UnknownQueen: Well ure right though, I'll not fault your sense of reasoning, however in my honest opinion if ur reason is due to lack of funds it's understandable, but if its for what I'm thinking, I honestly find it absurd, however, as a person I love living life on my terms, so bro do what ever rocks your boat, I wish u well.
If there is sure a lady here. Then she isn't a nigerian based
pocohantas: No dear, they are a whole lot more sensible and mature than the guys here. No one cares the reason you don't wanna marry, just enjoy your singlehood and stop ranting.
UnknownQueen: So u love your mama and siblings, if to say your mama no gree Bleep your papa, she MO fit born u and your siblings na.. So try get your own... Even though na baby mama, go do am for u
this is a very stupid african way of reasoning.. because my mama born me make i born pikin abi? Even if i dont hav wat it taks to raise a child make i born am put for dis world abi?
pocohantas: Definitely not by him, he is a very rational male. I am just impressed at how the thread is moving peacefully, you don't see ladies occupying the whole thread to insult guys. Turn the table, someone like Tosyne2much and his cohorts will land to insult ladies.
because ladies dont come to insult dudes doesnt not mean dat ladies on dis forum are wise or matured. It is because d ladies here got nothing on d dudes. The are guilty of everything and they know that they are the reason some dudes dont want to marry.
Riele: They won't see this one to tag him bitter .
But if it's a lady , you'll see them crawling out of their hole to tag her bitter feminist .
when a man says he will never marry, the one common reason is because no wife material again. our women are sex objects. nothing to offer in a home. so instead of calling the man bitter, call the women whorees
I NEED A NAIRALAND LADY TO Bleep THIS XMAS. YOU MUST RESIDE IN LAGOS OR BE WILLING TO COME TO LAGOS. REWARD: CASH GIFT AND USED iPHONE 8. IF INTERESTED PM ME. OFFER CLOSES 20-12-2019.
Made4NaijaM4N: A video shared online purportedly shows a wife crying after her husband caught her naked and stuck on a man while having sex.
In the video, the husband is seen confronting his wife and her lover who were on a bed. He mentioned how he suspected her of cheating so he placed "Magun" charm on her so she'll be stuck to any man she has sex with.
The "Magun" appears to have worked because the woman is seen crying while still sitting astride her lover, unable to extricate herself.
spiralwedge: You are stupid. How can you continue to live your life with such a man? You are not even married yet. If you marry him, it would be worse. For always giving in to pressure from everyone, im sorry, you're not ready for relationship, talkless of marriage. Gerrraahie
if u talk dis gal away frm marryin dis man hope u wil marry her? Cos men are rare. Rememba it took hr ages to get dis 1. Only mared men always com hr way
Beliv me wen i say that women dont have brain. Wuld hav given u advice but u dont hav a brain to hold it
dannyla: I opened a new account to remain anonymous. This story is a bit long but pls bear with me.
I met this man almost 2yrs ago at an event a friend invited me to. The next week, he collected my number from my friend and called me, we began talking from there and agreed to go on a date. He proposed marriage to me on the first date which I rejected. I told him that I can't marry outside my church and from the little I've heard from him, our life dreams differ. I decided to cut him off from that day and I stayed away for about 3months. Meanwhile he got my friend to introduce him to my sis, mum and another friend who happened to be from his place, I'll call her Grace. He made them all aware of his intent towards me and my stand and asked for their help to change my mind. Grace became his biggest ally and convinced me to have another date. He asked that we date for a while and see if we can work out our differences. During the date I noticed he has a very hot and quick temper and he listens to gossip a lot so I do tell Gracethat I don't see a future with him but he was too persistent, Grace always had words of encouragement and considering the fact that for some strange reason, it was mainly married men always approach me for a relationship with stories of how they got married to a wrong woman and they are or are almost divorced, dating a single man with no kids was very tempting and I decided to give it a try.
