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socrateez:
This is original scam. Just put his phone number on google and see how many results of his scam available online.

scammer what a nerve!

Op dont try this o. she alredy has ciurage to approach you, who says she cant wipe u oit to cover her track.

Abeg, theres a bright future ahead of u

BTT:
You have to go to her again.

This time armed with recording/video gadgets. Beg her like never before. Let her say and do the things she usually did. Stand your grounds still, and reiterate the number of times she's been doing this.

Go home and send her a copy.

You are not in d position to judge if uve never been in op's situation.

@ Op he may never forgive u. He may completely cut you off. Those are circumstances u need to consider. But then again, how well can you manage the funds u'll take. Cos its not about taking what belongs to you. Its about being able to multiply those funds so u can even be better than him. Its a tricky one tho'. Cos he may eventually will everythinh to his latest wife and by then, ull only sing "had I known". You need to think well

On a second thought, start something of urs in d same line of business u manage for him. In dat way ur preparing urself for d future. If u decide to jst sit and work for him alone, u may loose out. Just be wise

Every mans purpose starts after hes found christ.

Thats not a nice way to talk to an emotionally downcasted pregnant lady. it was possible to lay ur advice without being rude. You dont even know d circumstances behind her situation.pls be nice next time

Dyt:
I'm a Nairaland old member but I opened a new account to create this thread

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Seriously?
We really don't care

Back to your ordeal
Sorry but are you dumb?
You got pregnant for a man without a job and no source of income whatsoever, that you know.

And you are clearly saying you want nothing from him?

Let me brief you about first pregnancy
For most ladies it's a tough one
I mean really tough
You will need more care and money to do lots

Btw who wants to employ a preggy lady?

No time for blames cos really I don't have no job to offer you but I can only help with ideas
Gather small money and do lil clothing business.

The Edolites are aware of this, therefore it is very rare for them to be found cheating.
However this can only occurr if the traditional rites are performed

hope u read the op's reply

DaMayor1:
Dude, this is no place for jokes. A pattern of behaviour has been painted. If you read between the lines, all has been said.



That's more than enough to tell you she was a rebel.

All I can say is OP has alot he has not sed.....

bukatyne:
@Messilistic:

You mean the OP 's girl was dating a married man before they left Nigeria?

How did she manage to hide it from him then?

Why did she wait til til abroad before deciding to show herself?

very correct. My flatty is an example . But then again, the OP's babe is from a wealthy family and her folks are more than able to foot her bills. what would you classify her case as? The Op even stated how he spoils her with expensive gift to his abilities. Above all, accommodation is not her problem. Her family has a house in Uk. In general i would say shes just to greedy. Like i stated in an earlier post. Op doesnt deserve her

coogar:
for any young woman coming to the UK to study, accommodation is the biggest problem. they cannot work more than 20 hrs per week with jobs that won't pay more than £10/hour - that is even if the job is available.

from that £200/week, she would be taxed & given crumbs that can barely pay for a room. meanwhile, there are big boys like sirshymexx & nihilist on the sidelines whispering to the girl that they are ready to accommodate her in their luxurious smart flats if she says yes. how many girls would refuse such offer?

Well I wouldnt generalise. There still are a few good ones out there. At least i can testify to dat from a couple of friends i have. A gurl that would be influence would alwais b. one has to pray for guidance to get d right girl.

coogar:
i feel you....
boyfriends & fïances should be worried whenever their yet-to-be married partners are travelling to europe - especially the UK. it's so damn easy for these girls to fall into the temptation the UK has to offer.

not really. U know how gist flies in dis UK. Every one is connected one way or d other

coogar:
you know the girl & the OP?

Sorry bro. I once advised someone to let you know u dont deserve that girl. The same married man has been sponsoring all her trip and taking care of her for years. How do u expect her to change. Her friend who u think is the good one is also part of the click and has always known her to b d way she was. Im glad to know ur born again. Cos d spirit will guide you to whom ever deserves u. The gurl has hurt u so bad and i could tell from ur voice d day u spoke. Let her go and dnt ever think of marrying her. Ull regret it

richol:
should i drop dead?

yes pls

Justfollowit:
Her hair is natural

lol. Dunno. Just my opinion

The only person looking all natural is Yemi, genevieve and nse rocked a little eye liner. Meanwhile genevieves hair doesnt look natural to me

I personally dont think its necessary as long as ur responsible in footing all homely bills

This is really serious.... A girl with that kind of mind can equally drive a knife inside his hearts. Ill prefere she b left alone in her own world. She should b allowed to test the waters of freedom.... Until she realises the essence of life.

