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RomanceRe: We Need Husbands, But Men Not Forthcoming by Mesmerize(f): 3:20am On Jun 30, 2008
Negro_Ntns:
no thats not love. He doesnt love himself and she doesnt love him either. Love has nothhing to do with thaqt. Self love first, only then can you know how to love another. If you don't know who you are u cannot know who another is much less have the kindness and compassion to be affectionate and romantic towards them.
hmmm, am speechless!
I'll have to give u a high 5 for this wink
RomanceRe: Commitment - A New Perspective by Mesmerize(f): 3:18am On Jun 30, 2008
onyinye2:
@ all the males involved in this thread

your time will come. just wait until you find your ONE TRUE SOUL MATE and see what im saying. she will be every thing you ever wanted in a woman. and she will prove my point that romance is truly the wholesome goodness to the heart and soul.
the ideal of soulmate is a joke.
if people are still living through this fairy tale , then we'll continue to have more spinsters and single parents.
RomanceRe: Commitment - A New Perspective by Mesmerize(f): 3:17am On Jun 30, 2008
Doyin,
stop confusing 5 minute banging with love jor. .

If love no dey escape your immune system, tell me, what's your marital status?https://l.yimg.com/us.yimg.com/i/mesg/emoticons7/5.gif
RomanceRe: We Need Husbands, But Men Not Forthcoming by Mesmerize(f): 3:15am On Jun 30, 2008
Negro_Ntns:
Mes,

of course there are bunch of men out there who were dumped because of their inabilitiy to exhibit competence. I have seen women date men who were out of a job. It would be different if he lostthe job after the relationship began, no she knew it when they met but to her thats an advantageous position to be because she feels she can control his will. Both of them are wrong. You don't date when you don't have the means and reserve to sustain the relationship, it will only weaken your voice and your manhood will be trodden on.
In another word, what's love gotta do with it?
RomanceRe: We Need Husbands, But Men Not Forthcoming by Mesmerize(f): 2:57am On Jun 30, 2008
Negro_Ntns:
I admit that there are women in their 30s, 40s, single, who have gone through two or more dumps with men that they believed will take them to the altar and didnt happen. I asked this question earlier, what recourse is there for a woman who at 25 is in relationship with a man, in fact engaged to him and then he dumped her at 27? Now this the one that need to apply lessons for her next move. She should be saying to the next man " all you got is a year< if we are not married, I'm gone" Men need to be threatened sometimes.
hmmm. . sometimes I wonder. Are the men dumping the women not being affected too?

Anywaz, of course men do need to be threatened, but if we do, what would the men start calling us? apart from gold diggas, bitches, miss if you dnt marry me we're through? what?!
RomanceRe: We Need Husbands, But Men Not Forthcoming by Mesmerize(f): 2:47am On Jun 30, 2008
Negro_Ntns:
I should be married. Iam looking for someone to marry and i will do so when I settle on the choice. I have all the time I can wait. I can equally choose to be single and there is no social stigma against me as a man doing as much as it is for a woman. cool
Hon, this is what we're talking abt.
dnt blame your single status on the excuse of "I chose to be single".
abegi!
RomanceRe: Commitment - A New Perspective by Mesmerize(f): 2:44am On Jun 30, 2008
EXPONENT:
dude must be seriously UGLY.

Females are DYING for a well educated, employed brotha with a balanced psychology.


Besides, your reasons don't make sense.

You marry for LOVE (which is not a good reason) or Partnership(somebody to help pay the bills).

Well, that's what we do here in Amerikka.

between, the ones that marry for love , GET DIVORCED often.

Love fades, but the bill must be PAID.


Recognize!
lmao@ ugly comment!

Anywaz, this post does make sense.
People who often go into a relationship with the idea that love solves everything, most of the time always crumble faster.
hahha, love fades? hmm! that's tru o. I mean, you love him he loves you, bla bla, what's love gotta do with it when the banks and business and home agents are calling you to get the bill paid.
Abeg, love is not everything jare!

exponent, I must steal your word. .people plzzz recognize cheesy
RomanceRe: We Need Husbands, But Men Not Forthcoming by Mesmerize(f): 2:38am On Jun 30, 2008
Negro_Ntns:
@ David, on head in the sand,,,,

when i came in saw that i cracked up before i could talk. thats not nice Dave, no graphics grin
dude, what are you saying? huh
RomanceRe: We Need Husbands, But Men Not Forthcoming by Mesmerize(f): 2:37am On Jun 30, 2008
onyinye2:
@mesmerize

it is not Husband season. it is the season that men are desperate for wives and feel that it is not there fault they are not married but the women.
hmmm. .really!
Just wondering why I see bullets flying across the room
RomanceRe: We Need Husbands, But Men Not Forthcoming by Mesmerize(f): 2:33am On Jun 30, 2008
hmm. .

