havilla:
@Op I have the exact same problem, alot of people think am a snub and unfriendly but in my case am very shy and find it hard to look someone in the eye. I think its affecting my love life because I don't get approached by men I only get stared at alot, it's funny because almost everyday am told how pretty I am and all of that and I dress well, am not fat I even workout. I guess I send a wrong vibe. How do I change this??

baby,can I know you?

Messilistic:
What really stops u from approachin a lady?
Som say they are not intimidated. Agreed.
For those who consider a lady intimidating on her first appearance, what are your reasons?
Someone jst told me I am. And I find it hard to believe, cos I really am a warm person..
Opinions pls

'Intimidating' might just be another word for ugly.....especially if you're not been approached frequently.....
Just saying though....
In that context, it would surely stop me from approaching a lady.

In your case, only one way to find out.....
Put up your early morning 'waking up' pic....

cococandy:
google it

Women are intimidating...to wussies.

Lol. Now that got me cracking. Being ugly is not even enuf even though im not. Uglus girls still get approached.

havilla:
@Op I have the exact same problem, alot of people think am a snub and unfriendly but in my case am very shy and find it hard to look someone in the eye. I think its affecting my love life because I don't get approached by men I only get stared at alot, it's funny because almost everyday am told how pretty I am and all of that and I dress well, am not fat I even workout. I guess I send a wrong vibe. How do I change this??

MDCEO1:
i agree with u too dear. I gt really shy too. And i wear a straight face. Im not fat either.

'Intimidating' might just be another word for ugly.....especially if you're not been approached frequently.....
Just saying though....
In that context, it would surely stop me from approaching a lady.

In your case, only one way to find out.....
Put up your early morning 'waking up' pic....

Intimidating can also be code for being easily nasty or mouthed.

Seems to be a desirable in some ladies minds nowadays

All part of the neo woman aura
"I blast anyone I want anytime I feel"

"Can't take no prisoners etc bla bla bla"

havilla:
@Op I have the exact same problem, alot of people think am a snub and unfriendly but in my case am very shy and find it hard to look someone in the eye. I think its affecting my love life because I don't get approached by men I only get stared at alot, it's funny because almost everyday am told how pretty I am and all of that and I dress well, am not fat I even workout. I guess I send a wrong vibe. How do I change this??

Smile more.

Shorop there mr king of persia,prince of persia or whatever you call yourself. For your mind you dey feel like bado abi





this your air of haughtiness is terrible. Hasn't anyone told you that. Anyway if they haven't, well me I am telling you. Change!

coogar:


it's called balls!

if i see a gadget i like, i walk up to the store &
make it mine without delay. if i see a woman i like, it's mandatory for me to approach her & say my mind. women love men with confidence & i mean classy women not the mgbeke breeds you often encounter in lagos with mannerless antics.

Er, I'd say I do find chics taller than me somewhat intimidating in an awkward way. It seldom happens, but when you're like 6'2.5, and you're used to being taller than almost every chic by at least 4inches, then you meet a chic that's like 4inches taller than you - you'd feel a tad bit intimidated.

It has happened to me twice - a Sudanese chic and some next chic from another West African country - two poles in the air, with extremely nice bodies. Chatted to them, but I wasn't composed at all. Looking up to a chic isn't my thing.

Apart from the height thing, which is more or less moving out of my comfort zone - no chic can intimidate me. I snipe all kinds of chics, even if you've the whole world on ya face, when I'm in the mood.

Iyen iwona




who are the people teaching you



you that you used to be so gentle, now you have turned into someone spitting fire

pickabeau1:
Intimidating can also be code for being easily nasty or mouthed.

Seems to be a desirable in some ladies minds nowadays

All part of the neo woman aura
I blast anyone I want anytime I feel

Can't take no prisoners etc bla bla bla

You this woman sha...u like to dey harass me
No be me i dey talk about

Na the way the neo-modernistic woman of nowadays

Mouthed and talk anyhow..

I was paraphrasing them

SAMBARRY:
Iyen iwona




who are the people teaching you



you that you used to be so gentle, now you have turned into someone spitting fire

BuddhaPalm:


Smile more.

I think you are right, will work on myself thanks.

In poverty-stricken 10th-world countries like Nigeria of course!

The reason socio-economically AGGRESSIVE women DIE single in UNCIVILIZED parts of the world!

Because men always love women who can EAT their SHYTE!
Make dem come try their luck for my side!
Blokos go shrink and run go hide h-inside dem anusez by force ke!
Even Viagra-gra nor go work o! African/Nigerian men generally cannot relate with "aggressive" women like of course. . . .unless they have taken a lot of IGBO and COCAINE salad!

