meobizy:

Them don cheat you. I’ll do the same soon and planning to spend only 6K on drinks.

Ujuvals1:


Lolzzz, you need to read your writeup again and help me laugh at yourself.

Nairaland be producing clowns, so because i took loan and i am in need my brain is dead, sex for cash

Thank you dear for your offer.You are really not just a clown but the circus.

Anywaz,happy christmas and pls stay safe, we still love you the way you are.

funmisticqueen:
so you are cheating on the babe that you thought was the one. WHatever your village people did o you is strong.

chigoizie7:


From the statistics I see up there, it says 2.3 million members. I knew some must have deactivated, some inactive. So I used the figure I saw there.

meobizy:
I remember when I was male, who cared for any females in skirts? I am refined, I only chase government administrations in skirts.

OP, I know not what you speak of. Which sort of accusation is this?

Ebonygirl1:
Why's it paining you?

CsRockefeller:


Same question ran through my mind. 95% without any proof of research? Fallacy!!

chigoizie7:



Speak for yourself.


Out of over 2 million members of which male are in majority. How many have approached you for you to give such conclusions that a whopping 95% are sex starved. Have you had an encounter with over 950,000 male Nairalanders?

Somebody will just open mouth and be talking trash simply because they are privileged to talk.

jayextra:
Why u cme dey Generalise am

SweetyZinta:


Amen, May it say yes unto everyone too.

generationz:

Don't be surprised some people go there to steal

SweetyZinta:




LOL

Why are you behaving like a marlian?

No problem, everyone should bear me witness milemim93 is my friend.

cococandy:
yum

SweetyZinta:


You sure don't want a No for an answer?

faithfull18:

Nah, She might be whoring around.

Ujuvals1:


Dear Sir,

I am not wailing. I have been on the seat of responsibility for over three years and have been doing it without a fight.

I came to ask for help because the situation got so bad and is way beyond me now.

Ofcourse my entire salary is for the loan repayment, but while on that how do i run the home?How do i transport to work all tru? i live in lagos and work in ogun state, i go to and fro daily.how do i take care of my baby while at this.I have to repay this for a few months, after i work the whole months i am repaying loan for a criminal that duped us and is probably enjoying himself in korea while i am struggling to repay with nothing left to survive on.Pray you dont find yourself in this kind of situation,my dear it is very tough even for a man how much more a woman.

My husband has moved around looking for watever he can lay his hand on to do and maybe because is christmas he hasnt seen anything yet.

We are not folding hands and waiting for manner, my dear we are doing every tbing we can on our won while i still try to solicit for help even if its a driving job for my husband or anything support, God can do wonders.

Don't be so inhuman with your words.There are even better ways to encourage me to carry my cross as you say.

Lastly, it's not a crime to speak out if you are in a difficult situation, God is still the God of the last minute, He alone can give me a testimony, He can rise helpers to help me, He can change this situation.He can make this pain go away.

My nairalanders are already reaching out to me, even if it is to say it ia well be strong thats a lot rather than what you put up there.

If humans were God, i am sure people like us won't even be on the surface of the earth anymore.

Show empathy, it doesnt cost you anything to do that.For some of ua are having life tougher than the others isnt by our making it is called Life.

cococandy:
“Nudes to be uploaded soon”. Yes we are so interested in seeing some naked stranger.

Everyone isn’t as pervy as you think. Move along.

cococandy:


You’re welcome

Things will get better

Ujuvals1:
[size=8pt][b][font=Lucida Sans Unicode]My dear nairalanders Good evening.

I just want to pour out my heart here because i am suicidal and i am hoping God will comfort me and help me through.

The heart of man they say is desperately wicked and it just dawned on mw today.

I am a married woman with kids, my husband's business had crumbled over three years ago and i have been the one holding forth the home.

The country is so tough that for a man without capital for business or education, he may spend longer time trying to find his feet.

Things had been so rough for us over these years, i have been doing all jobs just to survive.I work in a small company that pay me monthly, the weekends i also wash and do menial jobs for people to support the home front.

My husband in turn takes care of our kid, do the chores and move around for anything he can lay his hands on but its been so tough.


In october a friend asked my husband to join him in business in the market that way he can find his feet.He talked to me abt it, we agreed i should take loan and i took loan of 250,000naira to enable him start business while i gradually work and pay it up monthly.

He has been going to work since october and sincerely things got better becauze with the funds he was able to do business and give me some money from the gain to support the house and also join in repaying the loan.

Just few days ago, the man whom they were working together said they should buy goods as usual to resell which they did, the man also encouraged other traders to buy too because his northern customers were coming to purchase them.

People bought and we were happy that after the sales our lives will get better, so the northerners came and the goods were sold.His friend was credited and when the man tried to transfer them the money but said network issue because the transfer wasnt going.

They went to the bank but it was on friday and time had gone so he said he would credit all traders that did the business togther their money that night, thats how this man went home and nobody knew he had plans.

By early morn my husband didnt sleep at night so he went to the man place in the morn to ask why the delay, he went there with other men too who wanted to collect their money.We got the shock of our lives.The man had travelled abroad with traders money and my husband's own inclusive.


We are really at a loss on what to do and i am frustrated as i cant explain why this hardluck had to fall on me.People say women dont support a struggling man but here i am supporting for over three years and this is how my christmas ended.

I am writing now in tears because i dont even know whatelse to do, the man literally left with the whole money.We have no dime on us, i dont know how we will survive, i have to keep repaying the loan for few more months and yet we have nothing to live on.

To be sincere my faith is really broken and shaken.i got this sad news immediately i got back from vigil where i went to dance and thank God for his love and faithfulness.

Where do we go from here with a little kid that has to survive, my office is very far and i spend about 1000 a day to and fro and with this situation now i dunno what to do.

Why are human beings so heartless, this is how this man travelled and wrecked many homes in a desperate bid to leave the country.


I dont know if people have any right words to calm me because i am shaken, i am depressed and frustrated.The burden is so much moreso in december when january is tougher and waiting.


How do we cope from here?Lord pls save me.I am shattered beyond words.

faithfull18:

Including the women in your life then.

cococandy:
perfect English breakfast

generationz:
Why of just lock up the shop and get someone else to manage it?

I dont believe this story.

cococandy:

cococandy:


You must be high on something.

When have I ever asked a woman to kill her husband because he asked her for money? Or for any reason at all?

Some of just wake up and confuse other people to be yourselves.

faithfull18:
Na wa oo. This is lack of trust at play. What is marriage without trust

generationz:


There was even a topic where she asked about an adulterous wife who repented on whether she should confess or not.

This woman is giving that man headache. I truly pity him.