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Family / Re: Before We Mislead The Younger Men And Women by Miarose: 3:10pm On Jun 01, 2020 |
Lai Lai. Sense will not keep u my sister. This post is full of sense. pocohantas: 2 Likes |
Family / Re: My 87years Old Granpa Still Wants To Re-marry. by Miarose: 8:52pm On May 29, 2020 |
You have to be careful about exploitations. some elderly people who have well off family members can be targeted. This young lady has made herself available to him. Let it remain this way.. Never get into the discussion of marriage at this point in his life, remember that a legal spouse has legal rights too. At his death, you guys will see why she came. 2 Likes |
Family / Re: Can You Marry Someone Like Your Mom Or Dad?? by Miarose: 4:04pm On May 26, 2020 |
Yes, I will marry my father even in the life to come. 7 Likes 2 Shares |
Family / Re: Why Children Of Strict Parents Turn Out To Be Worse by Miarose: 4:36pm On May 25, 2020 |
They already trained you by not wanting you with opposite sex. You can't tell me you didn't know about pregnancy and STDs. What else do u need from them? Don't blame them for your many sexual partners. It is strictly your choice. Goodmorning2u: 7 Likes 1 Share |
Family / Re: Why Children Of Strict Parents Turn Out To Be Worse by Miarose: 4:18pm On May 25, 2020 |
You are doing yourself. FeliciaOja: |
Family / Re: Why Do Women Lose Interest In Their Husbands After Few Years In Marriage? by Miarose: 9:21pm On May 23, 2020 |
What a table funmisticqueen2: |
Family / Re: My Husband's Family Is Sucking Him Dry by Miarose: 10:35pm On May 18, 2020 |
Be the Abigail or Esther of your family. Some times, these men need someone to save them from themselves. Anni3e: 24 Likes 1 Share |
Investment / Re: Binance Trading by Miarose: 10:09am On May 16, 2020 |
Everything on the whole world is manipulated. You just have to get into the right circles. Kobicove: |
Family / Re: Celebrating HEALTHY Blended-families With Or Without Marriage. by Miarose: 10:27pm On May 15, 2020 |
@OP, It all about love. Have you not seen that Nigerians are incapable of true love? If there is no gain, then no love. Save your strength.. wickedness will not allow them understand. 2 Likes |
Family / Re: Placing The Wrong Emphasis On Work (aka Earning A Living) by Miarose: 5:52pm On May 11, 2020 |
They are your quotes however. Work is a means to secure your basic needs and absolutely necessary for every living full-bodied human being, unless someone else is providing for you. I agree that we should all find our purpose or calling. If you have found yours, pray for those that are yet to find theirs. However, note that not everyone makes a living out of their purpose. It could be a sacrificial calling and nothing comes out of it, financially. In spite of that, you still need to feed, provide the basic things of life. Physiological needs(food , water, warmth,safety,security) rank lower than emotional needs, not to talk of self actualization. In fact, self actualization is at the very top of maslow's hierarchy of needs. [img][/img] Like someone else said, purpose changes as we go through life and it is a reflection of the needs in our current state. bukatyne: 8 Likes |
Family / Re: Placing The Wrong Emphasis On Work (aka Earning A Living) by Miarose: 4:35pm On May 11, 2020 |
I actually quoted you directly. The two lines I lifted are right there in my post. bukatyne: 9 Likes |
Family / Re: Placing The Wrong Emphasis On Work (aka Earning A Living) by Miarose: 3:42pm On May 11, 2020 |
Are you a pastor or a pastor's wife? Your statements are too definitive and biased. let me just give you twolines from ur post; 1. Whatever variation of the advise, it generates laughter in me 2.Work in itself cannot give satisfaction hence replacing your family with 'work' always ends in tears with these two statements, you have laughed at women who put their careers ahead of a marriage==man and you have stated as a fact, that they will always end in tears. How does your opinion differ from the northerners who believe a girl child is only good enough for marriage? How does your opinion encourage the education of a girl child since her ultimate goal is marriage, should she stop at secondary school? Working a job to earn a living has never been the solely a man's job. In most cultures in Africa, women run the farms and markets. They have always been busy for the benefit of their family. let me quote proverbs 31 for you. She finds wool and flax and busily spins it. 14She is like a merchant’s ship, bringing her food from afar. 15She gets up before dawn to prepare breakfast for her household and plan the day’s work for her servant girls. 16She goes to inspect a field and buys it; with her earnings she plants a vineyard. 17She is energetic and strong, a hard worker. 18[b]She makes sure her dealings are profitable; her lamp burns late into the night.[/b] 19Her hands are busy spinning thread, her fingers twisting fiber. 