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SMH, had to endured rubbish this weekend. Some people just can't accept the word "NO"

The average Nigerian/African men are ignorant. They adopt others cultures, willingly fit in, and don't even know anything about African history. "I Go Come To America" Mentality.  It's disgusting. Empty heads.

I will remain true to myself. I will do what works for me regardless of manwhores/hoes. bleep Nigerian men. Most not fit to even teach/raise African children real African culture without passing down other cultures. Either you are the fit or your kicked to the corner.

All based on African traditional religion. , , SMH

4reigningqueen:
a personal experience:a teacher was suddenly promoted to the post of a vp because she is a mother,married and read education.another teacher from another section was also brought in to come and head a section filled with lots of experienced and dedicated teachers.the two new heads hardly agree on issues not mentioning the fact that they were promoted ahead of those that know far more than them.a section that was once peaceful is now becoming an unbearable place for teachers.ao can students learn in such a place.

Because of certificates. i think the employers are doing a bad job at selecting people. I would look at both experience and certificates. I would also consider how well the person works as a team

Russialane:
the craze for certificates is because of the economic situation at the moment and the need for more DOSH to spend and live comfortably in short times have changed world wide even here in the UK THem just realise the need of university certificate now imagine all spaces for undergraduate admission is filled already for this new session in september

The educational system is a money making business too. Most people don't see it like that.

4reigningqueen:
for instance there are establishments that promote workers based on wot they have in terms of certificates despite the fact that they have workers that are better in terms of contribution to the progress of that establishment.

Well you are right. Certifications are just away for employers to verify if you have the training. How much the person retained or learned is a different story.

4reigningqueen:
thoughtful and very very inspiring.thanks.how about this craze for certificates that we see around

Explain?

I hate the race for certificates. I believe education should be applied and experienced not just memorized and for showing off. I want to home school my children.

I think it really depends. I don't believe in getting degrees for show and bragging purposes. An education is a lifelong thing. Everyone needs a general education, then once people find what they love they pursue it. Give them exposure and then they have to right choose what they like.

You never know who you will inspire with that math lesson you taught. As a teacher, its never good to be biased about information.

I have not posted on here for almost a year. I have some free time.

kandiikane:
Who asked for proof? See you, you despise African men so much I can taste it. . My dear, you mindset stinks. .

and im supposed be upset because kandipoo think my mindset stinks. Instead swallow it. Your opinions does not matter. Live your life I live my life.  STFU.

kandiikane:
^^Bull[i]sh[/i]it!! Ashawo business abi? So what if Nigerians approach you it does not make you Nigerian or Africa. . Silly girl. .

Perfect example of why I don't mess with the average Nigerian men. Look at the mentality.

I have never engaged in any activity in selling my body. I don't have to prove anything to you.

 Haters will always hate. What else are they good for?

How is it so hard you to f--uccking understand that no one cares about your definition of Nigeriannnessss. Do I have to repeat this again? STFU

tpacalipse:
@merger
Look, the major difference between a Nigerian babe and a white woman is that; a white woman would have achieved all she wants or almost all she wants in life (academic, finance, career, material things like e.t.c). And if she now sees that the only thing that is missing is a man, then she waits for a man to come while most Naija babes will never achieve anything, all they will be looking for is a man that will fulfill all their needs.

Totally wrong and false. I can only speak for myself. I run my own businesses. I create my own destiny and don't look at a man as a means to escaping poverty.  I believe everyone has the ability to make things happen in their life and should not depend on anyone. You can't predict the future. Better to be prepared than sorry.

kandiikane:
^^No one asked you. The thread is about Nigerian women and YOU my dear, aren't.

Its does not matter what your definition of NIGERIANNNNNESS is B_I_T_C_H. At the end of the day, Nigerians approach me. Shut your trap.

tpacalipse:
In the days of our mothers, Nigerian babes were hard to get then. But in this generation of ours, forget it. THE CHEAPEST things now in the world are naija babes. May God help the unmarried brothers in naija coz I don't think there are many babes outside there these days that are marriage materials in naija, even naija babes in uk or yankee are not even berra.

Most Naija babes are thieves, arrogant, silly, beggars. All u need to sleep with a Nigerian babe now is to own a HONDA baby boy car and be able to buy ice cream, meat pie and popcorn. Check, there used to b many of them @ Galleria begging for popcorn from men, I don't know if they are still there these days.

Then who says they are HARD TO GET? On what criteria or from where are you coming? Get your facts before posting.

This post is wrong. I don't look for a man to provide anything for me. Don't know where this C-R_A_P is coming from.

Trust me you are better off not being with one that dates only or even dates White Women. Trust me. I don't want any of them near. I stay clear of them. They can stay up white women a-s-s.

coogar:
thanks for proving me right then.
like i stated earlier, it's either you are a wum or you're suffering from identity crisis
probably a bit of both. . . .

i rest my case. . . .

Whatever you want to believe. Trust me, your opinions don't mean squats. Your case should have been rested a long time ago.  I'm not looking for a man online. Your views don't mean JACK.

coogar:
you can only marry one man?
and this man would be from where? nigeria?

if you meet any nigerian male that is ready to put up with this baggage of yours, be wary and flee from him.
he only needs you for the green card. no nigerian man would tolerate 1/100th of the crap you keep spewing.

There a time and place for everything. This is a forum.  A time for debate and discussion. Not a marriage sermon/courtship. How dumb do you really think I'm? lol Some women know how to play the game remember that.

