₦airaland Forum

noetic:
girls can lie. . . . . . . . . . .

ha!!!!
see sexist!

vivaladiva:
i aint seen her with a broke niggabut i aint sayin she is a gold digga
persistently broke guys are very irritating and hugely unattractive
if u havent gota big privates, please have a bently

rotflmao!

noetic:
is every girl an asset?

of curse not. But if you're carrying a gold digga around, why come complaining?

noetic:
u make it sound as if the best tin that can ever happen to a man is to have a girl, . . . . . horse shit

https://l.yimg.com/us.yimg.com/i/mesg/emoticons7/21.gif dude, you make me laff jare . Same way some baboons are crying about what makes a woman fulfilled! Does a man complete a woman? abeg, dnt go religious here!!

noetic:
so d fact that he is unemployed disqualifies him from having a grlfriend.
as far as I m concerned I will not date a liability. neither will I date a girl who I don't respect.
A girl who tinks money is all can never earn my respect.

The fact that he's unemployed and carrying a girl that'll need him financially is the problem here.
Open your eyes, there are some women out there, taking you men for fools! They only want you for the jingles and rustling in your pockets.


Dnt take me wrong here, am not saying money is all that matters in a relationship, but I am saying, if you ain't got no money take your broke@$$ home, or to find a job!

noetic:
no one is poor. the issue is must a girl b a liability? and who told u there r no grls 4 ugly guys?

very typical

Who says no one is poor?
Dude, open your eyes welli welli. An unemployed man carrying a girl is likely to complain abt women loving money too much!

Of course ugly guys get girls too, there are some naija men in a relationship right?

michelin89:
Moneyless men are always complaining, damn! I am not interested in their money, but I sure cherish my ears!

abi o. . the poor ones are always complaing about gold diggas or they keep insisting that "love is everything"
The ugly ones are always complaining about women being natural biarches

abeg, get some money to take care of your woman and go gay!

Oga, stop generalizing or shut it up jo!

Nickelback - Far Away

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minto:
Haba Mesmerize, you no sabi read, we're talking about figure 8 and not figure 1

lol. .
uhm. . what you call a figure 1 is a figure 8 to another

Hinder - Lips Of An Angel

Jill Scott - My Love

Jill Scott "A Long Walk"

_{Just can't stop listening to this song}

uhm. . !

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cooldude62:
i close this thread in the name of the -----the ------and the ----,--------

i discovered redhotchic's not who i thought she was

rotflmao!!! was RedHotChic even paying attention to you before?

syren:
You wouldn't believe some of them. One child in naija, another in holland, another in the UK. It's ridiculous

LOL!!! and later on, they'll complain about women tying them down with child support and what not.

syren:
There's still hope, don't be disheartened, though it might be hard to find elligible bachelors around your age bracket. My mum's in the same situation and the only men that are available are either divorced, irresponsible (having children up and down the place) or just want papers so they can stay in the country. But they are still available, make the best of what you've got I say

lol. . sorry, but I thought this was funny!
eya. .

dreeldee:
You miss road

arrrg, dreeldee, did you like sleep wake up late or what?
laterz

beauteous:
Lmao. . . preach it!!

mesmerize

^{Good morning, hon.}

Preach wetin? The Lord don help her. . but did she take his sighs?

It's like the story of the man that got flooded. forgot the story sha!

ibkaye:
i think so too

but if notcheii , that's old o, but not saying there isn't any hope, through Christ, all things are possible

kai!! that's even making it worst!

Yes, but the Lord helps those who help themselves

TOH:
I completely agree with his.

But I dnt fully agree.

one question. . why did you wait till you're 35?

419er:
No, there is no room for insult, But Abortion in the case is not a crime and should not be in no form consider as a criminal act.
Sometimes we may be force by circumstance to live a certain life which may be cruel.

uhm. . each person to his/her opinion.
No vexing if no one agrees with yours. .just smile and walk away

noetic:
No please don't get me wrong.

This thread is a continuation of the Love and Crime thread.
if a spouse murderous past should b reported to the cops because its unforgivable.
Y should a conscious abortionist b forgiven?

And plz when did I mention that? If she knew what she was doing while sleeping with the guy, if she wanted the sex, that's another problem. She's not a victim, she knew what she was doing so why should her abortion be looked at as forgivable abortion?

noetic:
and the only exception should be the case of a genetic disease.

now please give me a reason y i should forgive a spouse who consciously commited abortion?

arrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrg!! a spouse? when did I mention a spouse?
look here, my friend. . I said sometimes the victim of rape might not want the baby. . therefore she has the right to abort it.

