ForeverYoung197:
How would I know anyway if I'm in the state of "serious relationship" ?

When you start imaging him carrying a child you both gave birth to..

Or when you imagine walking down the altar with him....

If not the two of this, then you are not in a serious relationship..

This seems inexperienced... as showing our flaws in the relationship helps the partners get more closer... You should have said ladies should not scream and behave like young children when our hubby gives us a gift or proposes to us with a diamond ring because we are in a serious relationship...

1. Saying nothing is wrong....
women are complicated creatures (i heard guys say that lot) But the reason why we say nothing is wrong when something is. .... Is because we want to see how caring and discerning the man is... Would he just be unconcerned and be like ok.. nothing is wrong! or will he try to make us tell him... Thereby improving the trust in the relationship...
Remember without Trust the relationship is kkkkkkk *slices neck*

2. Reacting on Emotion...
Ohh seriously you can blame us for that, but training a woman to just not react on emotion is like changing her personality... I have crazy girlfriends who break their phones when their are in rage... Although those ones need anger management.. But it could be best to have an understanding man react to us in rage .... than a man who could want us to change ourselves without supporting or understanding why we have no self control...

Chai this is getting long ooo

3. Walking away (sometimes its better to walk away than react to the enraged man and let him beat you to stupor...

Stay Healthy, Stay Wise

Its simple the site is undergoing some problems at the moment... I have already seen somehow who applied and got their confirmation message by mail. ..

Just wait till tomorrow..

From your profile pic it seems like you are a doctor................ Although I clicked on your site and it refused to load... Am sure it has nothing to do with health....

But can you mail me ..... I like to reach some bloggers... (P.S: I am a blogger)

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The New American Standard Bible says

My son, fear the LORD and the king; Do not associate with those who are given to change

Many of us don't read our Bibles nowadays

I don't know how religious you are... But my advise is that she should go to an elderly woman in the church like a deacon or pastor (female)....

The fact that she is a virgin shows that she is inexperienced and secondly being 22 years old proves that fact...

Remeber Love does not build strong marriages, money and availability of finances are not the criteria for a successful marriage

I am not there to talk to her, so that she can explain her fears, reasons, insecurities to me.. so that I can understand her choices better...

So my candid advise is that she should seek the an elder (female) in church.... or seek a marriage counselor.... Someone older more mature than 40...

These people have been through a lot... Also you as her friend should listen to the choices the Elder gives to her... and you both can relate them if they will benefit her or hamper her future....

Don't shout at your friend, but bend her head gently with your words (inexperienced people are very hard to advise or control remember that)

Hope to hear goodnews

Stay Healthy, Stay Wise

The relationship is over...

Now I want you learn something from this... You may have been the nice guy in the relationship (which guys love but these men are only cool for marriage)

You may have given her your all and showed her that you loved her more than she loved you she used this to her advantage...........

Maybe the sex in the relationship wasn't good....

Maybe you aren't funny enough (I mean you don't have a great sense of humour)

I don't know who taught you how to woo girls or if it comes to you naturally, but you need to learn the female language very well so that this would not happen in the future......

Stay Healthy, Stay Wise

It is wrong for a man to cheat but him cheating the first time does not mean the end of the relationship...

From what you said he sent you text instead of apologizing in person, meaning that he does not love you as much as you love him (which is very dangerous).

Secondly he got angry when you were sending her texts continously meaning you guys have a serious communication problem, and also that the man has more than 70 percent power in this relationship...

The best way to keep a man wrapped in between your legs, is to nurture him, feed, spend and make him happy.... But it seems that your lover is still looking for something outside meaning your relationship is lacking something...

Which may be good sex
Which may be the fact that he does not love you as much as you love him or you are becoming unattractive as time goes on

In this recent times the way to get to a man is no longer through his stomach but his mind.. I dont know how to save this relationship am sorry.. The reason being that the man had a motive before this relationship began and maybe he has achieved this motive and he is already packing out slowly.

