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I feel you right through the marrow!!!!! u have said it all and its really something both men and woemn should do. Cheating like u rightly said is a choice. U can choose to make ur marriage spicey!!!!!!

Nashville: You guys should be real for once. Two people are involved in a marriage and they should both take the blame if it fails - it is not always the man's fault.

I will first of all address the issue at hand. That women is cheating - simple. Any relationship you have with the opposite gender that you know your spouse would not approve of is cheating. You dont have to sleep together to start cheating. She is emotionally cheating on her husband.

And it is sooo easy for such a women to use her husband as an excuse. Cheating is cheating. By the time she is finished flirting with another man, she would find faults in everything her husband does so he will be the scapegoat.

Bottomline, men cheat and women cheat. And cheating is a choice. No one forces you to cheat and there is never a good reason to cheat. Just last week, my wife just booked a family holiday for easter saying we hadnt gone away for a while. I agreed and I refunded her the money because I realise we hadnt gone away at all this year and needed time to spend together. That is what a sensible woman should do and not resort to talking to other men!

No one is perfect, if your husband isnt doing enough of romantic stuff, why cant you bring it up? Anything wrong in a woman planning a family trip or even dinner? Cheating is a choice, never blame your spouse for it!

I feel you right through the marrow!!!!! u have said it all and its really something both men and woemn should do. Cheating like u rightly said is a choice. U can choose to make ur marriage spicey!!!!!!

Nashville: You guys should be real for once. Two people are involved in a marriage and they should both take the blame if it fails - it is not always the man's fault.

I will first of all address the issue at hand. That women is cheating - simple. Any relationship you have with the opposite gender that you know your spouse would not approve of is cheating. You dont have to sleep together to start cheating. She is emotionally cheating on her husband.

And it is sooo easy for such a women to use her husband as an excuse. Cheating is cheating. By the time she is finished flirting with another man, she would find faults in everything her husband does so he will be the scapegoat.

Bottomline, men cheat and women cheat. And cheating is a choice. No one forces you to cheat and there is never a good reason to cheat. Just last week, my wife just booked a family holiday for easter saying we hadnt gone away for a while. I agreed and I refunded her the money because I realise we hadnt gone away at all this year and needed time to spend together. That is what a sensible woman should do and not resort to talking to other men!

No one is perfect, if your husband isnt doing enough of romantic stuff, why cant you bring it up? Anything wrong in a woman planning a family trip or even dinner? Cheating is a choice, never blame your spouse for it!

Ihave this lovely, beautiful and wonderful Blessing who happens to be my fiancee. She is so industrious, intelligent, caring and loving. But she is always having mood swing which of course get me mad or even puts me away cos when that her mood swing comes it makes me look like I was never welcome and when she is off the swing u will never believe she was the one. Guys I love her so much what do u think can be done to help her get out of the mood swing completely? We intend to get married very soon and one needs to understand and tackle this challenge.

Adenuga no dey take last at all at all want to be like him some day!!!!!

am also interested!! what can 100,000 Naira be invested in, in the area of ICT!!!

what happening na? Governors are getting more angry now o!!

R I P bros

No wasting time> He really means business

Hi Guys Just heard that the Emir of Zazzau Alhiji Shehu Idris is dead. Though I dont know how true it is but there has been rumors going on for long. Just now a friend called from Scoottland that they heard on the News that the Emir of Zazzau is Dead.

He blessed me with the woman am going to get married to come 2013. God is so faithful and wonderful

My brothers why is it that some people just automatically design and arrange God's wrath for themselves without stress!!!! If swhat Daddy G.O. did was wrong why not allow God to take care of him. After the RCCG is God's Church and the Sick pastor knows that if truelly he has been with them for the past Ten years. This means that he had planning coup against the G.O and he all along had a devilish and bad heart towards the church. may God have mercy on him. When the pastor goes out to open his church let his Governor come and see whether he will not only allow him speak on the alter, he will equally give the Governor is personal seat. Rubbish.

LETTER TO THE BEST PRESIDENT IN AFRICA, Goodluck Jonathan. By Adoyi Ali

“Dear Goodluck,

This letter must not go through all the orthodox protocols of signing and ‘counter’ signing for acknowledgment.­ It must not be signed by Doyin and Abati. I don’t need all that formality. I don’t want all that bureaucratic presidential arrangements. All I desire, is to see this letter before His Excellency. I don’t want Her Excellency around you when you hurriedly run through the pages of my letter. Yes, I know you can only flip through the pages because of some urgent National problems calling for your attention. I warn against having Her Excellency around because she may misquote me, even though I have decided to choose my grammar carefully in order not to confuse anyone around you.

