Please shed more light on this topic.is it that u were given the cheque a year ago and you've not been able to cash it since?i

1st question i would like to ask is 'are you a nag?',2nd is do u know your husband's medical history?sometimes a woman's nagging and trouble finding ways drives a man away from home and also he might not be that mentally ok therefore the violence.
Having said all that,i don't think your hubby is matured enough for marriage cos i don't see any reason why running away from home for 5days is the answer to any squabbles.

This lady should just shut it!what is she trying to prove?where has it ever been seen or heard that the first wife ever ok with a second one?If u've seen one just know that she's pretending.It would have been better if she said she couldn't speak on her behalf but that they are trying to get along.Am a first wife and pray to be the last in my husband's house,can't imagine one kereku girl honing in on my territory and expecting me to be ok with it.