Romance › Re: We Need Husbands, But Men Not Forthcoming by Mesmerize(f): 3:20am On Jun 30, 2008 |
Negro_Ntns: no thats not love. He doesnt love himself and she doesnt love him either. Love has nothhing to do with thaqt. Self love first, only then can you know how to love another. If you don't know who you are u cannot know who another is much less have the kindness and compassion to be affectionate and romantic towards them. hmmm, am speechless! I'll have to give u a high 5 for this  |
Romance › Re: Commitment - A New Perspective by Mesmerize(f): 3:18am On Jun 30, 2008 |
onyinye2: @ all the males involved in this thread
your time will come. just wait until you find your ONE TRUE SOUL MATE and see what im saying. she will be every thing you ever wanted in a woman. and she will prove my point that romance is truly the wholesome goodness to the heart and soul. the ideal of soulmate is a joke. if people are still living through this fairy tale , then we'll continue to have more spinsters and single parents. |
Romance › Re: Commitment - A New Perspective by Mesmerize(f): 3:17am On Jun 30, 2008 |
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Romance › Re: We Need Husbands, But Men Not Forthcoming by Mesmerize(f): 3:15am On Jun 30, 2008 |
Negro_Ntns: Mes,
of course there are bunch of men out there who were dumped because of their inabilitiy to exhibit competence. I have seen women date men who were out of a job. It would be different if he lostthe job after the relationship began, no she knew it when they met but to her thats an advantageous position to be because she feels she can control his will. Both of them are wrong. You don't date when you don't have the means and reserve to sustain the relationship, it will only weaken your voice and your manhood will be trodden on. In another word, what's love gotta do with it? |
Romance › Re: We Need Husbands, But Men Not Forthcoming by Mesmerize(f): 2:57am On Jun 30, 2008 |
Negro_Ntns: I admit that there are women in their 30s, 40s, single, who have gone through two or more dumps with men that they believed will take them to the altar and didnt happen. I asked this question earlier, what recourse is there for a woman who at 25 is in relationship with a man, in fact engaged to him and then he dumped her at 27? Now this the one that need to apply lessons for her next move. She should be saying to the next man " all you got is a year< if we are not married, I'm gone" Men need to be threatened sometimes. hmmm. . sometimes I wonder. Are the men dumping the women not being affected too? Anywaz, of course men do need to be threatened, but if we do, what would the men start calling us? apart from gold diggas, bitches, miss if you dnt marry me we're through? what?! |
Romance › Re: We Need Husbands, But Men Not Forthcoming by Mesmerize(f): 2:47am On Jun 30, 2008 |
Negro_Ntns: I should be married. Iam looking for someone to marry and i will do so when I settle on the choice. I have all the time I can wait. I can equally choose to be single and there is no social stigma against me as a man doing as much as it is for a woman.  Hon, this is what we're talking abt. dnt blame your single status on the excuse of "I chose to be single". abegi! |
Romance › Re: Commitment - A New Perspective by Mesmerize(f): 2:44am On Jun 30, 2008 |
EXPONENT: dude must be seriously UGLY.
Females are DYING for a well educated, employed brotha with a balanced psychology.
Besides, your reasons don't make sense.
You marry for LOVE (which is not a good reason) or Partnership(somebody to help pay the bills).
Well, that's what we do here in Amerikka.
between, the ones that marry for love , GET DIVORCED often.
Love fades, but the bill must be PAID.
Recognize! lmao@ ugly comment! Anywaz, this post does make sense. People who often go into a relationship with the idea that love solves everything, most of the time always crumble faster. hahha, love fades? hmm! that's tru o. I mean, you love him he loves you, bla bla, what's love gotta do with it when the banks and business and home agents are calling you to get the bill paid. Abeg, love is not everything jare! exponent, I must steal your word. .people plzzz recognize  |
Romance › Re: We Need Husbands, But Men Not Forthcoming by Mesmerize(f): 2:38am On Jun 30, 2008 |
Negro_Ntns: @ David, on head in the sand,,,,
when i came in saw that i cracked up before i could talk. thats not nice Dave, no graphics  dude, what are you saying?  |
Romance › Re: We Need Husbands, But Men Not Forthcoming by Mesmerize(f): 2:37am On Jun 30, 2008 |
onyinye2: @mesmerize
it is not Husband season. it is the season that men are desperate for wives and feel that it is not there fault they are not married but the women. hmmm. .really! Just wondering why I see bullets flying across the room |
