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mariahAngel:
I haven't said anything out of line.
According to your chat with her, she's beginning to have feelings for you. That's dangerous.
Stop that before it gets out of hand.
You're stealing information she isn't prepared to share with you, and that is the truth.

You have absolute no right to invade her privacy through your Trojan gift!

mariahAngel:
What you did and are doing is wrong! You're invading her privacy without her permission. You have no right to do that, even if your intentions are good.
Allow her come to you to tell you what she feels comfortable telling you, when she feels comfortable.
If she eventually finds out the Facebook friend, "her confidant" is you, she'll feel betrayed, invaded and stripped by you!
She'll never fully trust you again, and you'll lose her respect.
You'll make her question everything.
There are phases in life we must go through on our own.

mutter:
I think you overstepped the boundary by prying into her privacy.
Please have decent conversations with her.
Teenagers need to be able to communicate and thrust someone without fear odf being judged.
And she needs her safe heaven.
.plea2do this in real life and stop the sneaking.

ImaIma1:
The number one problem is you still seeing her as your "little niece". When I saw the topic, I was expecting a 5 or 6 year old. An SS1 girl is already experiencing puberty and learning new things.

Maybe you should talk to her about relationships appropriate for her age. Let her understand that there will be enough time to have boyfriends. That having them now will affect her studies.

But also, tell her to let you know if she likes any guy or kind of encourage her to tell you when she has a boyfriend so that you can monitor and advise her. Because it is inevitable at this point.

ImaIma1:
The number one problem is you still seeing her as your "little niece". When I saw the topic, I was expecting a 5 or 6 year old. An SS1 girl is already experiencing puberty and learning new things.

Maybe you should talk to her about relationships appropriate for her age. Let her understand that there will be enough time to have boyfriends. That having them now will affect her studies.

But also, tell her to let you know if she likes any guy or kind of encourage her to tell you when she has a boyfriend so that you can monitor and advise her. Because it is inevitable at this point.

olorunyomi25149:
What u would have done,if she's to be ur own daughter.do it.

lilvicky68:
That's the normal adolescence behavior..stop bothering yourself..your own is to advice her or call her mom to advice her about sex..

SocialJustice:
Since you've created an avenue for her to open up, please keep it that way and assist her the best you can. You need to guide her to start following the smart kids in school and emulate them in academics too as much as she can.

Since she already likes your fb character, use it as an opportunity to keep her away from little boys with no focus.

You've started well, do not mess this up.

Romanoff:
She needs a positive influence in her life, preferably a female.

MejiLoyon:
Newton's three laws of motion

In the first law, an object will not change its motion unless a force acts on it. In the second law, the force on an object is equal to its mass times its acceleration. In the third law, when two objects interact, they apply forces to each other of equal magnitude and opposite direction.

You're the force she's the mass in law1&2. In law 3 you're both objects. Now read the laws again

In summary leave her alone. Your actions from the chats might actually be the propellant. She'll come through.

Leave HER

mrofficial042:
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kestolove95:
Your sperm bank is over filled up nd u need to offload dem, until den ur hand will kip shaking

proclinician:
This depends on some factors like her blood clotting status or coagulation profile but the answer is nope it cant last for more than 24 hrs. If this is the case you will see some bruises around her pubic region, upper thighs and those areas from finger nails and stuffs. U can use a bright torch light to check while she is lying supine (on her back).you can ask her too if someone touched her u know. A pediatrician can tell better what is going on it's a bit complicated.

Good luck.

proclinician:
You need to take her to a pediatrician.