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CareerDebate.. What Can Get You A Good Stand. Is It Who You Know Or What You Know? by Mhorlaitan(op): 10:36pm On Jun 23, 2019
Every opinion is very much welcome.. This is just mine below.. Feel free to drop yours..

*It's not what u know it's who you know*.. Fine.. You know someone.. Everyone is aware of that.. But listen to this.. Who u know will take u to d top but what u know will sustain u there.. People can help u attain that position.. But my brother.. If there's nothing upstairs.. Then who you know is useless.. Connection is good.. But knowledge also matters.. We aren't in d world of who u know now.. We need people who can think creatively, innovatively and independently... It won't be about the grades.. It's going to be about what you know upstairs.. First class graduate may not have something tangible upstairs.. But you see all those third class people may have something better to offer better than those first class holders.. It's what you know not who you know.. Even if you have the connection without qualification.. It will lead to disqualification.. Even without knowing anyone.. What you know can still take you places.. Example.. Dangote, bill gate, otedola.. Tell me who did they know?? It's what they know that take them to where they're today.. Bro.. Everybody has become motivational speakers now.. Don't let them confuse you.. Don't depend on anyone!! Clear the mentality...

So people.. Let ur opinion flows in.. Let me hear from you..
EducationComing Out Of Failure To Success by Mhorlaitan(op): 9:09pm On Jun 28, 2018
COMING OUT OF FAILURE TO SUCCESS
_"Life is a process of becoming, A combination of states we have to go through. Where people fails is that they wish to elect a state and remain in it. This is a kind of death"_ *Anais Nin*

Failure hurts alot, it is something that causes depression, pains and looking down on oneself. Nobody is born to be a failure, it depends on the steps you are taking that determines one being a failure.

There's always a step to success and as well a step to failure, what is the step you're taking? It is not your fault for you falling down, it is your fault if you decided to remain down and not rising on your feet. Failure is a major challenge everyone face, it doesn't matter maybe you are educated or not, rich or poor, tall or small, handsome or ugly.
The main basic thing is for you not to be dismayed. When failure comes, take a bold step to attacking it, every failure is an experience, it is an opportunity to rise and try again. You should learn from it and use it against your next step.

In a wrestling match, when two people are into a fight, the moment you are being defeated and you couldn't rise again defines you as a failure. But once you are failing and rising, that shows you are making a step forward which they tagged as "Never give up". The moment you give up, then you become a failure but in as much you are rising each time you fall, your opponent will get tired and you will be the champion of the match.

There's one secret about failure, once you very tired of trying, it takes over you and you will have no strength over it again, but if you are not tired of trying, when you fall you rise, it makes failure looks like a fool then it leaves you alone for success. Never look on yourself as a failure, you are born to be somebody in life, failure is just a step you need to overcome in going into success.

Abraham Lincoln tried countless of times before becoming the united State president, Thomas Edison fought and won failure, wage war against failure. Rebrand yourself, refocus yourself, Rerise, never stay low, Never allow failure intimidate you. You can as well become the legend everyone is waiting for.

Believe in yourself, nothing worthwhile comes easily, when you fail, use the experience to discover another way that will work to success.

Let success look for you, _"success do not come to those waiting for it, it go to people who are too busy working for it"_ Success is like a *Trophy* it doesn't go to people who are defeated it comes to the people who fought and win, so you are in a battle with failure, fight earnestly for the reward of success, take a bold step. Don't be afraid of failure, when you fail, smile and say you have gotten another way to success.
__Thanks for reading_
_Brought to you by Moses__

*Moxix Writes*
PhonesWhatsapp - Admins Can Now Restrict Group Members From Posting by Mhorlaitan(op): 10:41pm On May 17, 2018
WhatsApp Introduces New Features - Admins Can Now Restrict Group Members From Posting


WhatsApp has announced that it is introducing several new useful features and improvements to Groups.

Groups have been a valuable part of WhatsApp since they were introduced. Apart from helping multiple people stay in touch, they are an essential tool to connect users far and wide. Moreover, now WhatsApp is introducing some new group features that will be especially useful to users. Let’s have a look at those new features.

 

- Group description: WhatsApp groups now have a “short blurb” that can be found below group info. It allows group admins to “set the purpose, guidelines, or topics for the group.” As soon as a new person joins the group, this description will appear at the top of the chat, so that they are aware of what it's about.

- Admin controls: Admin controls within group settings now offer a control that "allows admins to restrict who can change the group’s subject, icon, and description." Also, admins can now remove admin permissions from other group participants. Finally, group creators can never be removed from the group they started.

