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[size=14pt]It would be inconsequential for me to do so! Since i have nothing to hide! The JOKE is on you, for copying a wrong email addy! I'm not perturbed anyway! it's to be expected! People must SNOOP! And oh, you can ask the other commenters what my email addy was, before you gallivanted onto this thread, to make a crass statement! Cheerz! [/size] |
[size=14pt]I'm NOT on facebook! Try Again! [/size] |
[size=14pt]Ok! So how many Nigerians have you actually met to confirm this assertion? [/size] |
bizgirl:[size=14pt]Believe me, if i could have said this better, i would! The stench of the hypocrisy on this forum, is reaching the high heavens! True! But what do you get, when a majority refuse to post their pictures? Not by force though, but at least, if NLs come together and get real, i think you'll achieve the results you are looking for! We cant fall in love with usernames alone, No! There's got to be a face to match the user name, and the posts! It starts with you! . . . . . . . . . . . . . .Then us! [/size] |
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blessedtj:[size=14pt]Corrects you when you go wrong. . . . Takes correction when wrong. . . Doesnt put you down in front of friends or family members!. . . Has your best interest's at heart. . . Doesn't force you to go against your conscience, in matters of right or wrong. . . Trust's you. . . Respects you. . . Relegates your weaknesses, amplifies your strengths and brings out the best in you. . . Criticizes you constructively. . . Encourages you in your endeavors. . . Respects friends and family member's of theirs. . . Manages Finances very well, or is good at managing finances. . . Not an impulsive spender. . . . Would never hit you . . . Get's angry, but keeps his/her cool or tries to control it. . . Is not Jealous in an improper way! (I am jealous of her, but not to the point of choking or unnecessarily monitoring her! What tha heck. . .) Love's you for who you are, bearing in mind that perfection is unobtainable from anyone. . . E.t.c. . . . . . . . . . . ![]() [/size] |
[size=14pt]Op! On second thoughts, what if you are being set up? It's just 5 weeks she's been there, i mean, do you love your Job?. . . . Who's in charge? Your Head or your Dik? [/size] |
[size=14pt]^^^Huh? Look at my first reply where i quoted you! Who made this statement below?[/size] ![]() Opportunities and life curves happen to both women and men but women are more likely to follow their husbands and I am not saying some husbands doesn't follow their wife. |
I dunno how u girls (n some guys) r justifying or rather supporting her words. . . . Its a shame sex is sacred but chopping money is bliss[size=14pt]^^^ Are you under compulsion to spend? If her demands are high, Bounce! or better, ask her to BOUNCE! If you wanna spend for sex, go to a Brothel! It's as easy as breathing!. . . [/size] |
mekaboy:[size=14pt]If i'm not ready, and you give me such conditions, BOUNCE! No rigmaroles! Pity those guys though! They are the types that come here and castigate girls, not knowing they allow too much room for such nonsensical behavior! O ma se o!. . .[/size] |
[quote author=Mrs, Chima link=topic=771794.msg9251443#msg9251443 date=1317397470]Oh my goodness, you actually believe men are following their wives around the world. [/quote][size=14pt]Huh? Am i the only one?. . . .[/size][quote author=Mrs, Chima link=topic=771794.msg9250946#msg9250946 date=1317393469]Opportunities and life curves happen to both women and men but women are more likely to follow their husbands and I am not saying some husbands doesn't follow their wife. [/quote] ![]() Nayah:[size=14pt]Only if you are posted to Afghanistan! [/size] ![]() |
[size=14pt]^^^Only guys with extreme low self-esteem, raised to the speed of light! Shameless Audacity![/size] |
Poster, na typical Naija babe be that chick.[size=14pt]I Concur! Couldn't have said it berra!. . . .[/size] |
[size=14pt]I've never supported that open relationship Nonsense!. . .[/size] |
[size=14pt]^^^ I dont get! Are you saying you wont ask because you already know my answer or because it's a waste of your time,or i'll say No? Or. . .[/size] |
[quote author=Mrs, Chima link=topic=771794.msg9251162#msg9251162 date=1317395083]You don't have to believe it.[/quote][size=14pt]. . . . .Cos it's not necessitated by facts. . . .[/size] |
[size=14pt]He stops calling you He stops picking your calls Develops a cold voice anytime he does manage to pick your calls. . . Shouts or raises his voice at you on phone. . . Gets angry at the slightest provocation from you. . . Keeps you waiting. . . Stops using endearing terms on you. - Baby, Sweety, sexiest, blah blah blah. . . Embarrasses you publicly. . . ^^Especially in front of your friends or his friends. . . Stops looking into your eyes( he doesnt want you to notice he has changed) Calls you names once in a while - Lazy, lousy, fat blah blah blah. . . . . Hit's you once in a while. . . Is extremely Quiet even when you are alone together. . . Picks up other girls calls in your presence. . . Checks out other girls in your presence. . . Stops taking you out. . . . Stops buying you recharge cards or BIS or whatever incentives he used to give you. . . Makes up flimsy excuses as to why you cant come to his house anymore. . . Changes his locks (maybe) E.t.c. . . . Oh, and tells you to your face that it's over. . . . The list goes on! [/size] |
