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Nairaland GeneralRe: Getting Out Of The Friend Zone: 7 Easy Steps by Mettal: 9:20pm On Jul 11, 2014
And this Trash made front page, that philandering luscious Nairaland moderators.
FamilyRe: Is This Wrong? Married Woman Hugging Men by Mettal: 7:35am On Jul 06, 2014
cbrass: Why hug in the first placehuh Isn't greetings enough? Make my wife no try that one with me o...else na Cossy I go go hug sharp sharp
Ewwwh!!, the idea of hugging cossy,.Soooo ultra-penetrating. grin grin grin
EducationRe: Meet The Hottest Girls In Bells University (Photos) by Mettal: 11:32pm On Jul 02, 2014
He came here yearning for likes,chaiii 2014,#smh#
EducationRe: Meet The Hottest Girls In Bells University (Photos) by Mettal: 11:24pm On Jul 02, 2014
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PoliticsRe: Building Collapses In Lagos Police Barracks by Mettal: 5:55pm On Jul 02, 2014
Wait o. did i read Government and Police. Blast!!
FamilyRe: Love Or Submission...which Should Come First In Marriage? by Mettal: 5:30am On Jul 01, 2014
shizzle11: Now how am i supposed to respond to this?, did you read the comments above?, and understood them? anyway the person i referred to already responded.
sorry brotha, but your profile pic is killing. grin
FamilyRe: Love Or Submission...which Should Come First In Marriage? by Mettal: 8:54pm On Jun 30, 2014
shizzle11: for the sake of those trying to outsmart themselves and clarity, please tell us are you talking about a husband/wife relationship or parent-to-child rship? thanks
why do i have a feeling you are referring to me?
FamilyRe: Love Or Submission...which Should Come First In Marriage? by Mettal: 4:40pm On Jun 30, 2014
Sophyrocks: Sorry, im a lady. grin grin grin. Lets agree to disagree.
Ladies and Gentlemen, I give to you Ladie Sophie,love consultant and advisor.grin grin grin
FamilyRe: Love Or Submission...which Should Come First In Marriage? by Mettal: 3:43pm On Jun 30, 2014
Sophyrocks: Ohhhhhhhh. You are clearly confused. Are you a christian? do you remember when jesus asked peter 'Peter, do you Love me? And peter said 'Lord, you know i have affection for you?' Please what does that tell you that Love is?

Chai!!

Love between brothers and friends are different. Love between a male and female is different. Affection is the main ingredient in love. You take a female to be special. You see this lady as the one to spend your life with. You take her as your best friend. My friend, you are in LOVE with this woman. Stop confusing yourself.

Lets agree to disgree here biko.

And yes, im aware of the the dfferent forms of marriage. You mentioned contract marriage because you said you never wanted love. Yet you are already practising that love and you want the benefits that come with it. So why contradict yourself?
you are one headstrong dude...... Sorry .We are all wrong,.Lol. Love exists,(yes those fake ones) but the unconditional Love doesnt exists. Now lets disagree to agree. grin grin grin
FamilyRe: Love Or Submission...which Should Come First In Marriage? by Mettal: 3:17pm On Jun 30, 2014
Sophyrocks: At the bolded, how is it possble that you see your fiancee as these you have mentioned yet you are claiming not to love her or intend not to love her? You are clearly contradicting yourself. You already LOVE this woman for you to talk about she being your friend, she being special to you , you havng DEEP RESPECT and yet you are here talking about Contract Marriage? Do you even know what you are saying at all? Maybe you dnt know what love is.
i have deep respect for anyone,and most times respects are earned or tarnished,.Respect do not signify love. Please when has AFFECTION turned to LOVE .Did i mentioned we are indulging in contract marriage? Was stressing its reality,have you heard of open marriage too?. These are alternative marriages that can thrive without love.Very possible!
FamilyRe: Love Or Submission...which Should Come First In Marriage? by Mettal: 2:57pm On Jun 30, 2014
Oahray: lolz... Random human love exists o. There are instances of people who risk their lives to save strangers, just because they can't stand and watch or walk away. But it's not common. The average human is selfish by default.
compassion and love are not the same, oo
FamilyRe: Love Or Submission...which Should Come First In Marriage? by Mettal: 2:54pm On Jun 30, 2014
Sophyrocks: Good communication skills in a Sham of a Marriage? You must be kidding right? Hahahahahaha. Come on!! That is one thing scamish marriages lack. When everybody in it is selfish about what they are to get, who gives a damn about communication skills? All they say is 'Give me Give me Give me. Kpomkwem.
You dnt want Love or cant give love but you want good communcation? How is that possible without love in the union? You cant eat your cake and have it. Dnt expect good comunication when there is no love. No be you no want Love. God help you if your pockets run dry. Your golddigging wife will turn to a wh0re under your nose.