TOH,
You just might never know. . ok, they might file abortion illegal, then one day, you might be in that situation and wants to abort the baby. . but then too bad, you can't. let me tell you a little joke.


read this joke :

A rat looked through a crack in the wall to see the farmer and his wife opening a package. What food might it contain? He was aghast to discover that it was a rat trap. Retreating to the farmyard the rat began to proclaim, "There is a rat trap in the house, a rat trap in the house!"

The chicken clucked and scratched and, raising her head, said, "Excuse me, Mr. Rat, I can tell this is a grave concern to you, but it is of no consequence to me. I cannot be bothered by it."

The rat ran to the pig and with a plea in his voice, said, "There is a rat trap in the house, a rat trap in the house!"

"I am so very sorry Mr. Rat," sympathized the pig, "But there is really nothing I can do but pray. Be assured you are in my prayers."

The rat turned to the cow, feeling quite desperate. "Like wow, Mr. Rat," the cow said, "A rat trap. Oh boy, like that really puts me in grave danger."

So the rat, feeling very dejected, returned to the house to face the farmer's rat trap alone. That very night a sound was heard throughout the house, like the sound of a rat trap catching its prey.

The farmer's wife rushed to see what was caught. In the darkness she did not see the venomous snake whose tail the trap had caught, and the snake bit her. The farmer rushed her to the hospital.

The farmer's wife returned home from the hospital with a desperate fever. Now everyone knows you treat a fever with fresh chicken soup, so the farmer took his hatchet to the farmyard for the soup's main ingredient. His wife's sickness continued to worsen, and friends and neighbors came to sit with her around the clock. The farmer, to feed them, had to butcher the pig.

The farmer's wife did not get well. In fact, she died. Many people came for her funeral. So many, in fact, that the farmer had to slaughter the cow to provide enough meat for all of them to eat.

So the next time you hear someone is facing a problem and you think it does not concern you, remember that when there is a rat trap in the house the whole farmyard is at risk.

syren:
That's true, it's not a crime yet the government complains that abortion rates are too high.
[b]I think it's because people pay for them, that's why they don't take action. [/b]It would also go against the basic human right of freedom of choice, I guess. But either way I agree it should be a crime, unless the baby is a risk to the mother's life or a result of rape/incest.

rotflmao!!
I believe some ppl do it under roof or maybe they bribed the doctor to do it for them without recording it

noetic:
so you're saying it is safer to abort a developing foetus than to proceed for medication to prevent the foetus from developing at all.
u also mentioned protecting someone.
y would u protect someone that wickedly raped you and then report someone whom you're married to but has a rapist past to the police? i don't understand.

hahha!! No, am saying in some cases abortion is forgivable, and in other cases, it's just plain murder.
As ima1 clearly stated.
You never heard of father raping their children? If the child loved the father, dnt you think she'll try to protect him. Or maybe her family depends on that man and they're insisting she keeps it a secret. Later on, they tell her to abort the baby. Wouldn't she be the innocent one in this case? Did she want the baby? did she begged to be raped?

noetic:
u can't justify the reason y it is forgivable. i guess you're only sentimental because its a feminine crime.
abortion is a criminal offence in certain countries, it is only unfortunate that it is a non-issue in nigeria.

none the less, it is a moral crime against humanity. whatever makes murder and rape unforgivable also makes abortion unforgivable regardless of the reason.

Ha!!!! dnt get Nigeria into this, that country is in its own dimension! They'll rather want to deal with cross dressers and homosexuality, rather than deal with serious health problems.

Yes, abortion is moral against humanity, it's murder. In some cases, one has to understand that there are sometimes no options for the woman but to abort the baby.

ima1:
yes it is murder, but forgivable in situations when the girl was raped and she got pregnant. but when such act is intentional then it shouldn't be forgivable, thats why they pay for it in the future when they end up not being able to have babies.

100% agree

whitelexi:
Somebody's got to show this dude how to manage women

so you're not somebody?

noetic:
there are immediate medications for rape victims to avoid pregnancy. if the victim carelessly allows the fetus to grow, then that does not call for abortion.
and why is this form of murder forgivable? u said this in the Love and Crime thread about a spouse that commits murder in the past

Some victims fear telling their parents or others abt the event that occurred. Some even go into withdrawal and depression. You would not xpect the person that keeps insisting to herself that the event did not happen or maybe she's trying to protect someone, to go and report to the police that rape occurred, much less going to her doctor to get the medication to avoid the pregnancy from progressing.

Well, I think it's forgivable because most abortion does not warrant a person's arrest. You can't say oh, am going to "abort" my baby, hope the police does not find out or find me! It's a legal murder.

It depends on the situation. . sometimes you might not be able to help it.
Either if the baby is diagnosed to have genetic diseases or maybe the baby is a result of rape.
But still, I think abortion is a kinder, more forgivable word for murder. . .