- Group catch up: Group members who don’t have much time, can now quickly catch up on the messages that mention or reply to them, by merely tapping on the new @ button that’s appears at the bottom right-hand corner of a chat.

- Participant search: Users can now find anyone they’re looking for in a group, just by searching for them on the group info page.

Additional to the above, users who've left a group repeatedly can't be added back. So, if you’ve left a group, there’s no way for someone to add you back. You’d have to do that yourself.

The new features are available on iOS and Android this week. Just remember to update
CelebritiesFunny!!.. Davido Tell Chioma To Return The Car by Mhorlaitan(op): 11:05am On May 15, 2018
Lol... Davido sef dey parra

Jobs/VacanciesRe: The Menace Of "Long Legs" For Job Seekers by Mhorlaitan: 10:38am On May 07, 2018
xynerise:
I was once the HR in one telecom firm and I did the opposite. People came under connection but after the interview, I disappointed a lot of them and went for the best candidates
you disappointed all of them cox it wasn't d boss that brought those candidates and cox you are in a high position more than those peeps.. Cox even you sef they will av to put another person in place for you..

anyways kudos to you
Jobs/VacanciesRe: The Menace Of "Long Legs" For Job Seekers by Mhorlaitan: 10:29am On May 07, 2018
OMG!! where is Nigeria going to?? Corrupting everyday... The name Nigeria isn't bad but people made it to be... Everything now is Long leg and that's why Nigeria isn't moving forward... Because those people employed aren't qualified and they tend to mess up the whole place... Leaving every pace scattered shattered battered.... When is this country going to grow?? so many qualified youth graduate every year without a definite job and they're the ones fit in for the job