Because an AFRICAN PEHNIS can only rise when it sees a toto with low self-esteem!
To be sexxxxxxxy and desirable, you must act like a "MUMU-SUPERIOR"!

Awon "Ogas-On-Top" in matters of domestic, international and global generational abuse!

Check all RELIGIOUS fairytale books like the bible and koran. . .

All strong women with voices were either DELILAHS, JEZEBELS or "feet-washers" for the HOMO-JESUS in some "bible" for the mentally-handicapped. . . . .OR AISHAS for PEDOPHILIC, SHRIVELLED BLOKOSES for some OLD HE-GOAT PROPHET MOHAMMED whose burantashi stopped working with mature poohsies of his own generation in some nauseating, virgin-crazy koranic "hog-wash"!

Shiooooooooooor!!!!!!

I was never be intimidated by a woman. Only my mood at that moment in time the factor in deciding whether to approach the Lady or not .

Kanwulia o






You are totally right but do you realise this your post can spark religious tension and subsequent religious disaster?



if you said something like this in maiduguiri or borno you may be kidnapped and made to face sharia laws for blasphemy. You know some people are not religiously tolerant

Kanwulia:
In poverty-stricken 10th-world countries like Nigeria of course!

The reason socio-economically AGGRESSIVE women DIE single in UNCIVILIZED parts of the world!

Because men always love women who can EAT their SHYTE!
Make dem come try their luck for my side!
Blokos go shrink and run go hide h-inside dem anusez by force ke!
Even Viagra-gra nor go work o! African/Nigerian men generally cannot relate with "aggressive" women look like me of course. . . .unless they have taken a lot of IGBO and COCAINE salad!

Because an AFRICAN PEHNIS can only rise when it sees a toto with low self-esteem!
To be sexxxxxxxy and desirable, you must act like a "MUMU-SUPERIOR"!

Awon "Ogas-On-Top" in matters of domestic, international and global generational abuse!

Check all RELIGIOUS fairytale books like the bible and koran. . .

All strong women with voices were either DELILAHS, JEZEBELS or "feet-washers" for the HOMO-JESUS in some "bible" for the mentally-handicapped. . . . .OR AISHAS for PEDOPHILIC, SHRIVELLED BLOKOSES for some OLD HE-GOAT PROPHET MOHAMMED whose burantashi stopped working with mature poohsies of his own generation in some nauseating, virgin-crazy koranic "hog-wash"!

Shiooooooooooor!!!!!!

SAMBARRY:
Shorop there mr king of persia,prince of persia or whatever you call yourself. For your mind you dey feel like bado abi

this your air of haughtiness is terrible. Hasn't anyone told you that. Anyway if they haven't, well me I am telling you. Change!

your constant interaction with bïtch-arsë men has got you totally confused. i am starting to think i am the only confident man you have ever met in your life - this is why you think there's an air of haughtiness around me.

if you live in my country, you would worship the ground in which i'm walking. you need to change the type of fawning men you surround yourself with. you get no credits for sleeping with effeminate men.

SAMBARRY:
Kanwulia o






You are totally right but do you realise this your post can spark religious tension and subsequent religious disaster?



if you said something like this in maiduguiri or borno you may be kidnapped and made to face sharia laws for blasphemy. You know some people are not religiously tolerant

We don discuss this matter taya ke!
I am not a believer of fairy tales and ogogoro-inspired prophesies please o!

Religious tension ko!
Make dem near me na, dem go read de wan wey worse pass the previous post!
Shioooooor!

Kanwulia:
J

We don discuss this matter taya ke!
I am not a believer of fairy tales and ogogoro-inspired prophesies please o!

Religious tension ko!
Make dem near me na, dem go read de wan wey worse pass the previous post!
Shioooooor!

coogar:


your constant interaction with bïtch-arsë men has got you totally confused. i am starting to think i am the only confident man you have ever met in your life - this is why you think there's an air of haughtiness around me.

if you live in my country, you would worship the ground in which i'm walking. you need to change the type of fawning men you surround yourself with. you get no credits for sleeping with effeminate men.

mister prince of persia i said shotop that ya ranting mouth you ph@ggot.iyou must think everybody is like you sleeping with sre males.



LEAVE SRE MALES ALONE



AND DID I EVEN READ SOMETHING LIKE WORSHIPPING THE GROUND YOU WALK ON.MISTER MAN IT IS 12.44PM ON A MONDAY AFTERNOON,YOU BETTER SNAP OUT OF YOUR STOOPEED DREAMS



ONIRANU OKUNRIN

Kanwulia:


Check all RELIGIOUS fairytale books like the bible and koran. . .