Romance › Re: We Need Husbands, But Men Not Forthcoming by Mesmerize(f): 2:33am On Jun 30, 2008 |
hmm. . It must be husband season. . everyone is either crying "am too old for marriage" or "I love being single". . c'mon ladies, what's going on?  |
Forum Games › Re: Look At The Person's Profile Above Yours & Make A Comment by Mesmerize(f): 2:23am On Jun 30, 2008 |
@doyin na you sabi |
Romance › Re: Swimming Pool Romance by Mesmerize(f): 2:22am On Jun 30, 2008 |
syren: @ noetic
why is it everytime a guy has to spend a bit of money on a girl she's a gold digger? The real question is. . why is he so concern abt it since no woman is paying him attention?  |
Romance › Re: So I Met This Nigerian Man by Mesmerize(f): 2:21am On Jun 30, 2008 |
Nella:
Nigerian men hehehe  |
Forum Games › Re: Look At The Person's Profile Above Yours & Make A Comment by Mesmerize(f): 12:35am On Jun 30, 2008 |
Doyin, emi lo nbu beye? emini omo rada rada? ewo ni ti tie ni be? grandpa, no try it o  You don go kolo?  hehhehe, bring the koboko then, you need a lil spanking sef  But I'll have to warn you, there is no touching allowed  |
Forum Games › Re: Look At The Person's Profile Above Yours & Make A Comment by Mesmerize(f): 12:29am On Jun 30, 2008 |
Only one doyin? you don copyright the name? oogabdun! |
Romance › Re: We Need Husbands, But Men Not Forthcoming by Mesmerize(f): 12:22am On Jun 30, 2008 |
Is this husband season or what?  |
Forum Games › Re: Look At The Person's Profile Above Yours & Make A Comment by Mesmerize(f): 12:19am On Jun 30, 2008 |
doyin13: @MESMERIZE
Agbalumo Agbalumo Agblumo doyin, maje ka ja o. leave my boobs na. . they're not yours jare!!  Go and find acid or omo eko. .  |
Forum Games › Re: Look At The Person's Profile Above Yours & Make A Comment by Mesmerize(f): 12:13am On Jun 30, 2008 |
dreeldee, answer my question na. . what were you staring at?  he dares not comment na, he knows who i am  |
Forum Games › Re: Look At The Person's Profile Above Yours & Make A Comment by Mesmerize(f): 12:05am On Jun 30, 2008 |
what are u staring at? |
Romance › Re: 35 Years Old Woman And Not Married? Now What? by Mesmerize(f): 11:46pm On Jun 29, 2008 |
I see you're still after beauty. . rotflmao!! |
Romance › Re: 35 Years Old Woman And Not Married? Now What? by Mesmerize(f): 11:41pm On Jun 29, 2008 |
jek_kad: i miss u pass my sister,how body? am fine o. . I'll get back to you later  behave o |
Romance › Re: 35 Years Old Woman And Not Married? Now What? by Mesmerize(f): 11:38pm On Jun 29, 2008 |
rotflmao!! hahha!! I knew it was you! Missed you jare  rotflmao!! hehehe! oh lawwwd, just imagine the REASON!  |
Romance › Re: 35 Years Old Woman And Not Married? Now What? by Mesmerize(f): 11:24pm On Jun 29, 2008 |
beauteous: Lmao. . . see ya head. dnt yhu knw who d person is 
behave yaself jo.shogbo  hmmm. . me thinke I was right the first time. . well, if it's not jenny, I want my "baby" back o!  I am behaving myself right now, dnt worry  who tot you that yoruba sef? |
Romance › Re: 35 Years Old Woman And Not Married? Now What? by Mesmerize(f): 11:20pm On Jun 29, 2008 |
beauteous: What did beauty do again?  plz tell me that's jenny I just called baby, not someone else  |
Romance › Re: 35 Years Old Woman And Not Married? Now What? by Mesmerize(f): 11:14pm On Jun 29, 2008 |
jek_kad: @poster
and where is d father of your kids? baby, where have you been? hahhahahaha wetin you do na? and beauty didn't even tell me?  |
Romance › Re: Why Do Women Want Only Men With Money? by Mesmerize(f): 10:07pm On Jun 29, 2008 |
lonelypal: says me, not they  Ok, so he says. . [size=4pt] You're still broke[/size] |
Romance › Re: Why Do Women Want Only Men With Money? by Mesmerize(f): 9:52pm On Jun 29, 2008 |
beauteous: Berra!  No flirting ma'am. Just giving them attention without intention  |
Romance › Re: 35 Years Old Woman And Not Married? Now What? by Mesmerize(f): 9:49pm On Jun 29, 2008 |
see their head. fourthed ko farted ni |
Romance › Re: Why Do Women Want Only Men With Money? by Mesmerize(f): 9:46pm On Jun 29, 2008 |
lonelypal:
, but i aint THE BROKE NIGGA  So they say. . |
Romance › Re: Why Do Women Want Only Men With Money? by Mesmerize(f): 9:45pm On Jun 29, 2008 |
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Romance › Re: Who Do You Think Lies The Most "guyz Or Lady" by Mesmerize(f): 9:44pm On Jun 29, 2008 |
noetic: am I lyin?
but its true. . . . .  You're not lying! It's just funny that you "truthful" men keep lying to yourself and telling yourself the women mean that they say. So you're lying to yourself and letting yourself being taken for a fool  |
Romance › Re: Why Do Women Want Only Men With Money? by Mesmerize(f): 9:28pm On Jun 29, 2008 |
lonelypal: Gosh!, what in[b] heaven's name was she thinking [/b]posting that thinking abt "lonelypal"?  |