But No!! They won't employ them.. what the employer is after is money... you can imagine extorting money from those who need job... using money to get money or what do we call that??..
it high time this country got to a level that Youth with good results will be appreciated and not with "Long Leg"..
EducationRe: Pour Water On Birthday Celebrant, Be Charged To Court- Ajayi Crowther University by Mhorlaitan: 11:25am On May 03, 2018
Perspectives:
'Charged to attempted murder
That's definitely not a University
baba open your eyes... You no fit read ni?? "for" not "to"
CrimeWhy Many People Died During Offa Bank Robbery -kwara CP by Mhorlaitan(op): 2:17pm On Apr 28, 2018
Newly appointed Kwara State Commissioner of Police , Mr. Aminu Saleh , has said that many people lost their lives during the recent armed robbery attack on some commercial banks in Offa because of intelligence break down . According to him , the large number of the robbers overwhelmed the few policemen on ground at the time.
Saleh disclosed that the police also had low connectivity with members of the community, admitting that they had no knowledge of the attack beforehand . The new CP made the disclosure on Thursday while speaking with journalists in Ilorin , the state capital . Lamenting that the police had inadequate armoured personnel carriers to effectively guard Kwara, he said that this and several other challenges contributed in preventing officers from adequately confronting the armed robbers . Saleh said , “ We had an intelligence break down . We had many criminals attacking a few policemen. “ We had little information on the attack before it happened . However , we ’re re - strategising and repositioning our men. We ’re working on the community to ensure that those lapses we observed are addressed. “ What essentially went wrong is our response capacity. We ’re going to correct all those anomalies and get our men to be more responsive . “ We ’re on the trail of the suspects and a lot of successes have been recorded . It is true that we have deficit of APC in the state; in fact we have two moribund ones . But there is already an arrangement on the ground by the state government to intervene and assist in this manner .”
RomanceFour Ways To Cope With A Partner Who Does Not Apologise by Mhorlaitan(op): 1:54pm On Apr 28, 2018
However , below are tips on how to live with unapologetic partners:
PREPARE YOUR MIND TO LIVE WITH IT : It might not sound sweet , but one recommendation from experts is that the spouses of such persons would have to prepare their minds to live with such habit . Fagboungbe said that would save them the stress of being sad over it per time . “ If you can do that, you would have classically conditioned yourself to expect that type of behaviour, so take them as they are, ” he added. Also , Attoh said partners of such persons should try and live with it because it is difficult to change an adult. She said , “ Allow the situation to take its course because it is always difficult to change anything when tempers are high. If you try to raise it as an issue, it can degenerate into conflict because some people just don ’t like to be corrected . ”
*TALK TO THEM ABOUT IT LATER: Experts have also advised that effective communication might be the way to go. Fagboungbe said talking to them when relaxed or in a good mood could help and ultimately yield positive result. “ Research has shown that couples tend to listen to each other when they are in bed and ready to sleep . Raise the issue in a subtle tone and let the person know the implication of what they are doing. If you are a religious person, you can introduce religion. ” Attoh also advised that the aggrieved partner could raise it when the person is at their best. “ It ’s very difficult to correct an adult but you can talk to them in their moments of joy or happiness. Make it a friendly talk. Any marriage that works is because one party decided to work at it. The two partners do not usually have the benefit of the same experiences , but if you make up your mind to live together , do what you can , and talking about it is an option . ” Involve a friend or someone they respect : In case talking about it does not yield any result, Fagboungbe said the partner on the receiving end could talk to someone the spouse respects. This, he said , could help such persons to see things differently . “ But if this doesn’ t work, you have to live with it and then see it as their normal way of behaviour, else it could lead to separation , in - fighting and even divorce ,” he said .
DON’T BITE YOURSELF IF YOU DIDN’ T NOTICE EARLIER: While some would expect that such traits must have been noticeable in the early days of courtship , Attoh said people don ’ t get to know everything about a partner during courtship , thus, they should deal with it. She said , “ The truth is that couples are not 100 per cent sincere to themselves during courtship . Everybody tries to put in their best and accommodate the other person’s shortcomings until they sign on the dotted lines . ”
HELP THEM TO GET KNOWLEDGE: Perhaps one other way to help such people is to help them get the right knowledge on such things. Attoh said the partner could buy them books that address such; encourage them to attend seminars where such issues could be addressed; take them to religious houses, as applicable , and expose them to places where they would pick the right cues . “ Over time , the person might change , ” she added.
RomanceRe: Can You See What Is Wrong With This Photo? Lol by Mhorlaitan: 8:35pm On Apr 27, 2018
SMH... #Lazy Nigerian youth.
why won't buhari say u are lazy?? And you took your whole time to figure out this nonsense??
EducationRe: Twitter User Cries Out Over Six Million Naira Fees Charged By Lagos School by Mhorlaitan: 8:31pm On Apr 27, 2018
Then you should withdraw na.. Abi na by force you go to the school ni?? There are different kinds of school your child can go and the money will suit you
Education2018/2019 Kwara State University(kwasu) Admission Thread by Mhorlaitan(op): 8:27pm On Apr 27, 2018
Aspirant for the 2018/19 Kwasu aspirant should endeavour to follow this thread as updates about the school shall be shared here.. feel free to post any update about the school and you can ask any question bothering you.. #Strictly Admission Updates...
EducationDo You Think JAMB UTME Examination Will Be Postponed? by Mhorlaitan(op): 8:22pm On Feb 15, 2018
Guys this is a question that many people have been asking about... With the look of things now.. Do you think jamb examination will be postponed? Considering the fact that NASU has striked.. And even Mock is also yet to be Conducted.. Do you think march will still stand for the exam or it will change??... Please help move this to front page.

Cc: lala
EducationFinished Secondary School At 16, And Got Back To Ss2, Enter Uni@26. (Testimony) by Mhorlaitan(op): 4:35am On Jan 12, 2018
Finished Secondary school at 16, tried waec thrice and failed.. Got back to ss2. And enter uni at 26.. Now has B. A first class, masters and now going for PhD.... God is Good...
EducationAccounting,economics And Business Administration. Which Is The Best Course? by Mhorlaitan(op): 2:25pm On Dec 02, 2017
Which is the best course to study between this three great courses?? accounting economics and business administration? in terms of finding jobs in this country Nigeria... I need your contributions please....
EducationJUST FOR Fun--mention One Funny Nickname You Remembered In Secondary School by Mhorlaitan(op): 1:20pm On Oct 03, 2017
This thread is just created for fun.. name the most funniest nickname you gave to urself during secondary school... mine is Orikentu
Education13 Types Of Hostel Roomate Or Schoolmate You Would Probably Meet by Mhorlaitan(op):
*13 TYPES OF HOSTEL ROOMATE OR SCHOOLMATE YOU WOULD PROBABLY MEET WHEN YOU GET TO AN HIGHER INSTITUTION*

_Sociologically, human being cannot live in isolation, you must have somebody around you to interact with. As a student, it is quite expedient of you to know the kinds of people around whom you stay with in the hostel_ . Below are some of them:

*LARGEST POT OWNERS* : Whenever you see these people cooking, you will surely ask if they want to cook for all the people in the hostel. The largest pot owners eat a lot. How can a student use a pot that can contain 3congoes of rice to cook?