All strong women with voices were either DELILAHS, JEZEBELS or "feet-washers" for the HOMO-JESUS in some "bible" for the mentally-handicapped. . . . .OR AISHAS for PEDOPHILIC, SHRIVELLED BLOKOSES for some OLD HE-GOAT PROPHET MOHAMMED whose burantashi stopped working with mature poohsies of his own generation in some nauseating, virgin-crazy koranic "hog-wash"!

Shiooooooooooor!!!!!!

Too bad I'm just seeing this, I would have whipped your ignorant assertions back into shape. I wonder who the six people are that felt your entire ball of nonsense and blatant show of empty-headedness was worthy of any likes.
You know nothing of the Bible, else you won't be typing this pile of crap you call a comment.

So all the strong women in the Bible by your own deduction were Delilahs and Jezebels? This is what your moronic IQ figured?
No wonder women like you feel that the best way to be seen as strong is to be b1tchy, loud, unruly, and uncouth. Pity!

This is a list of some strong women in the Bible, all upstanding and virtuous women if I may add:

Jael - A heroine who killed a general named 'Sisera' using a nail driven by a hammer into his forehead. She did it for God's people, Israel.

Deborah - The only female appointed judge over Israel.

Esther - Queen of the great Persian empire.
Beautiful, ravishing, and very smart young woman who was scheduled to be killed but was spared after using her intelligence to win the heart of the king of the Persian empire, Xerxes. She is directly responsible for releasing her people (Israel) from slavery in Persia.

Hoglah - One of the daughters of a man who died - she fought for the right to inherit her deceased father's property. Yes, she won.

Athalia - Queen over Judah for five years after the death of her husband.

Ruth - Lowly woman who was able to overcome all odds after loosing her husband.

etc, etc, etc...

Next time when you want to make a show of yourself, type just one or two sentences, at least that way your terrible lack of knowledge could be forgiven.

crackhaus:

Too bad I'm just seeing this, I would have whipped your ignorant assertions back into shape. I wonder who the six people are that felt your entire ball of nonsense and blatant show of empty-headedness was worthy of any likes.
You know nothing of the Bible, else you won't be typing this pile of crap you call a comment.

So all the strong women in the Bible by your own deduction were Delilahs and Jezebels? This is what your moronic IQ figured?
No wonder women like you feel that the best way to be seen as strong is to be b1tchy, loud, unruly, and uncouth. Pity!

This is a list of some strong women in the Bible, all upstanding and virtuous women if I may add:

Jael - A heroine who killed a general named 'Sisera' using a nail driven by a hammer into his forehead. She did it for God's people, Israel.

Deborah - The only female appointed judge over Israel.

Esther - Queen of the great Persian empire.
Beautiful, ravishing, and very smart young woman who was scheduled to be killed but was spared after using her intelligence to win the heart of the king of the Persian empire, Xerxes. She is directly responsible for releasing her people (Israel) from slavery in Persia.

Hoglah - One of the daughters of a man who died - she fought for the right to inherit her deceased father's property. Yes, she won.

Athalia - Queen over Judah for five years after the death of her husband.

Ruth - Lowly woman who was able to overcome all odds after loosing her husband.

etc, etc, etc...

Next time when you want to make a show of yourself, type just one or two sentences, at least that way your terrible lack of knowledge could be forgiven.

Hmmmmmmm . . . .how "Auspicious-Suspicious"!
Mtcheeeeeeew
Back in to my "Revenge" series jare!

Eating my "Tatamashe" rice and plantain in peace!
Too much pepper mehn! Very sweeeeeet! Time for some more!
What was that movie I watched with my darling husband last night again?

"Jack Sointin" . . . . ."John Wick"? He likes all those kinds of "shoot-out" movies. I liked this one sha. Too much "bloooooodzzzz shairrrrrin"!

Kanwulia:


Hmmmmmmm . . . .how "Auspicious-Suspicious"!
Mtcheeeeeeew
Back in to my "Revenge" series jare!

Eating my "Tatamashe" rice and plantain in peace!
Too much pepper mehn! Very sweeeeeet! Time for some more!
What was that movie I watched with my darling husband last night again?

"Jack Sointin"? He likes all those kinds of "shoot-out" movies.

Lol...you are one hell of a character, this much is certain.

I liked revenge until it took 3 (or was it 4) seasons to have the Graysons discover Emily's true identity...that story line was dragged out too long it got boring.

Next time don't talk sh1t about the Bible, that's some real insightful book right there

Back then, I exuded way too much masculine energy, hence, men (I'd say weak men) found me intimidating
My transition started when I met my original 'omo ibadan'
Sweet boy 'broke' me

havilla:
@Op I have the exact same problem, alot of people think am a snub and unfriendly but in my case am very shy and find it hard to look someone in the eye. I think its affecting my love life because I don't get approached by men I only get stared at alot

I thought men find shy ladies more approachable than the looking-slightly-mean ladies