Also before you go about crying and thinking that you guys have come a long way for your relationship to end like that.... Learn from what he will tell you on Sunday...

Try to read his communication skills, the way he acts (remember that women can read body language very well) look straight into his eyes (they can expose every truth and lie). Communicate with him... try to understand if he is trying to be neutral or is really sorry for cheating or he is trying to just push it behind you without really being sorry (if a man does that, he will surely cheat again) and after that day. ask yourself is this the man who is going to father my children...

Measure him in all capabilities as a man, husband, and father...

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Because things are not the way it was so many years ago........... Years ago Women were meant to be building and supportive blocks of their husband and family choosing men with goals and not with cash, but in these days the western cultures have changed our thinking....... We now wish for the material things of life... I wouldn't blame us either because men are so crafty... Most of them are after our bodies which make us raise our barriers even higher when we try to choose men.... (But still all that glitters is not gold)..

I havent used propeller ads even though they approved me... But the thing is that what makes Google adsense so good is that you improve on your earning just by changing the country you advertise to.... But I dont know if propeller ads does that....

On days that I get 100 pageviews I get 0.10 on days I get 1000 pageviews I can get 6 dollars .... (when I get higher pageviews it comes mostly from other countries like USA, Canada, Vietnam, Netherlands etc) so as you can see my earning fluctuates and I can make good money if I base it on foreign countries

So if propeller ads can behave like this... Then you are good to go

First of all Nice Story....

Secondly you dont have adsense and you are using the word "sex" already...

It would be hard for adsense to accept you... (if not impossible)

Yieldings:


1. You lack empathy. You don't see a reason why he's scared? So easy for you to say. He lost his mom already and now his Dad is sick, with no relatives to help, and you don't see a reason why he's scared.

2. The whole idea of praying and expecting a miracle is one of the reasons why so many people in Nigeria are still in the dark in this day and age. No one would be dying of illnesses then, if it were that simple.

In this world no human can give you hope or peace or a long lasting solution to any problem... It all comes from the father.... (God) You dont know if its his relatives that are trying to bring his family down... All the same.... He still needs God

Jackofall:


Will u say the say the same if I was ur girlfriend. Girls eh .

So every grown adult has no hatred for anyone. Keep deceiving yourself.

Okay, It seems like you can solve your own problems. Sorry for intruding

Jackofall:


But if I was a girl, will u ask me to forget all the hate I have for a guy who broke up with me. It's easier said than done.
Thanks for ur advice.

Life is too short to keep your mind locked up.... Harbouring Hatred is the emotion growing children have...

I believe you are a grown adult...... Be mature...

Stay Wise

If you want your father to survive... its simple ... The Bible has told us that by the stripes of Jesus we are healed... so I dont see any reason why you should be scared.. If you father does not have faith.. you own faith can help him...

Pray hard and the Best doctor will do an amazing thing in your life..

Stay Healthy, Stay Wise

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Also you can search Blogger Tech Templates and then click images...

The best choice can be made by you alone.... but make sure its not one that slows down you site

Is he sleeping with you... Because men can be so crafty and all he misses might just be the sex..........

Now if sex is not the case (meaning you are not sleeping with each other)

Then communication is the key... Directly talk to him about this issues (be sweet but firm in the conversation)

Its simply that she wants you back... But I would advise that both you be just friends ( and remember to work on that issue of understanding in case you are going to date another girl).......

She may just want you back because her life has been boring without you or she misses you... She may just want you back because she sees that after you broke up with her your life was stlll good meaning that she was not a signifcant part of your life (then she just want to mess it up)

Now here is where the issue of being friends come up... For your safety and better judgment.. Let the two of you be friends and try to keep your chats with her purely friendly.... Her reactions to things you do.... will tell you if you will be able to spend the rest of your life with her (Marriage) or if you will be able to accept her back.....

Try to learn and understand her more.... and try to let her understand you more

This is just for you to be on the safe side and avoid heartbreak (but forget all the feeling of hate you have for her, its not manly to feel like that)

Stay Healthy, Stay Wise