₦airaland Forum

chidiokay:
Can someone please highlight the side the man promote domestic/ physical abuse

Nigerians are so embodied with inferiority complex such that we easily throw away our culture and values with hopes to sound woke or famz the white

Stop reporting your husband to the police, does that negate dont report your husband to people or anyone that have say in his life

In Nigeria we have a culture of resolving marital issues inviting family, elders/clergy .. it worked for our parent,elders or clergy

Police are not instituted to resolve marital crisis, so a woman that report her husband to police could as well kiss the marriage goodbye instead why not jejely divorce

if the Marriage is toxic, simply walk out! but why women are more endear to ruin men is what i dont get

A woman that holds power and did not use it, did not recognise it nii

If it is only inviting family, elders/clergy etc ....
couples are better off remaining in Nigeria and shouldn't go to a system, anyone can easily call the police and report, action is very likely taken.

Police does not resolve marital issues, their role is to maintain peace between the warring couple while issues are being sorted out but any of them whey wan prove craze is taken of and when any is perceived as an aggressor, the Police knows how to pour "cold water " on that person.

Just there are toxic people who are married, there are also well adjusted humans, who also are.

Such persons need to locked up for life in a prison within a psychiatric facility.

And DSS can not track them down.

Eyah, see how the Governor and his team sidelined the founder of the farm, taking all the glory.

helinues:
Una wailing and teeth gnashing have just begun

Another Àrómental don drop morning "nuggets". .

DevilsEqual:
Obi should be fast with his condolence message

Na wetin him dey use shine now

E dey wait to send yours.

The "dream" position of many political asslickers.

Good investment, if followed to the letter.

"Funke Komolafe, the mother of one of the missing children, shared that the woman had tricked her into believing she was taking the girls to buy something, a claim confirmed by neighbours who witnessed her leaving with the children"....

OALandAgents:
He was not authorised and he knows it, but it was advice that Nigerian women needed to hear, so that is why he gave it in a Nigerian language.

"Needed to hear or not", that shouldn't be coming from him. If I was there, I would have earlier raised issues with the authorities over that "advice"....he is not in Nigeria.

OALandAgents:
I don't understand Yoruba language , but it seemed to me that the man gave his official advice in English language and used Yoruba to give the important advice that Nigerian women in UK needed to hear.

Clearly that advice is that involving the police in any issue to do with your family is ill advised and would inevitably lead to break up of marriage and even the family.

For me, the man was spot on because he works in the system and he knows that it is an unwritten objective of the authorities to destroy black families so that they find it easier to seize the children and put them into care or adoption.

Some NL women like ivolt, cococandy, pocohantas, Kobojunkieee, 1Sharon commenting do not understand this about UK, perhaps because they have never lived in White Oyibo land.

I work here in the UK, with a London borough, work in the children and family services department, where I work with children taken away from their family because of neglect, abuse, domestic violence, drugs etc. The Policeman of Nigerian origin was not authorised to make such statements in either languages. If he wanted to give such advice, do so in personal capacity without wearing the UK police uniform...

femi4:
Its not a crime to wear police uniform and give you an advice. Police is part of our community

When a Police officer is on uniform, whatever he says is assumed the official position. If you feel like addressing such, go do that in your personal capacity without wearing the UK Police uniform.

femi4:
He was addressing the Nigerian community as a Nigerian but trust our overzealous naija uk bloggers, recorded the lecture and gave it a deceptive caption: " UK police advised NIgeran women.....bla bla"

But was wearing the Police uniform?

Laple0541:
If you are abroad as a man and your wife is in Nigeria, leave her there. If your children are with her, take them there but leave your wife in Nigeria. Come to see her as much as you can, let her enjoy nice trips around the world if you can afford it but don’t let her leave with you over there.




You will surely thank me later if you take the advice.

The man must surely be so low on the food chain, that women in that country he is in, don't find him marriage worthy and e wan dey form boss man for Nigeria wife.

If I had such children taken away from their mother, come into the service I work in here in the UK, I will CERTAINLY make sure I take it up and he will be getting and doing some visits that will make him sweat.😂😂

End things legally with him through divorce and move on with your life, let him clean up his mess as you are not his therapist.

When I worked in rehab facilities, I most times during family therapy sessions and right in the presence of addict husbands, encourage wives not to stress themselves coming to the rehab regularly.....they should relax themselves and be in a better state for their children, who need them more.

Sad.

They are step-siblings.

OkpaNsukkaisBae:
Too bad.
All these negative news about marriage, you will begin to ask yourself question. Is marriage overrated? Does it worth it?

Single people also get murdered by their intimate partners.

Tears inducing.

Karleb:
How would they enforce non-compete in Nigeria?

Abegi!

It sounds so funny but true.

Sad.

Until it is executed and it generates, all na grammar.

Dr Abayomi Arabambi (FBAU), Ogburu Gburu 1 Of Nigeria, who give am chieftaincy title.

Certainly wearing a wristwatch worth millions while preaching it.

Big, big grammar to sound Intellectual and same Felix knows that his Creator knows that he swims in falsehood to maintain his political patronage.

ClassicMan202:
Another round of big grammar for their Zomb!es to masturbat€ to...


I still repeat.... All APC members needs mental evaluation

Mental evalution is not cheap o.

Shadomaan7:
We are expecting the good news soon. The hardship is already easing gradually

Yes, it is truly easing gradually with what is happening around....delusion can be orgasmic!

Suicidal ideation is a dark process, we should seek help when we find ourselves in that zone.

Dysfunctional family.

Ekaka14:
Yesszzzz...my brother since he too hates debates and he's an "Action Man" with his big foot on the necks of innocent Nigerians.

Overstretched, reason they are easily run over by the bandits.