*The Atenu Worldwide* : They can also be called “Reporters” They disseminate information about the place that food can be secured. They go from church to churches, mosque to mosques, and room to rooms, floor to floors, block to blocks, hostel to hostels all in the course of searching for food.


*The beggars* : I wonder if these sets of people don’t have parents or caregiver. They can come to your room ten times in a day with spoon in their pockets. These people always speak in Pidgin “Brother, I fit see small maggi for your side?” “Se you get little salt? I wana put am for my rice” i nid two cups of rice and others. I wonder if those beggars did not inform their parents about their gaining admission. Abi na me send them? They are so annoying and frustrating.


*The stingers* : These people can cook Egusi in a kettle, they will neither cook nor ear when people are around. They will have money and prefer soaking Garri and Kulikuli to eating good foods.


*The noise makers* : These people always make the hostel to be lively. They are also called intimidators. They always shout when an opposite sex walks around the hostel like shouting “Olosho, Ashewo, Gbefuuun, Tesi ojue”. They often beat drums every evening.


*The Preachers* : These people are annoying at times because they always tend to pester people to fellowship. They will knock your door to preach for you and distribute leaflet or pamphlet for you, in order to compel you to attending their religious programmes.


*The lighted fingers* : These people are dangerous, they can be stereotyped to some renowned thieves and notorious personalities like Mufu Olosa Oko, Oyenusi, Sina Rambo, Ogudabeje (Olori Ole) etc. They will just come to your room in the night any time in order to cart away your invaluable property.


*The Geniuses* : They cannot be left out be left out on the list. They are the intellectuals and oracles who people can consult when they have logical academic problems or questions.


*The womanizers and love peddlers* : They flirt around like a dog. They are like Xender application that can connect to any available device. These sets of people always bring their different male or female lovers into the hostel.


*The socialites* : These are the funful ones who enjoy frivolities rather than facing their academic works tenaciously. They go from one party to another, they find it very difficult to open their textbooks except when the examination is imminent. These sets of people always know the latest gist, vogue, phones, and materials in town.


*The mummy’s pets* : If you tell these people that you will slap them, they will be crying. They are not used to public live and find it difficult to cope in a place where they cannot see their loved ones. They always fear to challenge their juniors self


*The fanatics* : These people have taken religion to another level. They are easily known on campus with their old fashioned dressings and superstitions. They always walk with their Bibles and Qurans wherever they go. They vehemently argue with anybody who has different perspectives about their religious beliefs.


*The Secondarians* : These are sets of people who are not matured enough to be in a higher institution of learning. They behave more or less than a secondary school students. They are more dependable on their parent and pester them on minor issue such “Hello Mummy! We are told to contribute N 20 for the coming test.” They are very pusillanimous Please don’t get upset with them because they are SECONDARIANS.

cc. lala
EducationRe: Federal University Oye-ekiti Aspirant 2017/2018 Thread(chat Room) by Mhorlaitan(op): 3:06pm On Sep 17, 2017
mayordadon:
see as u dey proud of this yeye skull, no id card,no result ,worst atmosphere fr learning, see if i gt enemy i knw fit advice am mke im pick dm as scnd choice.yeye skull rugged environment local people .infact lautech better pass am, highest fg own skull 102# fee.
lol... e dey pain u?? abeg which school you dey abeg be4 I start to dey vex
EducationFederal University Oye-ekiti Aspirant 2017/2018 Thread(chat Room) by Mhorlaitan(op): 2:03pm On Sep 17, 2017
Aspirant of this great university should endeavour to mingle with people with the same mindset... let share any difficulty we are facing with one another maybe concerning the registration stuffs and all that... Just to make sure you're alright... Save journey into FUOYE!!!!
CrimeTeacher Kidnapped, Tied To Tree, Raped For 5 Hrs by Mhorlaitan(op): 8:35pm On Sep 03, 2017
A TEACHER at a school in Victoria Falls was allegedly kidnapped by a homeless man who tied her to a tree and raped her numerous times over a five-hour period near Truck Stop in Hwange.

Bonface Nyambiya (32), who often hangs around the Truck Stop area where he preys on prostitutes, allegedly inserted his manhood into the teacher's mouth before taking it out and forcing her to suck it.

He would allegedly take a smoke break after every round of sex as he raped the woman several times between 10PM and 3AM on June 30.

