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I thought burna was felas son

Drey1:
Lol. Awon oniyeye . Like they assured my mother during savanna bank days abi. Till tomorrow, Nah so my mums 400k wey she wan use buy 1 small korope that year enter govt pocket. Funny enough. I still kept the savannah bank teller keep for house for her. maybe miracle fit happen.

Funny enough Savannah bank is not yet liquidated by NDIC. The bank took CBN and NDIC to court after CBN withdrew it's license, the matter dragged on for years and I'm not sure if judgment has been given. The head office on broad street is now a suit and shoe warehouse.

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Interesting topic

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Sai Mama

We shall see.

Beckysmusic12:
Going for how much

250k

elllalistic:
Hi. Please how can I reach you. Is this still available?

Yes it's available 250k

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A room in a 3bedroom flat is available at Amuwo odofin estate, (Jakande) behind second rainbow, Mile 2.

The room is tiled, has an ac, bed, mattress and cupboard.

Available for females only.

2Radii:
Oga u mean a whole 1hr for knacking?? u dey try ooh

Don't get me wrong bro...

You don't just stick it in na.. there has to be pre-intimacy and cuddling afterwards....

godfrey02:
Bosss you try oh .. speak your mind to her and if she does not change after some period, make her jealous when it comes to that sex. Get yourself a steady clean babe that's ready to give you back to back.

I don't wanna cheat on her.

zed7:
Low sex drive I guess. That's why we sometimes advocate for sex before marriage. You must know what you're getting into. Unfortunately, you're in it now. You guys should go see a therapist or you learn to live with it. I don't advocate for extra marital affairs, they usually don't end well.

I'm not really bothered about the sex infact I am used to it already... I just need at least 7 hrs of sleep everynight

godfrey02:
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a very happy family i guess and a good man who provides all the woman wants.

the problem i see here are eating late, lack of sex, and not doing your laundry. how old is she

Doing my laundry is not the problem... I can do it comfortably every weekend with the machine cos am not lazy and I can afford to give office clothes to drycleaner . The problem is that she doesn't do what she ought to do before 9pm for everyone to go and sleep. The sex is something else. I watch videos of pregnant women demanding sex from their husbands but for me, the two kids we have we didn't have sex for like 11months each. We have been married for 4 years and I can tell u confidently that 2 years in that period we haven't had sex.......

I will try to be brief and straight to the point.

My wife stays up late (11pm -12 am) every blessed day.... That's the problem.

We live in Lagos and have 2kids, 3yo and 8 months. My wife was working before but left the job when she gave birth. There is a job waiting for her when the baby is 1y6mnths, therefore she is a stay at home mom.

We live on the mainland but I work on the island so I live home as early as five. In our house we have all the amenities you can think of; 24 hrs light (NEPA plus inverter), running water, gas, 2 washing machines etc to make a home 95percent comfortable but my wife can't seem to cope and it started when we had one child.

She doesn't wash my clothes, my office shirts and suits are given to dry cleaner to arrange while my other laundry I do myself every weekend with the washing machine.

When I get home by 7pm or 8, that's when she now starts rushing to bath the kids and prepare dinner, so we eat by 9 or 10. Before the kids play play and play, by 11pm we are still awake. Sometimes I go to bed by midnight and have to wake up by 4am to go to work again. It's impacting on my health and my work. She will sleep by 12 am and wake up by 8 or 9am the following day.

I have tried to beg and appeal to her. If I eat out and come home to just sleep, she go dey vex. If I just come home shower and sleep the kids who have passed their bedtime will be playing and when madam is ready to sleep they won't agree to sleep. She will beat them, guess who they will come crying to- daddy that just started sleeping and has to wake by 4am, I will now pet and pet till 2am before kids sleep.. I have advised her that kids have a bedtime(8pm). When I man up and off the tv by 9pm and tell everyone to go to bed, she says I am disrespecting her. She reports me to her mum.

Worse still our sex life is horrible... We have sex like once in 2 month.. At 35 I am in my sex prime and can Bleep everyday but she doesn't seem to care about me because she is always tired am I pity her so I don't demand sex so much.

I fully understand stay at home is not easy and I help her when.

I tried to create a schedule for her.

Wake up by 6am
By 7 she suppose don clean finish
By 8 breakfast should be ready for her, kids
9-10am bath herself and the kids
10-12 do any other stuff in the house
12-3pm rest, watch movies, chill
3-5pm... Do whatever she likes
5pm boil water and bath the kids
6pm she don bathe and bath kids
7pm... Food don done... Everything dey freezer
8pm we eat
By 9 everyone goes to bed and we knack 1hr

I throw the trash every day
Na me dey go market buy foodstuff
On weekends I clean the house
I wash my all my clothes
I provide all the finance in the house
I satisfy her on the bed when we naka. She begs me that she's tired
I buy her gifts, drop 3k for her everyday
Why should we have a house help when she is a stat at home mum (for now)

So what's the problem..


Mothers, are my demands too much?
Mothers, please when do you close your kitchen and go to bed?
Are you still awake by 11pm every blessed day.
Am I crazy?

Please advice me.

I have begged her, pleaded, shouted, done everything. Sometimes I intentionally come home late (10-11pm) thinking that the kids have gone to bed but my first child will be watching cartoon.

Please advice me. I am going crazy, Lagos is stressful

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Parkison