Who will marry me at such a late age?

why did you wait so long, but im sure there is a man out there for you like everyone else

Marzi,

Age is one of the many identities of who you are. What other qualities do you have that a man will find appealing?  Concentrate on those. In our culture, there is a lot of emphasis on age and it becomes a burden for women crossing into 30, they become desperate and vulnerable, often compromising against their better judgement and ending in a miserable dead end marriage.  There is nothing wrong with you, age does not deplete you, it adds to your personality and awareness.  In America you will be considered a "hottie" at that age.  Enjoy it.  

one question. . why did you wait till you're 35?

You sound more like a man trying to mock over 30 women.

RedHotChic:

You sound more like a man trying to mock over 30 women.

i think so too

but if not, cheii  , that's old o, but not saying there isn't any hope, through Christ, all things are possible

ibkaye:

i think so too

but if notcheii , that's old o, but not saying there isn't any hope, through Christ, all things are possible

kai!! that's even making it worst!

Yes, but the Lord helps those who help themselves

ibkaye:

i think so too

but if not, cheii  , that's old o, but not saying there isn't any hope, through christ,all things are possible

Lmao. . . preach it!!

mesmerize

ibkaye:

i think so too

but if not, cheii , that's old o, but not saying there isn't any hope, through Christ, all things are possible

na now she know? 35 yrs haba! where you sleeping?

beauteous:

Lmao. . . preach it!!

mesmerize

^{Good morning, hon.}

Preach wetin? The Lord don help her. . but did she take his sighs?

It's like the story of the man that got flooded. forgot the story sha!

35 years haba! where you sleeping?

Will she marry herself? Go and watch the match watching you abeg. Every man out there is busy doing the analysis and not making jest of a man woman that is 35.

beauteous:

Lmao. . . preach it!!

mesmerize

lol

Mesmerize:

kai!! that's even making it worst!

Yes, but the Lord helps those who help themselves

abi o

davidylan:

na now she know? 35 years haba! where you sleeping?

roflmao i wonder o

There's still hope, don't be disheartened, though it might be hard to find elligible bachelors around your age bracket. My mum's in the same situation and the only men that are available are either divorced, irresponsible (having children up and down the place) or just want papers so they can stay in the country. But they are still available, make the best of what you've got I say  

uhmn.

@ poster

when u have a product. It always has its positive and negative sides. As a marketer u concentrate on the positive sides.
u are both the product and the marketer, concentrate and make use of those unique attributes u have got. It will definitely attract someone who will cherish them.

If a black man will make noise about ur age, abeg go marry whiteman. just enjoy the blessings of marriage.

syren:

There's still hope, don't be disheartened, though it might be hard to find elligible bachelors around your age bracket. My mum's in the same situation and the only men that are available are either divorced, irresponsible (having children up and down the place) or just want papers so they can stay in the country. But they are still available, make the best of what you've got I say

lol. . sorry, but I thought this was funny!
eya. .

uhmn.

@ poster

when u have a product. It always has its positive and negative sides. As a marketer u concentrate on the positive sides.
u are both the product and the marketer, concentrate and make use of those unique attributes u have got. It will definitely attract someone who will cherish them.

If a black man will make noise about ur age, abeg go marry whiteman. just enjoy the blessings of marriage.

noetic:


If a black man will make noise about your age, abeg go marry whiteman. just enjoy the blessings of marriage.

Abi ooo.

Mesmerize:

lol. . sorry, but I thought this was funny!
eya. .

You wouldn't believe some of them. One child in naija, another in holland, another in the UK. It's ridiculous

syren:

You wouldn't believe some of them. One child in naija, another in holland, another in the UK. It's ridiculous

LOL!!! and later on, they'll complain about women tying them down with child support and what not.

noetic:

If a black man will make noise about your age, abeg go marry whiteman. just enjoy the blessings of marriage.

Nah . . .It's not everyday you see a Nick-Mariah type oooh

The same thing that made the 60mill Nigerian guys see and run away, are you sure the Yanks won't see that same thing?

Mesmerize:

LOL!!! and later on, they'll complain about women tying them down with child support and what not.

exactly, men like that should be hung  

eldee:

Nah . . .It's not everyday you see a Nick-Mariah type oooh

The same thing that made the 60mill Nigerian guys see and run away, are you sure the Yanks won't see that same thing?

Ah ah, is she a masquerade?

stillwater:

Ah ah, is she a masquerade?

Lmao

eldee:

Nah . . .It's not everyday you see a Nick-Mariah type oooh

The same thing that made the 60mill Nigerian guys see and run away, are you sure the Yanks won't see that same thing?

lol . . . . . _{i no fit shout}

why not?

but the said person needs to pray

and pray hard at that

@ poster

When did you know u wanted to get married?

It's funny how people are asking her why she waited so long or if she was sleeping. Is it that easy to get married I don't think marriage is about age but more about finding the right match. I've seen many women who have in a bid to get married before 30 ended up marrying men that behave like the devil's little helpers.

@ poster, since you have condemned yourself as an old woman at the age of 35, make sure that when you do get married you make it worth your wile by marrying a sensible and decent partner.

Riskie:

It's funny how people are asking her why she waited so long or if she was sleeping. Is it that easy to get married  I don't think marriage is about age but more about finding the right match. I've seen many women who have in a bid to get married before 30 ended up marrying men that behave like the devil's little helpers.

@ poster, since you have condemned yourself as an old woman at the age of 35, make sure that when you do get married you make it worth your wile by marrying a sensible and decent partner.

I'ma just want to be proved wrong in that area cuzz i dnt think its diffy either.

beauteous:

I'ma just want to be correct in that area cuzz i dnt think its diffy too.

seconded

noetic:

seconded

thirded

beauteous:

thirded

fourthed

see their head. fourthed ko farted ni