A court heard how he pounced on the woman, who cannot be named for ethical reasons, near Truck  Stop.

Nyambiya appeared before Hwange magistrate Mrs Portia Mhlanga-Moyo on Wednesday for initial remand after being charged with rape on multiple occasions.

He faces another charge of rape and robbery after he allegedly pounced on a prostitute at the same place last week on Sunday and raped her twice in a broken down truck before robbing her of her handset and $7.

Nyambiya was not asked to plead to rape and robbery and was remanded in custody to August 30.

Prosecuting, Mr Onias Nyathi said Nyambiya met the complainant at a bus stop opposite the Truck Stop in June.

The complainant was looking for transport to Victoria Falls and Nyambiya pretended as if he was also going in the same direction.

"The complainant was intending to travel to Victoria Falls and accused approached and greeted her. The two started chatting and the accused suddenly produced an iron bar before grabbing the complainant by the neck and dragging her to a nearby bush," said Mr Nyathi.

He said while in the bush, Nyambiya assaulted the woman with the iron bar before stripping her.

"He tied her legs to a tree and had sex with her several times from 10PM to 3AM. After each encounter, the accused would leave the complainant and take a rest while smoking a cigarette a few metres from her," said Mr Nyathi.

Nyambiya finally released the woman at 3AM leaving her in the bush.

In the other count of rape, the court heard that on Sunday last week, Nyambiya allegedly hired a prostitute aged 25 for a short time.

"The two entered a wrecked truck. While inside and about to have sex, the complainant pushed him away indicating that she was no longer interested in sex with him after she saw him drawing an iron bar. The accused forcibly had sex with her twice without her consent," said Mr Nyathi.

After the sex, Nyambiya allegedly demanded money and took away a Samsung handset and $7 which the complainant had been paid by a client who had hired her earlier.

Nyambiya was arrested after the second woman identified her at the Truck Stop and alerted police.
EducationLet's Discuss.. Do You Think Jamb Was Not High For Putting Cut Off At 120 by Mhorlaitan(op): 10:00am On Aug 23, 2017
Let's discuss about this.. do you think jamb was right putting the admission cut off for universities at 120 and poly at 100.. what maybe the reason behind this.. This is a new development... We have a new registrar.. So everything is changed.. let's discuss... what your own thoughts??
EducationBest Graduating Medical Student Offered #10,000(photo) by Mhorlaitan(op): 12:48pm On Aug 08, 2017
Best graduating student was offered #10,000.. And you say education is the way?? With all the stress she went through to be d best student.. She was offered 10k..
Efe was offered #25million for just 77days entertainment.. This lady used almost 7years in d university and was offered 10k...
Where is Nigeria going into??
And you said Education is the key..
IS EDUCATION THE KEY OR ENTERTAINMENThuh?
RomanceRe: Why Are You In A Relationship?? by Mhorlaitan(op): 3:40pm On Jul 30, 2017
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lol..
e don pain u?? Na u I dey follow talk?? why u take am personal?? abeg make una change oooo
RomanceThe Marriage Bed... Read And Share by Mhorlaitan(op): 3:02pm On Jul 30, 2017
Take ur time to read this...
... *"THE MARRIAGE BED"* ...
Some of us don't even know how to enjoy this sex that God has freely given to us. All this one that you people will just lock yourselves up inside the heat, close the windows, bolt the door, buy packets of condoms, drink sachets of tramadol, and still be doing it with a low voice so that your neighbors will not hear you people, untop of that you'll still be praying that pregnancy should not arise a second time , no rest of mind at all, please is that one sex? I will not even talk about how the devil will just be fanning away your spiritual life with his facecap, Mtcheeewww, you're just cheating yourself and you don't know it.
All those ones you're doing in your relationship and think is enjoyment is just like stealing meat from your mother's pot, you cannot enjoy it in peace, any little footstep you're afraid of getting caught, because you know you're not doing it the right way.
My dear why not just chill and wait to enjoy this thing with peace of mind when you're married? I mean, the kind of sex where you can be doing it and be drinking coke. The kind of sex where you can freely leave the windows open and even break down your door.
Let me share this secret with you, maybe you didn't know this yet;
God has given us specific instructions and guidance on every area of our life, i mean EVERY AREA of our Christian life, how to worship, how to pray, how to seek His face, what to do about our challenges, how to treat people who love and despise us, how to do our marriage, how to love our neighbors, mehn, i mean EVERYTHING, but there's one area that God have said nothing about, no guideline, no law, no principle, nothing,.....and that area is "THE MARRIAGE BED".
God knows how important that bed is to our marriage, He know much we enjoy that area, that is why He didn't put any ten commandments or heavenly constitutions around it, the Lord just removed His hand from that side and be like "you know what? do it as you please, just be enjoying yourselves, as long as both husband and wife agree".
Guys, the full excitement in sex is on the marriage bed, where there are no fears, no condemnation, or limitations.
The kind of sex you can have on a sunday morning before rushing off to Sunday school
The kind of sex that you can boldly do wearing your Scapular and your Holy Rosary.
The kind of sex where you can use the big family Bible on the bed to support her head.
The kind of sex where you don't need condoms or performance enhancement drugs, or fear unwanted pregnancy.
The kind of sex where you don't care if the neighbors are hearing your love hymns.
The kind of sex you can have with Hillsong and Pastor Joel Osteen's tapes playing in the background.
The kind of sex where the Heavens smile every time you cleave, because what they see is a Spirit exchange.
Wait for it guys, wait for the kind of marriage where the whole house is your marriage bed, from the kitchen table to the couch, to the staircase, to the pool, to the garden, to the bedroom, and even to kissing in church.
Wait for it, it might look tough now, but the wait is always worth it