20She extends a helping hand to the poor and opens her arms to the needy. 21She has no fear of winter for her household, for everyone has warm clothes. 22She makes her own bedspreads. She dresses in fine linen and purple gowns. 23Her husband is well known at the city gates, where he sits with the other civic leaders. 24She makes belted linen garments and sashes to sell to the merchants. 25She is clothed with strength and dignity, and she laughs without fear of the future. 26When she speaks, her words are wise, and she gives instructions with kindness. 27She carefully watches everything in her household and suffers nothing from laziness. The advise to face your career is never wrong. A cursory look around nairaland will tell you a lot of guys today want working women, they need support. The economy is tough and there is so much uncertainty. It is more likely that a young educated working woman will have more suitors than the havenots. The working woman of today is not in competition with the man. Her purpose is to build without fear for the future, both for herself and her household. Any lady who diligently gets up everyday to make an honest living should be encouraged. "Work"today, career tomorrow. we will all reap the fruit of our labor. bukatyne: 16 Likes 3 Shares |
Investment / Re: Binance Trading by Miarose: 5:05pm On May 04, 2020 |
I got into a rare paid group that leaks binance listing info. That is all I do now.. average returns per listing is 80%. 4 hits out of 4 leaks so far. 2020 is my year. |
Family / Re: My Story; A Troubled Married Man by Miarose: 6:45pm On Apr 23, 2020 |
You seem quite confused.. While life plays it number on you, you have to be sure of what you really want fir ur life.. You also have to learn to count your blessings... Cos you are blessed but you don't know it..3 healthy children, a working and supportive wife? Practice mindful gratitude.. It will help you keep your spirits up. About your occasional cheating and flirting, can you be honest with urself? Are you working on stopping it ? Are you on the borders of depression or do u want her to accept that this is the best you can be? what response will you prefer from ur wife? You need to gather yourself together and take charge of your life.. The woman is not a problem here 5 Likes 1 Share |
Family / Re: Appreciation Post by Miarose: 11:26am On Apr 10, 2020 |
@Adaego5, Don't fall for the baits..you don't have to prove yourself to anyone.Enjoy your new relationship. @crackland, you are such a primadonna. 1st Corinthians 13:7 says,"Love bears all things, believes all things, hopes all things, endures all things." She played her part, loved him beyond his wrongs which she didn't count.. did he do the same? He broke it off, didn't he? Its just a relationship that didn't work out.. no need picking her apart. Happy holidays.. 3 Likes |
Family / Re: Indecisive And Unhappy. Advice Pla by Miarose: 10:49pm On Apr 08, 2020 |
Bros stop naa. just stop.Not on this thread. You have gotten more attention than COVID19 today. Lets get back to OP matter abeg. Crakkland: 5 Likes |
Family / Re: Indecisive And Unhappy. Advice Pla by Miarose: 1:08pm On Apr 08, 2020 |
Your concerns are not clear cos I also reached the same conclusion as her. Is a bad marriage better than no marriage? It's a personal decision .it just seems like u are on an evangelical mission to convince women to live for men, however bad it is, as long as you are in a marriage. bukatyne: 15 Likes 2 Shares |
Family / Re: God Saved My Family From Explosion In Abule Ado,Lagos by Miarose: 11:08am On Mar 17, 2020 |
Lol, humans must understand that death is not a punishment. It is a certain end for all human, the only variable is time. What comes after death is the grand question.. 2 Likes |
Family / Re: My Husband Doesn’t Want My Son To Come And Stay With Us by Miarose: 10:13am On Mar 14, 2020 |
Log out abeg.. you have filled this thread with thrash. Low voltage brain. A mother wants to take care of her kid who has been rejected by others..leave her alone. There is NOTHING else to understand. Psoul: 4 Likes |
Family / Re: My Husband Doesn’t Want My Son To Come And Stay With Us by Miarose: 4:55am On Mar 14, 2020 |
Can't you try another tactic? Reduce the confrontations if it's creating a hostile environment. make you case gently , use emotional blackmail if you know how to.You are pregnant and you can't entertain these heightened emotions without adverse effect. Doesn't stop you from getting your son on Sunday though but try to douse the tension at home, even for the boys sake. Vyvyanvyvy: |
Family / Re: My Husband Doesn’t Want My Son To Come And Stay With Us by Miarose: 4:06pm On Mar 13, 2020 |
No he didn't. By being dishonest about his intentions and separating she and her son with false promises, he has done her no good cos apparently, she will choose her son over the fake marriage. . BoboKush: 4 Likes |
Family / Re: My Husband Doesn’t Want My Son To Come And Stay With Us by Miarose: 3:35pm On Mar 13, 2020 |