Ever heard of the phrase "Love happens to those who believe in it"? alot who believe in it are gaining a lot of its fruits. They are already living in that fantasy world in REALITY. Your lot won't get it cos you do not practise it. Love is practised for it to exist.

Oh well, goodluck in your sham of a marriage. Whatever makes you sleep well at night. grin grin grin
hey, have you heard.Of contract marriage? Secondly,people interact successfully with themselvea without love,in finances people maintain a very good spirit without love too. I have a female friend who am actually going to marry,. Yes she is special to me,but am sure She is in (affection) "love" with me, i have a deep respect for her in all spheres of life and to me she is my best friend.and with the rythm and tempo we are going,that will be a very succesful marriage because of the leadership quality i put in the relationship and which she compromised by being submissive to me. yet Am 100% aware that the so called love is conditional,ie when the chips are down she'll definately leave just like every other human, people are in there for what they stand to gain,but the celestial love from God is Unconditional.
FamilyRe: Love Or Submission...which Should Come First In Marriage? by Mettal: 2:35pm On Jun 30, 2014
Oahray: that's the condition bro. Look at the big picture.
then any random human love doesn't exist at all because we are all Evil. grin grin grin
FamilyRe: Love Or Submission...which Should Come First In Marriage? by Mettal: 1:52pm On Jun 30, 2014
Oahray: being the mother is already a condition. Does your mum love her neighbours children like she loves you?

Even in the animal Kingdom, mothers are willing to hunt down other animals' offspring to feed theirs but would aggressively protect theirs. If it were unconditional, they would sacrifice themselves for a random animal's offspring and not theirs alone.
you are misinterpreting me , i mean mother to her own child's love. Not any random child.
FamilyRe: Love Or Submission...which Should Come First In Marriage? by Mettal: 1:49pm On Jun 30, 2014
Sophyrocks: O.k. This interesting. Your wife should submit to you but should not get Love from you becos love does not exist in your world. So why should your wife still be submissive when she aint getting nada from you?

#A lightbulb idea pops up#. I know the perfect match for you. GOLDDIGERS. You know why? They dnt bloody care about love. all they want is money. Trust me, they will be submissive to your arrangement as long as you keep the money coming. Be warned!! DO NOT EVER GO BROKE!!
a gold digger honouring a marriage contract, KOOL. She is there as the wife,does her part perfectly well, get loads of money in return. And maintain a very good communication skills needed in marriage, KOOL, love does not exist,and if you thinks otherwise then you are in a fantasy world. The Love God has for us, and the natural maternal Love to her child are the only love that exist. The one we see in relationships is called AFFECTION.
FamilyRe: Love Or Submission...which Should Come First In Marriage? by Mettal: 1:29pm On Jun 30, 2014
TWO THINGS;
1.Submit to me,i don't need your love.We are in a contract called marriage and am the Head .
We should both honour the contract.
2. Love does not exist,even in marriage.The perfect love - maternal love for her children.Its unconditional.We can see that in animals too,. Very Very unconditional !!!
SportsRe: Nigeria Vs France World Cup (0 - 2) On 30th June 2014 by Mettal: 10:22am On Jun 30, 2014
Ohh.

CultureHappy New Year Nairalanders ! by Mettal(op):
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PetsRe: Dog Breeders List Your Dog Kennel Or Current Puppy Litter Here by Mettal: 10:01pm On Nov 07, 2013
Forget about these backyard breeders.get a puppy from foreign kennel with good pedigree.
FamilyRe: My Husband Is Too Dirty. I Want A Seperate Room by Mettal: 11:02pm On Oct 24, 2013
its me, I d v quarelled with him to the extent of divorce if he didn't change asap.[/quote]are you gay? grin grin grin grin grin grin
AdvertsRe: Imported English Mastiff Offsprings For Sale by Mettal: 4:03pm On Oct 22, 2013
Does this looks like an Old English Mastiff to youhuhhuh
BusinessRe: Entrepreneurs What Has Kept You Going? by Mettal: 10:17pm On Oct 21, 2013
Lets motivate each other,we shoudn't allow this thread to die.Comment more,its not easy beign an entrepreneur who has to manage and deal with different human character.
BusinessRe: Entrepreneurs What Has Kept You Going? by Mettal: 10:13pm On Oct 21, 2013
okpara ugo: I have had a share of business destroyers too.