He asked me to tell him everything about me so there are no secrets between us and I did. Starting from secondary school to that day, I told him everything, from my first kiss, the colleague who tried to rape me, my ex who lied about his marital status and disvirgined me etc. he did the same too and I felt a burden roll off my shoulder.
Few days later I began to notice changes in him especially towards my business. I thrive in a male dominated industry in a ratio of 9men to 1woman. He asked me to show him the pictures of my colleagues which I did, he also asked if they make passes at me which I said is almost inevitable but my boundaries are clear and rigid.
Fast forward to now. I noticed that whenever I drop my phone, he goes through it. Facebook, sms, WhatsApp etc. He even picks my call when I'm not close to the phone. He asked me about a certain colleague who cracks dirty jokes like how I rushed to get married (I told him I'm already married). I didn't think much about it.
He later began to complain about my partners and how I'm sleeping with them like the prostitute I am, called me an unrepentant liar, unsubmisive, manipulating etc. Said he regrets asking for my hand at all and he's just waiting forthe day he'll catch me redhanded so he can dump my sorry a*s. I told him to end it now cus I'm fed up, family came in and I later found out that Grace has been telling a lot of lies against hoping to get him for herself as well as hate filled advises from some aggrieved friends who felt ladies from my tribe are no good and just there to "chop money". Apologies were said and received and we continued.
Another time I visited him and we had an argument, he gave me several heavy knocks on my head and I developed a headache and began to insult him which resultedin more heavy knocks. I broke up with him and left. Later my mum called him to ask why he laid his hands on me, he denied it swearing with his life. Said I insulted him and he lost his temper and insulted me back that he's sorry. He began to drop messages everywhere and I eventually gave in.
3rd incident happened on our way back from an event. He saw a message from a colleague he told me to stop doing business with cus he feels the man has his eyes on me which is totally not true. He flared up, stopped the car and was even threatening to beat me up. I came down from his car and stood by the roadside. He came down too and gave me the insult of my life in full public view and glare and told me to enter the car which I refused. I had no money on me and had to beg a stranger for money. By that time he was coming back, he quickly took a picture of both of us and sent it to everybody of how he caught me in the act with my lover on the road. He called me and said that if he must marry me, I must break my business sim card and look for a wife friendly occupation or sit at home.
He later apologised over it. Meanwhile he and my sis don't flow as before as he once called her a prostitute.
I want to call it quits but everyone around me feels it's a mistake and he is saying everything out of anger and if I'm patient enough, he will change completely.
I must admit that he has changed alot since we met but the progress compared to the timeframe and the heat I face everyday is nothing to write home about.
He loves me to a fault and I don't know if I can find someone who loves me like him but his other attitude is sniffing life out of me. Do I stay or quit? Thanks for reading and pardon any typos
24kmagic: Is it not on this same nairaland that people always shout "child abuse, wicked mother, wicked father, etc" whenever any story graces front page about parents mercilessly beating their child? The same child same people will all say lacks home training if he/she grows up and becomes useless. Now that they are trying to make sure he/she doesn't become useless, you're all shouting child abuse.
When I was 5, my mom once burnt the palm of my then 8years old elder brother with hot charcoal when he was sleeping in the night for stealing one boy's pigeon.
Do this now and it will make front page, with people screaming child abuse up and down.
We've lost our morals all in the name of civilization and it's just going to get worse.
But OP, why be say na you de ask question, na you still de answer am.
i askd d girls how do d feel comfortable living wit som1 who is not their husband. How does wat i wrote there means dat i hav answerd d qustn?
thorpido: Op,Na you dey ask question,na you dey answer am.
i asked d parents how d slip wit their eyes closd while deir girl child is outside. So how does wat i wrote up there means i've answered d qustn i askd?
ednut1: Your English teacher needs to be arrested . One can be married at 25 and it crashes while another can marry at 33 and its still waxing strong. Always easy to blame the ladies the guys nko. No be one guy dey date 3 girls for years den dumps them to marry another lady
Romance › Re: Guys, At What Age Will Your Tie The Knot? by mimimile93: 11:25pm On Dec 19, 2019
But the reward is tempting