[size=14pt]Nigerian girls blah blah blah! Each of you making crass comments should look into their own souls first and ask your self what was your motive in the first place? We dont have to be hypocrites when it comes to gender! Since you lot have noticed such about Nigerian girls, why do you keep dating them, since you are so sure all of them are the same? And since you are so sure you'll get the same results with all of them? I still dont gerrit! Why dont you import foreign girls or export yourselves to foreign girls? This gender compartmentalization is becoming a bore. . . .[/size] |
[size=14pt]^^^Are you kidding me?[/size] ![]() |
[quote author=Mrs, Chima link=topic=771794.msg9250946#msg9250946 date=1317393469]Opportunities and life curves happen to both women and men [/b]but women are more likely to follow their husbands and I am not saying some husbands doesn't follow their wife. I know some husbands that followed their wives but that is [b]small in comparison to women following their husbands. [/quote][size=14pt]Maybe that comparison is rationalized to the fact that there are more men in the work force than women? Dont get me twisted still, Nayah's scenario is one of which both of them are working, and one needs to go to America, from Nigeria! no matter who it is, male or female, compromise must be reached on the part of the affected! i dont believe this is about men forcing women because they make the decisions in the household! No! . . . . [/size] |
Nayah:[size=14pt]Precisely! Your thread was about him/her, wife/husband! I was in no way referring to one way! We are not talking of the lady being reserved about asking the man, right? I just read your earlier comment again!. . . [/size] |
Mikael a lot of women will have this reserve asking their husband to follow them while for many brothers it's quite "obvious" and complusory to do so, we should talk and balance between good and bad, it's all about communication[size=14pt]This was what i was waiting for either you, Chima, or ebony to say! No 2 Situations are the same! And the way i'll handle mine would definitely differ from yours or whosoever! Communication, understanding, and willingness to compromise, cannot be over emphasized! [/size] |
[quote author=Mrs, Chima link=topic=771794.msg9250676#msg9250676 date=1317390765]Good question, Nayah. You are right everything isn't cookie cutter nor straight shooter. I know for a fact most men would expect their wives to follow them if opportunities awaits them. Ebonyvibe, you are right its not always about one person in the marriage. All factors should be taken in consideration before any actions are done and all money isn't good money either.[/quote][size=14pt]. . . . . . .And most women would expect their husbands to follow them if opportunities awaits them too! It's all about willingness to sacrifice/compromise on the part of the affected spouse![/size] ![]() |
If Africans women are trying to imitate white chicks by wearing weaves then who are white chicks imitating wearing wigs and extensions? [size=14pt]Very Lucid Question![/size] ![]() |
[size=14pt]Tell him to his face that you QUIT! Doesnt need much rigmarole! [/size] |
ebonyvibe:[size=14pt]That's what i meant by understanding! If we have confabulated, and I have come to an understanding that my going is imperative to a continued success in our marriage, then why not? Is it better then for her to go, and I invariably start a long distance relationship with my own wife? What then, is the full meaning of the word sacrifice, compromise? Not saying it's applicable to all and sundry, but that's exactly what I will do! [/size] ![]() |
[size=14pt]Ok! Now i dare any girl in Nigeria to use this kind of wedding gown! [/size] |
[quote author=Shy-One link=topic=771485.msg9250432#msg9250432 date=1317388788]When we receive little treats that brighten our day by bringing a smile to our face we should share the joy with our new friends I wanted my NLer's to have a bright and humorous start to a good weekend.[/quote][size=14pt]Appreciated![/size] ![]() |
tellwisdom:[size=14pt]I wish i could! But that would be tantamount to regression on my intellect, and could invariably lead to a coagulation of my brain! Why not upgrade to my level? This is 2011![/size] ![]() |
Scash:[size=14pt]What do you mean Jealousy? Are you getting me a date or Not? [/size] |

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It's all about willingness to sacrifice/compromise on the part of the affected spouse![/size]