You came in here with a situation hoping people will help. Yet ur being uneccessarily rude. Not everyone passing by has a solution to ur problem. If u would only have a little patience, those with the "right" answers will respond.
Be nice next time

Priceless007:
Hi Nairalanders please take a little bit of your time to read this and offer me your advice on it. My name is Kevin, I'm 23 and currently living with someone I would call my boss and who equally is like an elder brother to me, he lives with his wife and 2kids and his wife is currently pregnant for their 3rd child, they also have a maid who is a jss3 student. Before now I was living with a friend in a one room apartment which we share the rent payment together. We've known each other for a long time and i used to visit him frequently on weekends and I'll help him with some house chores after which we'll watch European football leagues together for the weekend then I'll leave on Monday morning to my house and then leave for my daily menial jobs. I've been asking him to help me look for a job that will be able to raise me enough money for my rent and save some for my academics because the menial jobs I was doing wasn't raising enough money for both. So he promised to look for one for me since he knows a lot of business men via where he works. So last September on one of my occasional visits I asked him about the job since I was getting tired of doing the one I was doing, he told me he couldn't get me any better job considering the fact that I only have SSCE certificate so he suggested I should move in with him promising to sponsor my education but that it means i would have to give up the job I used to do and concentrate on my studies so I can pass my exams. So I accepted and moved in with him. I have a good waec result and I was suppose to sit for the just concluded Jamb examination but I missed my exam date because of late reprinting of my e-slip. So when I went on the initial examination day and found out I just went home, mad at myself for blowing that opportunity because if my carelessness. So I jus told him I wrote the exam but didn't pass. Now I'm always always at home alone during the day when everyone has gone to work or school respectively, and I feel depressed during this period and I think I'm just sitting all day wasting away my time and recently his wife has started exhibiting attitudes that makes both of us uncomfortable with each other, though I think it might be one of the symptoms of pregnancy stress or so. And I have this habit of gambling or sports betting (depending on what you want to call it) which I'm yet to give up though I think its bad, but haven't been fully convinced that it is (for lack of evidence, whether morally or religiously). And I make some money from it which also disappears as fast as it comes and I do this from the little pocket money he gives me sometimes. And right now I just feel so depressed staying at home doing practically nothing, and I'm torn between the thought of staying here and waiting till next year for another opportunity to try and get into the university, and moving out to get something doing, but the thing is, I don't think I can be living with him and be going out to find something to do. I only have between 10 am and 4pm every weekday. And I'm looking for a way to get myself back on track and make something out of my time, even if it means leaving my boss' house. But currently i have no where in mind to move to and no job to look forward to, though I have a few friends of mine who might want to take me in. So I'm asking for your advice on what next to do since this year is gone already (academic-wise that is). Being alone and idle is so depressing to me, since I'm not the sitting around type of guy. Any suggestion will be gratefully welcomed and you might ask a few questions to assist your contributions too. Forgive my typos and any writing error there might be. Thank you in advance.
(I hope I posted this in the right section, if not RoyalRoy or whoever is in charge here should help me forward it to the right section, thanks)

you write so well. At least for an average Nigerian WAEC holder. Have you taught of teaching. It just might help u know.

Theres obviously a call of God upon ur life. Since this is not the first time ur experiencing this. i suggest u spend quality time to pray and ask the holy spirit for guidance. By this ur call will be clear to u

veave:
I had this dream yesterday that is really disturbing. Please help me interpret.

I took siesta yesterday afternoon. In my dream i saw myself leading a very big crowd in praise and worship(i'm actually in choir in church) the thing is i led it so well even better than i normally would in real life. I woke up soo spent and weak. Please is this an attack or what? This is not the first time its happening but yesterdays own got me soo tired.

queenprecy:
I tried opening dre website bt I don't understand wat dey wrote dere

Hi. I sent u an email. Pls respond

I always wanted to do No 15. I never got d chance too.

Kettle

Its more of a brain teaser i guess

Krasid:
A game where no one wins... but Krasid.

annoying

At d extreme lower right angle

Lokogoma:
explain pls

100k borrowed from both parents
Laptop both for 97k
Change: 3k
Both parents receive 1k each = 2k
You r left with 1k
while u still owe each parent 49k which is a total of 98k
Apparently the other 1k ur seeking never existed.

Fufilled dreams are all I ever want.

Theres no missing 1k. You already owe 99k

Boring game. All comments will eventually get liked

You need to seriously pray and ask God to guide you through the help of the spirit... You hav to decide wisely

Lol. Now that got me cracking. Being ugly is not even enuf even though im not. Uglus girls still get approached.

havilla:
@Op I have the exact same problem, alot of people think am a snub and unfriendly but in my case am very shy and find it hard to look someone in the eye. I think its affecting my love life because I don't get approached by men I only get stared at alot, it's funny because almost everyday am told how pretty I am and all of that and I dress well, am not fat I even workout. I guess I send a wrong vibe. How do I change this??

MDCEO1:
i agree with u too dear. I gt really shy too. And i wear a straight face. Im not fat either.

'Intimidating' might just be another word for ugly.....especially if you're not been approached frequently.....
Just saying though....
In that context, it would surely stop me from approaching a lady.

In your case, only one way to find out.....
Put up your early morning 'waking up' pic....