Good Question. He has slept with over 200 girls but wants to meet a virgin. HEHEHEHEHE lepasharon: 2 Likes |
Family / Re: My Husband Doesn’t Want My Son To Come And Stay With Us by Miarose: 3:11pm On Mar 13, 2020 |
Strong Mama. If the men on this thread had mothers like you, they will not be so bitter. How would they feel if their mothers chose a man over them? A lot of them will die of pain but here they are recommending you to do same. You are making the best choice .. dont be scared.. Even in the bible was Jesus was being crucified, his mother was in the crowd.. No mention of Joseph. we are not the same as them.. Our calling is different God be your strength. Vyvyanvyvy: 3 Likes |
Family / Re: International Women's Day 2020: Each For Equal// My Thoughts. by Miarose: 7:11pm On Mar 09, 2020 |
I agree with you..40%. Awareness creation is very important. Humans have been on earth for thousands of years, but the most progress for women was made in the 20th century. Awareness campaigns drove the changes in policies and laws that you and I benefit from today. Right to vote right to education Child marriage abolishing abolishing of circumcision abolishing of breast ironing etc these rights that we have today were fought for , and the battle still continues,the fight has not ceased. Heck, in some societies like saudi,women just won the right to d[b]rive.. in 2019!!![/b].Education levels of our northern nigerian girls are still so low.. This is true feminism, not husband and wife power struggles. 5 Likes |
Family / Re: N100,000: How would You Share This Between Your Parents? by Miarose: 1:02pm On Feb 25, 2020 |
Why the generalization that dads bring money? how many households are run by men alone? our moms are everywhere.. selling fish, oil,vegetable,kerosene, firewood. frying akara,yam,etc,very often they drag their kids along with them to their shops and markets. Moms still provide and care for the kids.. I know there is a silent campaign to discredit women now..but not ur mothers please.. 10 Likes 2 Shares |
Family / Re: Things I Saw In A Coded Bar/motel, Bothering Me About Marriage! by Miarose: 6:29pm On Feb 13, 2020 |
Both genders have failed the society. The men are entitled to promiscuity but they don't sleep with themselves, do they, they sleep with women. Are these women imported from China? When you fetch ant infested firewood into ur house, it will bite everyone including the children. They are the biggest casualties of this self entitled generation. Women today are more educated, more opinionated, more empowered... They will not stay and cower like our mothers. The men of today have no shame, they can't even open their mouth and speak against their flag bearer that die in hotels. Right now, anything we see, we take. 110 Likes 9 Shares |
Romance / Re: Why Every Man Should Strive To Be An Alpha Male by Miarose: 10:37pm On Jan 29, 2020 |
Finally, men bashing men thread. I love it. 1 Like |
Family / Re: I Need Advice..6 Month Marriage by Miarose: 7:55am On Jan 18, 2020 |
It's his habit since he was single. It's only the grace of God that will make him stop. Sad that u are already pregnant I would have advised you to walk away. You have to let ur parents know.. don't preserve his image by hiding it from them. Don't carry it alone.. ur mum should be good support especially now u are pregnant. If u know u can't live with it, walk away early.. don't stay and pray for him to change.else j will see urself with four kids and stuck in a sad marriage.. 11 Likes |
Family / Re: Why Am I So Melancholy? by Miarose: 2:56pm On Dec 20, 2019 |
It's the virgo in you. Your role here is to empathize and tend to the world. read more about yourself and embrace it. I am exactly like you too. And please, don't marry a Scorpio.. UyaiIncomparabl: |
Family / Re: Does The Vagina Revert Back To Normal? by Miarose: 6:59pm On Dec 18, 2019 |
What is your concern exactly? Are u worried about loose vagina for yourself or for your husband? Does lose vagina kill anybody? What is the calibration for lose vagina? Don't come and kill yourself.. if it bothers u that much, go for elective CS. With time ,you will learn to put your well-being above a man's pleasure, they will find reason to dance naked outside no matter how choking the vagina is. 37 Likes |
Family / Re: Deadbeat Father: How A Nairanlander's Quote Ended My Family's Rift. (photos) by Miarose: 8:19am On Dec 13, 2019 |
So OP contacted his dad and apologized as seen from the chat. Well, maybe he wasn't abandoned.. maybe OP did the abandoning. Also, he said he is 26 and haven't spoken to the dad in 6 yrs, since his 200 level. So the dad was in his life up until he was 20 yrs. I guess it's a Tiff between him and his dad. Not as deep as abandonment as an infant. Not a deadbeat dad if he was there till ur 20s. 8 Likes |
Family / Re: . by Miarose: 10:18pm On Nov 19, 2019 |
Poverty of the mind. The worst of it all |
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