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[quote author=Negro_Ntns link=topic=146633.msg2438377#msg2438377 date=1214792355]no thats not love. He doesnt love himself and she doesnt love him either. Love has nothhing to do with thaqt. Self love first, only then can you know how to love another. If you don't know who you are u cannot know who another is much less have the kindness and compassion to be affectionate and romantic towards them.[/quote]hmmm, am speechless!
I'll have to give u a high 5 for this

onyinye2:
@ all the males involved in this thread

your time will come. just wait until you find your ONE TRUE SOUL MATE and see what im saying. she will be every thing you ever wanted in a woman. and she will prove my point that romance is truly the wholesome goodness to the heart and soul.

the ideal of soulmate is a joke.
if people are still living through this fairy tale , then we'll continue to have more spinsters and single parents.

Doyin,
stop confusing 5 minute banging with love jor. .

If love no dey escape your immune system, tell me, what's your marital status?https://l.yimg.com/us.yimg.com/i/mesg/emoticons7/5.gif

[quote author=Negro_Ntns link=topic=146633.msg2438363#msg2438363 date=1214791933]Mes,

of course there are bunch of men out there who were dumped because of their inabilitiy to exhibit competence. I have seen women date men who were out of a job. It would be different if he lostthe job after the relationship began, no she knew it when they met but to her thats an advantageous position to be because she feels she can control his will. Both of them are wrong. You don't date when you don't have the means and reserve to sustain the relationship, it will only weaken your voice and your manhood will be trodden on.[/quote]In another word, what's love gotta do with it?

[quote author=Negro_Ntns link=topic=146633.msg2438319#msg2438319 date=1214790746]I admit that there are women in their 30s, 40s, single, who have gone through two or more dumps with men that they believed will take them to the altar and didnt happen. I asked this question earlier, what recourse is there for a woman who at 25 is in relationship with a man, in fact engaged to him and then he dumped her at 27? Now this the one that need to apply lessons for her next move. She should be saying to the next man " all you got is a year< if we are not married, I'm gone" Men need to be threatened sometimes.[/quote]hmmm. . sometimes I wonder. Are the men dumping the women not being affected too?

Anywaz, of course men do need to be threatened, but if we do, what would the men start calling us? apart from gold diggas, bitches, miss if you dnt marry me we're through? what?!

[quote author=Negro_Ntns link=topic=146633.msg2438304#msg2438304 date=1214790366]I should be married. Iam looking for someone to marry and i will do so when I settle on the choice. I have all the time I can wait. I can equally choose to be single and there is no social stigma against me as a man doing as much as it is for a woman. [/quote]Hon, this is what we're talking abt.
dnt blame your single status on the excuse of "I chose to be single".
abegi!

EXPONENT:
dude must be seriously UGLY.

Females are DYING for a well educated, employed brotha with a balanced psychology.


Besides, your reasons don't make sense.

You marry for LOVE (which is not a good reason) or Partnership(somebody to help pay the bills).

Well, that's what we do here in Amerikka.

between, the ones that marry for love , GET DIVORCED often.

Love fades, but the bill must be PAID.


Recognize!

lmao@ ugly comment!

Anywaz, this post does make sense.
People who often go into a relationship with the idea that love solves everything, most of the time always crumble faster.
hahha, love fades? hmm! that's tru o. I mean, you love him he loves you, bla bla, what's love gotta do with it when the banks and business and home agents are calling you to get the bill paid.
Abeg, love is not everything jare!

exponent, I must steal your word. .people plzzz recognize

[quote author=Negro_Ntns link=topic=146633.msg2438284#msg2438284 date=1214789871]@ David, on head in the sand,,,,

when i came in saw that i cracked up before i could talk. thats not nice Dave, no graphics [/quote]dude, what are you saying?

onyinye2:
@mesmerize

it is not Husband season. it is the season that men are desperate for wives and feel that it is not there fault they are not married but the women.

hmmm. .really!
Just wondering why I see bullets flying across the room

hmm. .

It must be husband season. . everyone is either crying "am too old for marriage" or "I love being single". . c'mon ladies, what's going on?

@doyin
na you sabi

syren:
@ noetic

why is it everytime a guy has to spend a bit of money on a girl she's a gold digger?

The real question is. . why is he so concern abt it since no woman is paying him attention?

Nella:
Nigerian men

hehehe

Doyin, emi lo nbu beye? emini omo rada rada? ewo ni ti tie ni be?
grandpa, no try it o
You don go kolo?

hehhehe, bring the koboko then, you need a lil spanking sef
But I'll have to warn you, there is no touching allowed

Only one doyin?
you don copyright the name?
oogabdun!

Is this husband season or what?

doyin13:
@MESMERIZE

Agbalumo Agbalumo Agblumo

doyin, maje ka ja o. leave my boobs na. . they're not yours jare!!

Go and find acid or omo eko. .

dreeldee, answer my question na. . what were you staring at?

he dares not comment na, he knows who i am

what are u staring at?

I see you're still after beauty. . rotflmao!!

[quote author=jek_kad link=topic=146591.msg2437852#msg2437852 date=1214779212]i miss u pass my sister,how body?[/quote]am fine o. . I'll get back to you later
behave o

rotflmao!! hahha!! I knew it was you!
Missed you jare
rotflmao!! hehehe! oh lawwwd, just imagine the REASON!

beauteous:
Lmao. . . see ya head.
dnt yhu knw who d person is

behave yaself jo.shogbo

hmmm. . me thinke I was right the first time. . well, if it's not jenny, I want my "baby" back o!

I am behaving myself right now, dnt worry

who tot you that yoruba sef?

beauteous:
What did beauty do again?

plz tell me that's jenny I just called baby, not someone else

[quote author=jek_kad link=topic=146591.msg2437745#msg2437745 date=1214777342]@poster

and where is d father of your kids?[/quote]baby, where have you been? hahhahahaha
wetin you do na?
and beauty didn't even tell me?

lonelypal:
says me, not they

Ok, so he says. .

[size=4pt]_{You're still broke}[/size]

beauteous:
Berra!

No flirting ma'am. Just giving them attention without intention

see their head. fourthed ko farted ni

lonelypal:
, but i aint THE BROKE NIGGA

So they say. .

beauteous:
mesmerize,i hp u ren't flirtin

No ma! I would never!!

noetic:
am I lyin?

but its true. . . . .

You're not lying!

It's just funny that you "truthful" men keep lying to yourself and telling yourself the women mean that they say. So you're lying to yourself and letting yourself being taken for a fool

lonelypal:
Gosh!, what in[b] heaven's name was she thinking [/b]posting that

thinking abt "lonelypal"?