#Mhorlaitan
RomanceWhy Are You In A Relationship?? by Mhorlaitan(op): 2:54pm On Jul 30, 2017
WHY ARE YOU IN A RELATIONSHIP??
Every friendship should have a purpose and every relationship should have a focus. The focus of every relationship should be marriage. You have no business being in a relationship with someone if you know you are not going to marry the person.​ You need to have the right focus why you want to be in a relationship with someone, and the focus should be because you want to marry the person.​
It is so sad that a lot of people are in a relationship for wrong reasons, some are in a relationship because they feel lonely and they need someone to be with, others are in a relationship for sex, some also are in a relationship for fun, many too are in a relationship because all their friends are in a relationship and they feel left out, some people too are in a relationship because someone is putting pressure on them so they decide to be in a relationship. But all these are the wrong reasons to be in a relationship.
It amazes me sometimes to see people in a relationship with a married man or woman,​ but the question is, what business do you have dating somebody's husband or wife ?​ This is not the life of a responsible, matured person. Have the right focus for being in a relationship. Don't start something with the intention of not finishing, if you know you are not going to continue and finish then don't start it at all.​
Be a responsible person, may be you are reading this article,​ and you know you are in a wrong relationship,​ is time to quit​ and come of such unhealthy relationship which does not have a future. I mostly tell ladies, when a guy or a man come into your life,​ there are two things you should find out from him. Whether he has a plan for your life​ or he want to play with your life.​ This man or guy who claim to be in love with you, does he want to make an honourable woman​ out of you, to be his wife and the mother of his children ?​
If you are a guy who is fun of using ladies and dumping them,​ is time for you to stop and repent.​ Some guys are so proud of how they use ladies and dump them, but that's a foolish thing to do, there is no sense in that at all. The bible says, you will reap what you sow, so if you are reading this today,​ is because God want you to repent. Women are not intimacy gadget or object that must be use​ and dump at will, it is so sad that when some men see women, all they see is breast, buttock and sex. But women are unique beings created by God to be a blessing to men and the world,​ so as a man, see women beyond sex object.
Are you in a relationship with the right person ?​ Is your relationship headed for marriage or you just want to have fun ? If you are in a relationship with someone, is time for both of you to define that relationship. Ask yourself, why are you in that relationship ?​ is it for the right reason, if not, is time to quit,​ if you are also in a sexical relationship, is time to say no to sex and come out of such relationship and live pure and clean before God.​
If you are in a relationship with someone and you know you want to get married, you have to set a Godly boundary around that relationship and know your limits.​ Don't tread on dangerous grounds. As a lady, the fact that he is going to marry you does not mean you should be sleeping over his place,​ that's a wrong thing to do. Some of you know it's wrong but you still do it in the name of proving him your love, stop that If in case you visit him and it's late, then if he has a car let him drive you home,​ if he doesn't then he should call for a taxi for you to go home.​ Never sleep over a guy's place who is not yet married to you. Show yourself a little dignity, honour and respect.​
The Worst Feeling Is When after He/She Leaves You To Marry Someone Else.
# Mhorlaitan
CelebritiesRe: Since Shooting Films Outside Is Not Permitted Anymore.. A Better Option by Mhorlaitan(op): 11:27pm On Jul 19, 2017
Mhorlaitan:
I think the federal government also should go with this... it will be better...
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CelebritiesSince Shooting Films Outside Is Not Permitted Anymore.. A Better Option by Mhorlaitan(op): 11:22pm On Jul 19, 2017
I think the federal government also should go with this... it will be better...
[img]I think the federal government also should go with this... it will be better...
[/img]I think the federal government also should go with this... it will be better...
CrimeFather Butchers Son, Dumbs Him in Ogun Bush by Mhorlaitan(op): 10:01am On Jul 18, 2017
A father, whose name has yet to be ascertained, was said to have butchered his son , Favour Oyediran on Sunday , after he lured him into the bush near the President Muhammadu Buhari Estate along Siun - Sagamu - Abeokuta Expressway .
The victim was said to be living at Abule Agbon, located between Kobape and Abeokuta , with his father, stepmother and her two children.
