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desreek9:
Please take time to read this, I really need your advice.

I am a working mother of four kids (2 sets of twins) been married since 2012; I and my husband communicate well, our sex life is great (we explore diff. styles) and I make sure everyone is contented and satisfied or so i thought.
How i found out he was cheating

I noticed I didn't see my period for two months which is weird, I checked if i was with child but it was negative, before then I noticed burning feeling when i pee and pains so i decided to see a doctor, that was how i received the greatest shock of my life. I was told i had STD, I was in shock, crying and shaking cos i know i got it from my husband, was told to do an HIV test.

After the longest wait of my life and vomiting due to anxiety and panic, it was negative. Three months later was still negative, I went home thinking of ways to kill my husband. Later that night i first asked him if he was cheating he blatantly denied but when i showed him the test result, he was dumbfounded and started begging, i asked him why with tears rolling down my eyes, he couldn't give any reason because he knows everything was great btw us, i told him we would never make love anymore that i can't risk my life because of sex, he was begging me saying he would change, i told him i can never trust him cos once a cheat, always a cheat.

My people, it's over a year and we've not had sex, he can't chase me away from the house because we both built it and the land is in my name, sometimes he comes home late but i really don't care since we have separate bedroom. He said he can't leave because he will have to tell his and my people but he doesn't want the embarrassment.

Apart from all these, every other aspect is great at home, so my question is this; is my decision too harsh or am i justified?

locodemy:
You have 20k USD for sale and i have 500k NAIRA for sale too.
Every one is aware of dog......of course dog no dey chop dog.....

eezeribe:
Nice post.Thanks Op.
Similar myths were debunked in 'Trump's Strategies on Real estate' and 'The real book on Real estate' by Robert Kiyosaki.
I also learnt a lot from my own experience,after we built a Lodge in one of the public Universities.

lalasticlala,Mynd44

Tritri:
@veecovee @Miarose ,@Infinitisi ,@kolaish ,@fxuser

You're been RUDE , very RUDE to this forum. ANYOTHER who needs better preaching should go religion section .

You DISOBEYED the rules of this forum. YOU DESERVED TO BE BANNED.

THIS HAS NOTHING TO DO WITH GOD ...

Anyone who's interested in ur preaching should move to https://www.nairaland.com/religion

I visit the religion section every sunday morning ..But coming to STOCK EXCHANGE section to meet another preaching is irritating to me .

THESE RULES ON EVERY SECTION ON NAIRALAND HAS BEEN IN EXISTENCES EVEN BEFORE YOU JOINED. DON'T BE RUDE.

chukzyfcbb:
its no guarantee, most children who are this big from tender age get very robust as they grow. Parents think
they do thier kids a favour by providing for thier every cravings. Child obesity is something nobody discusses in Nigeria but it does exist, as a female if her parents don't curtail what she feeds on. The gurl has a very very huge tendency to go obese

ayamout85:
Please can you share a cheap stat/city for birthing? including everything doctor, hospital etc..