village to marry a woman you don't know, never met before, no chemistry, no attraction, for God in heaven, how do you think that will work in this modern age? It may have worked in the past for our forebears, but not in today's world, humans are more wiser. Most of the men who went back home to marry are today in mental homes or demoralized beyond resuscitation. This is my two cents,
What the need for the comparion? Generally,the same way black man are the poorest man on earth and have hard time providing a suitable environment for their wife and children

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