His own mother was said to have separated from the father .
Favour , who is said to be 11 years old, was reported to have been stabbed by the father in the neck, pretended to be dead before his father abandoned him in the bush .
Favour , who later crawled out of the bush, was said to have been rescued by a good Samaritan , who took him to the Federal Medical Centre , Abeokuta .
A source , who pleaded anonymity, said Favour ’ s father always maltreated him.
The father, the source said, had allegedly claimed that the son embarrassed him “ too often by reporting him to the Baale each time he is assaulted by father. ”
Our correspondent , however , paid a visit to the Children ’ s Ward at the Federal Medical Centre , Idi Aba , Abeokuta on Monday , and it was confirmed that Favour was on admission in the hospital .
The Public Relations Officer of the hospital , Mr . Olusegun Orisajo , who led our correspondent to the Ward, prevented our correspondent from seeing the boy.
He entered the ward and conferred with the nurses in charge of his case , and came back and told our correspondent that the victim was in stable condition .
Orisajo said , “The boy is here , his name is Favour. He had undergone surgery and it was successful . He is in stable condition . ”
Orisajo , who insisted that the minor ’ s privacy must be respected, prevented our correspondent from interviewing Favour .
When contacted on the case , the state Police Public Relations Officer, Abimbola Oyeyemi, said he had yet to be briefed about the incident by the Divisional Police Officer in whose jurisdiction the incident happened .
He promised to get back to our correspondent as soon as he was briefed about the incident.
But he had yet to get back to our correspondent as of the time of filing the report .
EducationLagos Government Stops Vacation Teaching Over Fear Of Kidnappers by Mhorlaitan(op): 9:54am On Jul 18, 2017
The Lagos State Government will not hold its annual holiday special teaching this year .
The teaching tagged, ‘ Science Vacation Course for Secondary School Students, ’ is meant to boost pupils ’ interest in science courses .
The government in a memo to all the permanent secretaries in the six educational districts in the state blamed “ security situation ” and “ threats by kidnappers ” for the decision.
It was gathered that the state government also based its decision on the fact that the six kidnapped pupils of the Lagos State Model College , Igbonla , Epe, were not yet freed.
The pupils were kidnapped around 6 am on Thursday , May 25, after the kidnappers broke into the school ’ s hostel .
The six pupils are Peter Jonah, Isiaq Rahmon , Adebayo George , Judah Agbausi, Pelumi Philips and Farouq Yusuf .
The kidnappers had last Sunday promised to release the children, but had yet to do so after 54 days ( as of Monday ) in captivity.
In the memo sighted on Monday and signed by a director in the state Ministry of Education , the government also said its officials would move round the designated centres to make sure that none of them opened for the course .
It read in part , “ I wish to inform you that the 2017 Science Vacation Course which had earlier been scheduled to hold between July 24 and August 25 , 2017 will no longer hold due to the security in the country, especially the recent threats by kidnappers .
“… You are, hereby, requested to ensure that the selected centres comply with this directive . ”
The response of the Lagos State Deputy Governor , Dr . Idiat Adebule, who also supervises the education ministry , is being awaited .
FamilySingapore Voids Marriage After Husband's Sex Change by Mhorlaitan(op): 9:48am On Jul 18, 2017
Singapore has voided the marriage of a couple after the husband underwent a sex change, making their partnership a same - sex union that contravened the city - state ’ s laws , a report said Tuesday .
The couple married as man and woman in 2015 but the husband underwent a sex change couple tried to buy a government - built apartment, they had to inform the authorities. Married couples receive state grants for first -time purchases of government apartments .
The marriage was voided several months later , making them ineligible to buy the apartment they wanted , the paper said .
Singapore ’ s Registry of Marriages said it would not give details on individual cases but cited the country ’ s laws which state marriage is a union between a man and a woman.
“ At the point of marriage , a couple must be man and woman, and must want to be and want to remain as man and woman in the marriage , ” it said in a statement.
Despite calls for change, Prime Minister Lee Hsien Loong has said the country is not yet ready for same - sex marriage since society is still conservative.
Singapore maintains legislation dating back to British colonial rule making sex between men a criminal act although it does not actively enforce the law .