Princek12:
Merge, I am not trying to judge you, but I think I know what your problem is. You have Nigerian parents who are either from the village or are illiterates, and you have never been exposed to a variety of Nigerian people. Your parents were fortunate to get an American visa or won a lottery and stayed in America. You grow up in an environment where you suffered from identity crisis, not knowing whether to embrace your parents village or illiterate way of life or your American way of life. Your parents did not acculture you properly to Nigerian customs and practices; and if they did, it was to the village or archaic way of life. You now fear that the average Nigerian man will be like your village father. You have probably never been to Nigeria before; and even if you have, your parents took you straight to the village, where you were exposed only to palmwine tappers. You now know think you are on some mysterious higher level than Nigerian men because you were raised in Yankee. I have seen many girls like you. Eya? Pele. Sorry sorry oooooo

totally false.

I'm probably confusing the two myself because I think its common for guys to think of rejection and playing hard to get as the same thing.

coogar:
we don't want you to change. . . .remaining this way forever would please us.

you dislike nigerian men and you are on a nigerian forum? what is it with you that is distorted?
maybe you need a psychiatric hospital to sort out your dementia.
you are probably one of those akata babes who has aged beyond marriageable age and you are looking for an avenue to pour out your frustrations.

i have met several girls like you in the states. one-tracked mind, mostly virgins, spent more years in school than in the outside world looking for the cure of hiv virus, kept themselves holy for mr right until they realized their market is now obsolete and so on and forth.

the bad news is. . . . .nigerian males don't care about your standards. . . . .nigeria is the most populous black nation in the world.
there are bazillions of better women like you in nigeria. . . . . .we have seen it all, so stiffen your middle finger and sit on it.

All you can do is judge me. I don't care to be the nigerian standards. I will not marry 100 men. Only one. I can only be me and that is enough. Most Nigerian men want women that shout  out Jesus and wear weaves. I don't do any of that. If I voice my opinion that means I'm older than 30. Funny logic.

What ever you say about me does not matter. I have my belief. Nothing can change that. Criticize me all you want I will remain the same. Its not going to change a DAMN thing.

Princek12:
Merge,

I know you can stay here for as long as you want; you cannot get enough of us, so you are going no where. However, playing hard to get does not mean that the lady does not want the guy; it just means that the lady thinks that she has to play to hard to get for no apparent logical reason.

If a girl does not want a guy, there are matured ways of rejecting a guy, and she does not have to act like an animal to do so. And when a lady plays hard to get, she internally wants the guy but feels she has to play hard to get just because she think it is the right thing to do, and she will go home and start crying at night when the guy abandons her.

You would lick my feet if you met me in person, for I am the type of dude who will put you in your place. I am the guy you dream about all day. Trust me, I know.

I have never rejected any guy like an animal. I'm fairly nice about it. I don't know where you got that from. I have never supported such behavior.  Seriously, I'm not easily impressed by anybody. Plus I don't like cocky/arrogant guys. I'm not like  the women you meet that jump on a guy because of his money or whatever.

Attack and Judge me. I have preferences and explained that some women are not playing hard to get.  Maybe you don't fit the bill. Simple as that.

I will not get into my looks. Is this a beauty thread? I have nothing to prove anyone on here. When men don't know how to deal with an intelligent woman, they say things about her looks. Let stay on topic.

premechaz:
Are you hot? Why are you on NL? Looking for a husband? Are you > 30 yrs old? When was your LMP?

No been on NL for 5 years.

I'm here. [quote author=BABE! link=topic=744765.msg9016922#msg9016922 date=1314397660]Well, she's gone. Gone for Good. See the way they were suffocating the babe, On top Criteria.

I'm Yoruba, and I don't yab guys that approach me. Quit generalizing. How hard is that?

So, you're even married. Se iyawo yin yab yin when you toasted her? [/quote]

[quote author=BABE! link=topic=744765.msg9016708#msg9016708 date=1314395428]I know right.Gbam.


Aunty Merge, stop wasting your time here---and sign out (if you wish). Too many judgemental folks on here.[/quote]Thank you. I have not posted here in a long time. I see.

okooyinbo:
She is my Nemesis. A kinda christian terrorist of a girl,  If she had her way, we would all be shouting Jesu this, Jesu that. She loves Jesus too much.

So Sad. Jesus has replaced our native Gods. I'm learning about Odinani. The Igbo practiced this before Christianity.  It has similarities to what the ancient Egyptian practiced. It's really fascinating. Wonder if some people still practice it exclusively.

Coogar don't even know anything about African religions. Juju is not a religion. haha Ignorant. You don't fit what I want now you attack.

okooyinbo:
Merge, you see, it is really not difficult to state your taste. I understand your insecurity sha. Nigerian people are kinda overdoing that foreign religions thing. It's really amazing you are an opposite figure of TPIAH. That one is a Jesurist. If I were younger and not married, I would have paid you a visit to see if you are a marriageable material.

Who is TPIAH?

coogar:
there are more than 200,000 males on this forum that would satisfy these requirements.
too easy. . . . .but to follow native african religion? where people still kill humans and drink their blood?
what are you? a vampire?

What are you talking about? I was nice enough to share. You are so ignorant. No offense. Wow.

claremont:
^^^^
Is it so hard for you to give us your own idea of what your ideal man should be? We know none of us meets your obviously "high standards", but others may learn from it on how to make their own standards.

I will be concise.

Care for their health and watch what food they eat.
A man that don't believe in Christianity/Muslim.  Follow native African religion like Odinani, , etcs.  
Who believe in owning businesses and manage money well. No overspending. I would like to establish a business in Nigeria or Africa. I run two businesses.
Interested in Homeschooling their own children/maybe interested in adoption
Who wants to go back to Africa/travel there often.
Knowledgeable/educated