I understand the situation in Aso villa. I also know that there is confusion, and I don’t want to cause more confusion than it is now.

My letter is only an appeal. But first, some grammar errors will be noted. Sure! This is because, I put my thoughts together only this night. I have to start writing immediately, so I don’t forget those ideas that I have gathered at the spur of the moment. Unfortunately my lantern has just gone off as I was unable to Queue up for Kerosene yesterday.

Mama Nkechi who sells in bottles around my area has travelled for Christmas already. You may be wondering why she decided to travel so early. She gave me a hint on what many people are doing now, especially that Christmas is around the corner. She doesn’t want to miss the opportunity of spending Christmas with her people in the village. If she had waited beyond now, fuel hike will frustrate her journey. Is she not a wise woman for travelling earlier than now? “Ibo women no dey carry last”. I’m saying this to say that my errors can be pardoned as I barely managed to put my words in black and white. I’m sure, from where you are also coming from, you understand what we face down here. After all, you were ‘shoeless’ at one time. We don’t feel bad about the situation anymore, and we don’t even hope for a change either. We have acclimatised, I believe my child will do as well.

As for me, I’m grateful to you for the recent job opportunity you have created for us. I had been jobless for years, even before you took up the mantle of leadership. That turn of event, that historical moment also changed my story. Like other jobless youth, I now smile home with daily allowances by just hawking fuel along the streets of Abuja. I must commend your administration for this laudable achievement. I hate those who continue to complain that you have not done anything. If they have not benefited from your administration,­ I have. I pray your administration continue to starve fuel dealers of stocks, so I can continue to make great pay, or the oil marketers should continue in their effort to sabotage the new policy. All that will benefit me.

Why do people have to blame your policy makers for their battle with the oil Marketers? They complain that NNPC should have made some alternative arrangements if they were going to go after some heavy weights in the oil industry. But should that bother you and your economic team. So long as Ngozi, Maduekwe, and Sanusi have fuel to run with and the few of us make profits from this hawking business, we are just okay. It doesn’t matter if bus drivers and Okada men make their pay. Don’t be intimidated by the cork and bull story of a possible upsurge in crime. “No send them jor”. Boko Haram and other Armed bandits may not even have money to put gasoline in their vehicles, so ignore all that warnings. Those complaining are just some antagonists dreaming to take over from you one day. We are with you in this battle. Thank God, I’m making my pay.

Any little opportunity is a great opportunity for me, whether it’s a good or bad one. We are all fighting for survival.

Apart from the job opportunity, I want to also appreciate your government for the recent improvement in the standard of education. Today, across the country, both the literate and the illiterate can freely analyse your government. They are grounded in what’s happening around them. Even an unborn child who would prefer to have been born in Afghanistan knows the situation down here. In this area, I would say you have tried in terms of political awareness. Our children, both born and unborn are conscious of the situation. They are so familiar with the words ” palliative” “subsidy” “Boko Haram” “Bombing” “Shoeless” “on top of it” “Kidnapping” etc. No government has ever achieved this. I congratulate you Sir.

Some ‘badbelle’ people keep complaining that Nigerians are dying because of Boko Haram, and I wonder why they complain. Life and death, which do they prefer? From my understanding, Boko Haram is a creation of some concerned Nigerians to cut short the lives of suffering Nigerians. I think it is an alternative created by the government. It’s an option; you either choose to die by hunger or by Boko Haram. It’s really not your fault my dear president. You have done well.

People complain that we are no longer the giant of Africa, and I just wave off their assertion. At least, I know that since you came into power, you have displayed that we are still the ‘Giant’ as you continue to sacrifice for our brother countries like Benin Republic and Togo. At least we supply these countries enough electricity while Nigerians are left to battle with high tariff and epileptic power supply. I appreciate you because, they say that every hero dies for others. It doesn’t matter what we face, but let our brothers in other neighbouring African countries smile. You are a great man. You think of others before self.

Don’t be scared, my dear president. No weapon fashioned against you will prosper. You said things will change before 2015, but we don’t hope for anything better than this, as we have lived like this for years, and already use to the situation. We are ever ready to welcome any kind of hardship. You are a true leader. We appreciate you. One GBOSA!
Yours in hardship, Adoyi Ali.”

begwong: its 'dan iska'. kinda abusive to mean bastrd.