It must be husband season. . everyone is either crying "am too old for marriage" or "I love being single". . c'mon ladies, what's going on? huh
Forum GamesRe: Look At The Person's Profile Above Yours & Make A Comment by Mesmerize(f): 2:23am On Jun 30, 2008
@doyin
na you sabi
RomanceRe: Swimming Pool Romance by Mesmerize(f): 2:22am On Jun 30, 2008
syren:
@ noetic

why is it everytime a guy has to spend a bit of money on a girl she's a gold digger?
The real question is. . why is he so concern abt it since no woman is paying him attention? tongue
RomanceRe: So I Met This Nigerian Man by Mesmerize(f): 2:21am On Jun 30, 2008
Nella:
Nigerian men
hehehe grin
Forum GamesRe: Look At The Person's Profile Above Yours & Make A Comment by Mesmerize(f): 12:35am On Jun 30, 2008
Doyin, emi lo nbu beye? emini omo rada rada? ewo ni ti tie ni be?
grandpa, no try it o angry angry
You don go kolo? shocked

hehhehe, bring the koboko then, you need a lil spanking sef lipsrsealed
But I'll have to warn you, there is no touching allowed cheesy
Forum GamesRe: Look At The Person's Profile Above Yours & Make A Comment by Mesmerize(f): 12:29am On Jun 30, 2008
Only one doyin?
you don copyright the name?
oogabdun!
RomanceRe: We Need Husbands, But Men Not Forthcoming by Mesmerize(f): 12:22am On Jun 30, 2008
Is this husband season or what? huh
Forum GamesRe: Look At The Person's Profile Above Yours & Make A Comment by Mesmerize(f): 12:19am On Jun 30, 2008
doyin13:
@MESMERIZE

Agbalumo Agbalumo Agblumo
doyin, maje ka ja o. leave my boobs na. . they're not yours jare!! angry

Go and find acid or omo eko. . grin
Forum GamesRe: Look At The Person's Profile Above Yours & Make A Comment by Mesmerize(f): 12:13am On Jun 30, 2008
dreeldee, answer my question na. . what were you staring at? cool

he dares not comment na, he knows who i am wink
Forum GamesRe: Look At The Person's Profile Above Yours & Make A Comment by Mesmerize(f): 12:05am On Jun 30, 2008
what are u staring at?
RomanceRe: 35 Years Old Woman And Not Married? Now What? by Mesmerize(f): 11:46pm On Jun 29, 2008
I see you're still after beauty. . rotflmao!!
RomanceRe: 35 Years Old Woman And Not Married? Now What? by Mesmerize(f): 11:41pm On Jun 29, 2008
jek_kad:
i miss u pass my sister,how body?
am fine o. . I'll get back to you later grin
behave o
RomanceRe: 35 Years Old Woman And Not Married? Now What? by Mesmerize(f): 11:38pm On Jun 29, 2008
rotflmao!! hahha!! I knew it was you!
Missed you jare kiss kiss
rotflmao!! hehehe! oh lawwwd, just imagine the REASON! grin grin
RomanceRe: 35 Years Old Woman And Not Married? Now What? by Mesmerize(f): 11:24pm On Jun 29, 2008
beauteous:
Lmao. . . see ya head.
dnt yhu knw who d person is huh

behave yaself jo.shogbo tongue
hmmm. . me thinke I was right the first time. . well, if it's not jenny, I want my "baby" back o! cheesy

I am behaving myself right now, dnt worry tongue

who tot you that yoruba sef?
RomanceRe: 35 Years Old Woman And Not Married? Now What? by Mesmerize(f): 11:20pm On Jun 29, 2008
beauteous:
What did beauty do again? undecided
plz tell me that's jenny I just called baby, not someone else shocked
RomanceRe: 35 Years Old Woman And Not Married? Now What? by Mesmerize(f): 11:14pm On Jun 29, 2008
jek_kad:
@poster

and where is d father of your kids?
baby, where have you been? hahhahahaha
wetin you do na?
and beauty didn't even tell me? angry angry angry
RomanceRe: Why Do Women Want Only Men With Money? by Mesmerize(f): 10:07pm On Jun 29, 2008
lonelypal:
says me, not they grin
Ok, so he says. .

[size=4pt]You're still broke[/size]
RomanceRe: Why Do Women Want Only Men With Money? by Mesmerize(f): 9:52pm On Jun 29, 2008
beauteous:
Berra! wink
No flirting ma'am. Just giving them attention without intention smiley
RomanceRe: 35 Years Old Woman And Not Married? Now What? by Mesmerize(f): 9:49pm On Jun 29, 2008
see their head. fourthed ko farted ni
RomanceRe: Why Do Women Want Only Men With Money? by Mesmerize(f): 9:46pm On Jun 29, 2008
lonelypal:
cool, but i aint THE BROKE NIGGA grin
So they say. .
RomanceRe: Why Do Women Want Only Men With Money? by Mesmerize(f): 9:45pm On Jun 29, 2008
beauteous:
mesmerize,i hp u ren't flirtin huh
No ma! I would never!! cool grin
RomanceRe: Who Do You Think Lies The Most "guyz Or Lady" by Mesmerize(f): 9:44pm On Jun 29, 2008
noetic:
am I lyin?

but its true. . . . . grin
You're not lying!

It's just funny that you "truthful" men keep lying to yourself and telling yourself the women mean that they say. So you're lying to yourself and letting yourself being taken for a fool tongue
RomanceRe: Why Do Women Want Only Men With Money? by Mesmerize(f): 9:28pm On Jun 29, 2008
lonelypal:
Gosh!, what in[b] heaven's name was she thinking [/b]posting that
thinking abt "lonelypal"? huh

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