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Where is the capital to go into business?

tommykiwi:
APCHIT party make una free Saraki.

Free a criminal?

Mods should not move this thread to fp. This thread is against Rule 7 of Nairaland.

If God should handle us the way we handle our fellow humans, the world would be at peace..

alterswerve:
Wait! What do you hope to achieve with our answers?

This is his final year project

Actually I've dated one and guess what? A babe was so loyal to the core. She smokes weed and even soak weed in garri to drink.

Whenever she's high on it, she becomes so calm like a grave yard.

She was super intelligent.

Ieft her because a lady dobbed on her

bigl:
Of course, I know its not easy but bros, if you want peace, prepare for war.

Or else they will kill you with responsibilities and at the end, such man's life won't have any meaning.

REAL TALK!

Bluezy13:
Hehehe...





Ban don reset this one brain

Bro it's not ban.
I just had to get go.

It might interest u to know that I've never been banned on NL for bashing women.

I only get ban because of few niggas here who always call the mods at me whenever they get bashed.

Even the ladies here I do bashed never for one day called the mods at me and I've never for once get banned because of bashing them (ladies).

My ban comes because of a fvckwit called Elder.001.

Whenever anyone here bashes Elder or disagreed with Elder feminism ideology, he believes the person behind the moniker is Mimi and he will call the mods at me.

zinnydan:
Sorry buh I don't understand

What I'm saying is, NOBODY HERE SHOULD MENTION ME EVER AGAIN ON ANY OF THEIR POST THAT HAS TO DO WITH 'BASHING WOMEN'.

ya got it now?

greatgod2012:
You're welcome dear!

We have so many families who don't joke with their families' dignity and good name

There are many FILs who won't collect anything from their SILs, and even if they will collect, they'll make sure they've given you gifts that is ×10 more than what you want to give them.

Some MILs will make sure their visits are never beyond 48 hours just to avoid becoming a burden to their SILs.

There are even some wive's father that won't allow you to pay for their daughter's school fees if it happens the girl got married before graduation, claiming no man should take up their responsibilities.


Some FILs will not even allow the younger sisters/brothers to spend more than three days in their elder sister's matrimonial homes and even as they'd be going, not with empty hands



All these measures because these families, though, not very rich but don't play with their families' dignity and good name.

It now depends on man who's looking for a wife to do his home works thoroughly as regards the type of family to pick a wife from!

If she's a woman you love, set your boundaries before tying the knot, if she disagree, it's left for you to continue or not!

So, again, not all husbands experience this!

u are right.

tritritri:
@milemimi93

Very Funny Question ..

Who's that foolish man that will die because of SOMEONE ELSE problem.

If they ask you tell them NO..Nobody has access to ur ATM except U.

Kill yourself na and UR own wife/her family/ur brothers / your kids / ur parent / will all MOVE ON.

All these men that always want to please their wivies at all cost would not listen to this ur advice.

chiommy123:
I will say marry someone you love irrespective of the family is rich or not assist in your own little way when there's need for it.

u got a point.

bigl:
Its pretty easy.

He should simply stop catering for the needs of his wife's siblings.

Afterall, if he wasn't there to do that, won't they all find their ways?

I'm a husband and I don't take bullshit from any inlaws. Not even from my family.

Everybody is responsible for their life and nobody should come and kill me with financial stress.

If he keeps acting "uncle theophilus" the ever nice provider, he will surely die one day.

It's not easy as u think o. Except ur wife is someone who is understanding.

Most women if u don't attend to their family needs especially when they know u are capable, d start acting up.

royalguy123:
My observation is this, when you are broke as a husband and your wife people told you to come and collect #1million naira,will you accept the offer or decline?
if you will accept it, don't complain if your in-laws depends on you.
If you don't accept it, you're free to grumble if your in-laws depends on you!

Marry from a rich fam according to my frnd doesn't mean u should marry from a rich fam so u will fall on them when the storm hits u. But to avoid unwanted responsibilities.

Why go to ur in-laws when broke?

What happens to getting load from ur bank or your friends?

U sayin among all ur frnds none is capable to get ur ass outta the storm?

greatgod2012:
No, not all husbands experience this!

Not all wives from average/poor families and their relations lack dignity and self-respect!

Thank u dear.

chiommy123:
People do this and funny enough they don't complain. So if you can ASSIST comfortably not against your wish or grudgingly then why not. They are your family too

The ones dat do not complain probably have fat pockets.

If I have d guap, why not? I'll surely assist. Because they are all family. Marryin their daughter/sister means I'm indirectly marrying them.

My qustn was, should one find love in 'The rich family' and ignored 'the poor fam' to avoid this problem of taking up his wife's family's burden?

Admin401:
Suicide by jumping off a bridge

This is the exact advice I gave her. But she said jumpin off a bridge would only land her on water plus she's a good swimmer.

Oyindidi:
take it easy! I wish we can talk on phone. You really need to calm down

The incident sent me to a rehab.
I'm cool now. I've put the past behind. I've moved on.
Send pm to mimimile93.

MesuitOzil:
Since I'm not a husband yet, lemme come and be going

Do you know anyone who has experienced this? Taking his wife's family's financial burden on him?