It just means u are a crook!!!!!!!!!!!!

If USA was Nigeria, today's headlines would read:

· Don't celebrate yet, Romney tells Obama (TELL magazine)

· Concede defeat, Obama urges Romney (Punch newspaper)

· 20 opposition cadres riot (The Sun newspaper)

· Romney Demands Vote Recount (Vanguard newspaper)

· Elections rigged (Guardian newspaper)

· No evidence of manipulation (NTA news)

· The Church declares elections free and fair (News Line)

· There will be violence if we lose; Romney declares (LTV 8 news)

· Election results for Arizona awaited (Channels news)

· Trucks with suspected ballot papers crosses into USA from Mexico (Tribune newspaper)

· Romney is an opportunist - Go back to your farm (AIT news)

· I will not accept results, Romney tells Obama (STV news)

· McCain heads to Election Petition Tribunal (MITV)

· White Majority rejects results (PM News)

· Kenyan Big Boy Senator Obama Throws Lavish Party to celebrate Election Victory (City People)

· Free for all fight at Obama rally in Grant Park (Channels TV)

· Northern elders, Arewa and Sultan rejects results (ThisDay)

· Republicans and Democrats supporters clash in Ketu and Ajangbadi, 14 dead, Romney threatens more heads will roll

· The people behind Obama's victory: True story uncovered... (Newswatch)

. Minority groups threaten action if election results are not accepted..(South-South Tide)

· Ope baje fun Romney, ijoba te siwaju lowo arakunrin dudu Obama, gidi gidi ba oyinbo....Alaroye Newspaper

ghettodreamz: All these requital attacks are nothing but medicine after death. Deeds had already been done, neither would this bring back the departed souls. Why can't we wait and see justice being done to the case by the appropriate bodies with prosecution, court powers and procedures in respect of the alleged crime, instead of taking the law into our own hands.

If students were damaging properties in the name of protesting, what difference is then between them and those who perpetrated the devilish and horrendous killings. Two wrongs can never make a right, when two elephants fight in the forest, it's the grass that suffers it.

If this is happening, then it shows the problems and challenges of insecurity in Nigeria, failures of all the 3 arms of the Nigeria government, rot of lawlessness,suicidal,ritualistic, extra-judicial killings,wickedness & decadence on the part of her citizens,leniency of law makers in discharging quick judgement and abysmal misconduct & accountability of the Nigeria Police Force.

I pray God grant the families of the departed souls, grace to pull through at this awful moment. Amen

Man u are so right but one thing I have come to learn about Nigerians is that they never feel the impact or know the gravity ofan offence if you don't respond to like manner . Whether Justice was done or not believe me next time when such is happening the community aroud will stop to prevent than rather standing and watching and laughing and gesting. I think you should watch the video of the killing. Not even a single woman chouted or tried to stop it insterad people stood comfortably to watch how they were messed up, brutalized, killed and burnt. Brother this is so touching so the reprisal attack was for the community to know the gravity of evil committed on human being like them.
One thing I will say is that I pray the boys remembered tpo ask God for forgiveness of their sins in the past and If they do then Heaven will be waiting for them and if they didn't na double wahala be that!!!!!!!!!!!!!

shymexx: I've lost loads of friends, and I still lost a friend a couple of weeks ago...

However, this is not RIGHT!! Why destroy the livelihood of poor villagers because of the crime of a few

Why are these students not angry at the government who made this vicious lifestyle of poverty, destruction, and death possible

It's not RIGHT!!! - these students are COWARDS!!!

And I don't march with freaking spineless COWARDS!!!

They say when oil spills on a finger it automatically touches the rest of the fingers. Its not really cool they way they burn down houses but I think it will make them understand the gravity of what it means to take aways lives and not life brutally and devilishly!!!!1

see the useless thing wey dey top post!!! but wen we post reasonable things u never see them!!!!!!!!!!

This means to tell us that even most of the ladies are not even comfortable with the dress code!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! tofiyakwa

The truth remains that someone came out to speak out the minds of the public. We are all in small small groups complaining about the moves of the new notes and someone has taken it out to the media and the nation and some are hear saying its political, personal , etc. fact-fully true that it could be political, personal but he has spoken out the voice of Nigerians. Lets at least appreciate that fact!!!!!!!