Now i spot them under 2days and disengage them immediately before any damage is done. They can erode your one year toil in one month.
thats why entrepreneurs are sensitive and intelligent people, you learn the entrepreneurial trade and soon it spreads to your work and everyday life,people (the idiots you feed) simply thinks you are mean.
PetsRe: Dog Breeders List Your Dog Kennel Or Current Puppy Litter Here by Mettal: 2:38am On Oct 20, 2013
GeneralShepherd: no offence the quality of dogs from Nigerian breeders is absolutely horrible
its suicidally appalling what they put in there for pure breed.I saw a neapolitan adult in a kennel from a farm they said is the highest farm in nigeria,the quality of the dog is in no way near the quality i saw in della stradone vesuviano kennel in italy. Pure beast with massiveness,that sight rekindled my love for exotic breeds.The dogs i relish having in my kennels in a five year periods are: mastiff,neapolitan,kommondor,great dane,st bernard,pyrenean mastiff,aksaray malakli,land seer and alaskan malamute.
PetsRe: Dog Breeders List Your Dog Kennel Or Current Puppy Litter Here by Mettal: 2:06am On Oct 20, 2013
GeneralShepherd: I meant pay in customs to receive imported dogs, no offence the quality of dogs from Nigerian breeders is absolutely horrible
puppy price varies from kennel to kennel. Which breed are you looking to buy?
PetsRe: Dog Breeders List Your Dog Kennel Or Current Puppy Litter Here by Mettal: 2:52pm On Oct 18, 2013
GeneralShepherd: Please how much do I pay here in Naija to get the dogs
which breeds do you need to buy.
PetsRe: Dog Breeders List Your Dog Kennel Or Current Puppy Litter Here by Mettal: 12:54pm On Oct 17, 2013
GeneralShepherd: Won't they scam me?
there is nothing like scam in dog importation,follow these steps,or Else:
*step 1:lets say you want to import a rottie.You Should first identify what you want on the internet.Mind you that all rotweilers or alsatians or any other random breeds varies from sizes to size and any other features,but it still represents the breed standard,thats why there is something like dog shows,and best of breeds.And international dog shows,so that there won't be any deviations from the breeding norm.Backyard breeders are everywhere.Even in Europe !
*step 2: search the web and visits nimerous websites.Look for the pictures of their studs and dams (do not buy if their are less than 2 studs and dams).
*step 3: goto www.Akc.Org .Compare the breed requirements with the kennel you want to buy dog from.Don't be in a haste,you might regret it,good puppies doesn't make good adults,good adults bring good puppies,rely heavily on the parents pedigree when choosing a puppy.
*step4: find him/her on facebook. This is the most important aspect prior to payments,you might loose it here. He must be commenting on facebook incessantly,he must display his/her dogs on facebook . Lookout for pictures where he is tagged. At least half of his friends must be dog breeders.Peole must comment on his posts,read all of those posts, don't ignore them.Posts like,"i miss my couch potato" "gentle kisses" "its been long,hope you bring him along while coming on sunday" "she has those ears in cognizanxe of his mother".
*step5: make sure the breeder has at least 2 or 3 champion in his bloodline.Ask him if he has any video on youtube.
*step6:ask him about how to make payments.Ask him lots of questions,like weather he has shipped to africa before. GET READY,IF YOU FOLLOW THESE STEPS, YOU HAVE NOTHING TO LOOSE.am bringing an Old English Mastiff,next year from Italy.
PetsRe: Dog Breeders List Your Dog Kennel Or Current Puppy Litter Here by Mettal: 8:23am On Sep 08, 2013
mko abiola: With 100k or 350K to buy dog or puppy.
Can it arrest an armrobber?
If NO,it is a waste of money,resuources&tym.
AM BRINGING AN OLD ENGLISH MASTIFF WORTH TOTAL EXPENSES OF 650K FROM DEL FRACASSO KENNEL ITALY IN 2014. Exclusively for bussiness, a dog that can easily weigh 100kg in JUST10 MONTHS..
AdvertsRe: Imported English Mastiff Offsprings For Sale by Mettal: 8:37am On Sep 04, 2013
Why dont you show pictures.
RomanceRe: Aren't All Women Really Lesbians? by Mettal: 10:25am On Sep 02, 2013
99.9% are has-been in's. That doesnt mean they are still lesbians. But every woman @ some point before she turns 35 has had a sexual engagement with another woman. FACT.
BusinessRe: Bet365 Punters Meet Here by Mettal: 10:11am On Sep 02, 2013
VAC13079704: Please what is KYC?
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