Jean Chong, who co - founded Sayoni , a Singapore - based lesbian advocacy group , told AFP that “ policies need to catch up with the realities of society ” .
“ Families come in all shapes and sizes and of course while people get married as man and woman, there are those who transition along the way , so does this mean their marriage is no longer valid ?”
Taiwan ’ s top court ruled in favour of gay marriage in May, paving the way for the island to become the first place in Asia to legalise same - sex unions .
PhonesRe: Airtel Launches Unlimited Data Packages. See Prices & Codes by Mhorlaitan: 8:46pm On Jul 17, 2017
it's nt unlimited... since it have different prices... And if u av been subscribing for Facebook mb.. using *688#... you will see that d #300 own is unlimited.. then u pay and u will be given 1gb.. definitely it's nt unlimited.. u will be given maybe 10gb, 15gb, 20gb respectively sha
FamilyYou Are A Representative Of Your Family by Mhorlaitan(op): 6:37pm On Jul 06, 2017
* YOU ARE A REPRESENTATIVE OF YOUR FAMILY*
What kind of attitude or behavior do you showcase when you are outside your? Do you prove to be that one that has correct and confirm home training? Or the other way round. You know its one thing to be taught home training and another thing yielding to it, also it something when you are taught and you re-teach yourself
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Everyone's behaviour is subjected to each family he/she came from, you can know the kind of family I came from if you study me verywell and likewise to you also...
Considering the recent *WAR* between *ILOFFA* and *ODO-OWA* ... Someone that was well brought up will not been seen fighting there, it's only those who feels their father is also there fighting that will go, so what will the father tell the child? To go back or to join him? Definitely they are representing themselves or who sees it as a medium to destroy lives and property.. No one that was rightly taught will be involved in such situation...
Your family has so much influence on how you relate to people you met outside your family... How does your family has influence?? Let's create this scene .. You're at a place then you see someone being insulted at a public place and what the person could do is just to keep quiet and do not utter any ungoldly words.. Even if later on the person is guilty.. Your thought towards the person will be clean.. You'll be impressed by the person's action.. Meaning he his representing his family where he was being insulted because what ever action he took there will be used against his family.. If he responds to d insult.. You will see someone that will say he took after his father or mother.. And if after his family is eventually traced.. You will see they are kind or loving and even very gentle in their family that shows he's really representing his family positively not negatively.. But if he took a drastic action he his representing his family negatively... I hope you're following
There's one saying that says "Show me your friend and I'll tell you who you are
".. This time we aren't talking about friends we are talking about family .. Now it's reframed to " Show up yourself then I will tell you how your family is like"
Let's create another scene , A guy walking in a street and a man from no where hit him unknowingly and the next thing or action the guy takes is just to slap the man as hard as he could. Assuming the man also okay, both of them instigate in a fight and started fighting and the next thing the guy do is carry stick and all sort of weapons fighting each other... What will be your thought towards them? Am very sure it will be bad.. and if eventually you traced those guys to their family you will see that they are actually representing their family.. If maybe his father is a conductor... You know conductors loves fighting and maybe his mother sell all sort of hard drink.. So he his actually representing his family... What he did was right in his sight because his family did not condemn it...
How did you represent your family? Do you represent them positively or negatively? Do you actually show that you came from a good place or you claim to be that person that's ashamed of the family you came from... Whatever behaviour that you showcase outside will definately be traced to your family one very day... So are you really representing your family in a good way or the other way round? What do people say about your family through your attitude? Do they curse your family of bless the family?? Are they really impressed with your behaviour?
Will people say great things About where you came from or say bad things about it through the behaviour you showcase? Or will the image of your family be tarnished through your attitude or behavior??
If you behave well in a place you haven't be before.. There's no way your family won't be praised....
*BE A GOOD REPRESENTATIVE*
I REMAIN MY HUMBLE SELF
# MHORLAITAN

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